Girl whores around on dating apps and then wonders why Chad won't commit.

425Kings · 2020-03-20T03:26:43+00:00

Self-proclaimed introvert, but admits to multiple one night stands.

What a crazy world we live in.

Fantastically_Inept · 2020-03-20T02:44:38+00:00

My response:

Dating apps aren't your problem; self respect is your problem. Dating is simply an economic affair where people pay the price you advertise. If you want men to treat you in a more respectable fashion, then you you need to behave in a more respectable fashion.

So I agreed to go out with him, and the same night, we did it

You're not a victim here; you're an active participant. You need to take responsibility for your multiple one night stands and how that cheapens the arrangement. Economics = the more supply, the lower price you can command.

Must be his game and I have never felt so embarrassed

It's easy to do this. You can affix the blame on him, but the tougher path is to reflect on your own actions.

I got blindsided with his intentions

You can rationalize this anyway you want, but it ultimately comes down to you choosing to have multiple one nights stands and then getting upset that a man treated you exactly how told him he should.

It’s hard to put things into perspective right now but any words to help me recover from this is very much appreciated.

This is very simple: men respect virtue and value. Life isn't over because you've made mistakes, but - assuming you're seeking a high value partner - successful, high-value people will judge you based on whether you learn from those mistakes.

Focus on buildng personal value and stop sleeping around. When a man asks "what do you have to offer?" not a single dang one of them wants to hear "a high notch count."

Wibble606 · 2020-03-20T05:28:23+00:00

I'm an introvert but I met up with a dude and had sex with him on the same day

but you know, I'm an introvert haha so shy.

BluepillProfessor · 2020-03-20T03:29:28+00:00

can't believe I let a stranger have this much power to break my heart.

Oh dear. I am sure that won't happen again. That sweet little heart breaking was your pair bonding ability. Sorry...but I feel even sorrier for all the men who come later in your life who will be forced to pay for the one that got away.

This is what we mean when we make the startling claim that boys and girls are different and the consequences of lots of sex with lots of people is different.

TimeyWimey1467 · 2020-03-20T10:06:48+00:00

Her: Introverted person who takes a lot of time to feel comfortable with someone.

Also her: Has sex with men on the day she meets them.

Totally normal phenomenon.

altair43 · 2020-03-20T06:07:57+00:00

Ok so the incident:

Goes on an online date and went on many similar ones before, which ended in one night stands.

Is a very good girl and pure of heart. No fault whatsoever.

Goes with the dude to bed. Mysteriously undressed herself, levitated from the ground and landed on the dude's dick in a split.

Is a very good girl and pure of heart. No fault whatsoever.

Has no idea how all this happened. How that dude just used her...its not like she dated him and did the "thing" too.

Is a very good girl and pure of heart. No fault whatsoever.

The dude is evil and shes pure and innocent. (Must be repeated many times).

Conclusion: Looks like this is some paranormal and detective shit. Can we call Sherlock Holmes here? Perfect case for him!

MachoToughGuy · 2020-03-20T04:36:33+00:00

I've had my fair share

What's that code for, 25 one night stands?

I'm an introvert and it takes time for me to feel comfortable

I don't recall ever meeting an introvert that is a slut who has had "their fair share" of one night stands. The ones I knew were the relationship type of the type that dates someone for a while before having sex.

Looks like she's sad her magical vagina was not enough to want a man want to fuck her again, sad.

MassiveMD · 2020-03-20T08:30:27+00:00

First introverted whore I've ever heard of.

Astral-Projector · 2020-03-20T10:56:32+00:00

Females can't be introverts, and those who are is typically really fucked in the head with deep psychological issues. Females are social creatures, they live on social currency and without that they wouldn't survive.

Ever heard of a female that can truly and deeply enjoy their own company, week after week, month after month and year after year? Don't think so.

signsignsignsignsign · 2020-03-20T13:39:52+00:00

I can't believe I let a stranger have this much power over me.

Also her:

I put myself out there to know what's out there, and honestly, I really had fun.

I know one night stands are somehow the norm for online dating. I've had my fair share.

So, uh, this is a pretty normal thing for you then? Why so surprised when it happened again with another stranger? I don't get women. /smdh

reinaldo866 · 2020-03-20T10:22:53+00:00

CTRL + F : "Rape not found"

Disappointed by Reddit fags, you know that guy has got a rape accusation on his back right?, these are the dangers of one night stands

mutageno · 2020-03-20T09:13:44+00:00

He's a few years younger than me and I'm in my mid-20s

WeakMenBadTimes · 2020-03-20T12:06:31+00:00

An introvert who takes time to feel comfortable with someone, but has had a multitude of meet and fucks with strangers. What a joke.

silly_birb · 2020-03-20T08:18:15+00:00

"Cc doesn't affect women, you are just insecure"

mr_kuk · 2020-03-20T10:27:26+00:00

Allow me to play the feminist advocate

Throwaway for reasons.

Men are evil is the reason.

I put myself out there to know what's out there, and honestly, I really had fun. But l have finally decided to quit dating apps.

The Patriarchy will not allow women to enjoy anything.

I know one night stands are somehow the norm for online dating. Ive had my fair share but it has never been this messy. I matched with a guy, and for some reason, I felt okay about him.

