This is technically a repost but seems to have dropped out of the archive for some reason. Newer users might find it helpful. Hopefully the mods will let me keep it up.


They say redpill is men comparing notes. Here are some of mine.

 

In Youth

 

-find quality male role models.

-compete in sports.

-gather a lot of ‘safe’ failures.

-just ask her, It’s a win win.

-Go for No: I will fail with 30 women this summer.

-get first time sex out of the way early and ugly if necessary.

-Main focus is: school/skills/social development/not making major mistakes.

 

In Adulthood

 

Before meeting them

-build social groups

-build respect from peers

-build close male friendships

-physical strength and health building as a lifelong habit is the easiest SMV booster.

-build financial stability, IQ, Good Habits

-long term financial success > hookups, parties.

-build skills

-study the culture of the dating scene in your area

-build good logistics

-find part time jobs with female exposure

 

Meeting them

-confidence/pride in anything is better than none at all.

-amused mastery

-small talk and comedy is king

-use her name.

-speak with them like you speak with models every day

-indirectly demonstrate social ability

-indirectly demonstrate strength

-be clean, smell nice, dress nice. Own your look.

-walk away and return randomly

-escalate even if they don't show interest

-Avoid online dating or use it as a supplement.

-Tempt them with fun, novelty, and emotional stimulation

-follow their actions

-It's a numbers game, however, the lower your value the more time you need to spend on approach.

 

Failing with them

-Your image they had of you failed, not you.

-Many, many women want what you are back on the market selling

-This too shall pass

-Don’t analyze it right away.

 

Plating them

-don’t lie

-beware of ‘time hoes’

-wrap it up (you’re probably a plate too!)

-Don’t get too comfortable

 

Dating them

-reward good behaviors

-be ready to plate them

-punish bad behavior with dread levels

-keep sex high quality and consistent

-always keep socializing, keep friendships up

-very strategically keep girls in the wings

-keep a safe pile of ‘escape’ money on hand

-No gifts or elaborate dates

-occasionally hold back on spending money on them

-Lead them very near forcefully if needed, especially if they are going to make a major mistake. She should thank you later. Plate her if she doesn’t.

-Do what you like to do. She’s along for the ride.

 

Working with them (career)

-Assume women talking to you are pumping you for info; be vague.

-Tease that you have inside information.

-Use playful amused mastery but keep it light.

-You are at all times playing by fucked up female rules.

-Political correctness is the norm.

-Impressions and reputation is everything

-Avoid political discussion

-Let the boss (male or female) be the alpha.

-Create multiple broad alliances

-Bond closely with males

-Use a work wife. Choose wisely.

-Flirting should be very very light, if at all, and equally across female staff.

-DO NOT SLEEP WITH COWORKERS

 

Leaving them

-don't negotiate

-gather as many co-friends as possible

-control the message

-closure isn’t a thing for men.

-leave as quick as you can and go no contact.

-indirectly show success with friends, women, work right after you left them

 

Long Terming Them

-never for financial reasons

-Don’t use this as a chance to rest.

-Don’t fall for her making you comfortable.

-Don’t stop vetting her just do it in less noticeable ways

-trickle out beta traits.

-It’s just your turn

-Never Long Distance

 

Marriage

-probably don’t do this, especially not before 30.

-never for financial reasons

-it’s still just your turn

-Young, Low N count, good family, father figure, non-feminists, vetted hard

-live with her for awhile

-subtly keep her away from party girls.

-you should already live in a married state of affairs before marriage, nothing should change.

-create tight bonds with her family and be political and tactful.

-Untracebly hide money in BTC or under a rock on a mountain on a regular basis

-Use dread but much more lightly then LTR

-Do not: Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize (DEER)

-lead her

-don’t always give advice when she comes with problems

-keep climbing socially and in career.

-downplay setbacks and comfort her more than usual.

-don’t stop gaming her and ‘dating’ her

-have a mission

-have social, and alone time apart.

-She doesn't love you the way you love her and that's OK.

-Even with a good lawyer it will be an ugly divorce. Keep emotion out of it till it's all over. You're on a mission to mitigate loss. Get mad after the dust is settled. Maybe now you've learned your lesson?