Last night Donny had a house party so I was over there having drinks with his D-List celebrity friends, and spending most of the night chatting with Narcissist Nathan. Not only is Nathan an interesting guy, but you always want to learn as much as you can from those who are highly charismatic.

So Nathan and I are chatting about girls, drugs, music, whatever when my jaw drops because this big fat pig from high school walks in. In fairness, she’s less fat now, but her purpose here is clear; this is the girl Donny’s fucking now.

There was a time when I’d rip on Donny for this; this girl is pretty fucking terrible, but it’s clear that this whole debacle was in motion because of my talk with Donny about taking what he can get right now. My theory on monk mode is that it is only truly useful to get a baseline Alpha Fucks status from the floor of what should be considered acceptable; in other words, an HB4-5. If an HB4-5 would already kiss your ass, monk mode isn’t necessary; not that you should stop improving, but active Game is a necessary component of that improvement.

Why? Because good Game, high level Game, is something that needs upkeep- in particular if you have dreams of Gaming upper tier women (HB7-HB9).

So Donny was actually doing the right thing… partially. He’s getting laid, and that’s great, but it isn’t supposed to be like you’re at the fucking sex buffet and now it’s time to loosen the belt and dig in to all-you-can-eat. The point is to get a little bit of confidence, a little T boost, a little more abundance and outcome independence, and then grind even harder. It’s like a diet cheat day or a weekend get-away: you “smell the roses” and have a great time, and then it’s back to real life.

You don’t take up residence eating cheeseburgers on Space Mountain.

As much as I’d like to see Donny using this as a springboard to further improve, the fact remains that sex is always better than no-sex, and that brings me to the concept of The Doomsday Fuck Clock.

The Doomsday Fuck Clock

You have ninety-days from when you last had sex to have sex again. The clock starts ticking the day after you last got laid. I don’t care if you’ve had a girl you fucked for weeks leading up to the last time- the clock immediately starts ticking.

At first, you’ve got some time to play with… Try to level up a bit and Game a girl higher ranking than anyone you’ve ever been with. Try to Game the entire world. Enjoy the process; have a blast; set out to fail… or grasp at low hanging fruit if you’d like…

But if you dawdle a bit too much, and you get a little closer to the ninety-day deadline, time to buckle down and get laid… get yourself a boring old HB4-5 from Tinder and stick it in her… Clock resets, and you go back to grinding out self-development while using your time wisely.

Sex is important to having a positive male identity; a positive male identity is crucial to good Game. If you aren’t getting laid, after ninety-days, you’re involuntarily celibate and that is a status that will slowly eat at your confidence.

Remember, men need sex like a car needs maintenance.

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