Sex with an Ex that cheated on me. Am I being a fucking idiot or am I just playing a game with her?

turok281 · 2017-06-18T19:32:14+00:00

If i were you i would try to push how much i could get from her. Push for anal, threesomes, you name it. The more you degrade the bitch, the more used she will feel when you end things. Also, i suggest you record everything, just in case.

whatsthisgarg · 2017-06-18T19:29:45+00:00

You know to not catch feelings for a cheater, should be easy enough.

You also know that she is not going to go gentle into that good night when it's clear you're moving on LOL, she is going to rage on your ass. It could get ugly.

Here's a good tip from the golden era of TRP circa 2014 for breaking up. It requires you to put your pride completely away:

Get emotional, tell her your greatest fears, talk about your weaknesses, cry if you have to. She will never bother you again.

Omnibrad · 2017-06-18T19:34:14+00:00

I was drunk and ended up having crazy, hate sex wth her (let me tell you, if you don't know, hate sex is the best). About a week later she knocks on my door late at night. We fucked again.

The Offspring wrote a song about this.

"I may be dumb but I'm not a dweeb, I'm just a sucker with no self-esteem."

bluesbruin3 · 2017-06-18T19:11:16+00:00

(disclaimer) skipped most if the text. May read later and change my answer, but I doubt it will be needed.

ask yourself do I have feelings for this girl?

If yes, you're setting yourself up for failure.

If no, you're fine, but I suggest you ween yourself from her pussy starting now.

Edit: as I thought. You're fine. But find another source for sex asap. And be prepared for when she flips on you. She will feel used and want to strike back.

May even use a certain R word

thewrecker8 · 2017-06-18T19:51:31+00:00

Imo there's two schools of thought choose whichever you prefer.

I'm the prize you had me, you fucked up and you want to feel me again. Fuck you, you had your chance you threw it away there's plenty other pussies besides yours to wet my dick, have a good life.
You're a whore and I'm going to treat you like one. I'm going to use whatever holes I can/choose for my personal pleasure and when I'm done you're of no use to me until I need to be relieved again. I wouldn't even exert myself in making sure she gets off. She fucked you up who gives a shit if she gets off? For all you know she could've had some other guys dick in her before you so why do things like oral on her. She's just there to be your cum rag.

_the_shape_ · 2017-06-18T19:39:39+00:00

if I'm being honest, she's a smokeshow and the sex is better than what the other girls have been like.

And you must be honest with yourself, lest you perish by the fire of your own base cravings. Your understanding of how the game works is competing against the powers of sizzling pussy. Dry, lifeless text is no match against a round ass, a pair of perky tits, and a wet, tight vagina aching to be mercilessly drilled by you. Do I really have to tell you which is bound to win out in the end if this persists?

OGlancellannister · 2017-06-18T19:18:58+00:00

The other guy's right. You're good so long as you don't catch a bad case of feelings. I've done this before though, and odds are she will be angry AF when the conversation of getting back together can no longer be avoided and you tell her no. "You used me for sex for all this time?!?!!? blah blah blah, hamster, hamster, hamster." So yeah be prepared for that one.

It would be in your best interest to find another girl who rocks it in the sack, and slowly let the sex between you dwindle as you ghost her. Diffuse the ticking time bomb, so to speak.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-06-18T23:54:58+00:00

First, this belongs in askTRP.

Second, exes are exes for a reason. Most guys can't handle plating an ex because they suck at not catching feels. Also, exes come with DRAMA which will drown you if you let it. And yeah, it's fun to think abt how you're going to get her to do anal and threeways now, but she will know how to push your buttons, so usually this sort of thing ends badly, but hey, if you want to, go ahead. We'll be here for you when shit goes south.

grandaddychimp · 2017-06-18T22:25:15+00:00

She's going to get pregnant accuse you of being the father

awayofthought · 2017-06-19T01:39:13+00:00

I don't know how you even stand having sex with her from self-respect point of view. This woman that you were in a relationship with, took advantage of you and cheated on you with another man.

