Girls say I’m attractive until I open my mouth

teka7 · 2020-03-11T13:36:04+00:00

dont be dumb/boring?

mikkeldaman · 2020-03-11T14:35:25+00:00

A little less conversation, a little bit more action.

sweetpotato714 · 2020-03-11T13:47:05+00:00

Need more context. What kind of stuff do you say? Are you experiencing social anxiety? Are you offensive/rude?

aLotOfWater · 2020-03-11T13:59:17+00:00

I used to be the same. One time a girl literally told me “you are so hot and then you start talking...”

I don’t know you personally, but I used to have a fucktone of anxiety. I couldn’t look woman straight in the eyes, I acted really awkward when I got teased and you could tell from a mile away I wasn’t comfortable in my own skin.

If this is your problem then you should work on yourself, on your headspace and on your attitude. I went from being a socially anxious dude to a cocky asshole (the good type of asshole)

I’m still quite new to TRP and I still have a fucktone to learn. My outer game sucks but my inner game is strong. Recently I banged quite a few chicks just by not giving a fuck. After fucking I always ask them what attracts them to me. “You are so fucking sure of yourself.” This tends to be the answer.

At the end of the day, you are the only fucking thing that matters brother. Pedestalize yourself and not others. This mentality changed my life. Just remember that it won’t happen immediately and that it’s a process. Best of luck bro

heidbdbalwoebdba · 2020-03-11T14:07:19+00:00

Could be that you say dumb shit, are annoying, supplicate or just bad at communicating with women and you're not fun.

Or it could be a shit test and she is teasing you.

Either way AA.

I had the opposite happen to me a few months ago.

One of my plates told me I was a 5.94 until i opened my mouth and thats when she knew she wanted to fuck me.

A few months after that she told me she never dates men that are hotter than her.

Stop listening to what they say.

You fucking her? Cool.

If not move on.

Metalgear222 · 2020-03-11T14:51:05+00:00

You’re asking the wrong question. Why are you listening to what they say?

ddd1337 · 2020-03-11T14:00:23+00:00

85% of people become less attractive when they open their mouths, both girls and boys. Most people are boring and don't have any value in their lives, other people do have value but they have zero knowledge how to communicate and it is very boring to listen to them. I have cold approached some girls recently and can tell you that most of them become less attractive when they start speaking.

So my dude don't worry about that shit, we are boring, but that girl was just too dumb and she said it, that's good for you, she is worthy only sex and she did you a favor and showed that.

As to unbecoming being boring you gotta speak with A LOT of people, clerks, taxi drivers, guys at gym, guys, girls at bars, clubs, guys from work, university and etc.

OPs_Real_Mom · 2020-03-11T15:39:35+00:00

Brush your teeth

i-am-the-prize · 2020-03-11T17:02:30+00:00

LOL then talk less.

benhurensohn · 2020-03-11T18:25:02+00:00

Better to Remain Silent and Be Thought a Fool than to Speak and Remove All Doubt

ev214 · 2020-03-11T14:32:18+00:00

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Title	Girls say I’m attractive until I open my mouth
Author	bigsam1time
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	March 11, 2020 1:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/fgx654/girls_say_im_attractive_until_i_open_my_mouth/
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