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[–][deleted] 96 points97 points98 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The results are similar for OkCupid. According to women only 1 in 6 men are considered 'above average' in an absolute sense.
These sites are nothing but empty jars women use to rattle when they are running low on the currency of validation and rely on the charity of simps to restock their self-esteem. According to the stats there's a lot of casual grovelling going on the part of men just liking just about anything that has a cleavage or arsecrack showing.
Bottom line is women end up regretting the sex they had and men regret the sex they didn't have.
[–]Bosurd8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have a way with words. Got a good laugh lol
[–]Benifenn0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bottom line is.....Go Your Own Way
[–]Krazyrobus46 points47 points48 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I get more success offline. So I deleted all the online shit since I am just an average looking guy.
[–]OutlawCircumcision29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Men rarely cold approach any more so men that do approach IRL have a big advantage over those that don't. Online dating only benefits women.
[–]SlowJellyfish127 points28 points29 points 6 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Online dating only benefits CHADS. CHADS juggle multiple women at any one time. Some CHADS date one woman for a few months, and than dump her for another. It's never been easier to be a cad -- and society esp. feminism, celibates it. The average guy cannot compete especially if the woman has been alpha widowed AND a lot of women have been alpha widowed.
[–]RamonFrunkis10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My brain is bleeding after reading these Alien Sentience Sentences.
Cold approach is stunningly effective because this generation has been conditioned to "keyboard warriors" who only act manly with a screen. If you approach a female in real life and say, "I know no one does this anymore, but I find you very attractive. Listen, no pressure whatsoever but if you're interested in getting to know each other, here's my number". DO NOT give your real #, give a Google Voice just in case. Then walk away. She will often come tap you on the shoulder to do something on the spot.
Either
a) they're not interested, whatever no loss
b) they think it's 'weird' and tell their friends who:
i) will agree with them then whatever, no loss
ii) Friends says, "wow, I wish someone would fine ME so attractive they felt compelled to tell me. Makes me wonder how many guys felt that way but were too chickenshit to do anything about them"
or
c) They find your confidence incredibly attractive because you engage in 'antiquated' courtship and are straight up saying I like you on the outside, how are you on the inside?
I am NOT saying to attempt the sly, sexy chat-you-up-on-the-street ala Pickup Artists. Surgical precision: in and out, air of mystery. I'd say I have about 60% success with this.
[–]lastlaugh1004 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
gotta admit, that's damn slick. Simple, non-threatening approach that forces the woman to chase you if she is interested in trying to tame an alpha man who is bold enough to approach a woman in this day and age of pound me too.
[–]AdrianoWerneck4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never installed any of those dating apps and always interacted with women on the real world. Most of those interactions were good and I never experienced the insane hypergamy that is shown by those apps either. It seems online dating is very harmful for men.
[–]prinseofpersia38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I only spent 2 month on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge (yes, all at the same time in my blue-pilled days), and I went on around 15 dates. I probably will appear egotistical, but not once did I find a girl that I would consider equivalent to my looks and ambition. I even thought this in my blue-pilled mind. The majority of them were dating multiple guys at once, even the ones far below average looks. I am not surprised by this statistic, it demonstrates why so many men have low self-esteem and most women have inflated self-worth. MGTOW is the only self-respecting path
[–]SlowJellyfish117 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good looking women don't need online dating unless they want to ride the carousel.
[–]10qk2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s probably trying to catch a bigger fish than the ones in her local pond.
[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
I have an 8/10 face. 9/10 eyes and a 10/10 body. I fucking LOVE spending my money on fitted designer clothing. I have no kids. I take good pictures. I get destroyed on Tinder. Women who are nowhere near as attractive as real life stalkers I've had ignore me. It's just fucking laughable. Also; I refuse to pay money for a chance to beg women on the 'net. So I guess maybe I'm getting fucked by algorithms too.
Anyway only Chad apparently gets responses now.
[–]eduardkoopman18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I have an 8/10 face. 9/10 eyes and a 10/10 body. I get destroyed on Tinder.
I have an 8/10 face. 9/10 eyes and a 10/10 body.
I get destroyed on Tinder.
I only thought, "the bottom 80%" of men had a really shitty time on Tinder and casual dating.
But you're top 20% or better. How is that possible? Or do you over estimate yourself? Or do you only get interest from unattractive women? Or is the top 20% rule, not correct?
In my life I have alsways lived in the 5 to 7 out of 10 range, attractiveness wise. So I have no reference, for Chad lifestyle.
[–]massy52510 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You really got to get pictures for this type of thing. Most guys consider a girl under 25yo and under 125lbs to be a 9/10+. Basically they lower their standards to whatever they can get is now a 10.
