Those moments

redpillschool · 2013-02-20T15:03:34+00:00

The number of times I've been interrupted by an "oh I love this song!" or when I'm in groups with two girls, and they see absolutely nothing wrong with interrupting to talk to the other girl. It's astounding how obvious the behavior is, and how I always let it get to me.

brosephthebroengine · 2013-02-20T15:19:08+00:00

Since the advent of smart phones they also start checking facebook or whatnot in the middle of conversations (that are not about them). Never happened to me while talking to a guy unless I was reeaally boring him out of his skull. But what can you do.

redpillschool · 2013-02-20T15:47:32+00:00

I can't stand this kind of behavior. Red pill or not, when a woman does this to me I just see it as a total lack of respect and a turn off. If a woman is going to behave this way, she isn't the kind of woman you want to be talking to anyway.

FountainsOfFluids · 2013-02-20T17:14:42+00:00

In my opinion, this is a big red flag that they don't assign any value to you. I can specifically remember the times when I actually had deep, thoughtful discussions with women, and it was when they were smitten with me. In the workplace, I suspect if you had some kind of authority (and the alpha behavior to match) you'd get similar treatment. I haven't had any direct experience with that, so I couldn't say for sure.

NiftyDolphin · 2013-02-20T20:47:07+00:00

See, this is why we can't actually be friends. They don't really care about my life or what I'm saying. They are too solipsistic for that.

Most people are like that, not just the women.

What's one of Dale Carnegie's secrets for meeting people? I think it's "Be interested, not interesting."

I will agree with you though, women do tend to be more overt about this than men.

robot_army_mutiny · 2013-02-20T19:35:35+00:00

I don't tolerate that kind of behavior. I call them out on it, tell them that they are being rude. They stop doing it after you do that, since appearing to be socially graceful is most women's top priority.

logicalmisologist · 2013-02-20T19:21:26+00:00

That's why I cherish the few female friends I have who can carry on a decent conversation.

Bobsutan · 2013-02-20T19:42:56+00:00

Personally I would have called her out on it. If you're not going to, who will? Bonus points if you make it really uncomfortable. "Excuse me, I was talking. We have manners for a reason." An uncompromising position where you call people on their bullshit will serve you much better in life than letting shit like this slide.

2013-02-20T18:07:34+00:00

That's just rudeness. Easily corrected through social embarrassment.

James-Rustled · 2013-02-20T21:23:34+00:00

You're just mad because those girls don't find you attractive. Admit it, you're a fat ugly neckbeard who's never going to find someone to settle down with, that's why you post on here. You're so pathetic.

Title	Those moments
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Upvotes	28
Comments	44
Date	February 20, 2013 3:01 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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