You are still rewarding her. You think you are stringing her along, but you are also putting yourself in jeopardy of falling for her again and truly fucking yourself over.

Stop going down the easy route and get better, saner pussy.

PillDragon · 2017-06-18T20:21:19+00:00

Don't next her if you're 100% sure you don't have feelings for her. If you're used to spinning plates keep her in the rotation.

I've been in your place. Dated my high schools crazy hot chick (Call her CE) for literally a week before ending it with her explicitly by mentioning that I'm not in love with her. Brutal, tears, screaming all that. Stood my ground. Within a couple of weeks I was going to her place for sex. Sometimes I'd go there directly from a plates (call her CP) dorm. Both girls knew of each other, neither was thrilled about it but this brought the best out of both of them. I swear it turned into a form of hickey competition, like who could make the bigger bruise on my neck.

Note that this was in my freshman year of college, me and the crazy ex stayed in the same city we went to high school at.

The pre-selection benefits were enormous. Guys saw me with 2 hot chicks at clubs or even in college (CP was studying with me, CE would often come around for a hookup) and the envy was palpable. The girls definitely picked up on it as well.

They don't need to know the details. That CP was generic as fuck and her humor was sourced from Internet memes. That CE had REAL daddy issues and sometimes genuinely scared me with how out of control she could get.

What they saw is an average looking, albeit tall and bulky, guy clearly stringing along two hot chicks, whilst at the same time bantering with other babies like only a man who's single can. Basically they saw me as a high value man. All of this because I harnessed my crazy ex.

DeathToTheZog · 2017-06-18T22:26:50+00:00

Dangerous. I would not plate any ex, but thats just me personally.

[deleted] · 2017-06-19T00:00:06+00:00

For me, the 2 biggest factors re sex with an ex will always be:

do you still like her? If yes, don't hook up
is she a fucking nut case? If yes, again - don't hook up

RedMoonAscendant · 2017-06-19T00:55:23+00:00

Whatever. A man needs release. I think a cheating ex is a great thing for that. I did it myself for a while. Sex was 10x better when she knew she was being used as a cumbucket.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-06-19T01:06:56+00:00

I was faithful while she was abroad and that was not easy at all for me to do but I did it. Meanwhile she was fucking some asshole she would never see again

The simple answer is to just stop with this concept of being faithful at the level you are at.

Women are trained like dogs.

A faithful dog obeys because it sees you as it's master.

Are you faithful to your dog?

No... the idea doesn't even make any sense because you are the master of the dog.

If a woman is faithful it's because you have become her master.

Go with that idea... men should never declare themselves "faithful" because all the meaning of that is covered by Child Support laws. If you get a girl pregnant you must by law be faithful in making those regular child support payments.

It's no longer necessary to get married or make a promise to women... the law has it covered.

She's the one that must prove herself and make all the promises. (promises which she will break of course)

Docbear64 · 2017-06-19T04:56:01+00:00

To each their own but I feel like fucking an ex is like playing with fire. At first it's easy to keep it just fucking but all it takes is one of those "strolls " down memory lane and all of a sudden your ( or I know my) perspective gets fucked up . "Maybe things weren't that bad", "we had some good times together too " and before you know it you're considering reliving something you already experienced . What happens if the fucking goes good and she tells you about fucking another guy AGAIN ?

I get wanting to fuck a hot freak but the moment that " ex" title pops up I say proceed with caution there's a reason you left them and there's a reason a part of you is telling you to stay away .

Only thing worse than feeling like an idiot once is feeling like an idiot the second time from the same damn thing. Good luck .

LordThunderbolt · 2017-06-19T02:05:15+00:00

It's too late now anyways. You already threw your self respect and dignity out of the window when you decided it was a good idea to put your dick back in that disrespectful cheating pile of wet sewage trash of an ex-gf. Give her another chance and this time marry her and get her pregnant as well.

Title	Sex with an Ex that cheated on me. Am I being a fucking idiot or am I just playing a game with her?
Author	bluesbruin3
Upvotes	15
Comments	36
Date	June 18, 2017 7:03 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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