One more from the singles group. You need to put in EFFORT for this post-wall single mom of two. It can be tough to follow so blue is him, pink is her. Of course the comment section is full of women parroting the usual "know your worth" "these men need to work for it 'cause we're worth it".

Honest_Solution · 2020-02-23T16:55:47+00:00

Wait, so divorced twice and no kids is a red flag but SINGLE and TWO KIDS isn’t? Sorry, not in my world. Then her attitude kills ANY chance of me being even remotely nice to her, I dunno how this guy kept his shit together.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2020-02-23T16:58:15+00:00

So.. basically she's still in the mindset that she can reject men who are interested in her with impunity and they should put her on a pedestal?

She has two kids and is single. What exactly makes her worthy of anything except minimal effort?

Westernhagen · 2020-02-23T17:14:51+00:00

She's doing him a favor. He doesn't need an 800 mile distant imaginary girlfriend.

Rottinghere · 2020-02-23T17:58:36+00:00

Why do guys put themselves through this bullshit? These bitches simply aren't worth it.

The_mightiest_punt · 2020-02-23T17:48:39+00:00

This shit right here.

She is NOT dating material but this guy is thinking "I'm not perfect either" and is willing to put in the work.

Not good enough for Princess Stacey though!

madriverdog · 2020-02-23T20:20:24+00:00

funny how she wanted him to know her timeline rather than ask questions, but if he had searched her and knew *too* much, she would accuse him of cyber-stalking.

NickTesla2018 · 2020-02-23T18:37:59+00:00

TMW = Too much work

Bing_Bang_Bam · 2020-02-23T17:52:35+00:00

People have jobs and lives. Also she's an old useless hag. It's not worth any effort whatsoever.

RRFdev · 2020-02-24T03:06:11+00:00

If a woman is not attracted to you, every single flaw will be used as a weapon against you.

If a woman is attracted to you, every flaw will be forgiven. Enjoy your Stud Pass.

Extra_Napkins · 2020-02-23T21:54:15+00:00

Anyone that drives 12 hours for old used up pussy is a fool

Buchwild · 2020-02-24T00:55:06+00:00

So let's be reasonable, this guy seems kinda flakey for being through two divorces BUT no kids means minimal baggage, does she really think she's anywhere near his level? Being a single mom looking for a man is like a felon looking for a job, that resume will always go to the bottom of the pile, next!

B_P_G · 2020-02-23T19:44:38+00:00

I guess I'm not sure about the context of this. Judging by him sending her a "friend request" and that she just says it "reminds her" of dating aps and talking about her "timeline" I'm assuming it's Facebook. I mean no dating ap would match you with someone 800 miles away unless you or they are actively trying to spoof your/their location.

So anyway, if you do live 800 miles apart and have no history together then there's pretty much no chance for a relationship. And there's really nothing here that suggests to me that he even wants that. This looks to me like he's just some bored 40-something looking to connect with people from high school rather than someone looking for any kind of relationship or hook up and she's so full of herself that she thinks he's hitting on her.

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2020-02-23T23:13:25+00:00

This is why reaching out to women is a waste of time. Stay single. ENJOY YOUR THINGS!

rebelauthor · 2020-02-23T20:45:08+00:00

Dude is a super hero the way he dodged that bullet to the head.

FallenRook17 · 2020-02-24T01:37:32+00:00

It didn't sound like he was trying to date her considering that the guy just skimmed her profile which clearly means A. He just wanted to catch up or B. He wanted a booty call. You can tell that this woman clearly has a solar system of Chads and betas orbiting around her when clearly, if the wall was real, she would be in no man's land miles beyond.

I like how divorce with no kids is a red flag considering that he doesn't have baggage such as her 2 kids. She doesn't even know his story and just assumes he messed up. Maybe his wife died or they decided that it wasn't meant to be.

TruthSeekingPerson · 2020-02-23T22:31:35+00:00

The fact she’s telling people about this encounter tells you how little interest there is in her. The guy spent 10 seconds and moved on and it’s all she has to try and rebuild her self-esteem.

But yeah I agree twice divorced is a red flag on the same level as single with 2 kids.

SirKolbath · 2020-02-24T15:06:30+00:00

Guys, this is a good insight into the way women think. This is an absolute showcase of entitlement. I love posts like this. It's one of the reasons I read the sex workers subreddits. A few days of reading their derogatory statements about their clients and you'll never want to talk to a woman again. They're all like that, it's just that sex workers are more predatory and openly focused on the dollar signs.

Aldabruzzo · 2020-02-25T00:18:04+00:00

Can't win. If he'd done a little due diligence and shown he knew a few things about her, it would be

---OMG OMG OMG CREEP RAPIST

-- "wow, that dude is WEIRD."

CarlSpacler · 2020-02-23T22:20:50+00:00

Most women are just looking for someone to divide the misery they are in. Its nice to have someone to blame when you are gossiping with your girl friends.

TasteTheGraveyard · 2020-02-24T04:32:03+00:00

So instead of having a conversation like a normal person and talking like people...she considers it effort to simply stalk her timeline? Gods forbid anyone have actual conversations these days to learn about someone..from themselves. Yet these are the same girls that complain there aren't any traditional men around...

DeanLivanos · 2020-02-25T19:56:37+00:00

She's using the thing as a humble brag to show she has people interested. Guy was polite and made small talk.

These girls had the same attitude in their early 20s when guys would walk over broken glass for them, but now father time and bad life choices has caught up.

She's the same girl as before except more weight, kids and aged. The reason she is single is obvious but shit like this convinces her she is still a "goddess"

Best to walk away from these, some will say pump and dump but I'd much rather sex with one 15 years younger and minus the attitude. Juice not worth the squeeze.

LVL50JustThisGuy · 2020-03-14T23:58:40+00:00

Divorced twice?
That's a third bullet dodged in my book!

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