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[–]keystonerrt65 points66 points67 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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First of all, your dad is an idiot. Don't take legal advice from him.
Second of all, talk to an actual lawyer and take it to court.
This is why the stats on women beating men aren't higher, because for reasons like this men don't report it. They get told by other stupid people not to report it for [insert retarded reason here].
I made a mistake once in my life when i didn't press charges on a woman who grabbed me by the throat and threatened to kill me. I will never make that mistake again and I have regretted not pressing charges ever since. Someone advised me at the time that I should not press charges and "let it all go so it goes away quicker...". The woman who assaulted me, did not let this go. She actually later made accusations against me.
Then I was in the unfortunate position of defending myself, and the courts asked me for evidence of previous domestic violence offenses. My inane previous decision to not press charges bit me in the ass when the courts asked "If it was serious, why didn't you press charges?".
Proceed to press charges immediately and see a lawyer. Don't be an idiot like I was.
[–]CHarleq4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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I want to get her offenses on record. An offense has been committed upon me and I'm seeking financial compensation. This won't require me to communicate with her
[–]CHarleq4 points5 points6 points (8 children) | Copy Link
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Please explain how they could "bury me in legal costs"
I have extensive evidence of some serious offenses. An officer told me she can be arrested for battery on my call
[–]CHarleq1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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For starters they don't just have a lawyer on call. They would retain one after she's been apprehended and it wouldn't be cheap. I do not believe I will need to take out a second mortgage should I pursue charges against my actual legal assailant. This girl's mom is quick to blame princess, and is scared of fucking with us anymore. I already sent an official cease and desist letter threatening legal action against them if she keeps contacting my family and I. I can actually prove that her allegations are totally false.
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[+][deleted] [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Yep. My only concern is retaliation
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Yes
[–]iseehot1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
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I don't have that kind of money. I'm fighting the case on my own.
[–]iseehot1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
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No I won't. I'm the victim of quite a few criminal offenses here.
[–]iseehot1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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How much $ should I seek?
[–]SMAN9e7ee7770 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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What am I wishing for?
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[–]Dodge45250 points1 point2 points (11 children) | Copy Link
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I'M DOING IT
[–]Dodge45250 points1 point2 points (9 children) | Copy Link
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I've already won. I'm pressing criminal charges. There is hardcore evidence that she is guilty of battery. She won't beat that charge.
[–]Dodge45250 points1 point2 points (7 children) | Copy Link
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It wouldn't work lol. I don't have to flee the country based on a mere allegation
[–]Dodge45250 points1 point2 points (5 children) | Copy Link
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Not trying to be rude, but that's bullshit. This isn't civil/family court. This is criminal court in which a criminal, although female, has factually committed a crime and will face the consequences prescribed by the judge
[–]Dodge45250 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
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Yes
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[–]X___III___X0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
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Restitution is set n' debt upon conviction. Most likely looking at a few hundred bucks.
If I sue her and win the case, or if she settles, then that's another story. 5-20k
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