Was with this girl yesterday who is mostly sweet. She has some history with mood swings; cries sometimes after sex, or cries over insecurity. Yesterday we go workout and decide to get a few drinks after. I didn’t want to drink too much but she drank 8 beers. Everything was going absolutely great, we were laughing, and talking about fun things. The conversation turned a little when she brought politics up and I called her out for some inconsistencies. I don’t remember what the object of conversation was after that but we just started listening to music. I start to escalate and she’s into it, making out, and touching. I then go for her underwear and she starts giggling and doing the flirtatious “sthaaapppp”. I decide to pull back and ignore for a minute or two. I try again later and she’s into the kissing and everything but I go for her underwear and this time her mood changes and I sense that so I stop again. She laughs for some reason then gets really serious and fixes all her clothes and has a sour look on her face. I ask her what’s wrong and if she’s ok, I get no response. This annoyed me more than anything, the no response. So I start up my car and drive home and park. I was kinda expecting her to ask me to drive her home which I would’ve done if she asked but honestly I was annoyed with her not saying a word so suddenly. After I park my car I open the door for her to get out, say goodnight, and she calls an Uber. She texts me a few minutes later that I’m so weird and that she doesn’t get it. I ignore, she then texts “fuck you” and that there is no more vacation trip. We were supposed to spend New Years together and then she says she’s done with this shit and that New Years is off too. I honestly don’t know what I did or didn’t do. Recently someone in her life close to her died, that may be a factor. What is my best move in this situation? Soft next? I thought about giving her a call today and asking if she’s ok because this behavior is out of the ordinary and I’m a little concerned. I feel like she’ll def apologize if I tell her too and perhaps offer her some comfort.