What do you guys think

PrinceRaj53 · 2020-02-03T03:50:25+00:00

Hmm. Smart woman.

Knows what turns the man on and what the man is expecting.
Tries the exact words to turn him on and make him interested.
Adds a fake apology with cringy text to make it seem genuine.

Never change, women. Never change.

GrandYam_HomeRun · 2020-02-03T03:44:22+00:00

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rocko20002 · 2020-02-03T03:47:52+00:00

Personally it's never been my thing to look through a significant other's media because I expect adults to behave as such. I'm a boyfriend, not a babysitter. But I'll tell you this, this comes with a carrot and stick approach. The moment she cheats, she's gone.

Anonymoose_wrex · 2020-02-03T04:00:01+00:00

Why did it even get to such a topic? I take it she has already done something to cause a breach of trust?

Hard to give an answer with so little info.

Captain_REEcard · 2020-02-03T04:49:00+00:00

She could have deleted anything incriminating from her phone. Her friends would lie for her. Who’s to say she didn’t sleep next to someone else?

On the other hand, she could be innocent. We don’t know her or you. Go with your gut instinct, you know best. Sleep on it.

Synth_Kobra · 2020-02-03T03:59:58+00:00

“I have acquired your scent and smelled a piece of your clothing to memorize it. You cannot escape from me” run dude lmao

argama87 · 2020-02-03T04:41:43+00:00

She sounds a little guilty.

21yeeet · 2020-02-03T03:56:54+00:00

She's being clingy and annoying, block her #dumpher2020

Shimakaze4 · 2020-02-03T06:44:30+00:00

She's already deleted any text evidence and worded up her best friends to lie to you. She's banging other guys, 100%. Call the bluff and tell her something generic like "I already know everything" and see what she says.

LongTimeOn · 2020-02-03T04:55:34+00:00

Never trust outright, always remain vigilant and remember, you don't have to justify to anyone your reasons for ending a relationship. If you no longer want it, that's reason enough for you. If she does anything you don't like or makes you feel like she's being deceitful....dump her.

TheRabbitTunnel · 2020-02-03T05:58:19+00:00

Shes definitely hiding something. Shes trying way too hard to make you think shes innocent. The sentence structure is weird (like in the first text bubble, how most of the sentence is shifted down and the L is randomly capitalized) which means she probably typed out a lot, erased, typed, erased etc and accidentally ended up with that weird structure.

An innocent person wouldnt be trying this hard.

Also her suggestion is stupid. Letting you look through her phone means nothing, she already deleted any incriminating messages.

Id just move on.

American__Jedi · 2020-02-03T03:47:08+00:00

Over compensating. She's cheating. Take her up on her offer to look through her phone. Bet she's gets mad and refuses.

zennacko · 2020-02-03T08:25:25+00:00

She loves you! Buy her a diamond for valentines that happen to be 2 weeks from now! Trust her, she misses you a lot and FUCKING PROMISED she's not interacting with any other males!

Don't even pump and dump this one, she's clingy, probably borderline if not certified psycho if she doesn't have her way and one should never stick their dick in crazy.

ron191 · 2020-02-03T04:39:21+00:00

Cancel the scoop shovel we're going to need a bucket loader to shift this BS.

CerebralAbrasion · 2020-02-03T05:51:24+00:00

"I will.." "YES CHAD I'M SO WET FOR YOU!"...let you look through my phone...(delete delete)".

LawyerBreaker · 2020-02-03T04:00:07+00:00

Always look through her phone. Women are not trustworthy, and their sex drive is cyclical on a monthly basis. They'll also do dumb shit for cash because they suck at delayed gratification, and rejecting attention.
trust is earned over time, not convinced over text.
shes love bombing you. thats red flag af
I never let a bitch text me. bitch if you have something to say, call me, leave one message. I'll get back to you when I get back to you. you should NEVER be instantly accessible to any woman on the planet. They dont even know this about themselves, but they need what they need, not what they want. If they misbehave because these rules are broken, its not her fault cuz shes a bitch. Its the mans.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2020-02-03T05:04:54+00:00

Doesn't sound like she's had a very productive day. She should get up and solve her problems.

Red_Liner740 · 2020-02-03T05:48:34+00:00

She sounds like a stage 5 clinger....EJECT!!

mongolian_usa · 2020-02-03T08:56:36+00:00

Imagine if a man was texting this. Now wipe your phone, tablet, or monitor dry of whatever you just spit out in laughter at.

Trust_No_Bitches · 2020-02-03T10:27:14+00:00

Never accuse women of cheating without evidence.

This girl has had time to think of a couple excuses, delete all the evidence, and get her friends involved with the cover up.

