The idea of having sex and chasing tail is never as good as it seems

Red_Pill_Philosopher · 2019-10-28T18:34:42+00:00

I always notice society pushes the idea of what they think is going to make you happy and at first you think it sounds like a solid plan but when you actually achieve those goals it’s never as good as promised from when you first hear about it.

Examples:

1.) Work hard in school to get into a great college. (Find out later that the college system is rigged and most degrees are worthless.)

2.) Get into a great career. (Have to deal with shitty coworkers, entitled customers, asshole bosses and you feel stressed out all of the time.)

3.) Find yourself a good woman it will be great. (You later learn the red pill/black pill knowledge to find out the game is rigged and that good women never existed.)

4.) Have kids it will be great. (School system, media and snobby teachers begin to corrupt kid minds. No free thought. Not to mention kids are expensive, entitled, ungrateful and you can add on child support thanks to family court.)

5.) Have sex it will be great. (Constantly paranoid about getting a bitch knocked up or catching an STD.)

6.) Join the military it will be honorable. (Find out your military chain of command is just as corrupt as regular society, will throw you under the bus to make rank, VA won’t take care of the troops and veterans are only brought up during elections to get votes but are never actually taken care of.)

7.) Get yourself a big house. (Pay a huge mortgage and most of your time will be spent working to pay it off. Maybe you get 1-2 days to relax in it per week if your lucky.)

8.) Get married it will be great. (Alimony and losing half your shit begs to differ.)

We can go on and on for days. Nothing is ever what it seems. Just wish I knew about the red pill sooner. On the bright side at least I never got married, no debt, military (navy) paid for my school/living expenses/health care (VA is trash), never had a girlfriend (friendzone calls to me), living on my own and I’m focused on being the best version of myself.

NathanHollister · 2019-10-28T16:40:41+00:00

Hope you are smart enough to get snipped. These stories always end badly unless the man gets snipped. Generally, there is an "accidental" pregnancy, and bye bye to 25% of your income for 18-21 years.

Wardedbilledanteater · 2019-10-28T16:46:42+00:00

When I dated or lived with women... It wasn’t heaven. Maybe I’m strange but I always felt off. Felt like it was a waste of time or I was doing that out of boredom or even social pressures. I love sports and I actually regret missing some of the games that I occurred. I also regret taking women to sporting events with me. They didn’t appreciate the significance of the event. I would rather be at home and around people who actually understand the gravity of the said event.

[deleted] · 2019-10-28T18:00:55+00:00

Personally idgaf about sex, except what else do they have to offer?

DangZagnut · 2019-10-28T17:48:51+00:00

The "idea" or fantasy is great, like playing CoD. IRL, I don't want to be in a firefight with terrorists with machine guns.

I mean I find a way to hurt myself pouring milk, I don't need lead whizzing past me trying to break the sound barrier as a force multiplier.

ppdeny · 2019-10-28T18:50:21+00:00

Yes, I have no time for women these days. The thrill of the chase and a new relationship were fun, but ill pass on that now

justiceavenger2 · 2019-10-29T00:59:44+00:00

I have never enjoyed the idea of the chase because it just seems like a waste of time. I dont want to waste time chasing some women and playing games to see if maybe she likes me or not. I have a friend that likes doing that and he spends a lot of money on drinks. I go with him to the bars to get out of my apartment and the game is just rigged. You have to keep trying to keep her interested, buy her drinks, and make sure you say the right things just for the chance of sex or any type of action really.

Just the other night I was at a pub and was talking to this woman for a while. She said she wanted to learn more English so I was teaching her some phrases and I did get her LINE. Then at one point some guy just comes in, whispers something to her and starts holding her hand. He takes her to the bar, buys her a drink, and then goes back to his friends. My friend was like "what the fuck was that? You should go kick his ass" ironically later in the night she was holding hands with my friend and I almost bought this woman a drink too.

