Any Amazing Breakup Stories with Women

shamelesfurfag · 2017-09-11T07:00:01+00:00

If you have sex with animals, they never break up with you

d4ng3rz0n3 · 2017-09-11T16:26:19+00:00

When I was 20/21 I met up my girlfriend at the time in a park during the day. I knew she was going to dump me then. I felt like I loved her so I was pretty upset about it.

Afterwards when I was walking back to my office, I ran into a buddy of mine in the street. He said, "Radioactiveman! It's Wild Wednesdays at (XYZ private club he was a member of)!"

I joined him and we had a great time drinking, eating free food, and socializing at this really nice old world club.

After he left I ended up going to a hotel bar nearby and had a drink there. There was a ridiculously hot woman at the bar getting hit on by 2 guys buying her drinks. I hung out for a bit and stepped outside to leave about an hour later. That woman was there smoking a cigarette so I approached her and asked for one. (I dont smoke but I used this as a reason to speak to her).

We ended up going to 2 other bars then back to the same hotel bar where she also happened to be staying.

She was a model in town from LA who had been in Playboy. She had the huge fake tits and they were great in my hands/mouth.

I had never gotten over a girlfriend so quickly or directly.

IDGAFMentality · 2017-09-11T16:59:30+00:00

This is my story, in the form of a post I made on AskTRP a few days ago.

Story: This is my first ever post here. I found TRP a few months ago and have been lurking ever since and helping others when I can, but finally feel the need to construct a post and seek advice for what I'm dealing with. I would greatly appreciate any advice any of you are willing to share. This community has given me a new outlook on life, and I am very grateful to be able to even post this and have members of the community provide their valuable insight. To start off, I'm depressed. I don't have any shame in admitting that, and to anyone else battling depression, I know the struggle and am here for you. I've always been depressed, but this summer is when things went downhill, leading me to seek therapy and start taking antidepressants. I feel that a major source of my depression occurred from my relationship with my ex girlfriend, which I'll elaborate on in a bit.

So, my relationship. I should preface this by saying this was my first ever relationship, before I found TRP, and will be exceedingly cringey to read. But alas, we all make mistakes, better to learn from then than to remain oblivious. My relationship started around Thanksgiving my senior year of high school. I am currently a Freshman in college. During my relationship, I was the King of the Betas. I'm not exaggerating, I would do everything for my ex. From doing her hw, making her soup when she was sick, driving her to school and home every day, carrying her to bed when she fell asleep, reminding her to do assignments, singing her to sleep on facetime, comforting her when she was sad, going over to her house because she didn't want to have to drive to mine, giving her gifts and my affection in the form of paintings and poems and jewelry and even a fucking trip to Hawaii (I'm an idiot).

Essentially, I did everything for this girl. I was the reason she didn't fail senior year. I was the reason she was even staying afloat. And in doing that, I gave her everything I could, and stopped taking care of myself.

Now, the red flags. God, if reading that didn't make you cringe get fucking ready. The first red flag came even before the relationship began. The first time we hung out was a Thursday. We met up for ice cream and just talked. It was a quick little meet up, but we still had a connection. The next night, we hung out again, this time with more friends. To my surprise, she completely ignored me, choosing to talk to another guy I'll call Chad ;) instead. We were all in Chad's car, with her and I in the backseat. I tried to escalate things, but she flat out ignored me. I ended up leaving, only to hear she hooked up with Chad in his car later that night. I should've ran when I had the chance. But like an idiot, I stayed. Later that night she told me she had feelings for me, and she didn't know why she hooked up with Chad. That led to a two week ordeal where she chose between Chad and me, where she finally picked me.

Next, she was severely depressed. During our relationship she would get angry if I flirted with her or tried to initiate sex. At the beginning, everything was fine. But after the honeymoon phase, I was lucky if we had sex every two weeks to a month. She began to refuse to give blow jobs, didn't want anything other than vanilla sex, and began to get very emotional. Sometimes she would get anxious during our sex and have to stop, or get mad at me and we would just go to sleep. This caused me to lose all of my self esteem, so I was miserable and sex deprived. However, despite not wanting sex, this girl flirted with everyone. During our turnabout, she sat on a guy's lap right in front of me, during slow dances at Prom she danced with other guys in our group other than me who didn't have dates because she felt bad for them, leaving me alone, and showing me pictures of her ex and his six pack asking me why I couldn't get one. Basically, she was a bitch. Don't ask me why I loved her.

I could vent for hours about all the shit she did, and believe me I didn't cover it all, but you all get the picture. So fast forward to this summer. I am depressed because I give everything for her and don't do fuck all for myself, and am really struggling. She knows I'm depressed, but really doesn't care too much. On Fourth of July, I'm having a really bad day, and ask her to come spend the day with me, as she doesn't have family plans. She initially agrees, but then cancels because "my plans weren't interesting enough." I told her I was really struggling, and she told me we would hang out the next day. I was stunned. The girl I helped in her darkest hour, did everything for, and gave my heart to, turned her back on me in my own. I went to sleep crying and alone, contemplating suicide. I get a call at 3am. It's her. She is drunk in the city, having gone down to an apartment with two boys alone. So she doesn't have time to comfort her boyfriend, but she can get drunk and possibly (never found out for sure) hook up with some dudes. I was heartbroken. Nevertheless, I forgave her. I said goodnight and we agreed to hang out the next day.

