'I quit my job. My bf is successful but spends his money on himself. I get it but...'

DavisR001 · 2019-11-21T05:21:59+00:00

Reverse the gender n every women would call him a dead beat loser n his gf should dump him

DangZagnut · 2019-11-21T05:01:09+00:00

How strange, when reading it, I thought, "wow, this chick is only about money".

What a bizarre thing to think.

Supersonic_staples · 2019-11-21T05:49:43+00:00

She 'QUIT' her job. Not 'FIRED'. Why quit without lining up another job?

And do we really think if he starts paying for her shit she will really get a job and then become financially responsible for herself? Talk about putting a whore on a pedestal.

My take:

She quit intentionally, hoping he will carry her dead ass weight. Then she will claim she will go back to school to find a better job all while he pays for her.

Then she will get pregnant and become SAHM;

OR 'fail' to find a 'good enough' job that pays well - you know given she now has better qualifications and deserve a great job and all.

God help the poor fella if she doesnt get pregnant to force his hand into carrying her dead weight.

sea666kitty · 2019-11-21T05:16:43+00:00

I like her BF. My money, mine!

wildozure · 2019-11-21T05:28:23+00:00

I bet you she also doesnt suck dick and or cook/clean. Any bets?

Supersonic_staples · 2019-11-21T06:53:27+00:00

She should just leave. She can't because she has no money. Catch-22 there. No surprise. Breast implants are a huge red flag anyways. It really sounded like she was dating a chad until the last part about the lack of sex life. Chads generally dont use porn, they fuck women. Since it is a woman, her words can be taken with a grain of salt.

There's a woman at work I could easily see telling a story like this but what you wouldnt know is she has the highest N count in the plant. They all like to play innocent housewife on paper, until they are bored or are caught in their lies and escapades.

pinewoodpine · 2019-11-21T05:30:22+00:00

Ugh.

Why should her bf have to pay for her lifestyle choice? Sure, she lost her job, but i’m sure she can find some side gifs to at least pay off the bills for the time being? and what happened to savings and emergency funds? she’s almost 30 for god’s sake. Go and become a strong and independent woman that needs no man.

Also, just because they’re in a relationship doesn’t mean he has to sacrifice a portion of his income to secure her lifestyle. I mean, it’s only fair that he has some reservations as well because breakup = all those money down the drain.

It’s clear that he doesn’t care that much about her though, so they should split either way.

Mort1186 · 2019-11-21T05:24:13+00:00

Replace him with her,he with she and bf with gf

sea666kitty · 2019-11-21T05:17:52+00:00

Take ownership of your own life ya waste of air.

MyOwnWay1985 · 2019-11-21T05:56:04+00:00

I had little to no problem until the last part about their sex life. Something is off here. Why is he bothering with her if he isn't treating her "right" or fucking her? I don't understand what their relationship is.

After that, the part about her weight gain and hair, etc is fucked up and unnecessarily cruel.

Going your own way doesn't mean being an asshole. I'm assuming there is more at play than she is letting on, but I'm taking the post at face value.

ElTaimino · 2019-11-21T11:55:33+00:00

Guy is based AF

oirectine00 · 2019-11-21T12:45:05+00:00

You tried to lock down Chad with breast implants and by quitting your job. You deserve this.

FlyingSexistPig · 2019-11-21T13:49:22+00:00

He broke up with her but didn't want the confrontation of telling her.

EdwardSandchest · 2019-11-21T05:55:50+00:00

Is he really planning on having kids with her? Y'all up on her nuts; why hasnt he left yet?

2019-11-21T07:15:16+00:00

Never invest in women, they rapidly go down in value

elquenuncahabla · 2019-11-21T14:03:24+00:00

She's completely delusional. This guy is obviously not her boyfriend, probably just some FWB who fucks her face every couple of weeks and buys her In n Out Burger afterwards.

fizzy1242 · 2019-11-21T06:56:09+00:00

breast implants! seriously? Shes talking as if they were still in a relationship

MoonshineGuy859 · 2019-11-21T09:26:24+00:00

The part about him wanting to have kids is a blatant lie. Totally out of context with this dude. She is testing the waters to see if people think getting "accidentally pregnant" will get her tapped into the gravy train.

2019-11-21T13:30:07+00:00

I am broke yada yada breast implants ...

2019-11-21T14:54:26+00:00

"I suspect he's addicted to porn as I've busted him once paying webcam girls. . ."

So, one time he watches porn and out comes unsupported accusations about porn addiction.

Women always have to engage in character assassination.

Get a job, deadbeat.

TomahawkSuppository · 2019-11-21T16:55:24+00:00

So she lost her job and is drowning in debt( wanna bet she was living paycheck to paycheck before she lost her job), and it’s his job to rescue her? 😂

SpaceCowboyBop · 2019-11-21T08:03:08+00:00

She points out red flags regarding his actions, but fails to see that her own life is a whole bunch of red flags for him. His life is together and hers is a trainwreck, but he won't marry me (red flag?) Haha hell yes it is.

Black_Jackel · 2019-11-21T10:37:47+00:00

This guy at least knows something, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free

z31fanatic · 2019-11-21T11:00:14+00:00

lol

It sounds like a story made up by one of us savages from here. lol

IkemenKyoushi23 · 2019-11-21T17:40:45+00:00

| I love him so so so much
Ye boy, gotta love that success object who will sooner or later pump and dump you like a sex object because you deserve it.

Electronic_Record · 2019-11-21T17:42:48+00:00

veritas

Flesh_Pillow5 · 2019-11-21T18:18:57+00:00

Tom leykis says always treat women like crap, abject crap. They will love you for it.

BigBigPeter2471 · 2019-11-21T22:28:18+00:00

A girl I live with part time recently started banging this guy, bragged about his size, owns his own house and has a good job. Theyve been banging months and she desperately wants to be his gf but he hasnt asked yet. She wants to quite her job and be a house wife full time at 21 which is kind of fair enouh (not riding the cc in her best years) however she's even considered baby trapping him.

This is so fucked up

0x173f · 2019-11-21T22:53:39+00:00

I admire the guy. Just waste her and let her hit the wall hard. Another one bites the dust...

To the woman I say this: Yes, dear. He is no good for you - as you are no good for him. Yes, start all over again. Do it fast, do it hard, and never rely on a poor bastard to provide you with anything in life ever again. Maybe then you will find a companion that is worth being called a man, and who may be willing to share his last years on the planet with your straightened self. Or just continue being a miserable woman stumbling from one disappointing dude to the next one without ever showing an ounce of dignity. I probably gave you too much attention already...

Title	'I quit my job. My bf is successful but spends his money on himself. I get it but...'
Author	Yakzi
Upvotes	90
Comments	54
Date	November 21, 2019 4:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/dzeazr/i_quit_my_job_my_bf_is_successful_but_spends_his/
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