I presume many of these guys have never actually met true 10/10 in real life. Its actually very rare to meet a 9+ in real life. If her hotness is not a persistant distraction she is not a 10.
I didn't really know this till I got a boat the boat and hoes thing is real. Even then you'll have 3-5 young thin/fit girls that are nice to look at but rare that any are over an 8.
[–]Batman_MGTOW10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Its because 10s dont exist, not when you remove all that makeup and the photoshop effects she used to remove all the imperfections from her pics. Women use photoshop a lot.
[–]massy5252 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've actually been saying that my whole life. There is no such thing as a 10. That was not really my point tho. Just that most truly beautiful women are shut away from average guys. Shields involve, white nights, gated community, segregated living, very expensive outing spots (far beyond value expensive). Once you get into some of those places most women are dogs compared to the actual hot women.
[–]Sir_manalot6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He isn't a thug, deadbeat, abuser, rapist, murder, etc.
He has has the body, money, but not the personality.
[–]eduardkoopman1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What you mean, I don't get it? You mean to say, personality matters alot?
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[–]eduardkoopman2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
monk mode here. I ain't paying no one here. But escorts are the cheapest, when it comes to sex (especially if one counts in wasted time when "dating", and put money on that time)
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So only 4% of the guys get the prospect of pounding a used up, bottom of the barrel, std-ridden pussy. Oh what a disaster. I dunno how to live anymore. /s
Those Tinder skanks should not get into your head brother. You know your worth. If you are good looking anyway, why would you wanna go for the second hand option?
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The 4% stat is believable. Story time:
A friend of mine who anyone would have considered a betabux cuck had a (camp AF) fashionista give him a unique style and a photoshoot just for Tinder purposes. He'd simply approve of all women presented by the app and then the matches rolled in. All said friend did was toss his phone around and let people say anything they wanted to each match - none of the matches cared what was said, they only wanted one thing..
At one point he had three different women on the go at once and he told all three of them that he was seeing other women, inviting all three into an "open relationship" and all three were fine with it. At no point did he spend *any* money on them either. In fact, they often paid for him.
I guess some people can simply play the game very well.
[–]Alliaenor12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry but you don't have a 8/10 face and 10/10 body if you get "destroyed on tinder". I did a catfish account with Mike Chabot and it was the most brutal black pill I ever swallowed in my life.
[–]SergeantLiftsAlot4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Was about to say this. Plenty of people have done this and gotten results.
[–]ITrollRedditEveryDay10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
try this bio works like a charm:
"Seeks hostile woman for unfulfilling sex, future divorce, and co-dependency. Looking for a whiny, crazy lady with misplaced sense of entitlement and lots of expectations. Bonus points if you slept with every guy in town and now want to take it slow we me. I would be open to an unsatisfying fling but prefer a long-term, soul crushing decent into booze and pills."
also super likes are super effective for me but i have a set of protocol i follow like has to have bio, can't have insta, not someone who considers herself a 10/10, ect...
[–]omega_kush0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have to remember 15% of that 20% is married or taken already. So yeah it makes sense. I have a rotation that works pretty well for me. The other thing is that, chads have 2 or 3 chicks so that lowers the percentage of women availible even more.
[–]RT-AC66U3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You also need game.
[–]Sir_manalot4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or he could just go do better things with his time then become a tool for women's pleasure
[–]Alliaenor2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How you use your game when women swipe left as soon as the see your picture ?
[–]I_hate_roastbeef2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So many oblivious dudes DO NOT UNDERSTAND this.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Game in real life, not online. You can have all the game in the world but it won't make a bit of difference on OLD
[–]DangZagnut23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I got matches. Bots and premium Snapchat nudes sellers are matches right?
[–]beenthere78910 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I got those too way back when. As well as single moms with three kids by four fathers, psychos, gold diggers, land whales, feminists... And every possible combination thereof Geez i guess i did way better than you. I feel so much better knowing now that my response rate was better than yours.
[–]nana31og10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
3 kids by 4 fathers 😂
[–]Ben_Eszes3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I didn't even match with bots when I tried Tinder :(
Don't care though, it's uninstalled.
[–]nana31og1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The matches are fuckin garbage when you do get them you’re not missing anything
[–]GrisBosque11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Better for the rest of us being ignored... It's getting kinda mutual!
I couldnt care less what goes on on Tinder... Its kind of just another shithole for dating... (Virtual bar hopping)
And one of the first things I'd ask a Mythical Unicorn... if they were on a date site?
Yes means no, at least from my end...
Any woman on date sites is first a cull, and second a disease risk...
