Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2019-09-10T20:43:34+00:00

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2019-09-10T12:51:54+00:00

There is a shit load of info regarding that story that she has conveniently left out. I don't know what is missing but there is a hole in that big enough to drive a mack truck through. Somehow i doubt that she is the innocent victim in this drama. Maybe he is a dick, but maybe she is just lying by omission about some important points.

Aldabruzzo · 2019-09-10T14:46:52+00:00

Soapbox time. I have said it before, and I will say it again to you men.

You, as men, are entitled to like or not like anything you want about a particular woman. You're entitled to reject her for any reason you want, any reason you see fit. If you don't like her answer/nonanswer to "how many guys have you fucked", you are entitled to say so, and to end it right then and there.

I don't care that she doesn't like it. I don't care that it's politically incorrect. I don't care what others think about it. It's your life on the line. It's your money. It's your sex life. It's your marriage, kids, whatever.

If a woman is coming to you demanding that you give her exclusive, unfettered, 24/7 access to and use of your time, money, attention, labor, a claim on half of that for the rest of your life whether she stays married to you or not, and your sexual fidelity, then you are entitled to know whatever the fuck you want to know about her, and you're entitled to find it out through any legal means necessary. If a woman is demanding that you "get serious" with her and forsake all others, then you are entitled to know whatever the fuck you want to know about her.

You are NEVER going to get completely honest answers to these questions. The best you're going to get is some halfassed mealymouthed round "best estimate" that does not include

--bar bathroom blow jobs

--spring break sex

--vacation sex

--sex she doesn't remember

--sex she didn't like/didn't cum

--men she had sex with once

--sex where the guy didn't cum/got whiskey dick

--sex where she or the man or both were under the influence of substances legal or illegal

So ask the question, and then use your general Red Pill knowledge to fill in what she's omitting intentionally or because of faulty memory. Take whatever she tells you and double or triple it and then you'll have a good idea of her actual N.

And if she refuses to answer, gets defensive, or otherwise tells you you don't have a right to know that? You CUT HER LOOSE. You END IT right then and there. Because that sets the tone for the rest of the relationship. If she can't look you in the eye on this, she won't be able to on other things either when it really counts. If she will keep this from you, she'll keep other things from you too. If she gets defensive about this, she'll get defensive about other things too. If she can't be honest with you about this, she will lie to you about other things too.

EDIT:

I can accept that a woman has a sexual past. She must accept that I have a right to know about that and use that information to gauge what I'll be willing to give her. I can condition my exclusivity on whatever the fuck I want to condition it upon.

The issue is not that a woman likes sex, likes to have a lot of sex, or insecurity. To me, it isn't even that she had a lot of sex with a lot of different men. The issues are full disclosure, honesty, trustworthiness, her character, whether I'm getting the same sexual treatment at the same times the other guys got, the kinds and character of the men she used to fuck, and how her past relationships proceeded and ended. I have a right to know all these things, particularly since I'm being called on to give her 24/7/365 access to my money, time, labor, attention, and a claim to half of those things for the rest of my life whether she stays with me or not.

Consider this. A woman is going to want to know, and will expect you to be honest about:

--whether you have a criminal past

--your educational/job history

--your past marital history, if you have one, and whether you have any children by other women

--if you've ever had any sexual diseases

--if you've ever had any addictions or been treated for mental illness or have any chronic medical conditions

--if you've ever engaged in homosexual conduct

And if you hesitate to answer any of them, you'll be kicked to the curb before the first word of protest is out of your mouth. If you get defensive, if you refuse to answer, if you tell her you won't answer, if you're discovered to have lied to her about any of these things, you're DONE. She deems herself entitled to know all of these things.

You know why a woman wants to know these things? Because with human beings, past performance does predict future performance. If you want to know who someone is, look at who they were one, two, five years ago. If you want to know how someone will respond to a given situation, look at how they responded to a similar situation in the past.

It is no different with a woman's sexual history. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If your past is relevant, HER past is relevant. It is ALL relevant.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2019-09-10T13:03:52+00:00

She's not telling the whole story. He didn't flip a switch and suddenly go nuclear. She either lied or trickle truthed (as women do) and he found out through her friends or social media. Obviously, this story only works if she's the victim.

Women simply can't own who they are. They want to be sluts until they're ready to settle down and suddenly they want to excise that image.

