You managed to fuck her, didn't creep her out, and possibly got her number too. Well done. What next? This is for when a one-night-stand turns into a short-term relationship. This is for when you actually want more of her. How do you keep her coming back for more?

  • Fuck her hard. Screaming and clawing and gasping for breath hard. Best way to get a girl's attention. Even the highest n-counters rarely get a man who fucks with wild abandon. Do this well and you won't need to learn how to eat her out, bondage, toys, &c. I've made girls cum harder and faster by plain missionary fucking them than any amount of pre-RP cunnilingus could achieve.

  • Control her physically during sex. Drag her to the wall and push her against it. Throw her onto the bed. Push her head down. Turn it to the side. Pull her hair. Hold her arms down. Bite her neck (don't bruise it unless she's said it's ok). Cover her mouth while fucking her. Lift her chin up while she's sucking you off. Grab her head and push it onto your cock. Some of this is second fuck and beyond only unless you like risking rape allegations.

  • Be excited to see her. This involves actual abundance. You'll get bored of fucking each other eventually. If you're fucking her because there's no one else, go out more and land someone. When you call her over, it's because you want to tear her clothes off and fuck her brains out the moment you lay eyes on her. This means for me not seeing any one girl more than twice a week.

  • Don't get hung up on mutual pleasure. It works differently for girls. If they're attracted to you, it's exciting for them to suck you off and swallow. They enjoy it. Ever wondered if you should get them off? Quash that thought. They get off by pleasing you.

  • Sexualize her. You want her, you want to fuck her. That is what gets girls off in their minds. What gets them off physically, well, you'll learn. Keep most, if not all, of your interactions with her sexual. Always tease and grope her. Blatantly check out other girls, then turn back, flash the devil's smile, and smack her bum. That's crack to girls.

  • Take her out. Oh yeah, everyone loves a bit of exclusive attention. It's easy to get complacent just because they'll Uber to your place at midnight, but even though they don't say it, they'll eventually want some old-fashioned love. So give it to them if they're worth it. Do something you enjoy. I like looking sharp as fuck and steak dinners. Museum visits. Concerts. See above point, don't bother thinking about mutual enjoyment. If you enjoy yourself, she will take your lead.

  • Learn more about sex. Earlier I said you wouldn't need to learn about bondage and sex toys and humiliation &c. Doesn't mean you shouldn't. Things go on long enough, you'll want to experiment. Go down that rabbit hole, but map it out before you step in. There's tons of resources online to help timid people pretend they're dominant; when you already have a dominant frame, the rest is just respecting safewords and knowing how hard to hit.

Summary: It really is mostly about sex. The rest is taking care of their emotions. Maintain solid frame. Don't give in to attempts to tie you down. Never hesitate to ghost someone who disrespects you or breaks your rules.