I'm pretty much done worrying about acquiring a woman who might even be a mild positive...
It's an "Odds Against Mission" these days...
I think I'll be mentally content with if the Universe wants to smack me with a unicorn from heaven, I can wait....
Going looking for Unicorns is likely coming home much worse than empty handed....
In the interim, gonna focus on getting out of the system, and making my self less desireable to pseudo unicorns via distance from Gossip Centers, and focus on booting yummy subsistence instead of imaginary money world wealth....
Digital edibles could get iffy...
[–]Teflon081917 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm pretty sure Tinder is just an open-source project to breed new antibiotic-resistant super STDs.
[–]GrisBosque4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I thought is was to manufacture simps and elite predators via single motherhood.
[–]MrMagtow5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't care what women think. I'm happy living for myself. My bank account should +1 its most significant digit, and no gash is getting her hands on it.
[–]Batman_MGTOW5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its the same thing in real life where most men are ghosts to women but women dont have trouble attracting the guy they desire, its gynocentrism at its finest. Men are enslaved by their desire to have sex while women take advantage of their own sexuality to squeeze the most money and assets out of men. If you know you are playing a rigged game then the best thing is not to play and move to an environment where the 80/20 rule doesnt exist.
[–]invaderRVA3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tinder is worthless (piece of s#it) for men and women.
Studies show that it is being used as a photo rating system (think: Hot or Not)
Plus, did you know that 70% of the people on the site have never met anyone on that site (like ever): http://globaldatinginsights.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Screenshot-2017-03-23-at-15.37.28.png
I read a study that read that only 10% of women and 30% of men on the site were using the site to hookup. The majority of the people on the site use it as an ego booster for over photoshopped pictures.
In short, 30% of the men are passing the 10% of sluts around.
[–]Electronic_Record2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm shocked!! No idea where this data comes from?!? Just read 50+ Field Reports on The Red Pill subreddit and all those guys fuck at least 5-10 HB 10s per day on Tinder.
[–]twilightcharms2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is how it works these days, women put tons of effect filters over their selfies to look much more than their best. Men should beef up their job titles and fake an impossible status...
Who are we kidding here
[–]escalover1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meh the thots lose big in the end, so who cares?
[–]SneakyRat671 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe if we stay on the sidelines long enough women will start dating each other and leave us alone.
[–]MuleFool421 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only way to win is not to play. MGTOW is the only choice for men.
[–]Just4yourpost0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I gotta agree. When I was randomly horsing around tinder I did included my degree, civil engineering. I also added a self portrait riding my car, '14 GT500. College chicks digs hard.
[–]edgysecularist0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
HAHAHAHA these thots are on a different planet
[–]TheAlcoholicOne0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All that is just bottom feeder shit.
I met only one girl off Tinder, during my short stint with the app. I think I wrote about it on chroniclesofalcohol.com. But she was setting up dates with 3 or 4 other guys while we were hanging out... I was just trying to fuck, but I should have given myself way more respect.
I mean, if you're a Chad then it's your playground. If you're just an average to mildly good looking dude, then you'll just get shit on by random bitches.
Like someone else said, it's pretty much all a confidence booster for girls with no self-esteem. Like those Reddit thots who think she's doing you all a favor by posting naked pics for the guys she calls "Reddit masturbators".
[–]lonewolfsigmamgtow0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success
[–]Cestus_Saphrax0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or how about just don't give a fuck ? As a mgtow i don't care about this - no tinder or anything related. Why competing with chads, white knights or pussy thirsty idiots ?
Didn't we chose this way because we don't want this shit ?
[–]NoConsent20190 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hope the company behind Tinder goes broke. What a damage to the world it does by existing.
[–]Soldierbosh0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretend to be Saudi Prince. Offer money for Poopy Face.
Bet you'd kill it.
[–]TwistedRope0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Super glad I didn't have to deal with it back when I was dating.
I remember the days I used to use tinder - it was a good lesson in how to waste time
I gave tinder a try, had 4 matches over the course of 6 months, girls in my entourage can get up to 300+ in a month. The game is rigged boys xD
[–]LotBuilder-3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m good looking in the face, tall but a bit overweight. Like a retired NFL lineman look. I’m working on it. I do pretty well OLD because of height and face. I also keep it pretty humble. Girls don’t want to see pictures of you with fish, dead animals, Harley’s or cars. You can show off a boat but should be subtle about it. Pictures, dress, subtle signs of wealth... girls pick up on that stuff. Helps to have a cute dog and live in the right zip code. If you are not a complete chad with a 6 pack then it’s better to be a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Pretend to be a beta bux then pump and dump.
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