Old friend group shuns me because of my "attitude"

m0rphing · 2017-12-05T02:33:08+00:00

Newsflash dude, you are an asshole. And not in a good way. Stop calling people out who are obviously beta. Don't kick a man when he's down. Be strong yourself but when you engage with beta dudes just be nice and friendly to them. Make them have a good time when you're with them. The proper way to help beta dudes become better is just to be a role model for them to look up to. If you want to call people out, find other alpha, masculine dudes, and fuck around with them. They can take it and dish it right back at you. But leave the sissy boys alone.

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2017-12-05T02:40:19+00:00

1 keep hard driving for superiority. Embrace the natural arrogance of being part of nature's aristocracy.

2 don't be a fucking idiot about this socially. Play the social game others around you are playing. Don't expect them to understand your deeper views. Just play the game. You don't want to be pissing away social networks cuz you felt the autistic need to externally express all your thoughts.

sadomasochrist · 2017-12-05T02:25:27+00:00

Done right, none of this should garner overt attention.

Source : Did it wrong, like you, for a long time. Rule 38 buddy.

haroldpeters · 2017-12-05T02:31:19+00:00

you need to stop caring about what others think, or do with their life. Just live yours the way you want, and don't judge. Lead by example and others will notice your success and when they finally start to tweak that your doing something different they will eventually ask you for your advice... that's whey you can give them a serving. Never try to red pill people, they must seek it on their own.

It sounds like you have sullied the water with that group, so distance is advisable. Keep working on yourself and exercising your mind as well as your body.

Categoricallyme · 2017-12-05T02:06:33+00:00

With #1 it seems like your attitude is being perceived negatively because you're judgemental. Why waste the energy being judgemental?

Jaszen3 · 2017-12-05T01:30:26+00:00

Relationships are important. You are going to have relationships with people you don't see eye to eye with. You are going to have to find a way to be around and work with people like that. Having relationships end badly like this isn't a good thing. You may need or want them later on in life. Burning bridges isn't good. I can understand limiting or not having contact with these people. But don't burn stuff to the ground. Its one thing to call out bullshit, but to alienate and make others feel bad isn't the way to go.

Fapisluv · 2017-12-05T02:24:51+00:00

You appear very judgemental of others, and no one likes feeling judged. If you want people to like you, you must look like you are sympathising with them.

example 1: -Hey, lets go to the gym -My hamster has a headache i cant come -Bruh there are chicks with nice asses there , or , I am bored too, but i dont have anything better to do right now.Those are better responses instead of the fuck you you fatass response you are giving.

example 2: -Hey bruh,check the girl i matched with on tinder. -Cool, did you ask her out? -Oh well i am pleading her to go out for dinner but she doesnt respond. And then you proceed on your redpill rant on how to behave in such circumstances.Maybe once,and if your friend isn't an idiot or way too deluded, he will believe you and then follow your tips. But any more of that, when your friend disagrees with you and doesn't follow your tips, will make him see you as a know-it-all judgemental prick.

"When I'm hanging out with a white knight beta bitch orbiter I call them out for it." If you go for it in the direct way,you will be shunned from your group.If you make some light humour about it, you might be liked more, and there is a bigger chance the beta orbiter sees that he is wrong.

Think for yourself. Why would you want to teach your friends/acquintances the truth? Maybe you think you are better than them,and that you know more things than them. Which is probably true. But no one likes being around a supposed know-it-all smartass guy who'd call everyone a bitch when they are not perfect. It is much better to flow with the water than try to change people.

Imagine having a teacher/mentor, who knows more than you, you both know it, and he is always judging you calling you a lil bitch if you dont follow his instructions. Not the most pleasant of companies, but will help you improve.

Now imagine someone with pretty much the same knowledge/experience as you, acting like he is your teacher, without being asked to, and judging you for whatever you do. That is you for your group.

