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You know what a man's biggest problem in life is? Lack of self love.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/22 07:02 PM
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There are lots of people who don't believe in themselves and are afraid to walk the path, and do not really know how much natural intelligence about masculinity is already there in their bodies and minds. They need their idols, they need to pay for the quick fix, to wash off their responsibility towards themselves and blame others if things go wrong. And they are also the ones who don't value their wallet. These people forgot that their idols didn't pay thousands of dollars to get where they are…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/22 05:09 PM
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Most men are fools for love because a) hormones and b) Mom or sis or child is what defines woman for them till then. It takes a lot of heartbreak before the realization comes that women are into relationships almost totally for themselves, especially now, when it's hardly more than shopping for sex and resources --- and the fact that IS how the sexual instinct works best, when it's about pleasing yourself. There is a big difference between survival oriented relationships and pleasure oriented re…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 06:33 PM
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Agree, Amplify, Parody and Troll.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 05:15 PM
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What is your answer? The ultimate level of Red Pill is doing what YOU want, with full awareness and ownership. It is where freedom and responsibility become one.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 04:54 PM
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Welcome. You just inspired my next post.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 04:15 PM
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If someone would ask me me whether I'm a Chad, I would just smirk and tell them I'm a homo sapien. Or just tell them I'm a (insert name here). Or if you can't hide it, just reply by adding Chad to your real name, maybe with some honorific, and make a joke of it saying you'll change it on your passport or something. What you don't want to do is to create an impression that you are a follower of some sort of ideology but just create the impression that you can and will think and act on your own. T…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 04:07 PM
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A gratitude based way for example, even for the failures and mistakes and frustrations is a very abundant mindset. The mindset of a curious happy infant is also a very postive one. Observe that till children start having bad memories from something that hurt them, they never restrict their own potential and may not even consider whether a thing is possible or not. Even that bit of fear is unknown to them. Why do you think so many kids are prodigies? Genuine positivity does not come as an attempt…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 07:19 PM
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Your "I" statements are a declaration of what you want to be and accordingly what you want to experience. They are simpler than you think and if taken seriously, you create exactly what you said. Let's say you are desperate. Desperation comes from a statement of fear that you don't have what you want. Somewhere this thought runs deep in your subconscious. You then behave exactly in the way that ensures you will not get what you need. Ever noticed that during good times you see people who become …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 06:59 PM
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First up I'm convinced you're just here to troll. But for those lazy bobs who might be inspired by you, here's my two cents. You are doing the "right things", but your mentality is all wrong. You aren't doing these things for yourself genuinely, there is fear and scarcity deep down and you are doing this for validation. So long as you keep declaring your want and neediness, that's the exact experience you get -- Wanting and needing, never having. Watch your monologue. Do everything for YOURSELF …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 03:49 AM
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Congratulations, you finally learnt to love yourself. Remember, you can do everything right and still be needy at the point of origin (and THAT will ensure your efforts fail). Finally you had the clarity to start giving yourself what you expected others to fill.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 07:03 AM
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It's a huge irony too. Because those women aren't offering love, but seeking it. What they mean is "You deserve to be loved, but let someone else get their hands dirty". Actions always, never words.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 06:08 AM
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That is one thing they don't tell you. A fling and a marriage to a soldier are two very different things. Instant wet attraction and long term relationships are two different things. And besides the kind of women coming for girls nights out -- they are never loyal to begin with. Sexual attraction and loyalty are two different things. If you want loyalty you need to suffer for a common goal where you need to be loyal to make it through to the end - people who suffer together have a bond that neve…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 02:19 PM
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Sexual attraction and loyalty are two different things. You forget that special ops guys are often on deployment or training and there is a reason why their personal lives are often strained and many end up divorced. It's great for the short term attraction, but in the long run it takes a woman almost as mentally strong to keep up with those guys for years and years. Most people aren't capable of that. In a way their attractiveness probably made their women a bit too hungry for more as well. So …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 02:16 PM
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Totally. When it becomes an ideology or a religion it's already lost touch with learning from real life. And I'd say that it would a total failure if that happens. The goal is not to make more beta sheep but starting with sound advice that's backed up by experience, let every man discover what they're capable of, make their own choices and own up to the consequences.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 04:01 AM
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Glad you mentioned this point. Betting fanboys have gone a long way to ruin the image of many a sport. And their own fortunes. There's a whole mafia out there in that business, which is connected to plenty of organized crime. A fine example of how low a fanboy can go and how they're fueling crime in the process. https://www.sportsbettingdime.com/guides/articles/history-of-mafias-ties-gambling/ - Just one example
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 11:31 AM
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No matter what, a woman is never happy.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 04:47 AM
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Of course it isn't. I made up that term to describe the binary mind of the average fanboy and how he instantly goes from putting his idols on a pedestal to putting them in a gutter, but not actually growing up in the end.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 12:06 PM
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You know what's the real problem? We're all trying to find happiness and pleasure, and we want to block out anything that feels like pain. Our pursuit of pleasure IS the very thing that makes us unhappy. Our rejection of pain and discomfort is the very thing that makes us atrophy. Embrace the pain of growth and at the end of the day you will feel fulfilled in a way that no pleasure can make you feel.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 01:25 PM
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That's a fine example of looking not at what was said, but what people do in the name of Jesus. Organized religion is a beta manufacturing plant.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 12:25 PM
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Alright, I'll fix it. Can't do it in the title though.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 12:21 PM
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The journey of the man always comes full circle.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 07:52 AM
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Especially on this sub. Shows you how much they still need someone to save them. And just what kind of a guy did they choose as their saviour? In the end, presidents come and go and nothing much really changed for an individual person. We still drive on the same side of the road I mean. 4 years is hardly enough for much change to happen before the next election is around. Democracy has put the common man in an illusion that we are saving the world just because we ticked off on a piece of paper a…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 03:40 AM
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Yes I think all of my old posts and the comments were gone when I got shadow banned. I still have them and will see if I can reformat them with headers and put them back.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 12:44 AM
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Fanboism of anyone, even the real deal men who walk their talk, is still the ultimate beta move. The common man has always been a fool, a dependent child at heart, waiting for the day the messiah comes to save him not knowing that power is already within himself, and which he has been giving away to others way too much to be exploited and deceived -- totally not needed. For thousands of years, pretty much everyone from your toddler to your presidents and religious messengers have been using this…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 04:22 PM
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You can write an article "The irony of the word - liberal" -- In the end left or right, there's only rage. AHALT.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 08:35 AM
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Honestly if I removed the bulls*** from the lives of many celebrities, I am not sure what's left.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/21 03:20 PM
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IMHO Jeff Bezos is going to deeply regret divorcing his wife, who had been loyal to him since before he was any sort of big name. He stepped out, and he shouldn't be surprised when he has to swallow a few bitter pills of karma.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/21 03:18 PM
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There are many women over the world much shorter than 5'5. He just hasn't seen how many people are shorter than him. Also, take a look at the oldest bodybuilder ever. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SiWSFdJ7SUg -- this guy wasn't even 5 feet tall. But could squat 220 at 90! He lived IIRC past 100. It can get frustrating yes, but here's a question to help pause and reframe the way one can see things --- Why do you want someone so badly who really doesn't like you? Don't hate yourself for what you…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 05:53 PM
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People here always shit on whichever tool in the box that's is the most difficult for them to master.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 05:46 PM
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With the exception of STEM or PhD or MBA or Law, I think pretty much all that can be studied is capable of being accessible on your phone today. You can learn to code yourself. You could just invest all the money you would bust on a degree you won't use and get a far greater ROI if you know how money and the economy works. Besides how is college lecturing even considered teaching? Put it on a forgetting curve and mostly 80% is forgotten the week after the exam in most cases. Lecturing IMHO is th…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 03:16 PM
