Men assault women,women abuse men.In the general sense women are worse and more toxic.

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-03-03T18:06:27+00:00

Removed for OP abandonment

NarniaFox · 2020-03-03T16:19:09+00:00

Do you have any statistics or studies to prove your point? Otherwise, it's just your opinion based on your experience. Other people's experience can be really different and only that is a good contradiction to your statement.

Darkseeker_Mau · 2020-03-03T15:31:34+00:00

I don't think it's useful to turn suffering and dysfunction into a competition. But look at it as a circle, a violence feedback loop.

DeuxPistolets · 2020-03-03T15:50:04+00:00

Men assault women,women abuse men.In the general sense women are worse and more toxic.

Huh?

Sure men assault women far more than the rate at which women assault men.

Do men assault women far more? My ex “assaulted” me a few times. She didn’t really pose a physical threat to me though. I never assaulted her. Men tend to be far more powerful than women physically. Generally, when a man lays his hands on a woman, the woman is defenseless and scared. Therefore, it’s seen as being worse (and rightfully so). I feel like women assaulting their significant others is likely to be underreported.

One can also say that some men may “like” getting sexually assaulted by a woman.

WTF do you mean? Sexually assaulted would mean the man didn’t give consent. How would a man ”like” that? It’s also anatomically difficult for a woman to sexually assault a male that isn’t wanting it.

But the equivalent of the above situation is about the rate of financial and emotional abuse of men by women and not the direct physical assault.

Men don’t emotionally abuse women? Financial abuse? Sure there are gold-diggers, and some men get divorce-raped. However, I don’t see either of them being more common with males or females.

Only idiots will compare the sexual assault rates on genders because most women will go down in a single serious hit.

I seriously doubt women sexually assault men at the same rate as men sexually assault women.

Men and women are different,hence the way they assault/abuse are different too.

Assault is assault? Both men and women can be emotionally abusive.

But in the defence of men,most of the sexual assaults are done by men who are either insecure/depressed or otherwise know they can’t get laid.

Insecure and depressed men rape women??? Where the hell did you come up with that? Men rape women because they can’t laid? Total crock of shit! I’m pretty sure there is a far more logical explanation for the men that rape women. It’s called psychopathy and sociopathy. Men without those psychopathic or sociopathic traits aren’t going to rape women just because they feel insecure/depressed/can’t get laid. It would take someone that lacks empathy and remorse.

Women on the other hand abuse men despite having everything they need just because they feel like they deserve better.

Yes. Because all women have everything they need.. They all think they deserve better too... That’s a ridiculous over over generalization.

They also hold grudges longer and are better at hiding their hostility/toxicity.

Nope. Once again. Total BS. That would come down to personality traits. Those vary by individual to individual in both sexes.

Gravel_Roads · 2020-03-03T15:52:03+00:00

Men and women can both be emotionally, physically OR sexually abusive to one another. Saying it's only one gender doing either is inaccurate, and it's equally inaccurate to say it's less harmful if one gender does it over another. Neither gender is a "better" target and neither gender should use their gender to justify abuse, no matter what form it takes.

All abuse is bad. Once you start saying some abuse is more acceptable or less harmful than others, you are making excuses for the behavior.

But in the defence of men,most of the sexual assaults are done by men who are either insecure/depressed or otherwise know they can’t get laid.

This isn't a great defense. Women also get depressed and insecure. Being depressed and insecure doesn't justify using other people as a punching bag, regardless of whether it's a man or a woman.

Women on the other hand abuse men despite having everything they need

What do women have that men don't, exactly? Why does that make it more acceptable for men to abuse women than vice versa?

Seriously, dude, you're making the rest of our gender look bad spouting shit like this.

diffdedbed · 2020-03-03T15:28:52+00:00

Technically I read women assault men more often, they just aren't very good at it. Hell my wife has tried a few times in a fit of hysterical anger, and its cute, she sucks at it. It doesn't bother me because, well I'm not a pussy.

But abuse while its "worse" can only happen if you allow yourself to be abused. I'm not an emotional pussy either.

Funny thing is the few times I had to block an overly emotional hysterical "assault" from my wife is actually amusing. She's a very typical woman in that she lets her emotions take over too easy.

If she started playing head games though, I'd be gone. Thats not emotional anger but calculated evil.

Feyra · 2020-03-03T17:20:48+00:00

Sure men assault women far more than the rate at which women assault men.

I find that hard to believe. More likely is that women's assaults on men aren't taken seriously. Woman slaps a man? That's fucking assault! But the majority just find it funny or assume he deserved it. Men assaulting women is relatively rare, but when it happens everyone freaks out.

Only idiots will compare the sexual assault rates on genders because most women will go down in a single serious hit.

I hate this stereotype. Anyone will go down with a single serious hit. People who talk about the strength difference between men and women clearly haven't learned how to fight.

But in the defence of men,most of the sexual assaults are done by men who are either insecure/depressed or otherwise know they can’t get laid.

Citation needed.

Women on the other hand abuse men despite having everything they need just because they feel like they deserve better.

Citation needed.

wtknight · 2020-03-03T15:51:09+00:00

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Workaholiconew · 2020-03-03T15:35:10+00:00

Water is wet. I would just disagree is some points, women do have more empathy and synpathy than men and do act on it... to strangers.

Those they are close to? Men win out. Always. By a mile.

Men are willing to act on benefit of those they are close to and help them. The thing is, they are usually rare. Others? They can screw themselves. Men are already too busy helping those they are close to or themselves to care for strangers.

Only those who have everything (like bill gates) have the resources needed to care for strangers.

M4sterDis4ster · 2020-03-03T15:40:53+00:00

Both sexes abuse the same amount, just the difference is that emotional abuse is not visible.

Though, women do physically abuse but usually weaker people, such as elderly and kids.

There was one controversial study conducted in UK, where a woman who worked at womans shelter did a research and concluded that most of the women in shelters are also abusive towards their children who were/are with them in shelters.

Title	Men assault women,women abuse men.In the general sense women are worse and more toxic.
Author	anonymous_9999999
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Date	March 3, 2020 3:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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