I know there’s r/rant but this one I think belongs here.

I got married a few months back, and generally I’m happy with that decision. I know that life choice doesn’t necessarily fit here. If I’m being honest, some days I hate it though. Some days I feel like I took over raising my father in laws daughter. We try to split household chores but I can’t help but feel she fairs out better. We’re in the process of buying a new house and at the same time renovating it too. I work 50 hours a week, this house thing is a full time job and I commute 10 hours a week. I’m spent at the end of the day and because she goes to school two nights a week every other week somehow she does more. I can be a lazy guy but sometimes she out does me. She usually cooks dinner, the nights she decides to cook. If a pot or pan is in the sink, she’ll use another one even if it’s not right, just so she doesn’t have to wash something.

I know some folks will say I did it to myself and I did. Most of the time I’m glad I got married but it’s like if you had a good job you’d still bitch about some parts of it.