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That's the bizarre thing isn't it? Somehow you'd think getting old makes you wiser, but nope. Some people age in reverse. I'd like to put it like this - Delusion is a skill that gets better with practice.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 04:34 PM
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Why haven't you blocked her yet? Or change your numbers. The best weapon is to keep your phone recorder on all the time. Put a camera in front of your and your parents door. If she comes back, record everything, get a lawyer and a court order for no contact against her. and use that to get a restraining order. Ditto for your folks. Stand up for yourself. Bullies feed on fear. You should watch SSM's latest video.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 05:05 PM
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And then get bored and start going to the gym where she finds the hot gym trainer and has an affair with him and then takes half her husband's assets in the family court. Sometime later, she gets bored of marriage again or finds out Chad isn't loyal and then talks feminism in the company of her cats. She is the only constant in her unhappy me story...
/r/TheRedPill30/09/21 02:23 AM
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Mother in law syndrome. What? It's a powerful manifestation of AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 02:09 PM
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https://www.bolde.com/pretty-sure-reason-single-too-picky/ Now this is the kind of species that defines the trope. IMHO any woman who writes this sort of shit or anything beginning with "Dear men" Is holding up A red flag so big it could be seen from space. I'd beware of any woman who writes this kind of crap in the media.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 02:16 AM
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You don't see them if you click on my username?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 02:29 AM
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I survived what could have easily gone much, much worse, but it ended before it got there. This place saved my life. Some of my uncles' friends weren't as lucky. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and wiser, if you can recover from it.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 04:37 PM
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Not only her standards but all of society's.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 12:41 PM
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What age am I living in where boiling water is unicorn standard? Lol....My grandma and great grandma would be aghast from beyond the grave if they heard of it.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 11:15 AM
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That sub is so misandrist and sexist it makes us look absolutely soft and polite and well mannered (truth). And yet who's quarantined....
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 10:00 AM
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I'll tell you what. We've always been problem solvers haven't we? As men, we find solutions where the world doesn't have any. Why don't you start a men's group or something like some others have? Maybe spend some time in a men's group to get some experience before thinking of making you own down the road? Look brother. I tell you again. No one's gonna lead our life for us. All great men in history have one trait in common - they didn't wait for someone else to lead the way. It's not easy, but it…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 02:30 AM
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Ask yourself for whose validation are you living for. You can do everything right with RP knowledge, but at the point of origin there could still be a fatal flaw. Besides did anyone say you need to only talk to women about your struggles? Also get this straight while you're sane and not so far down the depression hole that you are unable to help yourself - YOU are responsible for your well being and YOUR well being is important.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 04:04 PM
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The question is, "Do you really believe you did something wrong?" And "Do you really believe this as a major loss?" If yes, you will fail the shit test, and all shit tests in the future whenever you run into these girls again. If no, spin it around when confronted and crack a joke. Whatever it be, love you or hate you, they won't be able to ignore you forever. Also wait for those girls to get older. Then they get desperate to tie down any single man out there.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 03:33 PM
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The deeper you go into it the harder it is to get back out.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 05:33 PM
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We think that women are in pain and so they need comfort, but when she gets totally comfortable it gets boring and the excitement is gone and she's miserable again. So I'm telling ya, there is no way to have the feminine around without the pain pleasure cycle. Part of being woman is the need to go through The full range of emotions. Women are waves and the waves will keep rolling till The end of time. The rest is a question of if the thermostat is broken or not. But more often than not, people w…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 09:47 AM
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The ability to enforce boundaries is a direct function of personal power. And vice versa, it works both ways. Excluding the really crazy and dangerous ones, we've all got our boundaries of what we can tolerate and what beyond is a liability. There are no perfect boundaries -- at the end of the day when your frame and personal power is strong enough, your boundary slowly becomes the one others defer to. The more personal power you have, the stronger the boundaries you can set and get others to re…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 09:34 AM
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Well, either way, you pay for it one way or another too.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 03:57 PM
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That's why you don't live in her frame, ok? The cognitive dissonance will drive you crazy. Focus on what matters to you instead.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 02:17 AM
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Miserable people can't digest seeing others happier than them. That is fear, jealousy, crab mentality, a feeling you don't care, wanting attention and solipsism ALL combined into one - yeah just another form of the same thing. I wonder how their minds aren't torn by the pull of so many emotions. At their heart, women fear being excluded. There are few things that women hate more than exclusion - in the distant past, it meant death in the wild. I also believe, and this is my experience, that wome…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 06:26 PM
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You highlighted a very important point. The emotional side of the mind has a poorer concept of time and for the same reason it doesn't remember the past, it also doesn't understand the future consequences of impulsive decisions. It is not possible for a woman to exist without going through the pleasure pain cycle of emotions to some extent. They need the emotional rollercoaster to feel more alive. They need the dread to feel the comfort and they need the tension to feel the release. They need th…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 02:16 PM
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I didn't deny anything what you said. Some of them are inborn issues, afaik some schizophrenics, psychopaths, serial killers and BPDs are born with some kind of different wiring. Some of them are triggered by stressful events, especially PTSD or brain damage. Or even some other stuff like tumors or cysts, and on one occasion, a tapeworm. I've seen people with anger issues, sometimes it runs in the family, a genetic or ancestral pattern. I did not say these disorders develop due to intrinsic mise…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 07:59 AM
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Ah, the crabs in the bucket...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/21 05:05 AM
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I have no idea honestly. I just logged off reddit for. A couple of months and then I just saw I could post again.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 02:38 AM
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I never guaranteed they really will...
/r/TheRedPill19/09/21 10:06 PM
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Statistics is junk without real experience. You know there is a 100% correlation between birth and eventually death right? So a study shows that birth may be responsible for death. Lol! That's the average intelligence level in newspaper studies.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/21 09:33 PM
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Spend some time in a place all by yourself, or with a good trusted male buddy, and when the thoughts and memories try to start coming up, don't deny them. One thing that matters is that it's very important that we're absolutely honest with ourselves when we're in pain. If pain comes, it's pain. If grief comes, it comes. If frustration comes, it comes. There's no need to act on these feelings and thoughts. Just let them come and go - be the witness and don't judge yourself for what comes and goes…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/21 04:12 AM
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By saving yourself, you save the world. It makes much more of a difference to other people when they bounce off your firm boundaries than you going out of the way to save people who are too damaged to save themselves. And remember, damaged people seek other damaged people. So fix yourself. Your mother's problems were intrinsic, not situational, so they cannot be fixed. Accept that and free yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/21 06:20 AM
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It's not that they are indeed that ignorant. Many of them actually do not want to face the truth and getting emotional in the moment is a good defense, it keeps her in her "emotion cave".
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 07:32 AM
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You never say it, you only be it. When you're truly alpha, you're the best version of yourself or at least well on the way and you don't need a special label for it, your own name is more than enough. If it gets natural, it is in a way normal. A way of being where you need not ask the question of being alpha anymore. You don't need or use the label anymore, it's others who call you alpha.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/21 05:48 PM
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She says : If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve my best You say : If you aren't with me at my worst times, you don't deserve to come to me in better times. Don't just say it, do it, and use this line as a finisher when they come begging back after their aura has faded and their insecurities utterly exposed. Oh and beware of those who keep their best conditional and their worst unconditional. They owe nothing to anyone, except their nastiness.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 06:34 AM
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Gray wrote his book for an earlier era where more people were in married long term relationships. His differences points are spot on, but it takes him the whole book before he finally passes a shit test by not falling for it and keeping his frame. He doesn't recognize it with the terms we use now, but that's what he does. He believes more in communication issues (in fact I think he's the father of the communication approach) but fails to mention the whole aspect of attraction, and the conditonal…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 03:00 AM
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All of us are much harder on men than women. Of course, the response just further establishes what the OP is really saying.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 02:55 AM
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5 years later.... No, don't take her back when she says she made a "mistake". Honestly the husband might not realize it just yet, but he's free.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 02:29 AM
1

