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[–]DontBeAStupidCunt204 points205 points206 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
This is a thing. Girl I used to oneitis would text me once a month just to keep my hopes up as I showered her with attention after each month’s text. Until I realized what was happening. Don’t be me. Be smart.
[–]MomoYaseen81 points82 points83 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for your username.
[–]tractorferret48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I did this too. So cringe when I think back on it. But learned from it.
[–]MrPoopyButtwholes15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think almost every guy does this at some point. It doesn't really become that pathetic until you're old enough to drive, I suppose. It's a right of passage like shaving.
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am glad to say I never acted like a blue pill orbiter for any girl. I've done a lot of stupid shit in my life, but never acted like some thirsty fuck sniffing after some girl.
It's amazing though, how much influence society has over young men regarding girls.
[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's simple really, separate them from their fathers, demonize masculinity, and harshly punish them for straying from the approved programming, and tell them their every self preservation instinct is wrong and evil all day every day.
[–]revenueseven4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
*rite of passage
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You aren't the only one who has done this.
[–]Kaquin9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I had a time machine I would slap the shit out of my past self.
[–]fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck-Jr. Hamster Analyst109 points110 points111 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I warn guys of this all the time. The only time a girl who doesn’t want you will pretend to want you is if another girl with more potential comes around.
This instance is no different. She wants his attention and resources, but is nauseated by the thought of his cock. So, she’ll pretend to want him (what he’s been wanting forever) so he’ll skip over the girl who actually does want him. The evil woman will then ask to take things slowly. Never kiss him. Never fuck him. Is probably still fucking one or more other guys she actually wants.
In a few weeks or months.... “I think we’re better off as friends.” She continues to swallow the cum of guys she has been... and dumb dude is back to square one, having given up the other girl who actually likes him.
Rinse. Repeat.
[–][deleted] 41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Plus if he does show signs of being impatient or frustrated, she will gaslight him by accusing him of lusting after her and wanting her for sex. I call this the "your not entitled to sex" defense, which typically shames and embarrasses the guy into falling back in line. At the same time as shaming the guy, it also virtue signals that she "isn't like that", that she wants something serious and not just for sex, ect. But in fact we all know that isn't true, but this helps contribute to the carrot on the stick.
Which is true, no one owes anyone sex. However, the orbiter fails to realize that this is a two way street. She's not entitled to his attention and resources, either, especially if he isn't getting anything out of it in return.
[–]mydikishomofobik10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
One guy (on this subreddit, I think) said "no honey, no money (or time or attention)", and I agree completely. I'm not entitled to sex from women. I can't put nice guy coins in their slots and get sex in return.
But they're not entitled to any of my money, time, attention, resources, or commitment either. I like to stick my dick in good looking young women who fit my physical preferences. If they don't want to give me the pussy, then fuck them. I'll just take my balls (i.e. resources, money, time, attention, etc.) and go play somewhere else with women who ARE willing to let me fuck them.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
"no honey, no money"
What's great about this is that it can apply in a general way to things other than specifically sex and dating. Anytime your putting more effort into something than your getting out, that is a bad investment of your time. I've terminated one sided friendships with my bros before and quit shitty jobs that didn't compensate enough for the work involved, for example. The greatest power a man has is his ability to walk away.
On a different note, if these women were virgin unicorns who are saving themselves for marriage and blush at the thought of sex, I don't think guys would have a problem with taking it slow and investing their time. But that's not what these women are. Like the guy above me said, they will go blow some random dude they just met in the parking lot on a whim. They already showed by their actions that they are a whore, why not treat them like one? Would you pay top dollars for a prostitute that didn't put out?
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
but is nauseated by the thought of his cock.
Lol, true.
[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The evil woman will then ask to take things slowly. Never kiss him. Never fuck him. Is probably still fucking one or more other guys she actually wants
You left out the wedding part of her evil plan.
