A few years ago it felt like I had so many guys chasing me but over the last year that has changed. I don’t know what is going on but I’ve already been ghosted by 3 guys in three months and have never been in a real relationships- just almost relationships and one fwb. I was highly avoidant before the age of 24 but now that I’ve started giving people a chance all I’m getting is rejections.

It’s puzzling because I’m An average looking girl / called cute often and have a really great career, social life, and am considered a real leader in my communities. I have a lot of people that also look up to me for the work and things I do. I’m well travelled, in my opinion well read, and am really kind and compassionate. I’ve thought about messaging ex things to ask them what was wrong with me, I’m just confused. It just feels like everyone has so many options now it’s hard to find a guy who really gives a damn

How do I figure this out?