I know we all have the a-b-c-f field reports, but I figured I would share a bit different of one.

Trying to see if I played this right, I think I did but interested to see the discourse.

Saturday night, San Francisco: Seems to be a higher than normal dude to girl ratio, but I have good looking female friend out with me and we are having a good time (She's an age adjusted 7, but a lot of fun but a bunch of baggage that made me friendzone her, still good dhv) we are bouncing around a few bars and end up at a rather nice one in a boutique hotel.

After meeting some people, having a few drinks, the call of nature happens. On the way to take care of the issue, I notice a decent girl sitting alone on a couch. My friend heads to the loo and I engage.

Playful banter, having her move her seat from the chair to the couch beside me, kino etc. things are going fine, mentions she lives about an hour away and is not staying in the city tonight (no SNL), but I hit a bump when she suggests going back into the loud bar to get a drink. I calmy say why don't we stay here and get to know each other better ( bar is loud, the couchs in the lobby are quiet) chat for a few more, and she says again let's get a drink. My friend is done, and motioning to head back in so I agree. We escalate kino, her arm around me as we push our way through the crowd at the bar. She asks me what I would like to drink, I order my simple usual (I keep the more complex stuff when I know the bartender or have time to order myself) while waiting for drinks she is very much up on me and enjoying it, nice interest and we seem to be having a good time. Bartender finishes the drinks, and say it will be $25. She turns and looks at me with the expectation for me to reach for my wallet, and I calmly explain, you invited me into the bar for a drink, why are you not paying?

She gives me a look that could be best described as a snarl, I do my best to keep a straight face as her whole world view collapses. She says then why did you bring me in here for a drink if you weren't paying? I simplely state, you invited me, I was always taught who does the inviting pays. I simply then say, maybe it is like that in your culture (she had said earlier she is American, but philipino and Mexican) why don't I just pay for mine and you pay for yours?

To this a get a look that is best described as disgusted shock, she turns on her heel and walks away leaving me with the 2 drinks.

I apologize to the bartender, explain that she invited, ordered and then expected me to pay for both. I pay for mine, and give him a tip close to the value of the wasted drink (I come here enough that I want to bartender to know I am not screwing him) and continue on with my night. I have a good time with the rest of the evening, and see her later with some guy that has paid for her drink(s), but she is clearly not interested, shooting daggers at me each time I pass.

This amuses me greatly.

Few things to keep in mind, my logistics for this night suck, live over an hour away, getting a hotel room in SF on a Saturday night is $200+ so a SNL unless the girl lives in SF is not going to happen. Best I was hoping for was a number and/or a kiss.

I have several other plates in the air so no big deal on this one, I just found it interesting to see what happens when you refuse to pay for a girls drink that she ordered and invited you for.

What should I have done different?

Tl;DR Girl gets pissed off and walks away when I don't pay for her drink after she invites me to come with her to the bar. This amuses me as her radiations are shocked that her looks aren't getting her expensive drinks for nothing.