FR, plus the three stages of courting a woman in today's age. Complete guide.

Ryohazukisan · 2015-07-06T07:01:36+00:00

On the first sentence on (1) Pickup.. ect. change need to want.

Men don't need women for relationships, we want them.

Reddthrown · 2015-07-06T11:59:56+00:00

"I also have at least 10 other girls I'm spinning" hahahahahahaha

IsItJustified · 2015-07-06T07:09:23+00:00

A thing to remember is that 'courtship' doesn't end at phase 3 and never to stop progressing. Women will shit test you until the day one of you dies, and that's the straight truth. Despite pushing through flakes, sluts, and crazies the thing that every person should remember is that at the end of the night only you decides your fate.

This means that despite whatever tricks you have devised, and whatever amount of the sidebar you have read ultimately who you are will stand the test of time. It's easy to read TRP and go out, find success, and then get laid by a HB8-9-whatever. What's harder is not falling into the beta mentality that I swear EVERY FUCKING REDPILLER FALLS INTO WITHOUT NOTICING.

We get comfortable with getting HB6-7's every night without trying, dating a basic girl without much effort and forgetting about improvement. As stated before you must always improve and always be striving for more. A bodybuilder NEVER STOPS BUILDING. You must never stop learning and growing.

TL;DR: These tips are great, but if you think finding a STR/LTR or a wife will change things you will always lose in the end.

collidoscope · 2015-07-06T08:55:30+00:00

This post in long-winded, inarticulate, and poorly organized.

OP hasn't even read the sidebar.

SaintMarinus · 2015-07-06T15:53:21+00:00

Red Pill Vets,

Can someone please explain why this post got some many upvotes? This seems fucking stupid.

You must call her around 6pm, tell her asap how you would love to get together and ask when she is free

This is just horrible advice. Why?

You're giving her an out
You sound needy as fuck
She could legitimately be busy..

I stopped reading after that sentence. This article is stupid.

fckredditt · 2015-07-06T07:10:14+00:00

op, tell me how you meet girls. i hate having my friends see me failing with women, i just hate people i know seeing me fail at anything. so i can only do pick up if i'm by myself. did you meet these girls while you were alone? if so where?

billy_the_pilgrm · 2015-07-07T16:44:13+00:00

I also have at least 10 other girls I'm spinning

This sounds like one big waste of time. Get your priorities straight.

2015-07-06T11:08:01+00:00

Nothing about improving LOOKS MONEY STATUS

jkonrad · 2015-07-06T13:54:59+00:00

I see "acting" a lot in your post. That might be your problem.

Trpdoc · 2015-07-06T14:44:22+00:00

To me the most important thing is that you work to constrain her hypergamy if you are interested in an LTR with her. Only girls that show a glimmer of hope whom you can do this to are worth any long term investment. There are a lot of strategies about that here but more than anything this is the most important thing that an man must assess the whole time while interacting with a girl in today's world. No discussion on this topic must leave this out.

donit · 2015-07-07T03:14:24+00:00

When Saturday night comes, what do you say to the other 9 who are all asking you why you can't spend it with them? They're going to want a good answer because they all consider Saturday night to be "couple's night", and so they would really feel left out if you're not able to spend it with them. How do they explain to their friends when they're asked why they're alone on a Saturday night?

"Where's your guy? I thought you said you had a guy." They're all going to get grilled on it, and so they're going to need a solid answer to tell all their friends and family.

RPoverdose · 2015-07-06T13:19:53+00:00

Cool username OP. Basically what you're saying is apply the Shenmue concept in real life. Nobody does more cold approaching than Ryo Hazuki lol.

BeefJesusMaker · 2015-07-06T14:52:02+00:00

I'm glad someone on here has made a post about Coach Corey Wayne. I've gotten some great advice from him. I recommend everyone check out his videos on YouTube. There's over 1700 of them.

2015-07-06T15:15:10+00:00

One of the best posts I've read so far. It's really that easy.

damn_mothernature · 2015-07-06T08:24:14+00:00

What is TRP's opinion on cold approach?

I've always met women through social circles. Even when I do pick up, it's usually because the girl just keeps staring. I use a natural opener, usually a casual comment and always keep a relaxed vibe like I do this everyday to people of both genders (which I do). I'll never ask them a question and put them on the spot.

Young women are not very receptive to being approached by strangers, in my experience. They have too many friends and will not go out on a date with a guy they didn't meet through a friend.

I see a lot of dudes making the mistake of putting the girl on the spot. If they're young, it makes them nervous and their reaction will be awkward. I usually won't even ask for their names or numbers. A lot of them will just tell you if they like what they see.

Normally, they might give a curt reply and not make any eye contacts, which is still not awkward if you're a confident guy that talks to everyone. Or they might seem especially cheerful and start asking you questions, it's usually mission accomplished and only a matter of time at this point.

I don't have a lot of experience in this area but is it such a good idea to turn every 6 and 7 into another plate? I'm usually just a chill guy and they'll invite me to parties where you'll get to meet the 8s and 9s. You'll always have that option to pursue later.

But this is probably different when it comes to complete strangers. I've always acted like I'll see these girls again and watch out for my own reputation. This is good when you're in college but maybe not so much outside.

Darthstacker · 2015-07-06T12:19:17+00:00

Solid post OP. Some real good advice. I think I'm probably a little older than you and I have worked in sales my whole life and I agree with you on #2 about asking questions and listening. I would emphasize asking thought provoking questions that will bring you closer or at least let you know if you potentially want to LTR this girl or just plate her. I enjoy talking about psychology with girls on first dates. Like what is her birth order (is she the baby, oldest, middle born, or only child) ask her how that affected her. Talk about the Myers Briggs test and where she falls on the chart (extrovert/introvert etc). If you are compatible then maybe she gets a second date. If she talks about how she is still on meds after being alpha widowed by her ex then... check please!

Also on #3 I like pulling away and making the girl chase as she will love this and it can be fun for you too. I also will surprise them with very specific attention like flowers at work where all her girlfriends can see them. Then have great sex with her and then start pulling away again. Warning Using this technique may result in a restraining order if you dump this stalker!

Title	FR, plus the three stages of courting a woman in today's age. Complete guide.
Author	Ryohazukisan
Upvotes	62
Comments	49
Date	July 6, 2015 5:11 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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