Cultivating femininity

blondehairedangel · 2020-03-17T03:00:41+00:00

Since you're a creative person I think you would enjoy learning to sew (assuming you don't already). If you learn the basic skills of a machine you'll be able to mend beloved items for much cheaper than replacing every jacket with a broken zipper, etc. These basics are all relatively simple and go a loooong way: •How to sew on a button (hand sewing) •Learn the basics of a machine (how to thread the machine, reverse stitch, load and change bobbins) •Learn how to change the foot on the machine •Learn how to fix or replace zippers •Learn how to tailor t shirt or hem pants

Learn how to cook. These essentials go a long way: •Basic knife skills. You can take a workshop in your area or look on YouTube. •How to cook eggs properly (poached, scrambled, sunny side up) •Master cooking techniques for any starches you eat regularly (I.e. perfectly cooked rice, potatoes etc)

Learn to clean efficiently so you have time doing other things you love. This will take some time invested in learning but when you have efficiency you'll have more time to do what you love in the long term.

For gardening - you probably do already but growing herbs to cook with makes dishes feel so much more elevated. (I.e, fresh from the garden dill on your potatoes at dinner). You could also consider growing lavender or chamomile for herbal tea.

AnnaAerials · 2020-03-17T11:07:32+00:00

•Learning to bake desserts rather than cook the main meals if that’s mums forte is a great way to go. Having a signature throw together sweet thing for a pick me up or to bring over to friends places is a good way to bless people.

•Growing femininity directly has to do with how you hold yourself and how you speak, so keeping your mind busy with literature or watching documentaries I believe is really helpful. It’s horrible hearing a woman talk about something she has no clue about! So we either speak when educated or listen to learn :)

•Master doing your own nails at home. I have a nail kit that’s a cuticle trimmer, nail clipper, file, polish remover and all the nude polish colours you can imagine. Always file your nails to length, leave the clippers for your toes. Invest in a nice hand cream and every night while you’re at home lather you’re hands up before you sleep focusing on your nails.

•Take time to reflect about what you appreciate at home. Take time to actively look at how your mum takes care of the home (or doesn’t), maybe ask her to teach you a recipe or watch her cook if that’s her thing.

I hope these suggestions helped and you enjoy your time at home. Keep safe with family. I think it’s so great you are being purposeful about your time!

Poley04 · 2020-03-17T09:30:53+00:00

Sewing. One of the most useful things my Grandmothers every forced me to learn. I'd rather have been playing Scalextrix with my Brother but no, they weren't having it.

So as as result I can do all sorts of customising, adjustments, and household stuff. Great for making kids fancy dress, making pants fit better, nice family quilt.. Get a sewing machine and go for it.

Title	Cultivating femininity
Author	danyixa
Upvotes	34
Comments	5
Date	March 17, 2020 2:04 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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