When my ex and I got together, she had a very small business. I offered to help her expand it (an offer she jumped on, of course) as I could see it was a good opportunity for our new family and I'm good at that type of thing.

The more I worked and grew her company, the less she worked (and the more she spent; travel, restaurants, gifts, nanny/housekeeper, etc). It was pathetic, staying in bed until noon, up late on social media, drama, drama, drama. The nanny took care of the house and kids. The business was bringing in $75K per month (was about $10K per month before I started helping out). She's now averaging about 3 days of work per month.

Obviously, I addressed the situation with her several times, and then suddenly I was an abusive SOB (for the record, I was always very kind and supportive of her and her family, never abusive at all in any fashion), and she was actually very abusive to me.. Verbally, psychologically, physically.. But I was blue pilled at the time.. White knight, real man, I can take it, she's not like this all the time, blah, blah, fricking blah.. She cuts me out of the now very successful business. Takes over.. Claims a monkey can do what I did.. 😁

Soon after this, she files police reports, falsely accusing me of abusing her older daughter.. Police and CFS are involved because of the very serious nature of the false allegations, I have to move out. Takes a year before I can see my kids again.. Court, Police and CFS are satisfied the allegations are false. Another false allegation is made, and another, and another, and another.. CFS and police investigations ensue.. All false.. They start looking at her now.. Emotional abuse of the kids.. Suddenly, she wants to talk about getting back together (I've been hearing that her business has suffered horribly since she took over and she's been blacklisted from many customers, it failed) and she'd like to work for me.. Dafuq?? As if.. Told her to fuck off..

Allegations continue.. All false.. And CFS realizes it.. CFS seizes the kids from her.. Now my daughter is with me, full time, mother can't see her without CFS supervision.. Court imposed psych assessment reveals she has a nasty psychological disorder, must get years of treatment.. Oh well, too bad, so sad.. I'm one of the few guys out there that gets awarded child support.. But, she's on welfare now, quite the difference in lifestyle I suspect..

Edit - there's more, a lot more.. Even worse for her.. But I can't say much without identifying people involved..