This is a bunch of facts and tools. You are the man, deny the truth or accept it. Do what you want with this knowledge, but the consequences for better or worse are yours to own. This is your life. No one here can prescribe the end game of it for you. The whole point is to get you to own your own life!
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 03:58 AM
1

Thanks for restoring the post. Automod is a strange thing.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 02:58 AM
0

Mind is one word for many things, right? So is manas. Scientifically speaking, basal functions, emotions, memory, analysis, movement, awareness and complex thought ae all handled by different parts of the brain. There are many terms for each of these aspects. When I did some yoga for a while, I saw there were plenty of terms for different aspects of the mind - and manas is only one of them. Only in English do I see something like this -- like the word love. In other languages many different word…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 03:15 AM
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I left mine. Best thing ever. Haven't been happier. Without this sub, I would have been at her mercy to end the relationship in whatever ax crazy way she wanted, and might have been facing all sorts of charges. Instead, after all her divorce threats, I was the one who pulled the plug.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 01:55 AM
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I am not sure to what extent YT comments offer confirmation bias, but looking at how comments used to be about 2 years ago (when people at least used to debate and women used to come in and use shaming tactics), the tone is changing, now it's almost all men, all sharing almost identical experiences. It's not going to be long before more and more people wake up to this. Even corporates are now learning the hard way that hurting men will also hurt women, as well as their customer loyalty and busin…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/21 04:09 PM
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You must write a book sir. This is top notch, quality content. I'll add a short line : "If you want to be happy, stop seeking happiness. Then you'll find you've never really lost it". The search for love and pleasure and meaning has become dangerously misleading. Why? The more and more you seek out pleasure, distraction and addiction, the more and more you have to convince yourself that you are unhappy on the inside (because that's what really drives this). It is exactly this reason why addictio…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 06:43 AM
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Save the love for yourself too. You aren't worthless.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 04:12 PM
1

I will reformat it today. Didn't have time when I posted it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/21 03:04 AM
1

Good luck. But I'll be blunt - I seriously advise you to gain some kind of maturity mentally. You really sound like a whiny immature teenager right now. Fix that and your finances will follow.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 06:16 AM
2

In the stock market, those who lead others into buying and selling and start the whole cycle are the ones who gain, because they generally buy and sell at the most opportune moments. You don't need to insider trade, you just need to be a big guy whose moves can influence the sentiment of the entire market, or the stealthy unknown who thinks with his head and not out of pure emotion.Those who simply follow that herd sentiment in selling and buying are the losers, because they usually end up buyin…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 04:23 PM
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It's simple. Only people with some affluence and security cushion invest in these markets. Stocks are generally a richer person's trade, although they do not have to necessarily be. These people are also not the ones who will be most affected in the event of a pandemic or a recession. Among them are plenty of shrewd characters who planned in advance for the losses and then pumped the money back in as soon as the coast was clearing up. I don't know how long the bull run will last, maybe when real…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 04:11 PM
1

Here's a quick overview as to how money works. See, equities is basically just money trading. Buyers put in the cash and sellers get that cash. If no new investments are made, the existing money just gets redistributed. That's what trading does. In the long run, trading alone doesn't give gains except to individuals shrewd enough to time their buy and sell. At a macroscopic level, money is only redistributed and conserved, and no new wealth is created. So if you need everyone to gain in the long…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 03:41 AM
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I'd strictly advise people to avoid falling victim to thoughts of future doomsday and investing out of sheer fear. It's poisonous to mental health, keeps you forever in a state where death always seems to be right around the corner, and like toxic relationships dominated by the fear of losing, it never goes well.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 03:28 AM
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Stocks and MFs don't run on any concept of a guaranteed rate of return like fixed rate investments. You just make gains from investing and reinvesting and the dividend, everything, and you just plug the numbers into Excel and calculate what would have been the approximate rate of return that would have matched your gains had you put the same money in a fixed rate investment. It's called CAGR (Compounded annual growth rate). Yes, it does run on the assumption that you reinvested everything. A Mut…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 02:55 AM
1

I don't want to doxx myself by giving out my location. Find out which newspapers in your country best do the job. There should be at least one. In my country there are at least 3, but only one of them is best suited for both personal finance and investing in the money markets. I use that. I prefer not to use google news, since it only links to some of the dumbest op ed in the news feed.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 04:15 PM
1

Yeah of course, they taught me by example that I ought to start very young. It would be many years after when I started making my own money and since then I've found my own way around. In that time I've observed what worked well for the earlier generation, what didn't and where they missed out on many good investment opportunities where they could have totally killed it if they'd just done some more required reading. One reason why I've been making the gains I do now is that early start. And now…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 04:12 PM
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PS : I can assure you most of the people, family included, whom I know don't have half as much knowledge of managing money as I put up in my post. And this isn't even high level stuff, it's pretty standard stuff.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 01:29 PM
1

