I'm 16 y/o from Brazil, and started learning about TRP about 2 weeks ago. I was as blue pill as it gets, bought things for my (female) friends, let them talk about their BS problems with me, helped them with math and chemistry (still do this sometimes, 'cause I'm something like their tutor, and I receive some money for doing that) and the other crap orbiters usually do.

After becoming a little more “enlightened” as to how things worked, I decided to try it out. I went to a party last saturday with some friends and a girl who says she likes me was there (she is one of the friends I mentioned before, I like her as well), I made out with her and later on I made out with one of her friends, which made her really jealous. I went to a place alone with her and started talking about it, she said that I can't (or shouldn't) do that because "You are mine, only mine" I was a little confused, and eventually ended up confessing my feelings for her, to which she replied "I dont know what I feel for you". Ignoring the BS response, I made out with her again.

After that day I've been trying to talk to her (like I used to) and she is acting like I'm some kind of stranger, as if nothing happened that night. It seems that after expressing my feelings for her she began trying to manipulate me, and before doing that I need to gain her respect (something i will make an effort to, even though she doesn’t deserve neither my attention or my respect).

She has been trying to manipulate me, saying things to make me sad because I am ignoring her and not giving as much attention as before. She's been saying things like "thanks for the consideration" or something like that.

So today, I didn't say anything to her ('cause she was acting like a bitch last night) and about 5 minutes ago she tried to talk to me like a normal person and I was as bitchy to her as she was to me.

What I’m trying to say is, don’t EVER express or even have fellings for a girl until she really respects you for the man you are. I know all this may be old advice, but I really needed this rant.

Anyway I'd like to thank all TRP community for their posts and all the good content, I’ve grown immensely since I started reading this and It has truly been a life changer, I hope things will only get better from now on.