Is there a dating app for single parents? I can't find a man with my 3 kids

thequarenteenpill · 2018-12-15T05:54:16+00:00

her post history indicates she is currently unemployed and starting a PhD program.

so lots of kids, lots of student debt, and no income. no wonder they run

No1Buck · 2018-12-15T05:54:24+00:00

You are immature if you don't want to support another man's rejected offspring.

wathon2 · 2018-12-15T06:49:02+00:00

Women: Is there a dating app for single parents.

Also women: I don't want to date a single dad.

KoloGupta · 2018-12-15T07:39:27+00:00

Are men getting more immature?

The answer is YES. Call us whatever you want.

Obviously, you didn't think things through, spreading your legs repeatedly for men you couldn't keep around to be fathers to the kids you had with them. Of course, your situation comprises of three mistakes that just happened, none of which are your fault.

Where there are some, there are other piss-poor decisions you've made. Poor decision-making is the foundation of your very existence. We all know you've now matured and learned from your mistakes, but it's men who have zero desire to take your high mileage, tired ass and its accompanying shit show, who are immature.

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2018-12-15T07:59:04+00:00

There is! It's called Your Local Grocery Store! Oh wait. But that might entail some "unattractive" men chatting you up, wouldn't it? Can't have that! That is so triggering! Reminds you that you got thrown off The Carousel and the Chads no longer notice you. It's just the Beta men now. So much safer to hide at home and use apps to filter out men based on pictures, right?

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2018-12-15T13:12:26+00:00

Some of the hallmarks of a mature man are:

He can assess the risks in a given situation
He can put his emotions aside when making important decisions
He knows his moral and ethical values and tries his best to live them
He thinks about the long-term consequences of his actions and choices
He thinks about how his actions will impact others
He tries as best he can to weave these things together to make sound, reasonable decisions
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 (Taken together, you might call this "good judgement") 
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When women post about male immaturity: calling men children, telling them to "step up" or "man up", calling men irresponsible, or otherwise attempting to ridicule them because that man will not do what a given woman wants (marry me, date me, support my children), they are really requesting that he demonstrate the opposite maturity.

A woman who would demand that you abandon your good judgment in order to date her, but demonstrate good judgment only once you are committed to her - after she has demonstrated a lifetime of bad judgment is a psychologically damaged person.

We have to move past the point of making fun of these women, or calling them hypocrites. This has the subtle effect of dismissing the problem as something they can control or get over. In too many cases, that is wrong. They are seriously damaged in a fundamental way and there is no fixing them.

When we tease of make fun of something, it can have the effect of losing respect for the danger it presents. Most fail videos are based on this fact. Every person who has ever had a crocodile clamp down on his head is guilty of this flawed thinking.

Joke and tease if you will, but NEVER let your guard down around this sort of woman. They are not meant for men with good judgement.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2018-12-15T10:53:31+00:00

"Are men getting more immature, or am I just in a lousy area?!"

Because living a life of moderation, depending on oneself for improvement and survival, and having control of one's biological urges is immature according to the debt-ridden land whale who left her marriage to chase men who no longer exist in her world.

JameisBong · 2018-12-15T11:31:21+00:00

I'm not bad looking means she is likely below average looks and fat.

RaptorDesign · 2018-12-15T07:39:54+00:00

Can they hurry up and create apps just for single parents, and get these people off the normal ones?

abhilash1991 · 2018-12-15T07:44:49+00:00

That's a ridiculous and extremely immature statement. Why the fuck would men be immature for not wanting to date single woman with kids? Arrghhh this makes me so angry.

Sol_Install · 2018-12-15T08:49:03+00:00

Gotta love the shaming too. It's her that's the problem, it's men being immature. Yes, it's a sign of maturity that man should fix your life.

SilverGryphon · 2018-12-15T13:25:51+00:00

Is it me or are women getting more and more entitled?

Edit: yeah I'm immature idiot why the fuck would you want me as a man? I can't even wipe my ass properly let alone raise your 3 amazing children. I'm so broke that I'm asking homeless people for donations. In addition I have a room temperature IQ so I won't be able to even assemble a milk bottle or operate a spoon to feed your wonderful kids.

So sorry m'lady you are going to have to look elsewhere as I am a worthless piece of shit. You deserve the best care you can get for your beautiful kids.

930419 · 2018-12-15T13:44:25+00:00

You mean men don’t want to raise Jiffy lube Jeff, county inmate Cody and Tyrone’s children?

Billy_Sunsteel · 2018-12-15T16:27:06+00:00

She deleted her account you guys didnt harass her did you?

SirKolbath · 2018-12-15T18:56:11+00:00

Are men just immature?

Oh fuck off, lady! You’re the one who got pregnant three times and somehow didn’t stay with the father(s). Just because we aren’t interested in putting your little brood of shitlings through college on our dime doesn’t mean we’re the immature ones!

houseoftolstoy · 2018-12-15T17:10:57+00:00

What a surprise, men are reluctant to date a single mother.

This should serve as a warning to other women, if you are not going to get it right the first time (from having children out of wedlock to divorcing a man that you never should have married in the first place), you are going to have a worse time trying to get it right the second time. I do not see if she is divorced or if she was never married in the first place, but she certainly did not get it right the first time.

BiggusDickus- · 2018-12-15T23:43:05+00:00

Are men getting more immature, or am I just in a lousy area?!

Actually refusing to raise three kids from another man is a sign of maturity.

I love how she blames men, or where she lives, or the “flawed” daring apps, but isn’t willing to ponder the real reason nobody wants her.

No lady, there is no app where handsome, successful men sign up to marry and support women that come with a litter of kids.

throwawayinj · 2018-12-16T01:16:22+00:00

She's deleted her post. But not before she was torched in the comments. And I was one of the ones pouring gasoline on her.

ThirstySasquatch · 2018-12-16T23:50:45+00:00

Dating a single mother is like playing somebody else's saved game.

It's like that lazy ass kid who didn't want to grind to get a Level 80 Warrior in World of Warcraft and then just bought an already leveled character for a silly amount of money off of somebody else.

I also love when all these women talk about how educated they are. Men don't give a flying shit if you're a doctor or a waitress. That's what WOMEN care about because women want your damn money and have you provide for them.

[deleted] · 2018-12-17T20:44:39+00:00

There's been hundreds, maybe even thousands of matches from the 4-5 dating sites she's used.

ugluk1 · 2018-12-19T12:03:32+00:00

A ready made family and no takers? Oh, the injustice. Hehehe.

Title	Is there a dating app for single parents? I can't find a man with my 3 kids
Author	Billy_Sunsteel
Upvotes	88
Comments	65
Date	December 15, 2018 5:48 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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