Especially good move, when you consider that there are parts of the world where renting costs about the same as EMI.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 01:24 PM
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If I told you this is a response to a list I made of every single major mistake I saw in personal wealth building over the years in my circles, would you believe me? Here's one such case. I had a friend, one of my former apartment mates years back, who splurged all his money every month treating friends, eating out at fancy restaurants, lots of booze, going off some place every day and bringing a new girl over every month or so (but I have to admit, he was Red Pilled to the brim before the term …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 01:19 PM
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When you're renting out, make sure your tenants don't force you to spend all your rental income fixing what they broke. House repairs can be expensive. So get your rental agreements drafted right.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 06:40 AM
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My dad was shrewd enough to see the bubble coming well before it did. He understood that as more people migrate to software jobs in cities, the demand for housing starts to soar. So he bought not one, but two houses and stood up to my mum for it (one of the rare occasions where he hasn't been the beta husband). It worked. In 5 years, prices began to double and triple and I believe my parents' house is now worth 4x its original price. This also caused his rental income to go up hugely. Houses and…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 06:21 AM
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Why don't you try for financial independence and learn how to invest - starting with the following well known tips Pay all your bills and clear debt - unlike a lot of people, I feel if you need to use credit for the basic necessities of life, you're poor, not rich or middle class. Learn to count every dollar and cent. It all adds up. Credit cards have sky high interest rates, so never pay EMI or minimum payments on them. Reduce costs by saying cutting down the booze and eating out or just avoidi…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 04:17 AM
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As a guy who's seen some of this behavior, her change of character can lead you to think she actually has a great deal of conscious control over her sexual desire for you, which might give you the hope of a turnaround, but nope, this too is far more subconscious. It's just a bigger and more dramatic version of shit text ending in sex. It'll be gone as soon as things get comfortable again. Hysterical bonding never be the genuine sexual desire you knew in the beginning.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/21 07:27 AM
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What is true for her is true for all, but still, no one likes a taste of her own medicine.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 03:01 AM
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Why haven't you left? I don't have time for therapy so let me keep this short - "Are you really that needy? Do you really value yourself so little you let others abuse you?" Stand up for yourself, live fearlessly. Get out, find a place where you can heal your own pain and never allow toxic relationships in. Best thing I ever did was walking out of mine. Life itself rises up to support you when you are authentically your best self. Mine did and I'm much better off than before. Don't think for one…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 02:54 AM
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Women are the icing on the cake, one consequence of all this work. The real reward is being the man you were meant to be.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 02:45 AM
1

Convict conditioning is an excellent book on the hardest body weight exercises with minimum or low equipment that hit every muscle and it's very hard to top that - maybe Olympic gymastics. It needs some crazy determination. Calisthenics are excellent for calorie burning workouts and they do help your joints and with functional compound movements. They are good for coming back from injuries. Your tendons and ligaments and discs might thank you for a more balanced approach to weightlifting when th…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 05:19 PM
1

Bah, newbie gains. Hey, at least try the pull up, if not the pistol squat. Or dips, or the one armed pushup. Or sprinting, you know...
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 05:10 PM
1

I'd go old school and say "Never have a kid with a woman you aren't married to". But then the way things are, accidental pregnancies can and do happen. I know you want the ideal BP life brother, but seriously there's so much not in your control over that part. It's like surviving in a jungle, an art we once knew, but now have no idea about. It doesn't matter what's at stake. Be in a toxic relationship long enough, and even the thought of dying won't feel so bad anymore. I'd say set a solid steel…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:26 AM
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True, deep friendships between women as I've seen in hundreds of people around me are even rarer than in men despite the outward appearance of being social. Most are just Machiavellian. Behind the outwardly overtly emotional displays, the tension can sometimes be cut with a knife. I am not saying that they aren't capable of it, and they do exist, but the whole thing about girls being more social and capable of connecting with others is as shallow and superficial as as it gets. Men just don't for…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 03:15 PM
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Good riddance. Sorry for you and the kids, but people with no mental strength are unfit for the long haul. What happened to her now?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 03:14 PM
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And we haven't even come to the fact that women keep all their secrets in groups of at least 40, knowing fully well most of the other women may hate her or even use them against her. And those include all your secrets. True, deep friendships between women as I've seen in hundreds of people around me are even rarer than in men despite the outward appearance of being social. Most are just Machiavellian.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 04:23 AM
2

What do you expect from a generation that is raised on Twitter, aka University of getting offended?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 04:25 AM
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You clearly have no sense of humor. Quit Twitter. It's a school that teaches you how to get offended.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 04:23 AM
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I conclude from the comments that men's decline is much worse than I thought as they've totally lost their sense of humor and satire and are instead getting offended at a level where we give chicks some lessons... Guys, making light of hardship, and having a laugh over the outrageous is a man's trait. Leave it to the women and jobless mangirl trolls on Twitter to get outraged over small stuff.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 04:21 AM
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Few people are more messed up with sex as religious Christians are.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 02:52 AM
3

She doesn't enjoy doing things like that... With him.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 01:47 AM
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I had a cousin's husband describe it as like playing Rafael Nadal on clay - the forehand is "You're not good enough" and the backhand is "I'm not happy". And the grinding down game is endless. Fact is, he hates being reduced to where he is right now. And she doesn't seem happy either. I could only tell him he's never going to win by playing someone else's game, and that losing is unattractive. Hopefully he'll soon learn he matters and that it is important for him to truly love himself and give h…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 02:02 AM
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Many men fear their wives playing the "Not good enough" and "I'm not happy" shit tests along with a generous dose of shaming to make them give up their frame and enter her frame. Women sense it and use it relentlessly to establish dominance of frame in the relationship. I even see this dynamic with my parents and virtually all guys married left and right. Most of them would never give two shits when they're by themselves, but throw their woman in the mix and then they're playing the game they kn…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/20 04:31 PM
1

You have to find that answer. Why is this question coming to you?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 04:21 PM
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Let's not be the beta boy who doesn't want to do the work and blames Big Daddy for all his issues, shall we? Pathetic right? This just reeks of fa***tory You are doing all this to yourself. You don't have excuses also in an age where everything you need to do is also well known. PS : If you wanna escape from the utterly confining idea that is the Catholic God, to screw your head back straight, I'd insist you read some of the better and more detailed Near Death Experiences (NDEs).
/r/TheRedPill28/11/20 04:57 PM
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I used to think people suffering and being kicked by life to wake them up to the truth and going through the bitterness before settling into the new way was a bad thing. Now I realize that it's literally the only way we can learn.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 03:23 AM
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It's another way of putting it that women's frames don't really exist, and in many ways who they are is more superficial. But this is exactly how we see it.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 03:04 AM
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You didn't. My question was to just get the reader thinking about why he has to deal with this at all. If anyone got to this point, they messed up a long time ago. Rule 0 can't be overstated enough. In posts like these you should always put Rule 0 up there somewhere "Do not talk about fight club".
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 03:53 PM
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Question? WTF are you doing going around and talking about TRP to women and weak men?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 07:17 AM
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There's a point where it's all yours now.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 02:46 AM
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And while you're at it never get butt hurt yourself, like you don't treat a 5 year old's tantrums seriously. Situations like these might expose more of your BP ideas on love -- such as a need or a covert contract within you that wants empathy and understanding from a woman. Finish that covert contract off - It's making you miserable.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 03:53 AM
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And make sure it never becomes joint property for any reason. And do have a second house lined up, if you're considering getting married. Otherwise your money is much better spent elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 03:20 AM
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I would like to believe that fear of being branded as homosexual just for being buddies and bros has become a major reason for lack of male bonding. Today, America recognizes the word relationships only in context of sexual relationships. This is coupled with an obsessive compulsion for women to be included everywhere and not recognize the need for space that exists in men, means even the gents' toilets are under siege. Also our lives have changed to include a lot of travel and settling far away…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 02:21 AM
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We should call it "Anti-Social" media.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 01:38 AM
3