[–]Kaquin5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
So, she’ll pretend to want him (what he’s been wanting forever) so he’ll skip over the girl who actually does want him.
God damn it does that hit home. Just looking back at my past self and the realization that my relationship with women could've been so much healthier if I didn't let myself get mentally raped by that one girl. Oneitis is a motherfucker.
[–]WAH_FMLJr. Hamster Analyst1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
agreed and she is being funny about #backupplan -- because it sounds better than saying #EgoBoostForADayAtAnotherMansTheExpenseOfAnotherMansHappinessBecauseWithOneText_I_CutTheOtherGirlOffSoClearlyImBetterThanHer
[–]ButtsMacGillacuty64 points65 points66 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This happened to me. Hopefully more men realize women do this and act accordingly. All men REALLY need to get off of any type of social media that makes them personally identifiable, the NUMBER ONE way women sabotage beta orbiters from getting girlfriends is by finding the girl the beta is about to date via social media.
[–]JamesMercer128 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. Trust me, I’ve seen firsthand how they look through guys’ profiles to see who they’re followong, whose posts they’re liking and commenting on, amd that’s how they figure it out.
[–]Cissnowflake15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait, they find the girl and badmouth the guy?
That’s fucking dark, man
[–][deleted] 30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Evil hoe, i hope the idiot didn't fell for it...
[–]JamesMercer133 points34 points35 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
On account of her having said “almost got a gf,” I’d have to assume she was successful in sabotaging this guys relationship prospect.
[–]slimGinDog22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Agreed, and I'd like to add she's destroying his personal happiness by ruining a personal and intimate connection before it had a chance to form.
She casually alters his life: his self esteem, his goals, his needs, and desires. For what? So he can serve her with attention, effort, and be miserable the whole time; reforming how he feels about himself, maybe for the rest of his life.
And she knows it, and doesn't care.
[–]JamesMercer111 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s the most disgusting part about it. She doesn’t even have any intention of being with him herself. She’d just rather not see him happy if that means he won’t be at her beckon call.
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How fucking evil...
[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow. Not even hiding it anymore.
For every woman who actually says this, know there are 20 more who do it without even thinking about it.
[–]TomahawkSuppositorySurvived the hoe hunger games20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
People ask me why I don’t have female friends.
[–]DayyyTripper9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eh, just don't be an orbiter/pussy whipped.
Female friends are great if they know you're not gonna treat them "special" just cause they're a girl.
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Emotional abuse.
[–]Laurina_NovizzaJust here to attention-whore15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow, fuck this woman. No man could post this sort of thing and keep his head attached to his body afterwards. Its one thing to make jokes at the expense of men and say terrible things about them. That is rather an unfortunate characteristic of society now-- but to hold someone else as a 'backup plan,' an emergency fixture in your life, and play with their feelings and put their happiness on hold because you don't want to end up alone? Does she realize the implications, for him, of being kept as a backup? Would she want that treatment?
May this woman receive the same deceit and insensitivity and selfishness that she gave out to this man; may she receive it with the painful awareness of the last tapering conk of her biological clock, at the hands of someone who she dearly hopes will love her as his only partner. And when she does, she should know it, and know why.
Then, will be the moment that she gets what she 'deserves.'
I think I'll take a break from this for a little while.
[–]playitagainzak_[S] 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean... she's a shitty cunt, but of all things, having a 'backup plan' when you're single, is quite normal especially on dating apps.
But even off them - I think many here would agree that it's unhealthy to put all your eggs in one basket and drop everything for a oneitis, and have multiple prospects to explore until one sticks (like for the same reason you don't need to focus on one person at a time on dating apps, because you never know who might fail, so it's nice to have something to fall back on).
Except that in those cases, those people are only 'backup plans' because other people beat them to making plans with you first and getting you to pencil them in to your schedule, nothing to do with your perception of them. Whereas in this case, the way she sees him plays a big part in defining him as a 'backup plan'.
