Dear Red Pillers, I have been quiet for some time, having made the decision to a little less reading and a little more application in my life of RP principles. However, I have recently had the opportunity to watch some rather conniving shit go down. And like in many conspiracy movies out there, when I, for myself, tried to uncover some truth, for the sake of my own sanity, I was blown away at how wired the system was to shut me the fuck up.

Before I get into the details, allow me to say that yes, my vulnerability to this situation has been a loss of frame in some respects. But if any of you out there have ever dealt with a true to blood narcissist, you will understand that they have a way of insidiously leaching their shit into your life, to a point where you start to notice that weird and shitty glances are being shot your way, from people who were basically your friends in the not too recent past. A covert narcissist will spend an inordinate of time and effort breaking your world down around you, in order to create a climate that is ultimately conducive to their fucking dysfunction. Also, I need to clarify, that this particular brand of narcissism of which I speak, is really, in my own opinion not akin to the kind of dark triad personality trait that is so often lauded here is TRP. True covert NPD represents overcompensation for many perceived and real shortcomings of the individual that is afflicted. In reality, the individual afflicted is anything but RED, and given that the individual in question is a woman, perhaps that is a point that is only partially relevant.

I have been living with a woman, for almost a year at this point. She is a recently acquired flat mate, let’s call her Wendy, who moved in after my last flat mate (also a woman) left. I know her through a bigger group of friends, and when my last flat mate moved out she expressed interest in living with me. Her boyfriend is an acquaintance of mine, though I would not say that we are friends. I have been into TRP for almost 4 years now, and I would say that the last 2 have been amazing years. Though up until recently, I was still holding onto the idea of marriage and kids, but what I have experienced recently has really made me question that. When she moved in in October last year, the first few months were great. You’re always gonna get shit tests, but I held frame, threw in a little blue to keep her comfortable, and life went on well. I found that this combo worked well for my previous flat mate as well.

So, Wendy has a long distance relationship, with the dude named James. He lives a few thousand miles away, six foot two, managing director for his local branch of a research group. Good looking, high earning, and beta as fuck. I also found out, through a mutual friend that James had previously been married, and that she had basically systematically broken down their marriage. Based on what I have heard, she went to enormous lengths to paint the guys ex-wife as a crazy abusive piece of shit. By the time the affair started, and he was motioning to leave his wife, the people in their group of friends (chicks and beta fucks) were basically encouraging him to do so……. leave that crazy bitch, go find true happiness. I now know that the reality was the complete opposite. His ex was about as good a woman as can be expected, given what we know about women anyway. His second child was only 6 months old when the affair started. Now I understand that sexual strategy is amoral, but jesus fuck, I have a particular dislike for those who fuck with the well-being of young families. So, Wendy is quite pretty, HB7 without makeup, HB8+ with make-up, good outfit etc. Guys hit on her all the time, coming over, buying her shit, taking her on trips. She fucks none of them. Not fucking one. Not fucking a single one. Until recently. She met and became friends with a doctor, and he eventually became her doctor, prescribing meds and all kinds of shit. Has his own practices, beta as fuuuuuuuuuuuuck. Has a wife, two kids, one of which is recently turned one years old.

Now this is kinda where I fucked up. After a few weeks of James coming around, I expressed my concern. It was something along the lines of…………”You are almost done with your professional degree, in a few months you will have the world at your feet, not to mention that there are tons of single guys after you. Why would you go after this dude? And fuck, what about James back home, who left his wife and kids for you?”. In the moment that I said that I could see her mood shift. From the next day onwards, her energy toward me had completely shifted. Nothing has been the same since. But it gets worst. I left for a few months to undertake a course at a nearby institution, and was gone for 3 months. When I came back, I got the full on, full blown insanity treatment. I was met with extreme disregard, and for a short while I was under the impression that she had slipped into a depressive episode. Which was also true, but only part of the bigger story.

In the time that I was gone, Wendy had gone into full attack mode, to lock down this new doctor. Blowjobs in the car, anal sex, the whole fucking deal. Yes, I have been eavesdropping for the last few weeks, out of sheer curiosity and disgust. At the same time she is stonewalling her current boyfriend James, and is preparing to break up with him. Only, she is not breaking up with him directly, she is simultaneously engaging in a campaign of painting him as an abusive cunt, whilst saying things to him to piss him off. When things end, they will end very badly for James. He will defend himself, calling out Wendy for her bullshit, only by then Wendy will have prepped a mob of SJW’s to defend her when this happens. The reason for my eavesdropping, is because, having arrived home to such a clusterfuck of a household, I was worried. Also, because a mutual acquaintance approached me, concerned, that I had been “Treating Wendy like a piece of shit, and that I better think carefully about what I am doing.”. I don’t think Wendy wanted him to talk to me, but he was white knighting, for whatever reason I don’t know. A little more careful digging and I find out that she was also building a wall of bullshit aimed at me. Creating a conducive atmosphere for when she finally manages to separate this doctor dude from his wife and kids.

Did I mention that I have only 6 month left on my program, and pretty soon I’m gonna be the fuck out of here. Just need to make it through the next six months.

Anyway, so I have spent the last few weeks, gathering any and all evidence that I can, and I have collected quite a fuckload. I have also compiled a statement, together with some evidence, and I have left this with the in house HR shrink (who is bound by confidentiality) and another copy with program manager whom I report to in my study program. I have sought professional advice on doing this, to make sure my bases are covered, so no worries here, I am good. In the event anything comes my way, I am prepared to nuke all kingdom come from high heaven, and to do so through official channels. I have also since changed my stance on the whole doctor thing, I encourage her to follow her “heart”, and have suggested double dates and such. The last while has been okay, in a practical living sense.

And then last week this happened…

Two weeks ago, she started receiving threatening anonymous emails and phone calls. And not random, stupid, emails and phone calls, I gather by how things are going that someone is engaging in a systematic program of annihilation against her, with evidence. It seems to be designed to expose her. She is melting the fuck down, and has even asked me for help (She of course states that these are completely unrelated to Dr guy). Which, ironically has made my living life a whole lot better. It is pissing her the fuck off and it is a pleasure for me to watch.

But do you think she has stopped…………no completely the opposite. She is doubling down on her efforts to branch swing. I suspect this is going to get nasty.

I got my end covered, so I’m good…….if I need to I can move out in a moment.

Just gonna sit back and watch the show.

The best part, is that Wendy is a professional social worker who spends her days advocating for the rights of mothers and children.