[33 F] Thinks it's a red flag that her boyfriend finds it offensive that she rides the cock carousel. " And secondly, wth does "easy" mean? Men don't need to earn sex with me, no, because I enjoy sex!"

GallopingZodiac · 2018-03-06T23:48:57+00:00

He doesn't get to interrogate you with all these questions that, quite frankly, are not even related to HIM and then judge you based on it.

Anyone who feels the need to ask this kind of question can go f**k themselves

I wonder why they all belong to a sub called "Dating Over Thirty"... It's a mystery.

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-03-06T22:59:09+00:00

This reminded me of a part of an old show. It might have been a movie with Steve Martin and a bunch of other families, or it might have been an episode of Rosanne.

The daughter just got married, and then comes back home complaining about her husband, saying she just can't live with him.
The mom says, "Does he beat you?"
The girl replies, "No"
"Does he cheat on you?"
"No, he just doesn't respect me."
"Well, tough. Put up with it. Every day isn't going to be peaches and cream, honey, and a marriage takes work."

So here is this woman who is 33 years old, and she hits the jackpot and actually finds a guy to be with. The first less-than-perfect trait that comes up becomes a "huge red flag". No-fucking-wonder you're still alone. Enjoy your cats.

sat_ta · 2018-03-06T23:32:16+00:00

r/datingoverthirty and its comments make me sick. Fucking degenerates. How can people like this raise children?

mgtow_reluctant · 2018-03-06T22:06:57+00:00

Yeah....it’s not a Madonna/Whore complex if you fucked the entire village and might have a ton of STDs.

loneliness-inc · 2018-03-06T23:30:20+00:00

The real joke is in the comments.

Edit - holy shit! The real sad joke is truly in the comments. The delusion is real.

Meaow....

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2018-03-06T22:57:50+00:00

If the guy is looking for something with LTR potential, then the CC riding is important. Otherwise, nobody cares.

Nobody else has asked her because they have no intention of sticking around. Don’t need to know if you know you’re not going to stay.

Chasing pussy is such a waste of resources.

[deleted] · 2018-03-06T23:47:41+00:00

WOW. It's like a whore party celebrating the right to be a cum receptacle.

fromthecrypt8 · 2018-03-06T23:00:39+00:00

She wants to consult the «experts of DOT» before doing anything too hasty 😅 Yeah, because that sub is full of experts ...

Can’t handle her when she’s straight up been a total CC slut? You don’t deserve her. She’s tired of boys.

weebkilla · 2018-03-07T01:02:54+00:00

It's important to understand someone's past. It's the best indicator to the future. Financial decisions, criminal record, and yes! Sexual past. Why is everyone on that thread acting like it's so bizarre to question someone over this shit? Going into relationships blind, is not a good idea.

somuchluv2give · 2018-03-07T00:58:48+00:00

Whole thing can be summed up with: “if he can’t handle me at my worst he doesn’t deserve me at my best” except she gave her best to the 50 guys before you, and her best was never anything special to begin with.

[deleted] · 2018-03-07T03:30:16+00:00

He has shown some red flags.

right... HE'S the one with the red flags when he challenges her inability to commit.

Westernhagen · 2018-03-07T03:46:50+00:00

All the commenters and their dumb, head-nodding agreement that the guy is showing red flags, not the skanky old ho OP.

Are there even enough facepalms for this?

He doesn't respect you.

LMAO, why should he respect her? She admits she's a slut who can't have a relationship that lasts longer than two weeks!

MauveSuitCrotchet · 2018-03-07T02:23:15+00:00

Reading these comments, though. She wants an LTR, but dismisses a significant thing that she knows men evaluate in searching for potential LTR material.

[deleted] · 2018-03-07T01:10:37+00:00

I just looked at the top few posts on that sub. What a fucking joke.

BluepillProfessor · 2018-03-07T02:34:43+00:00

it seems like he doesn't respect me

My Hamsturlator translates "doesn't respect me" as:

He is concerned about my character, is taking an interest in me, and doesn't pull my hair, choke me, or spit on my back while railing my butthole.

Better stick with the more experienced guys darling.

0-3ahab · 2018-03-07T07:36:42+00:00

First, this winner's poor boyfriend has reasonable cause to be concerned. She's having frequent sexual contact with randos and obviously isn't concerned about her own health. Damn right he has reason to be concerned...

Women like this end up with multiple kids with different fathers or they become walking petri dishes. Can you blame anyone for not wanting to get weird with that?

SirKolbath · 2018-03-08T04:17:06+00:00

]rothmcry♀ late 30s Exactly. This is an indicator to everything from slut shaming to his neurosis and hangups about his own ability to be a good partner (in and out of bed).

Everyone get that? She's a slut, but we can't slut shame her. That is a symptom of our neurosis and hangup about our own ability to be a good partner. It couldn't be a concern about her ability to pair bond, since she admits she can't get a relationship to last longer than a fortnight. It couldn't be a concern that she might be unfaithful, since she "doesn't make men work for it."

Nope. It's about our insecurities.

hodltaco · 2018-03-07T07:15:04+00:00

HA HA HA cough >WHORE<cough cough HA HA HA

TsarHarkinian · 2018-03-07T12:39:32+00:00

There are many men (ok, like me, for example) who would be incredibly turned on by your previous adventures. iishhhh

Incel4Life · 2018-03-07T12:44:20+00:00

Sluts have a lot of emotional baggage, have less of a capacity to love their current partner, and are usually unfaithful.

[deleted] · 2018-03-07T04:21:20+00:00

I told him none that just wanted to hang out.

WOW that speaks VOLUMES right there. She's 33 and depending on when she moved out of her parents house that's at LEAST a decade of no guys ever going to or sticking around longer than a couple hours at her place.

WTF. Along with the slut programming that is targeted at our sex via the media another common theme is romance. So how romantic the guy needs to be to US. You can see it in rom coms where the guy that has a giant bouquet of roses gets the girl in the end. (Not.)

I rejected the first half of the brainwashing but I am a sucker for romance. Afternoon walks in town, candlelight dinners, hand holding, cuddling etc.. Not having any of that would kill me inside and it kills them too hence why those movies sell so well.

[deleted] · 2018-03-07T23:05:13+00:00

In a world... where when decent men have concerns over past promiscuous behavior it comes as a complete shock!...

_Ameizing_ · 2018-03-07T05:15:06+00:00

I understand the reasoning behind a lot of what this sub is about, but this I don’t get. If a woman is promiscuous and is stupid about it and ends up with an incurable STD or a kid, then I absolutely see why that’s worth avoiding. But if she’s been careful and managed to avoid any STD’s or kids, I don’t see why that would necessarily be a deal breaker. If a guy is promiscuous, is that a bad thing?

twdziki · 2018-03-07T08:50:15+00:00

I don't think having some ONS in the past automatically makes the woman easy. If anything it just means that she's not a total prude.

Also, dude asked out a 33 year old woman and he's surpsised that she had multiple partners before him. What was he expecting?

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