The next day comes around, and she is supposed to text me at 11am. She texts me at 6pm, after I finally call her mom and friends, thinking she had been in an accident or something. She "forgot" to tell me she had to go back to Chicago to get her phone which she forgot, and was gone the whole day. She then proceeded to bash me for being so worried about her and claimed I had too high of expectations for her. I was done. I broke it of then and there. Of course, that wasn't the last of her. We tried to be friends, and remained in touch. I told her how I was doing. She thought it would be cool to tell me about all the Tinder dates she was going on. I said fuck it and went no contact. Then the shit started flying. Pictures of me and her on Instagram with me cropped out. Captions like "Come give your girl a kiss if you see her". Shit to make me mad. I remained stoic, blocking her on snapchat, where she posted raunchy photos and more pictures designed to agitate me. She started posting on her Instagram story instead. I blocked her on that, she switched to the Facebook story. Trust me, no one uses the Facebook story. A few weeks ago, she sent me a facebook friend request. I texted her asking why, as I had blocked her on that already. She said that if I was going to hang out with her friends (my friends she knew) I owed her a friend request and cutting her out of my life wasn't very cool. This was after I had found TRP, so I treated her like the child that she is, and she apologized real quick.

My problem is that my ex goes to the same college as me, and I run into/think I run into her very frequently. She is a small Asian girl, and there are hundreds of girls that look similar to her at my college, which is a very large public university. In addition to struggling to move on and stop thinking about her, I am paranoid about seeing her every day, and have several times throughout he day where I think I see her. It is making me exceedingly anxious, and as someone who already battles depression this is killing me.

How can I stop thinking about my ex and move on with my life? And how can I stop being so paranoid about seeing her? This problem is fucking with my head right now and I've exhausted my options at this point, and seem to be making no progress. I would appreciate any insight you guys may have, and than you for listening to my story. For all of the insights I have gained from TRP pertaining to situations like this, I still feel lost and lacking in the proper mindset to tackle this issue.

TL;DR I am depressed and broke up with my ex who treated me like shit, only to continue thinking about her and struggle to avoid paranoia about seeing her in public

If you guys have any questions about my story feel free to ask away, I hope my experiences can help others learn and avoid the same mistakes I did.

usedsparingly · 2017-09-12T00:06:35+00:00

I took out a restraining order on my ex so she fucked all my thirsty ass friends and got pumped and dumped and they all took my sloppy seconds.

That bitch a druggy hoe now. Come to think of it, all my exes started doing drugs after I broke up with them.

Hmm. Gotta think on that a bit.

[deleted] · 2017-09-11T19:24:16+00:00

When I was 25, I had a casual relationship with a girl, and she was trying to get me to move two hundred miles to be with her. Although she was incredibly hot, and we got along incredibly well, I didn't think it would be good for my career.

Basically I felt like I was at a point in my life where my career was taking off, and moving for her would put an end to that.

I spent the next ten years getting my shit together and I did a LOT of dating. I went on more dates in 2008 than the ten years that preceded it. I was like a kid in a candy store.

After a ten year hiatus, we re-kindled our relationship and we got married. Every once in a while my wife will bemoan the fact that we were apart for ten years. But IMHO, the entire reason that our relationship is amazingly fabulous is because I spent ten years doing two things:

1) making money

2) dating

Basically I have a higher value to her because I put my career before her when I was 25. And I don't feel like I need to fuck every girl in site because I spent ten years focused on that.

sadomasochrist · 2017-09-11T14:28:31+00:00

All I know is it feels good to have women you've cast off come back to you, get caught stalking your facebook etc. Let's you know you're doing things right.

If you feel the need to have "an amazing breakup" then they still have a ton of power over you.

When you can't wait to be out on your own, out of the reality distortion field that's when you've finally won the war. Literally the only reason I'm still in an LTR is kids, fucking 1-3 times a day and I can get play on the side.

Even then I still know in my heart of hearts I want to be out on my own.

The notion that you can either love women, or understand them, for me has unfortunately been true. I definitely miss to a certain degree being codependent and naive. Remember what it was like to fantasize about women in such an infantile way.

To know being a good father is not attractive was a huge blow to any lingering attachment I had.

Long story short, you have a long way to go, friend.

kez88 · 2017-09-11T06:53:53+00:00

Why? So you can feel better about being superior to them or something? Who cares.

max_peenor · 2017-09-11T16:14:23+00:00

At least fucking share your own in the post.

tibikush2012 · 2017-09-11T16:46:32+00:00

I left my ex girlfriend 2 year ago.

Entropy-7 · 2017-09-11T12:49:53+00:00

Amazing-good or amazing-bad?

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