For the ladies who lurk: Own who you are. Be honest about your past and accept that relationships are going to be harder to find as you get older and as your count goes up.

For the guys: Women don't value themselves, so don't assign value to them. Date, fuck, have fun, and when a woman, inevitably, shows you who she really is just walk away. Don't make a scene, say nothing, just ghost and move on.

OldFashionMarine · 2019-09-10T13:11:30+00:00

He found out the truth......that's what she isn't saying in her "am I right internet?" Story.

Love the "you go girl" internet fishing trips....

bushwicksick · 2019-09-10T14:45:10+00:00

It sounds like she is a whore and attempted to shame this guy. Why do females think it is ok to have large numbers of sexual partners? Yuck.

omegajams · 2019-09-10T12:44:58+00:00

Or, if she was serious about the relationship she could have answered the question honestly and directly. However she was not serious about the relationship. I am sure that listening to the harpies in the comments section will work out great for her. /sarc

ClarenceJBodicker · 2019-09-10T12:40:43+00:00

Lol so her body count is probably excessively high, if it was low she would’ve just told him as she wouldn’t have worried about being judged for it so.... she probably is a slut, that’s why she got so defensive.

Emervila · 2019-09-10T20:28:17+00:00

I want to read the post!! it was removed

For those who still claiming it's just a number:

https://www.medinstitute.org/articles/pair-bonding-and-the-brain/

The truth is that people can damage their ability to bond, but it is not because of a decrease in Oxytocin production. It is a much more complicated process involving brain molding, other neurochemicals and higher brain functions. However, when an individual choses to engage in casual sex, breaking bond after bond with each new sexual partner, the brain forms a new synaptic map of one-night –stands. This pattern becomes the “new normal” for the individual. When and if the individual later desires to find a more permanent partner, the brain mapping will have to be overcome, making a permanent bond more difficult to achieve. Often the individual is not aware that the brain has adapted to the behavior pattern and he/she begins to think, “That’s just the way I am”, further reinforcing the pattern. In conclusion, research on bonding continues to support previous research showing that the brain is strongly influenced by sexual behaviors.

craigarsenal · 2019-09-10T21:52:57+00:00

In 2019, you are not allowed to have personal standards, but women can do what they please. My take is that you can sleep with however many people you want, but don't get upset when your partner doesn't want to wife/husband up the village bike.

There are people you marry....and there are people you fuck

Undead_Chronic · 2019-09-10T17:03:52+00:00

Post already dleeted to protect the white knights in r/askcuckedmen

hotromeoforyou · 2019-09-10T15:40:18+00:00

Not one men defending her will marry her . They know it . She knows it .

Sigh!!

[deleted] · 2019-09-10T16:15:27+00:00

I can understand poor guys not caring about n-count. But if you have money or status no way should you date a high n-count woman. I'm not risking half my shit for a woman who's been giving it away for free.

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2019-09-10T15:25:35+00:00

Well, she didn't deny it so.....BIG TIME SLUT!

throwaway1928761 · 2019-09-10T16:17:29+00:00

Anyone have the archived post?

Original_Dankster · 2019-09-10T18:54:14+00:00

Why do people post links to active reddit threads? Archive that shit.

archive.is

mattymase88 · 2019-09-10T14:52:28+00:00

I'm with the girl on this. As a man you have to accept that everyone has a sexual past, regardless if you like it or not. I've been with women who have had limited experience and it didn't make a difference and my last relationship was with a woman who had far more sexual partners than me, had 3somes and was into swinging. I loved her and accepted that's who she's was. She was open and honest about it all and I respected that. It didn't affect the relationship. Guys, especially young, inexperienced ones tend to think it's a problem that women like sex (unless it's with them!) and it makes them insecure that the woman may be more experienced than them. This post proves it and the guy that posted it is probably very insecure about his own experience when it comes to girls. A girl should be obliged to divulge their sexualities past as it makes no difference to who they are. This post belongs on r/niceguys

DeterminedLogic99 · 2019-09-10T14:17:04+00:00

I'm gonna go with the guy that's in the wrong here. We don't have any factual information to definitively say that she was riding the CC prior to meeting him.

Title	Young Carol cannot understand why the CC is a problem for her BF
Author	DeeplyDisturbed1
Upvotes	175
Comments	115
Date	September 10, 2019 12:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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