Put the kids first is so utterly overrated I don't know where to begin tearing it down. If there's anything worse than putting women on the pedestal, it's putting kids on the pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 03:22 AM
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There's only one reason for her breaking up really - her attraction to you went down and died and/ or said attraction wasn't strong enough. Or there's someone else. Often both. If none of these, it means she's dead. That's how they all end. What more closure do you need?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 05:30 PM
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What's her chances of surviving her relationships?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 05:28 PM
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Now are you going to rob your bank because you're in her frame or yours? :P
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 03:31 PM
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There was, is and will only be one reason - she lost her attraction to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 03:30 PM
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What were you doing not trying to have sex with her for so long? Coming to her, actually if women do such a 180 in a matter of minutes or overnight, it is practically a given that there are other men she's seeing in parallel. It shows up all the time in cases of infidelity. All of a sudden the wife just starts talking about things not working out, that the spark is gone, chores, it's not you, kids and immediately withdraws intimacy. Guy never sees it coming and tries to negotiate, but he doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 01:56 PM
1

He's totally been in a woman's frame for the entirety of his journey. None of it is really in a frame of his own.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/20 03:35 AM
2

It would be better to think of "in-love" feeling as a kind of drug just like any other pleasure addiction - it's like a reward for your life lived that comes once a while and stays on for a while longer, but we really need to be ok with letting it come and go. Great on the occasion for a while, can even be motivating and bring you to a new intensity for a while, but it's dangerous on larger durations where it leads you to stop actually loving yourself to stay in that high. I always like to think…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/20 03:25 AM
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There is one question you haven't asked or answered yourself -- Do you realize that whoever you were - whether you were a beta, then a guy in the anger phase, then a pump and dump player, and now again swinging back to being nice bordering on purple pill -- that in every single stage, women were firmly in control of you the whole time? It's a late realization for many of us, and it can happen multiple times, that it sometimes hits us that just like the Nice Guy for whom dad is still at the back …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/20 05:32 PM
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The BP goal is "Happily ever after". Many of us who're red pilled in many other ways still think that finding success means everything is now fine and fixed - in a way we all came here at first to chase the mythical Happily Ever After - the ultimate BP fantasy. We've all seen our own successes, and thought that this was it, only to realize that life is an ever present journey that goes on and on and it's really when you're most successful you're prone to making your biggest (and sometimes basic)…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 04:52 PM
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Actually the thing most men struggle to get it is that her love for you at the beginning is just as real as her contempt for you at the end. But that's actually true. Women are really what their feelings are in the moment. We all like to believe love lasts. Devotion may last - a lifetime of focused dedication to anything can create a state that looks just like love and can even feel that way. But emotional states by their very nature are changing things. Love as an emotional state doesn't last n…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 04:50 AM
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What most people are unaware of is just how much this frame will be shit tested and actually shat on. There are women who won't ultimately be in a relationship with you if you don't seem to ultimately need them or don't really want to fulfill their covert contracts. You have to be totally willing to allow relationships to go up and down their cycles and even end if need be. The moment you don't want the good times to end, and you feel you can't live without the good stuff, that is when you becom…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 02:12 AM
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This pattern and this lesson will never get old. We knew this thousands of years ago (it's been written down), and we'll still be teaching boys these things ten thousand years later, and still this story simply can't be repeated too many times. The good times are actually the most dangerous times... Most of us think it's over when success comes easy. Most of us would stop right there as soon as we've used just enough Red Pill truth to get what we wanted. All of us are here for the prize and rewa…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 02:11 PM
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https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/how-to-increase-testosterone-naturally/ 378 ng/dL to 778 ng/dL in 90 days, and then up to 826 ng/dL by month 4. If you want even more, read this : https://legionathletics.com/how-to-increase-testosterone-naturally/
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/20 08:09 AM
1

Advanced stuff is where this becomes an art form - it's mostly nuances, specific or very individual stuff and the ability to make deep impact. No point in talking about high level music stuff if you can't hold your instrument straight right? Same here.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/20 03:02 AM
1

Did you even read the post I mentioned about?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 03:45 AM
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Oh yes, IMHO the current Big 3 (Federer, Nadal and Djokovic) are mentally the strongest players I've ever seen. No one in the next gen after them is like that.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 02:08 AM
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There is something called a forgetting curve and while the usual ones you see are for random pieces of information, it applies to pretty much anything you haven't refreshed recently. It's also interesting because there's another message in there -- very often what we end up creating is way bigger and way more than us. What comes out of inspiration often takes its own makers by surprise down the road.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 02:57 PM
1

You bother, because YOU are indeed the prize.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 11:59 AM
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You can ask for what you want. That part is in your control. It's rather like a tennis match, the best players have a success rate above 85%, maybe even 90% in a peak season. Victory is by no means guaranteed, no one ever wins EVERY match but as you can see, you can actually become a champion. The best of the best just have that extra mental strength and belief that separates them from the others. That's why you've got to watch the best in sports or the best of the best in any field. You'll lear…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 11:39 AM
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The covert contract comes when there's expectation of that one possibility (aka she'll grant me the prize of sex happily ever after) that's actually in some one else's hands in the end. That is what keeps the guy stuck in her frame no matter what he does. If he gets out of that oneitis, that's when his doors really start to open.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 06:21 AM
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This post needs gold. Finally someone really pointed out in absolutely clear terms, mistake #1 that we all have done (and still struggle with at times). If I had to sum it all up, it's that when women are no longer the salvation you dreamed of, go back (or start now, if you never did) to being the man you were supposed to be and take full responsibility of your life back in your hands step by step. It's the only thing you could ever do or ever did. Outcomes can't be controlled. Only choices can.…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 05:46 AM
1

All these things can be understood if one just studies the nature of the emotional mind. Especially in First world society people are trained to think too logically and don't spend enough time just observing and learning about the emotional mind. It's a mistake to try and get this part of the mind to understand (it can't) things logically. I wrote a detailed post on how emotional frame works. Other than that have made about a dozen one liners on what I've observed about it so far and when I get …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 02:53 AM
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All relationships are a bunch of contradictory needs - it's full of opposing forces like attraction vs power, sexy vs safe, man vs child, strict vs soft, and so on. Give too much on one side, and the other must yield. In general, during the course of a relationship, for a woman, the more and more it becomes 'me me me', the less her attraction to the man. For a man, the more it is 'me me me', the more he loses interest in sustaining the relationship. It's a mirror and a foil to the sex-commitment…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 04:40 PM
1

Beano could have fixed that. Most of the smell comes from food that digests badly because we lack a certain enzyme to digest complex carbs.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 02:25 AM
1