This patriarch tricked our innocent snow flake into feeling okay about him. This is the oldest trick in the patriarchy book of oppression. Make the victim feel okay about its oppressor.

He was nice to me. How dare he! Doesn't he know that ms snow flake is strong and independent and does certainly not need a man?!

He wasn't sexual or anything close to that prior to meeting and that was a breather for me.

This is the worst kind of trap that man use to lure helpless women.

Im an introvert and it takes time for me to feel comfortable let alone to even agree to hang out with someone I do not even know. So I agreed to go out with him, and the same night,

Patriarchy preys on innocent introverted women. It forces women to agree on doing things that usually take time for women to feel comfortable about.

we did it.

Rape.

I felt like it happened naturally, but looking back, I don't even know now.

Classic case of rape culture victim shaming.

Hes a few years younger than me and I'm in my mid-20s. I've dodged these kinds of guys all my life,

They finally got to her, those god damn patriarchy rapists.

I would usually just laugh at the attempts whenever it would escalate to something like this.

Men are pigs.

I got blindsided with his intentions and have been crying for days.

That is one charming god damn MILF-fucking slut-slaying pig. God damn it damn Jesus Christ!

I should have known. I actually know better.

Her biggest mistake was to forget that all men are rapist pigs.

Me and my friends were surprised about what happened because this isn't who I am, I usually do not fall for traps like this. I never do.

Usually Ms. Snow Flake jumps voluntarily into the trap, but not this time.

Out of all the guys that I had a one time thing with, he was the only guy that I never had that conversation because of how he presented himself to me.

He actually put lipstick the pig's face and got away with it.

If we had the conversation prior to what happened, I wouldn't even bother getting back to him or waste my headspace for that one night.

Any time a woman dedicates to a man is a waste. Men are not worthy.

I messaged him about how I felt and he just left me on read. Must be his game and I have never felt so embarrassed.

Someone please Tweet (@)Jessica Valenti and mattress girl, this is a clear cut case of rape.

I cant believe I let a stranger have this much power to even break my heart.

The feminist struggle against the Patriarchy is real. The worst crime any man can commit, is to be one of the thousand men to pump and dump a slut and not knowing that he was the one she wanted more from. She doesn't have to communicate this (that would be patriarchy) he must know this without any proof or reason.

It's hard to put things into perspective right now but any words to help me recover from this is very much appreciated.

Everyone! Drop everything, forget about COVI-19. We have a real victim and a real crime here. Twitter whordes assemble!

InsectGuru18 · 2020-03-20T13:45:52+00:00

be 24 y/o thot

omg so introverted, so shy

wanna see a close up pic of my asshole?

ThePrivilegedOne · 2020-03-20T12:03:11+00:00

I'm an introvert

Hahahahahahahahahaha

Zix_Workshop · 2020-03-20T12:03:17+00:00

Looks to me like she found someone who's better at her own game. She's just a sore loser.

KeiserRedbeard · 2020-03-20T10:38:30+00:00

Papa Franku says: „ know your place, trash!“

Sake99 · 2020-03-20T15:22:07+00:00

Why do they pretend that they don't enjoy and like sex? What in the actual fuck?

Fantastically_Inept · 2020-03-20T16:02:30+00:00

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asdf333aza · 2020-03-20T21:51:10+00:00

All I see is a female dealing with the kind of rejection that males deal with everyday. Girls usually get what they want out of a guy wheater it be a date, drugs, connections, food or sex. And then afterwards they never talk to the guy again. Someone used you, got what they wanted from you and then dumped you. Happens to men all the time. And we are told not to be hateful, toxic or broken up about it. We are told to just get over it and move on. And after a while that's exactly what we do. We stop caring. So that is the advice I would offer her. Glad she could get a tiny glimpse of what men deal with regularly.

Domebeers · 2020-03-20T15:51:36+00:00

she didn't fuck good lol

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-03-20T16:23:44+00:00

Did he...do anything? Her entire rant is 'me me me'; I have no idea wtf this guy did

Skank-Hunt-40-2 · 2020-03-20T18:45:04+00:00

Ive dodged these kinds of guys all my life

the situation is flipped and the guy doesnt care about her

poggers

2020-03-20T20:35:41+00:00

Nothing pleases me more than seeing white bitches cry because they have to lie in the bed they made. I'm done fucking with these no-integrity having cunts.

They may reach age 45 but they never leave highschool. It's all gossip and cheating and stealing.

If I had my way, any bitch that cheated would be flung face first into a volcano - live on pay per view. Her now orphaned kids can work on iPhones in China, and lament that their mother was such a useless, unoriginal, piece of shit.

Hell, I think I'm going to punch out the next bitch that looks my way. Fuck these whores with a red hot poker.

2020-03-20T22:16:05+00:00

MAN

We don't know what we did.

TooFatToMatt · 2020-03-21T05:42:37+00:00

My god lads. She has achieved absolute blamelessness.

ShittierLord · 2020-03-26T13:53:58+00:00

"Stranger broke my heart". I mean that really says it all. I've had my heart broken a couple times, but never by a fucking stranger. That sentence is a logical contradiction.

Title	Girl whores around on dating apps and then wonders why Chad won't commit.
Author	Fantastically_Inept
Upvotes	400
Comments	89
Date	March 20, 2020 2:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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