Where Are All The Good Women?

This question serves as a counter-argument to the question single mothers love asking: “Where Are All The Good Men?”

How about me? Am I supposed to be a good man to you, yet you can be a mediocre/below average woman in return, with your misbehaved kids from a deadbeat dad as your thanks to me?

Growing up, I was told by my parents to work hard in school, be faithful, never do drugs, and remain a virgin. I was promised that after doing all this and establishing my career, I would immediately find a faithful, hardworking, virgin woman as well to have beautiful children with.

So I took my parent’s advice and did all these things. I never participated in the hook-up culture, brought home good grades, and never used alcohol/drugs as an escape. I also worked out a little bit in college so I’d be in good shape when it was time to find a partner. I was pretty much the stereotypical guy that girls’ dads would love to meet.

Fast forward to my final year at college. I’ve almost got my degree, and I’m ready to work for a sustainable and profitable company. I never attended a party and never had relationships with those who did, as I have been red-pilled already. But I still believed I’d find my perfect woman, right?

Nah. The women of my own culture are still young enough to be attending parties and getting laid by the “bad boys,” who use them as dumpsters. In fact, this was true for every woman that was around my age, I had never just looked at the big picture. I was one of the very few that worked hard and ignored personal pleasure while everybody around me was making poor decisions.

Well, maybe the good women are on dating sites? Not at all. These sites are infested with overweight women in their late 20s and 30s who keep crying “Where Are All The Good Men?” while demanding that their man be tall enough and rich enough to spoil them and support their children. I quickly realized that there seemed to be only two types of women: those who were still young and promiscuous, and those who were desperate for a provider of them and their children.

I had to ask myself, after seeing the whole dating landscape before my eyes: What have these women done to deserve me? I worked hard and did almost everything right, while they were never loyal to one man and had kids with one, sometimes several morons.

Do you just expect me to saddle up, be a “good” man and give all my hard-earned resources to you, in exchange for children that aren’t mine and a woman with a little bit of college education at best? What about me and my desires, do they matter, or am I supposed to only be a subservient slave to your wants and demands?

You want the fairytale nuclear family treatment without providing anything substantial to the man in return, just face it. I don’t want your children and your baggage. I may be many things in life, but I sure as hell am not a cuckold that will raise your children and give you my weekly paycheck while you’re still fantasizing over the deadbeats from your youth.

“Where Are All The Good Men?” I was a good man. I still believed in the traditional family. But I think I’ve seen enough and lived long enough to become the villain; the same exact men that you fell for in your youth but could never get to commit to you. Your poor decisions have caught up to you. Now it’s time to accept the reality that you don’t deserve a good man.