Any future you create or choices you make happens right now. There is no contradiction at any point - all contradictions exist in the limited understanding of logic, not real life - even women are contradictory only from a BP logical perspective, but it makes total sense once you know RP right? Now/being/self, if you've read your PON correctly is so much bigger than it seems. The thing most people don't get about it is that it is something beyond the mind and whatever it does - the mind for all …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 01:23 AM
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Most important, proper form begins from the instant when you put your hand on the weight on the rack till the moment it's back on that rack. I've seen people who've done the exercise all right, but they've injured themselves when they were careless with handling the weights at other times. I'd say Starting Strength is a great place to begin and Mike Matthews' BLS and Beyond BLS (and his website) are the best resources I know of out there.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 12:58 PM
1

Well, acceptance is a tricky word. It doesn't mean simply being passive. By now if you had really accepted that this was a concern to both of you, and you were willing to do anything as you said, you could have altered your diet plan. Diet is 80% of the weight game. One can always go in for a high protein diet, tweaking the carbs and fiber and fat. No point in saying that you'll do it someday. You gotta start now. I'd recommend the diet plan used by some vegan ultra runners (Rich Roll, Scott Jur…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 03:14 AM
5

Totally confusing sex and comfort.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 03:41 PM
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I find a quiet space away from everyone and don't mind shedding some tears quietly. I did that when I lost my grandfather with whom I was real close. And that was before all this, back in my BP days. Men very rarely ever need to cry. After I got divorced and managed to get out having to pay nothing to my ex, I spent some time driving to the coast where there was a nice beach and spent an evening grieving quietly and meditating - that had been a 2 and a half year horror show. I totally needed tha…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 02:30 PM
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The truth will not necessarily make you happy, but it will undo your illusions. It will however give you the keys to a better life of your own making. The rest is up to you.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 07:19 AM
1

If you guys had teenagers, you'd know that they'd find a way to bypass parental boundaries one way or another. There is a real risk that if you put your foot down too hard, it could break the relationship - which is why most people aren't honest and wait till the problem has gone on too far too long. The thing is, him being nice just delayed the inevitable. There's always the possibility that him being strict with her would have only led to a similar outcome and she'd have painted him as "domina…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 05:50 AM
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The guy in the pic was on a learning curve. He should have shut that shit down fast, but most people hesitate to do this right away because this is gonna rock the boat hard and it could end the relationship even taking that route early on. In the end though, I guess it just delayed the inevitable.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 05:43 AM
3

I can imagine the toilet saying "Light weight, baby, light weight!"...
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 05:41 AM
4

The hell! When I stopped exercising for like a year, I put on like 15 pounds in that time. Yeah the numbers are accurate. You need to eat 1270 calories extra every day or 8890 calories a week to get there. That's like 1 huge bag of potato chips, a medium sized pizza and a large bar of chocolate every single day! Or 4 extra days of 3 full meals each every single week at my current intake while doing a fair amount of exercise. I'm pretty certain this girl has other mental issues and this was just …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 05:39 AM
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If my dad died (he has 2 good decades still left in him, I'd never imagine him living anything less than that), I would in no way be an autistic robot, but I wouldn't cry like a helpless child needing mommy either and lash out or go drown myself in drink. I'd totally cry as a man while still being on top of my shit, with more subtle expression. My usual pain coping mechanism is to find a quiet place and meditate - I've never had a shoulder to cry on at any time, but I've got my ways that work in…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 04:28 AM
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She's lying beyond all levels of absurdity to make herself look good. Plain and simple. They probably paid her well. Most people will say anything for a buck or the social validation kick - even if they never ever walk the talk. Or the whole thing is an exercise in sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 04:19 AM
2

What they really meant was "Show me your frame during your worst moments" Being at your limits or being weak or facing bad news or being less skilled in a particular thing is not the problem as much as how you handle it. That is where frame comes in. There are two ways of losing frame - 1) When faced with pain and 2) When faced with pleasure. The second is always the most insiduous shit test because it doesn't even look like a shit test. The end result of both ways is ultimately the same. We tal…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 04:17 AM
1

This is partially true. But in the majority of the cases I doubt this theory that men did everything in their lives just for a woman's sake. Teenage boys and many immature men might do that, but I seriously doubt if the motor car or the skyscraper or the space race or even the wheel was invented for the prize of woman. Most men pursue their passions for their own sake. Of course, we do know that if men get involved with a woman and have children with her, or have a large extended family to look …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 02:26 AM
2

Now you sound much more sober. That post just made me wonder... Men have always changed the world when they decided to "do something about it" - so if you feel strongly about that, you do it. And whatever you need to learn along the way, you'll learn with experience. It's your life, you're the man, you create what is meaningful and fulfilling to you. Do something of very high value and suddenly the world wants to look up to you. Curiously, over time I just started using the word 'love' less and …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 02:24 AM
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Ok, pal, now that your mind's done taking an absolute shit in the toilet, here's a few questions -- "Do you love yourself?" "Do you value yourself?" "Do you accept yourself truthfully and consciously?" Whatever value you do not give yourself is exactly what you'd expect from others to "fill up the void" in you and if they don't it'll bring up whatever shit that's inside you the whole time. If so, go get some exercise, and stop encouraging the feeling that your life is empty and meaningless witho…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 01:53 AM
2

Man has always had to face some enemy at all times (in some weird way this has been his biggest catalyst for growth, the opponents and the struggle). It's just that this time, that opponent is increasingly becoming the woman.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/20 05:18 PM
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Because the educational teaching system is all female. What do they understand about being boys and men?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/20 05:16 PM
1

There is also a study which shows that male processing is significantly stronger across the hemispheres while for women it is stronger across the hemispheres. Masculine drive is the force behind the outer growth of any civilization, it's the root. It is the principle that is meant to grow on discomfort. The feminine is like a flower that blooms when the plant has grown well, but if it sucks the life out of the root, the whole plant dies in a while. Masculine as a quality peaked in society in WW2…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/20 05:15 PM
2

I don't think they do this consciously. I believe it's because their emotional ROM can only think, perceive and act like a woman in the matter of relationships. Plus the maternal ROM is by nature designed to act as the exact opposite of sexual ROM, while subconsciously competing for attention with the other woman in her son's life. Maybe there's also a subconscious protective instinct to stop her child from having sex before he's old enough to have outgrown her. A mother is always tossed between…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/20 04:08 PM
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Mothers can't teach sons on being authentically masculine. It's just not written in their firmware. Time and again all women as a rule, do exactly this. But it also goes to show that men are only forged by going far beyond their comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/20 01:09 PM
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Just to remind you that women can enjoy the sex, play the "take me against my will" fantasy and then metoo you later as well after she has other feelings about it or someone convinces her she was raped or if she can't get you to commit or you break up or divorce later.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 06:07 AM
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"Good" is almost often always used in the context of how much you help meet others' needs. "Good" is no longer objective beyond a point. "A real man" or "Real men" is almost always defined relative to his utility to others. The bad news is that being a "good boy" is neither good for you nor others either. There is so much more to masculinity than that once you start valuing yourself. Amen.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 03:04 AM
9

I have plans to write a series on the workings of the emotional brain as I observed it. Putting the main points together has been interesting.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 03:42 AM
9