[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I'm sorry. I don't really want to fuck you, but Imma call you at 3am if my other lays fall through, okay?"
[–]electric_sheep4518 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This has to be fake, surely. Who posts shit like that?
[–]houseoftolstoyHeavy Marauder of Truth Bombs25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Deep down we want to believe that posts like these are fake, since we don't want to believe that anyone could be this awful. But there are people who are capable of doing very terrible things, so it would not surprise me this is a genuine post.
If this one is fake, we cannot know for sure. Could be some guy posing as a girl for revenge, could be someone just looking to stir up controversy. Regardless, guys need to be wary of a woman he was previously pining for without success suddenly claims interest soon after getting a different girl who is actually interested in dating him. We should be ready with advice for other young men so they avoid any possible traps.
[–]Giv3mTh3Zuuk7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go commit die
[–]jihndosh2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
go commit soy sauce.
[–]Giv3mTh3Zuuk1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go commit tax fraud
[–]Drclaw4117 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
/r/iamatotalpieceofshit
[–]plamplamthrow0321Wants the "fuckmeat" without the fuck5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow what a fucking bitch!
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
she may as well put up a big AWALT billboard on her front lawn.
Attention whoring is bad but we thirsty men often give too much attention when we really should dial it back. This guy needs to wake up and smell the shitty coffee, then cut ties with her cause she’s manipulative and unbelievably selfish.
No way she’s ever gonna have a decent relationship with an attitude like that. It’ll be more like woman and dog.
[–]playitagainzak_[S] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What did dogs do to you?? Apologize to them right now!
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They bit me and left a scar that has remained on me decades afterward.
Lol no dog gets my apology cause I love parrots and fish!
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They all have a back up plan. Even if you're the guy she is banging in the situation, she still has a back up for you.
I was the side cock more than a few times, and they still had a back up.
[–]playitagainzak_[S] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well no shit, if you're single and not attached/committed to anyone, it's normal and actually encouraged to have a 'back-up' and not put all your energy into a oneitis. This applies to men too. Nothing wrong with that.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what a shitty thing to do
[–]Ryan64DD2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wouldn't her guy friend see this post and realize it's about him? That would foil her plans
[–]BrawndoTTM1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is fake af. Not that it doesn’t happen but there’s no way in hell they’d be that honest about it.
[–]AllahHatesFags1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a cunt! I hope she dies from AIDS.
[+]thearmchairwarrior-9 points-8 points-7 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Guys play their game.
I had one girl stringing along for a decade.
She thought she would make me orbiter lol.
I know this game along time ago.
So gave her fake emotional boast. She'll contact me once a while to "hangout" etc..
Before she got divorce, she send out messages, I said I'll be there for you, I love her as friend etc... Once she got divorce.
I was like sorry I was only offering my love for friendship. I wasn't interested in a relationship!
String those bitches long guys.
[–]MomoYaseen9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, sounds like a good plan.
But again, I prefer to drop these bitches all together.
Pump and dump. Pump and dumb. A girl doesn’t wanna give you attention? Just move on to the next fish.
[–]playitagainzak_[S] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A more equivalent thing to do would be to continue sleeping with her but not commit, but make sure to keep her around and string her along with false hope of commitment so that you can get that action.
[–]4gotOldU-nameArgues with Mods2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then she "accidentally" gets pregnant, and you're done for.
[–]thearmchairwarrior3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Revenage is a sweet dish!!!
You gotta learn to play their game. Think they men think like them. We don't. By ignoring these morons. They'll never learn. They only learn this way.
[–]MomoYaseen9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
IMO, nah mate, they will NEVER learn. You having revenge on them doesn’t change anything. Again, they just won’t learn. They cannot, and will not.
I have had this experience with having revenge against women who tried to fuck me over, and I thought they learned their lesson, but no, they got other victims.
So don’t waste your time.
[–]slimGinDog3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.
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