People tell me I am crazy for paying escorts but at least there is no bullshit, no mind games, and no waste of time with an escort. I would rather just pay her ¥40,000 for 90 minutes to fuck her as many times as I can while giving me all the love and affection I want then spend ¥20,000 on drinks and still have to work only to possibly get nothing.

slickshark · 2019-10-28T21:47:11+00:00

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sauceyalpaca · 2019-10-29T00:25:47+00:00

It's really not... It's fun at first and then just sours the more I'm around her.

It's like fishing is fun but when you don't release the fish back and keep it with you all the time it's just gonna rot and look at you funny.

[deleted] · 2019-10-28T22:59:30+00:00

100% truth. I was speaking with 3 birds I pulled off Tinder. Left them on read and let them chase, have since fucked all 3 off because meh

CastandRefused · 2019-10-28T23:38:40+00:00

I remember when I was college aged a man once told me "go to college, chase women." My first thought was why? I still feel the same way. Why are we all supposed to go to college? Why am I supposed to chase women? No, I live my own life and make my own decisions, I don't follow the herd. If a woman is worthy and wants to be in my life she can make her presence known. I will decide to accept her or not.

guitarguy1749 · 2019-10-29T01:10:46+00:00

as a guy who did the whole PUA thing (back when it was new and worked) after a while you ask yourself what is the point? no amount of pussy is ever going to satisfy. its just an endless game of chasing which like you said takes an enormous amount of time and resources

IndigoXero · 2019-10-29T01:21:07+00:00

I think it's just socialization/social conditioning. We are a mirror of our reality. All throughout our upbringing and into our young adulthood everything is sort of indirectly revolved around sex and chasing tail. I think if our society and culture wasn't so sexualized (even indirectly) most men really wouldn't be so damn focused on getting pussy. Plus it's such a simple goal to chase. Of course now the rising response is to reject this. Turning away from that underdeveloped way of thinking. Pussy is not that great, it's practically abundant, yet a lot of men still hold on to the concept that it's scarce or some shit. But we are evolving as a species and with that, men are coming to learn their true worth.

monkey_swagger · 2019-10-29T01:27:15+00:00

Dating might sound good in theory, but isnt worth the trouble. I’ve never been more stressed than when I was dating.

ulgulanoth · 2019-10-29T05:53:51+00:00

Men entre the game because society tries so hard to paint it as both a must and a great investment, their mothers are constantly asking when they'll get married, their male friends will constantly be asking how many women they've slept with, everyone is out there trying to convince men to get a girl. The game is nothing but long term exploitation of men, once you are in it you will lose. The only wining solution is to not play.

[deleted] · 2019-10-28T16:59:09+00:00

Small house, big garage, pull up bar, squat rack, motorcycle, a nice HTPC, a big TV, and peace and quiet....to me this is living.

ro_gtow · 2019-10-28T19:29:51+00:00

Sex is fun but all the bullshit that comes with it... can hardly be bothered. Then when that post nut clarity hits and the girl is still there and you are like... wtf did I just do

MuleFool42 · 2019-10-28T19:48:29+00:00

You got the right approach. Be ready to move on tomorrow, if necessary.

[deleted] · 2019-10-28T23:38:25+00:00

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felis-parenthesis · 2019-10-29T17:54:28+00:00

Sex isn't really for you. It is nature's way of propagating the species.

How does sex feel? It feels the way it needs to feel to propagate the species. Specifically: That was close to wonderful. It was nearly mind-blowing. That was almost sublime. Next time I'll actually get it right. I feel so unsatisfied, next time must come as soon as possible.

kubicas · 2019-10-29T23:49:44+00:00

I don't like LARPing at all.

wap2dem · 2019-11-11T06:31:08+00:00

I'll have a dry spell, be looking forward to sex. I'll fuck some chick a few times, first time is pretty good, second time still good and then by the third time you get tired of it and want to go mgtow again and get back on your purpose. I have this cycle every 4 months or so.

Title	The idea of having sex and chasing tail is never as good as it seems
Author	Civicricer
Upvotes	200
Comments	48
Date	October 28, 2019 4:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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