You really needed to give yourself the love you needed. If you don't learn to value yourself how will you recognize that the one who deserves the best of you is the guy in the mirror? For this particular case, I'd recommend Gay Hendricks "Learning to love yourself". I'd also recommend Adyashanti or Tolle's power of now -- that helped me after I broke out of my own toxic marriage. This is not for improving your SMV, but for you. It's dissolving deep inner pain and dysfunctional patterns. Also it …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 07:11 AM
1

Some noob guy spends 15 min reading a few posts and thinks this is it. Our biggest problem is not getting censored on reddit, it's that there are way too many fake red pills out there, all spouting opinion over experience. Dude have you even tried?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/20 02:04 AM
2

If you really want to see what I mean, just go to asktrp and see for yourself just how far you've come since.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 06:28 AM
2

What is wrong with your need to have sex? There's nothing wrong with being attractive to get the sex you need, but then there's a stage where it totally becomes who you are -- at that point I'd say its gone past validation - you've gone past the stage of Mr. Beta trying to become Mr. Attractive man and you've become Mr. Attractive man itself. Read what I said again. Everyone starts out that way, doing it for sex, but beyond a point you need to start genuinely liking the new you -- that adds extr…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 06:16 AM
2

You pursue them because you like them and they add value to you. But beyond a point, it literally becomes a part of who you are. Once it stops coming across as needy, it becomes way more powerful. As a result, it does become more attractive, but also more authentic. It means many people will be ok with it and some might not, some women might find it appealing and others might say various things -- but after that point only authentic relationships matter. Authenticity is what gives your frame pow…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 06:07 AM
1

Your calling doesn't fall from the sky the way you think. In fact I'd say that passion is purely a mindset as much as alpha is a mindset. Rather than waiting and hoping you'll one day stumble on something that you'll fall in love with. God this is probably an even greater delusion than anything I've seen regarding women. There are bazillions of missions big and small that you can do. Usually one ends up finding a mission due to some need of the hour or by discovering they're surprisingly good at…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 02:37 AM
2

Well we all start with fake it, eventually we do get to a point where we make it. But then you realize there's so much more when you get to the level of being it. The best of the best I've seen in anything you name are at that level, and you actually get very deep satisfaction performing at that level - it's a lot of work to get there, but it's totally worth it. That's when you know applause is truly the icing on the cake. Only such people can truly claim they love what they do. It's like the ho…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 04:19 PM
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Happiness is the other big thing that people chase as a covert goal. Actually that is a very important lesson in itself -- I could reframe this whole post in the context of making a covert contract with happiness, and I think I will next post. Unfortunately that's like the only thing that can never be truly found that way. You will get a huge burst of happiness when you succeed, but when you want happiness that lasts, you must find out whether your point of origin is a point of misery or abundan…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 08:15 AM
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A needed goal is a valid one. I've seen people go through such shit in poverty and the kind of ugly stuff that happens at the workplace - I actually think working for money is a perfectly valid goal. There's nothing wrong in having and spending money, except when you're totally careless with it. The question is, "What do you really want to do?" When you have enough money, and don't spend enough time on what you wanted to use the money for, then this question will start bothering you. There's a h…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 08:04 AM
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Yes. But the main message is avoid covert contracts in your goals. Then you can actually deal with deeper issues and answer what is it you really want. The rest of the post unravels the reasons why we end up setting covert goals and end up in a mid life crisis of our own making.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 07:42 AM
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Women in your life should be a consequence of who you are and what you've wanted. They are not the ultimate prize, just one prize that comes out of the ultimate prize of being your best self. It's actually an EXTREMELY bad notion that everything we do is only for the prize of sex. Most of our goals are pursued for their own sake, including sex.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 05:09 AM
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One can never offer what one does not have.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 05:49 AM
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Women give terrible dating advice because of a rather extreme amount of cognitive dissonance between their emotional subconscious that feels and does vs. their rational(izing) brains that actually speak, and who knows what kind of social conditioning and emotional experiences and inbuilt personality traits are added on top of that -- which pretty much guarantees their frame is extremely flimsy and volatile. Further women can't really teach you the art of being a man in any way other than how a m…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 04:23 AM
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I suspect that one guy who accused me of narcissism and that "there's more" And "it need not be like that" was a woman. But not clear enough. Another SJW who argued here was clearly one. You will usually find them in all the posts dealing with stoicism and emotions. They won't announce it, but it is pretty obvious. Those characters IMHO should be reported first. At least the ones who start with "As a woman are more honest" Mrp just bans women on first sight.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/20 04:20 AM
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Whatever be the outcome, let it be the authentic one. In my case it eventually dawned on me that this was FUBAR from Day 1 - so I left. Best thing that ever happened to me in retrospect. It need not be the same for you, for all we know yours could be a proper turn around, but when you need to face the truth you must be willing to let go of one preferred outcome. I warn you, the past will come out as anger to resolve itself from time to time. When it does, allow to be so it may come and go, but d…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/20 06:00 AM
2

Jesus how are you still with this woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/20 04:53 AM
1

You put this on mrp yet?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 10:34 AM
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If you must change the world, you must have a vertical herd and be at the top of that pyramid. In all situations where significant transformation happened and many deep underlying problems were solved, it only happened when someone sat at the top who could see the big picture and then get change moving. A horizontal herd is good fun, but they seldom achieve transformation by themselves. What actually happens is the average level settles down to the lowest common denominator in the long run. It t…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 08:47 AM
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The problem happens when we forget expressing in masculine ways (This post is a good masculine example). Somehow both the crybabies and the wooden blocks have it in their head that emotions refer to only feminine emotions and feminine ways of displaying emotions. There is more to it than just tears or crying. Most people have such an extremely poor understanding of men and masculine displays of emotion they think only of crying vs not crying -- that itself shows you how poor their EQs are. Inste…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 03:13 PM
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If you have to maintain frame, first you shouldn't behave as if your core belief starts with "I have no frame so I desparately need to maintain whatever little I've got". That's the difference between trying to maintain it and actually having it. Subtle, but it tells you if your actual point of origin is neediness or actual abundance. It only ever gets solved when it becomes your actual natural state instead of a forced one and you don't need to go through this step anymore.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 09:10 AM
5

Honestly this should be classified as sexual abuse.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 06:10 AM
2

