I thought you guys were crazy and unicorns were real. Im man enough to admit I was wrong.

The_Stumper · 2019-02-09T00:34:09+00:00

For whatever reason, most guys don’t trust someone saying that the putting a hand on the stove hurts.

They have to try to be sure.

SuperSaiyanBroly737 · 2019-02-09T01:46:59+00:00

That right there is a cunning bitch.

I wasn't trying to manipulate... that's not me at all

She feigns innocence right from the start. With this premise, she minimizes your issue with her as just a misunderstanding.

You said things you don't mean...

She's vilifying you. She wants to establish that you are partially at fault and that's why what she did to you is only fair.

I'm not a bad person and you know that

She's making you question your own judgement. You know she did something wrong, but you also know that she is a good person. This conflict creates confusion and doubt in your mind as she weasels away.

falling in love... I'm scared ok

And she spins it with the rationalization that she's just scared that's why she has done this to you. Using that 'falling in love' card is is her trump card by emotionally seducing to placate you.

Good job on bailing out fast. The longer you're in a relationship with a master manipulator, that more she'll learn your vulnerabilities and the easier she'll exploit and manipulate you.

XavierMalory · 2019-02-09T00:34:40+00:00

Good on you mate. That red pill is hard to swallow, but once you do, and you digest it, the world will become so much clearer.

Be warned, you're probably going to go through some "red pill rage". It's healthy to vent, but just be careful where you do it and how you go about it. Don't forget there are a lot of gents here like myself who have been down this road many a time, and we're more than willing to share our wisdom.

Welcome to MGTOW.. Beer's in the fridge. 🍺

Red_Pill_Wolf · 2019-02-09T00:41:16+00:00

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Phantom_Spark · 2019-02-09T02:33:40+00:00

Men need their world broken to see the truth. That’s why often men don’t realize this stuff until after they’ve been burned.

The younger ones usually grew up seeing the reality every day and that made the programming incomplete. That’s precisely why they want this information hidden. As long as men don’t share the information... most will be foolish enough to make themselves miserable.

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-02-09T00:36:42+00:00

Another man got back his sensibility. Congrats, because you did what most men dont : you found out without anyone's help. Thats a good thing. Also, its just female nature. So no need to hate them for it. Unlike us men, the other chromosomal variant can not control their behavior, so they get carried away with it. Do you really think they deserve a man's feeling, even if its hatred?

Also , I would love to see the conversation before this screenshot.

rsturbocvh · 2019-02-09T00:41:00+00:00

If you genuinely believe that you were wrong, and accept that, then indeed you are a man. Its the self reflection, and humble acceptance of the findings that separate us, when we look in the mirror, instead of trying to lash out, blame and tear down others, especially not of our ilk, when we find something we don't like or are scared or uncertain of. Oh, expect to be angry. Fucking angry for a good while. Channel it into productive things, don't let it ferment into bitterness.

Gibits · 2019-02-09T02:44:00+00:00

What’s the context here? Did she threaten you with an ultimatum and you called her buff?

TheLastMgtow · 2019-02-09T07:59:54+00:00

"Thats not me at all".

Exactly. Thats just one of your 10 alter egos.

They all have this to some extent.

And if you put up with them for that long. You will develop 10 alter egos in selfdefense. One of those will put you in jail.

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2019-02-09T00:37:44+00:00

Welcome back.

PabloAsscrowbar · 2019-02-09T07:40:59+00:00

You are dealing with a narcissist. This is the initial stage of controlling you. Initial stage includes gaslighting and acting all innocent and childlike when getting caught out. I won't be surprised if she attempts to spread lies to destroy your friendships or claiming she is doing all these for you when in reality, it is for them.

Good that you realized quickly and bailed out. There is no good ending with a narcissist.

GenericOscout · 2019-02-09T00:51:39+00:00

There are women who babysit men. It's not likely financially, home wise, and etc. But it happens. Especially in communities which are traditionally poor. The women there who work up in life but can't find anyone have the same pool of underachievement.

MattFoley79 · 2019-02-09T08:20:52+00:00

Not sure the full context... but yeah, they're all psychos.

thejus7 · 2019-02-09T05:59:07+00:00

What messaging app is that? Looks good.

DT1726 · 2019-02-09T13:42:46+00:00

In my last relationship when I realized all the BS and shit test I was being put through. I began to ignore and stop giving her the attention she wanted. She began to panic and started confessing everything like how she lied to me and finally she said she fell in love with me despite all that.

I said no, we were done and cut her off for good.

Looking back I think I got off better than many people and if I believed her that time I'd be set up for even greater hell.

nobitchiminyourhead · 2019-02-09T01:32:24+00:00

Fuck, dude the pure honesty in your texts were intense. I remember the first time I was able to say I hated women. Felt fuckin great

[deleted] · 2019-02-09T12:41:09+00:00

Good on you bro. If you do chose to date, don't put up with bullshit.

All the guys on here just lurking pay attention to this man

Vergil387 · 2019-02-09T13:27:18+00:00

My own mom used to and still tries to pull off very similar tactics towards me whenever she needs me for something.

RedPilledLife · 2019-02-09T13:32:31+00:00

Nice.... That is how you handle these hoes

extremeZ-TOWN · 2019-02-09T14:34:50+00:00

It's OK it's the first step

[deleted] · 2019-02-09T14:34:55+00:00

We all learn; sooner or later; the easy way or the hard way; with scars or without; with child support a/o alimony or without.

Most of us with dads should have just listened to him. Unless he was a cuck.

DrExtra · 2019-02-09T19:58:17+00:00

"Twist reality and weasel outta it". I like this answer...this should be sent to every ex that tries to contact their old bf back.

Kapla5053 · 2019-02-10T01:17:19+00:00

Take a good hard look at this an know that it would not have been easy for most of us to get away from this situation, when she's a skilled manipulator. But it must be done

We need to stop giving attention to low quality behaviour.

Stay with the girls who are high quality and rational. They are out there!

SmrtMouth1 · 2019-05-14T14:21:56+00:00

This is legit how they all are. God just reading this reminds me of so many conversations I've had with women.

Title	I thought you guys were crazy and unicorns were real. Im man enough to admit I was wrong.
Author	BudgieBeater
Upvotes	280
Comments	52
Date	February 9, 2019 12:30 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/aon2uv/i_thought_you_guys_were_crazy_and_unicorns_were/
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