It wouldn't surprise me if she was spinning plates with orbiters just looking to upgrade one to your position as soon as she feels like it.

jawz2you11 · 2020-02-03T04:39:08+00:00

Honestly same situation, just pump and block

tubal-qayin-vulcanus · 2020-02-03T08:34:38+00:00

Love is fiction. It's so undefined that even the Greeks had a couple of names for it. I think it's just a cocktail of hormones. Guess what, that cocktail changes, it's never the same forever. It's unreliable.

Comradery and duty are real. I prefer those over love.

Unshack · 2020-02-03T08:37:00+00:00

never had a girl make any effort for me before, must feel nice.... time to ghost her

kaikaipanda · 2020-02-03T11:36:37+00:00

never listen to what they say, watch what they do

guesswho303 · 2020-02-03T04:35:48+00:00

Pathetic liar

DarthCallidous · 2020-02-03T05:14:44+00:00

I think that her plan is just a list of things that won't happen.

topshelf782 · 2020-02-03T07:08:31+00:00

Bro, you have four probably much more important messages in the inbox...

KneeDeepThought · 2020-02-03T14:21:31+00:00

We obviously don't have all the context here but she's evidently quite defensive about the phone which she is now willing to turn over. I'm thinking there was a dispute about it earlier but suddenly she's ok with having it examined (likely after having enough time to sterilize it.) So that raises a red flag right off the bat.

The other stuff mostly isn't too bad, I've had girls tell me slept in my shirt etc before while I was out of town, that stuff by itself is not so bad. But then she gets to the I FUCKING PROMISE I'm not cheating on you which is a big "methinks the lady doth protest too much"

and yeah... "ask my friends?" LOL... fucking ROFLMAO... I'm suuuure they're going to tell me all about the other guys orbiting you. Totally unbiased witnesses there.

So, yeah- not enough to conclusively prove anything but the circumstantial evidence here is pretty nasty. There must have been quite some drama leading up to this, and since the guy isn't responding back he likely is done with this shit which I wouldn't blame him for. My only recommendation is although it's fun to watch them squirm like this to try and get you back, forego all this shit and just block her. Get on with the process of letting go and going back to making your own best life.

I-will-not-serve · 2020-02-03T16:11:24+00:00

My advice?

Block
Ghost

ContactJoshua · 2020-02-03T19:43:03+00:00

who knows, but either way, those intense feelings she's describing aren't real love; it's infatuation and lust she's describing. Women love those exciting and short-lived emotions. Real love is when the relationship years later gets boring and stale, or when you're going through a tough time, and she stays anyway, even though it's no longer exciting or intriguing, when she no longer FEELS that exciting love feeling, no longer feels that oxytocin coursing through her brain, but she stays with you and cares for you anyway. What she's describing there is either fake or short-term, and either way, it doesn't bode well for the future cause she clearly doesn't know what "love" really means

Oh, and letting you look through the phone LATER, well after you first asked, is a sign she cleaned her phone

lariseii · 2020-02-04T00:27:26+00:00

Bro break up with her so she can get with a guy who's not on a subreddit about hating women. Why would you be on here if you have a girlfriend anyway?

AeternusDoleo · 2020-02-04T01:11:44+00:00

I think this is high grade bait. But there's usually a hook, line and sinker attached to said bait. I'm getting a very desparate, clingy vibe - and the "I'll let you look through my phone" part is weird. Is she assuming recipient (OP himself?) is going to mistrust her? For what reason? Seems an odd flex.

carbonblob · 2020-02-03T07:11:07+00:00

Enjoy it while it lasts... Just keep a clear mind.

There may be a day when the only affection you had from women is when you search your memories. For me, it was 20+ years ago.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-02-03T07:12:41+00:00

I have to go to work in about 15.

sethekow5 · 2020-02-03T10:51:11+00:00

If you want to lose your sanity ,go marry her 😑🙄

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-02-03T10:54:12+00:00

Its funny iv the heard the same thing bout sleeping innmy shirt. Hmmm only u can make the decision on that one mate.

ZuruiK · 2020-02-03T11:11:45+00:00

The risks didn't change because of here messages. The real question is are you willing to take those risks now that she messaged you this ?

raygan14 · 2020-02-03T12:28:31+00:00

I think it's a bait and switch

RealBiggly · 2020-02-03T13:20:58+00:00

Can't really tell without any context.

Cheeky9 · 2020-02-03T13:58:01+00:00

Lol 😂😂😂

Nigeltpower · 2020-02-03T15:32:47+00:00

Well..... Assuming it's true that would be flattering if I was in that position.... But we all know modern women so it's probably not..... Trust your gut

GimmeSumChon-Chon · 2020-02-03T17:44:07+00:00

who accepts cheating and stays with them?

Sick.

BlackEyedHusky · 2020-02-03T21:30:11+00:00

well heres what i look like im in instagram, @ RealRoderickPugh

Title	What do you guys think
Author	BlackEyedHusky
Upvotes	87
Comments	62
Date	February 3, 2020 3:39 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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