Do any truly decent women exist?

SoftHarem · 2013-05-29T15:45:03+00:00

There are lots of women like that, we just don't want to fuck them. As far as finding a beautiful woman capable of being low-medium emotional maintenance, maintaining her femininity, loyalty, and having balanced hypergamy - no, not really. The 50's are over and there are so few fathers who raised her with the proper template that we can now manage. That being said, If you find the Unicorn Store^{^{^TM}} be sure to let us all know.

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-05-29T18:36:34+00:00

Some of my best friends are women. They do stand by me even when I'm down.

Can they be bitches? Sure. But I can also be a motherfucker.

soyanon · 2013-05-29T15:48:20+00:00

I think you are mixing multiple things.

Female decency changes by individuals, by location / country, by class, educational status, (rural, working class, lower educated is better - it does not mean dumb, you know, libraries exist), and age (older is generally better in this regard), religion and political views (conservative is better), so you can have it better and worse.

But even with the most decent woman, yes, you have to make them think - I mean, honestly, not PUA tricks - that you are better, you need to be better, you need to provide something (if not money, then leadership etc.), and a better guy around will always be a test of her willpower, strength of character, she will pass it or not.

You can see it this way. Women need a leader, a protector. You have to grow up to the job. That part is not a part of decency. That is simply what makes a man loveable. In other words she can love a man for the sake of that man but that must must be a man, a real man.

You can turn it around. Are you capable being decent with a woman? But male decency does not mean being nice, it means being the strong protector, the hero, the leader. The stone hard column to lean her life against.

I mean, if you are just nice but not firm, that is like as if she was firm but not nice with you.

I think Dalrock really nailed it that the male version of the slut is the coward. Are you sure you are decent from this angle - that you have little cowardice in you? Do you deserve a decent woman?

Don't take it personally. I am a slowly recovering coward.

Stayinghereforreal · 2013-05-29T15:53:23+00:00

In response to your title, absolutely there are decent women, in the sense that there are honest, empathic, self-aware, fair women, just as there are men with similar qualities. This is based on both my personal experience and reading history. There are some women who I admire. There are plenty of men who I similarly think much of.

But The Red Pill is about seeing people, including across genders, as they are, not as contemporary myths would have you see them. For example, one contemporary myth is the idea that women appreciate and will mate with men who exhibit qualities women, in fact, do not appreciate in MATES. Women may like men who exhibit certain qualities, but that does not mean women want to have sex with such men.

SoftHarem · 2013-05-29T18:55:39+00:00

The title of this post summarizes the large part of this subreddit that I strongly disagree with.

ladyuniscorn · 2013-05-29T18:53:46+00:00

The real way to find a woman whom is all of the things you describe is to become a mirror image of that yourself. As you better yourself you will be better able to attract high quality people to date.

There are plenty of men that I dated that had a great job, wanted to provide for me, etc. But I just wanted someone to share my life with, so the providing aspect really turned me off - I work and have a career, I don't need that from a man. My boyfriend, whom I consider my partner, is super compatible with me personality and interest wise. He stimulates me intellectually and I prefer his company to that of most other people, coming home to him is the best part of the day.

In short, better yourself and you will attract more interesting women. Also where ever you are finding these "morally repugnant" women, try somewhere else.

Clauderoughly · 2013-05-29T16:29:32+00:00

I am lucky in that I found a loyal, wonderful, feminine woman who is low on the bullshit.

It's why I married her.

Problem is that most women nowdays are raised in single mum homes so it means they get trained in all the bullshit that drove their dad off.

Find a woman who was raised in a stable, two parent home and you'd be off to a good start

thereisnosuchthing · 2013-05-29T18:42:38+00:00

Yes, they do exist, but they are exceedingly rare.

Imagine what it would be like for them? Not only do they have to deal with the same kind of stupidity from their female peers that we do, but they have to deal with entire hoards of men in their lives who are exactly like the worst of reddit, who are thinking they're "running game" on women and that they're very smart when really they are just well practiced at dealing with retarded women or women with psychological deficits in non-relationship relationships where you are never actually an honest / open human being with your partner because you are constantly on the defensive thinking if you act like an equal the woman will run away.

socal83 · 2013-05-29T15:46:41+00:00

yeah most of them are fat and/or ugly.

or are grandmothers.

iggybdawg · 2013-05-29T19:33:41+00:00

Sure, my wife is like that, but first of all, she was not raised in North America, second of all, she is not particularly sexually motivated.

So I don't really have to keep tight game to keep her from leaving, but I do need tight game to get laid outside of her ovulation window.

mistermikeymike · 2013-05-30T00:27:33+00:00

i believe there is. maybe it's naive but if it's even 1 in a 100 it's a good number

Lord_Perseus · 2013-05-29T20:36:15+00:00

They do exist but are so few & far between. I've described the SMP as something similar to reverse Russian Roulette where every chamber of the gun but 1 has a bullet in it. Even if you found the chamber that doesn't have the life destroying bullet in it, you're extremely hesitant about pulling the trigger b/c to do so flies in the face of logic

whiskey_bearfist · 2013-05-29T20:53:23+00:00

there are definitely some. but as you go up the attractive axis it becomes increasingly rare. if you can get by, or excel, without an attractive personality, why spend the time and effort developing one.

a girl who is 9/10 or above can easily land top tier alphas to satisfy her sexual needs and millionaire providers to take care of her. she doesn't even really need much game to pull it off.

so finding a girl who is that hot, but is also sweet, and loyal, and mild mannered is just... a real gold mine. as others have said, there are apparently a few bastions of a bygone era in the the southeast asia, and perhaps parts of eastern europe, among other areas. but western women have been brought up this way.

perhaps this is an unpopular idea, but consider a long term harem or open relationship. have the sweet, loyal, ideal mom as your childrens' mother, whom you are devoted to and provide for, and have some rotating ultra hot sidepussy. just make sure all parties are aware of the arrangement. but finding women who are cool with that arrangement is probably going to be pretty rare as well.

fortmiller · 2013-05-29T18:44:27+00:00

Yes, they are the homeschooled religious women who were raised by a stable loving family. They prize certain characteristics and will make a good match for a beta-Man (not male) who is ready for a wife and children.

Title	Do any truly decent women exist?
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Date	May 29, 2013 3:38 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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