I'll probably get banned for this lol but fuck it. I just found this sub recently and have been scrolling through LMAO. But I feel like if someone wanted to argue if toxic masculinity is a real thing... one could definitely find it here lol
Concerning GYOW, I fully understand this methodology to life. A few years ago I started my own GYOW journey without realising it, after someone said 'if guys focused on anything as much as they do on women, they'd be rich!' ...I tried it and it sure fucking worked. Start my own business and made a lot of money. Funnily enough, I got a girlfriend when I thought I needed some human side to my life, and it 100% slowed down the money but I learnt A LOT. I never had a GF before, because I felt I wasn't good enough to be with the 8+ girls I liked, as I was basically broke living with my parents. But now I understand I am the prize and tbh any girl would be lucky to be with me. But that being said I have no resentment to women who want guys with money. It just makes things so much easier lol, I just can't blame them. I would hate to date broke me, but rich me is lit! (FYI I'm not rich)
BUT YES! I have learnt this generation of women definitely can be a lot to deal with. They have conflicting views, want equality but don't want responsibility, cry about men, yet flock to the kind of men they actually know are 'trash', they have a sense of entitlement and really don't give 2 shits about the struggle men have... HOWEVER!
Women bare children. Because of this simple fact, the rules we play by are just not the same. They need to put themselves in the best situation for someone else to take care of them. Financially maybe, but not just money, care, love, mental health all of that stuff. I saw a comment that said women have no honour or loyalty... technically they 'don't' but this not what they are programmed for. Loyalty and honour are things that really concern and favour men, as we need to establish who is our enemies or allies are to build our social circles, to fulfil our purpose. Women don't need this. Sometimes I try to take things back as to the primal. Women's biological purpose is to bare children, and they have a clock that runs out. A clock for their beauty, a clock for their ability to bare children, essentially a clock for their purpose. (Disclaimer NOT ALL WOMEN But the majority.) This means they need to figure out who is best for them to mate with and they need to do it fast! In the first 3rd of their life. A time when they are also learning about the world around them and how to manoeuvre. A world where it's not safe and there are much more dangers to them than men. They need to figure this out ASAP so anything that makes it easier they'll do it. If that means attraction to the alpha male, because he's showing all the signs of being a good mate, someone that can protect and provide, that's what they will do. Stop crying about it. Also bare in mind financial peak for men is in our 40's, the whole, she left me when I was broke but wants me now I've got money, story is just old, get over it. You're not the first and won't be the last. This isn't an excuse for women's behaviour it's just the truth.
I also want to throw out there that birth control is an absolute scam. I can't speak for you but there is no way in hell I would pump any kind of hormones into my body, let alone for such a long time, but so many women have been on birth control since teens... Let's list some of the side effects.
- nausea
- breast tenderness
- headaches and migraines
- weight gain
- mood changes
- missed periods
- decreased libido
- increased libido
- vaginal discharge
- changes to eyesight for those using contact lenses
I don't know about you but this shit would turn me crazy.. and lets not even get on to periods.
Fellas being a woman isn't easy. Let go of the resentment and let's not forget how beautiful and sexy they are, how they can smell good, they really can improve your life and can make you feel good about yourself. Let's not forget about how they care for our children and how our mothers who probably went with our alpha male dads treated some shumck in a way he probably got butthurt about lol.
In this age of feminism and the me-too movement, we need to remember this is the first generation of women born into having equal rights, so there might be some growing pains and a power struggle. So yeah, Call out women for being shitty, don't let them boss you around or devalue you or your time, don't pay for dates unless you either don't care about that shit or you know she's bringing something tangible to the table and don't forget to have fun with them, but don't let them steer you off your path of personal growth!
This has been a public service announcement, please don't ban me.
P.S Oh and err... Marriage is a scam, don't do that shit. at least till they change the laws.
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