Something about cake

KountDoku · 2019-01-18T14:46:19+00:00

She doing all that decision making, but still avoiding the gym.

where_muh_good_mens · 2019-01-18T15:25:37+00:00

Ok, for you out there coming from /r/ChoosingBeggars, we don't give a shit about her being entitled or overly choosy here. She needs to reveal the problems she has with her relationships to show men what to look out for as they court women for long term relationships and child rearing.

Her first line, "Why do people hate relationships?" shows her misguided adventures in the dating realm. "people" is used strategically to avoid getting down on men only. She is smart enough to realize she can't just complain about her potential mates. It doesn't mean she thinks women are the problem also, just that she wants to sound neutral. But the bigger problem is that she could have had a man for the committed relationship she desires a full 10 years prior, but has rode the carousel and NOW wants it. But men that use these apps and the ones that women are attracted to on these apps do not commit to any of the women that also use them. The reason is because all the women want them for the same thing, so they have no reason to 'settle' for any one of them and why would they? If the woman doesn't put out they jump to the next match, if the woman does, then they fuck them and then jump to the next match. It is a lose-lose for the woman and a win-win for the top tier men that the woman all want. The men there don't hate relationships as much as they have not been given any incentive by the woman to give them the commitment they need. The women can't really wait to give them sex because otherwise the men don't stick around. It is a paradox fallacy to attempt it at all.

Also, she loves having sex, which most people do, but carousel riders promote this fact. The have no understanding of how relationships are supposed to work and therefore make very poor or even dangerous choices for men to look for in a long term prospect. The reason is because they are giving up their value to all the men they encounter for free, which means once they get commitment from a man they will lose attraction to him. They won't want to have sex with any man that 'gives them what they want' because they enjoy the chase and tingles more.

"I guess I'm just being greedy but I want BOTH at the SAME time!"

The thing is, she can't have both at the same time because then she is just another slut and they are a dime a dozen. Relationships are coveted because they are truly special connections between two people, but the carousel rider doesn't value that connection, only the 'idea' of having it. They fancy the status of a man committing to them, not the man that does.

"That's bullshit!" She doesn't understand any of this, complains about not getting her alpha fucks and is aging past the wall as we speak. The title by /u/moorekom is perfectly succinct and reveals this entire analysis in 3 words.

KoloGupta · 2019-01-18T15:14:58+00:00

All she gets are P&Ds. She puts out immediately she meets a man then can't understand why the man won't stick around.

She loves her sex, thank you, so she won't be giving that up anytime soon. She's just trying to figure out how she can continue along the same path and get different results.

She's not going to change. Why can't the world change to give her what she deserves? Considering her age and weight, neither is going to improve, so whatever value she still has to men is extremely limited.

VoxVirilis · 2019-01-18T16:48:28+00:00

What. Do. You. Bring. To. The. Table?

byronshadow · 2019-01-18T19:15:02+00:00

Note that she's referring to Tyrone. Who of course only texts if he's hit a dry-spell. She's had normal black dudes under 6'0" with 9-5 jobs ask her out and just ignored them. They don't count anyways.

DonLandsman · 2019-01-18T19:32:00+00:00

If all she can get is attractive men who want sex, and unattractive men offering commitment, and she can't get a merger to "attractive sexy man offering commitment", then she needs to do one or both:

1) Lower her standards

2) Get more attractive. Offer more. Be prettier. Lose weight. Learn domestic skills. Be nicer.

flsingleguy · 2019-01-18T14:56:50+00:00

I don’t see anything wrong with what she is saying.

0kool74 · 2019-01-18T17:49:47+00:00

I won't lie.....I do like chocolate. But I'm not looking to get diabetes. Bitch need to lose about 50 pounds!

IcebergHermit · 2019-01-21T18:42:32+00:00

I am sure she overlooked the smart guys in school because they “were corny and didn’t have game”.

VNyall · 2019-02-08T08:03:55+00:00

Sometimes I have a hard time coming up with clever titles for reddit posts so I just wanna say, this is one of the best titles for a post I’ve ever seen on this website.

Title	Something about cake
Author	moorekom
Upvotes	92
Comments	22
Date	January 18, 2019 2:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/ahaxqt/something_about_cake/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/something-about-cake.347184 https://theredarchive.com/post/347184

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