Triadis3 · Tue Dec 5 5:51:09 2017 UTC

Ever since swallowing the pill I have made an effort to take the truth that I read on this sub and incorporate it into my life. Good.

This resulted in me stopping giving a fuck, realizing how much of a pussy I was being (and my friends) Good

and calling myself (and my friends) out for it.Not Good. Wrong.

I always call them a little bitch Why? What is in that for you?

Yeah I get there is no point in teaching TRP to people who don't want to know the truth, but I guess its the way I see things now. When I'm hanging out with a white knight beta bitch orbiter I call them out for it. You're banging your head against the wall.

The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Business men, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system, and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.

Read this love letter

be-ay-be-why · 2017-12-05T03:09:12+00:00

Read 48 laws of power. Loneliness and seclusion is not the route to go. Pick better friends but only cut off the ones you have after doing so.

[deleted] · 2017-12-05T05:49:16+00:00

Yeah man... no doubt you are alone.

Here's the thing I hold to truth that I don't see posted on the Red Pill.

BE HAPPY - AND BE A PROVIDER.

What I mean by a provider is a provider of energy and leadership. I am absolutely killing it lately with women- I mean every cash register, every little interaction... it's almost gross and unsettling, "creepy." The biggest reason is because I've just at a point where I am always bringing people up- raising good emotions.

There's a lot of monotony in the world- joking about that stuff and being a provider of good energy will draw folks to you like flies.

Seems like you are doing the opposite.

The other thing I have learned about the Red Pill is this.

EVERYONE will react negatively towards your beliefs. Unless, you recognize absolutely in another man, or a woman... that they are "red pill." Dropping theoretical conversational bombshells on folks on your beliefs will end in a fight 9/10 times, guaranteed. Like so many things in life, people don't want this truth.

JustDoMeee · 2017-12-05T08:02:43+00:00

You guys who are coming to grips with TRP and women need to get one thing drilled into your fucking heads.

• Law #38: Think as you like, but behave like others.

If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.

Augustuscrassus · 2017-12-05T15:21:20+00:00

You don't call out orbiters that's a good way to label yourself as a guy who doesn't get it.

I was with a plate last night and her roommate had his ex girlfriend over. He is orbiting this girl and is clearly still in love with her. I flirted with her in front of him and my plate and you could tell he was uncomfortable with her flirting back. He interrupted me to try and stop it but she made a joke about it and I teased her. He helped me escalate with "his" girl and bonus got my plate hot from me successfullt hitting on her friend. His insecurity in both their minds increased my SMV. There was a post by Rollo that talks about how beta orbiters indirectly boost your SMV if you play it right.

Later on my plate asked me what I thought because they had a running bet he was still in love with her. All I said was I thought he was, and you could tell by the threatened look he gave me. My plate smiled and agreed.

My point is at no point did I say hey man stop being a bitch and orbiting this girl. That would have A) made me look like a tool B) Turned off both my plate AND her hot friend. Instead use them to increase your own value. You're not doing yourself any favors by calling these dudes out, just teach them the hard way.

AnjaJutta · 2017-12-05T16:08:52+00:00

OP, you were at a place with your friends and then you visited this subreddit and saw a path your friends couldn't see and followed that path. Every step you took made you a better person, but at the same time you were distancing yourself from your friends, and also you subconsciously started respecting them less because they weren't willing to follow you down that path.

You are still on that path, but when you were back at that place with them they were truly your friends. Now, you are somewhere else and they are not your friends.

That is all.

Trgnv3 · 2017-12-05T13:48:34+00:00

Sounds like you got your head waay up your ass. Being a socially retarded asshole isn't part of TRP, though you wouldn't know it by the looks of this subreddit

ItsYough123 · 2017-12-05T14:56:28+00:00

So what I'm reading is you became a big fake alpha and have creeped your friends out with your awkward behaviour...

Title	Old friend group shuns me because of my "attitude"
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Date	December 5, 2017 1:00 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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