Question for my MGTOW brothers who have been MGTOW for years now.

user_miki · 2019-06-30T00:59:43+00:00

Went from having crappy Internet in a rural location in the USA with 3 Megabit download / 0.768 Megabit upload for $60 / month (Verizon DSL) to moving to a place that offered 1000 Megabit Download / 1000 Megabit Upload for $70 /month. (Google Fiber)

Went from renting an apartment to living in a house

Went from having a car loan to having a car paid off.

Went from looking at pretty women with boyfriends and feeling jealous to not giving a fuck.

Went from worrying about hair loss / male pattern baldness every day to not giving a fuck.

Went from not knowing how to use power tools well to having a whole basement full of them.

Went from being depressed that I'm socially expected to date only women that aren't attractive any more, because of my age, to not giving a fuck.

Went from being stressed about how much I make every year and whether it would be sufficient to raise a family, to planning how I can retire 15-20 years early.

jackalhead · 2019-06-30T01:44:40+00:00

I have been MGTOW monk for 6 years now and it gets much easier. The loneliness completely faded away and I absolutely love spending time by myself. I got to the point when friends invite me out I prefer to decline and spend time alone. This is true freedom.

DannyTTT55 · 2019-06-30T01:19:46+00:00

I'm not super old, early 30s, but older than you so think I can comment

As time goes on I look after my health more and more, you should. There's no reason to go to clubs anymore and spend hundreds on overpriced drinks. Instead you can spend the money on high quality food

Out of my friends that are married, even the ones that are relatively happy are still stressed out and are getting fat with their wife or turning to drink

[deleted] · 2019-06-30T01:48:11+00:00

Take better care of myself now. Spend more money on myself now. Have more fun laughing at feminists now.

DREADC0RSAIR · 2019-06-30T02:36:06+00:00

I got traumatized by too many women at too young of an age, i was fed up at 17 and have been gmow since. I even went to prom alone even though 3 girls asked me.

The first 2 years made sense, i had options but knew why i was single.

3-4 years i felt that isolated feeling a little, went on a few dates, they were all either thots or sjws or crazy so it was a constant reminder

After 4 years i really just don't care anymore, i only hang out with women if they happen to be in the group I'm with.

If you ever feel lonely go hang out with your buddies and have a few beers. Maybe even flirt a little if you're bored, you don't have to go your own way you always have a choice. Just remember what you've learned and take it with you. Always do what's best for you and protect yourself.

You'll be fine

DangZagnut · 2019-06-30T03:53:48+00:00

I’ve never felt lonely and I’ve been MGTOW apparently since I was a kid. I just never found any sort of appeal in marriage or having a roommate where I pay for everything. Probably because my brother and I lived in the same room on bunk beds or something.

I just don’t get lonely for all that cohabitate stuff. I prefer my solitude. If I need social time around humans I can just go to the store or a bar or something.

As far as finances, I retired at 31, because I never pissed away money on marriage and babies and all that garbage. I mean I still could if I wanted as I own all my property and toys and don’t have debt and crap, which makes me very attractive to women, but it’s not like they know, I hide every bit of that from any social interactions.

I never had any issue with this because I never bought into the bullshit in the first place. No “rage” no loneliness. Just...never came up.

I think when men are young they should absolutely have a MGTOW solution, you can always change your mind, but you’re setting a life foundation now, and pissing your entire future and wealth away on thots just seems stupid to me.

p3p3_sylvia · 2019-06-30T02:26:47+00:00

I have a good friend that has fully embraced it a few years ago. He became super outdoorsy. He lives out in Utah (US) and is always outside doing something cool. He hikes, bikes, panels, skis, does marathons, is constantly signing up for events and races, joined a group of people that mountain bikes, and had developed a good group of friends to do cool shit with song the way. Right now, he’s working on getting his pilot’s license.

WRS13 · 2019-06-30T03:47:20+00:00

Today I realize that I'm smiling a lot more, after discovering that there were so many people who thought like me.
GYOW, your happiness depends only on you.

[deleted] · 2019-06-30T00:47:50+00:00

When i got over the anger that i will never have the family I want i was able to excel in many areas. As I excel in other areas, i got angry again when wanted to try a sex-only relationship and I discovered that women will fuck around with random dudes, but hold me to the hire standards of expensive dates and commitment.

This is only if you want to get laid and be gone. After about 4 years I wanted to have some sex again, but it was not worth it.

TLDR: Dont let women know how well off you are if you just want to get laid and be done with her. She will demand a higher price from you because you can afford it.

atheos42 · 2019-06-30T04:25:59+00:00

MGTOW over 10 years, going great so far.

six-twosix · 2019-06-30T06:37:19+00:00

Surround yourself with bros, maybe get a dog, adopt a kid or better yet, be a father figure or a big brother to a kid (preferably male unless you want to go to jail) in your neighborhood, you'd be surprised how many young boys are depressed... I'm sure that'll help with the loneliness.

Tonyb33 · 2019-06-30T07:42:52+00:00

Be very careful you are currently going through a very dangerous age. Within months you will find yourself going to weddings almost every month as you work colleagues and school friends hit that 25-32 danger zone where they suddenly pair up like lemmings and leap into marriage.

Does it get easier oh yes. You see you have not suffered yet so you have nothing to compare yourself to. To wake up peacefully to have the whole day to do the things you want to do, to be able to think clearly instead of the constant drone of a woman manipulating you to do what she wants (and what she desperately needs today and you provide for her with blood sweat and toil may have to be dumped tomorrow because she has changed her mind and her cost of acquisition was zero). To be able to have peace and clarity to work on your own body’s needs, rather than get up to a list of chores and a never ending list of wants. Imagine dealing with a woman who is criticising you for not doing job b because you are trying to do job a (a job that she has forgotten she tasked you with and does not realise how big and long the job takes and feels it’s your fault for not completing it within her timeframe).

I am now in my fifties I was speaking to a good friend on a sunny Friday night, I was out with friends having a cold one, it was 7pm my friend was still in the office and would be so for sometime followed by a long commute, I could actually see him actually dying before my eyes. Going home to a shapeless wife and unending chores.

Enjoy every day of your freedom

Title	Question for my MGTOW brothers who have been MGTOW for years now.
Author	YeezyFishsticks
Upvotes	29
Comments	22
Date	June 30, 2019 12:36 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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