Let's say you are walking on the road and there's an accident and people have injuries or someone collapses due to a heart issue on the pavement. Who do you call? The paramedics right? Not some untrained average Joe who has no idea what to do and who could make things worse. Now Joe goes there and starts arguing about how he should be allowed to help too because he's a good guy - go to Church, read the Bible, is an animal lover and doesn't swear. But that just won't cut it. Finally after being r…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 01:54 AM
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It isn't narcissistic when you have been at the receiving end of it. Trust me, it's only a matter of time before you feel dying is easier than living in a toxic relationship. About the question of giving to others, sure there is always a giver and a receiver at every moment in a relationship, but what is being given? If that's just toxic, what is its value? If you have way more good value than that, why would you not offer that instead? You or I say we are worth more and that may be potentially …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 04:42 PM
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You have to understand that in relationships what we really want is not just a person, but the qualities and the energy they bring with them and the emotions they generate within us, and the support they give us. Without any of that, what is a human worth? If all that is messed up, such people will only turn your life into a hell. That's when you realize what really matters - it's not merely a person, it's what they bring into your life that is what really matters. Would you really want a shitty…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 01:32 AM
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Also just ask yourself if you're willing to sacrifice everything of value that actually matters in your life for shitty people and shittier relationships. If you want this mindset to click, get it that what you want out of your life is more important than anything else, especially shitty humans. So first order of business needs to be seeing who you are and what truly matters in your life and what is it that you really want and value authentically. When your frame is strong, the only question is …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 06:22 AM
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What is the worth of a human being without a worthy set of qualities or a human being that simply generates poisonous energy all the time? And not even physically attractive either as is increasingly the case? Nothing. Not even pure life, but just a sorry waste of life. When you ask this question, you realize what you really want from a relationship with anyone else and whether you really want to give up everything that truly matters in your life for shitty people and shittier relationships. Tha…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 06:16 AM
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You can convince a 5 year old more easily than these people. What is the emotional part of the brain going to do no matter how well you argue? That hasn't evolved at all since we were children, and it still functions the exact same way, just a bit more complex. Ultimately you're just playing its game in its world and frame so you've already lost. Just remember this -- women always win the argument at the end. Men win it only at the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 04:23 PM
1

They say good karma is spent by enjoying it. Anyway, at this point the "Weak men create hard times" thing must become a national anthem of sorts.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 12:36 PM
1

Time to read Joe Navarro's book (and Allan Pease). The harder part though is not reading others' body language, but mastering your own.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 03:03 AM
2

Lol. You have a better chance by claiming erectile dysfunction instead.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 01:31 PM
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Well not surprising. Your form is the only thing others can directly relate to right from the start so it determines the frame of the interaction. Contrary to what anyone says, it will tell more about you than anything else coming from your mouth. It's only much later that others can garner enough info about you to build a more complete picture of who you are. You might have this feeling that you're still the same you despite the appearance changes, but that's only true to you from the inside. I…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 01:22 PM
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Never do good mornings. Unless you are in a hurry to get back surgery.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 06:20 AM
1

I've got clean habits. My only two vices are that I have to sit for too long at work (bad for health) and that I get up a bit late in the morning, which I am gonna fix right away. So any woman who doesn't share that vision -- can't eat well, smokes, drinks or does drugs (or even has a history with no significant signs of transforming her lifestyle for good) or has mental issues (there's a long list I've made from experience) or a shitty attitude is an instant write off - doesn't matter who she i…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 02:59 AM
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Like I said earlier, WTF? Still I insist people do it, that charge is the lesser of two evils. Perhaps we should publish a guide on how to move state overnight as soon as you realize you've dated a crazy who could frame you.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 02:50 AM
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Have this thread pinned up for 2 weeks please.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 06:28 AM
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And the punishment for wiretap violation comes to? Is it something a lawyer can help negotiate and get you out on a fine or bail? If so that is infinitely better than being charged for rape.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 01:51 AM
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Keep your phone recorder on all the time. All you need to do is turn it on once. That will record everything your lawyer needs to know. I had my laptop recorder on for days in my hellish marriage and opened 30 other apps to bury it in the taskbar. It recorded some of the worst spine chilling shit imaginable. Yeah and your phone can record calls too very easily. My ex probably suspected I had captured a lot of what she said and did. That and maybe fear of reputation loss in a conservative country…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 05:28 PM
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One more thing. I suggest you quit drinking to the point of losing your sobriety.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 01:14 AM
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Given medical care costs, I'd think it might become economic necessity at one point. Just hope that no one kills you in your sleep and you go on your own terms.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 05:27 AM
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Death IS the whole process of going alone, completely losing what you thought was you and yours.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 05:26 AM
1

OP is a guy with poor self esteem. He doesn't realize she's looking out for her needs, while he is very needy. The worst part? OP seems to fail to realize that muscles of all things are the ones men have maximum control over. You can totally grow them. In retrospect if OP gets over his stages of grief, this experience will actually be a good lesson for him. Most people live in childish logical ideas of what love is and it really takes an absolute kick in their gut to wake up and see the truth.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 01:58 AM
1

And that is the emotional mind and emotional frame in a nutshell. Why hasn't he moved out yet?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 02:48 AM
1

There's a herd energy to a woman. The hive mind does have an impact on her frame. Though if you are looking at Japan, that is more extreme.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 10:33 AM
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Don't wait to become perfect before even starting to try boys. Sure if you are really supposed to shed 200 pounds or your T shirt hasn't been washed in 2 weeks and no one knows its original color, maybe you should consider fixing that first. Otherwise just to remind you guys -- You are on thread for sexual strategy after all. Tools are tools, it's your job to study them and master them. Also let's not shit on a tool just because it isn't in OUR toolkit. A lot of guys do that - precisely because …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 08:12 AM
1

Time to pull out the obituary message I wrote last time?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:06 AM
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Self esteem is like medicine to a sick patient. When you are healthy you neither have disease nor need medicine. I see a lot of self esteem issues coming up now amongst a lot of people, and celebrities get a lot of mileage from flaunting their mental illnesses, but self esteem is not the real problem. The problem is your mind isn't healthy to begin with. All ideas of yourself are smaller than you. When you don't have a sick self to start with why would you need self esteem so much? After that an…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 09:02 AM
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In small towns everyone knows each other, connections are in fact deeper and closer, and have to be long lasting (yes, have to) -- so trust and reputation have more value. In my country going loose in a small town could make you instantly notorious overnight, and it won't be long before social sexual strategy puts a halt to yours. So you have to play qualitatively, aka LTRs and marriages. So you have a rather small number of long lived relationships. In contrast, in a city with 7 digit populatio…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 07:17 AM
1

I'd recommend Mike Mathews advice for this. Solid stuff.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 03:34 PM
1

I'll take peanut butter on a bulk phase. That thing has so much fat and my body absorbs it so readily it could turn me obese in a month.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 03:23 PM
4

Question. How to deal with the heavy insulin shock that comes the next day when you eat anything? It makes you feel drugged for a while.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 01:18 AM
3

I have put all nighters and fasted the whole day on just nuts and milk. I take butter rarely as my stomach's sensitive to it. That slow burn of fats means you never feel like you're running on empty or hitting a wall. When I started cutting I failed several times because the hunger cravings got too bad and I caught colds often. Protein fixed the colds and sore muscles, but it was the fats that surprised me. Makes it easier to regulate the carbs.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 04:01 PM
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Very useful list OP - it's an excellent post. I should add that whey protein and plant protein powders are also very filling especially when taken just before a meal. Hunger cravings feel the same regardless of what your body is actually asking so it is tempting to load up on carbs and fatty foods. But not all hunger cravings are the same. I'd say to fill up your stomach in a particular order when on a cutting diet First. Water. Drink Plenty of it that you pee clearly multiple times a day. When …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 02:48 PM
1

How much time are you on them anyway? Should never be more than 10-20% of your time when you've got a mission on your hands. Even that is still like 90 min-3 hrs a day I mean. With that much time I could learn to play a new instrument.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 06:30 AM
6

If you go to YT I think a lot of people are aware of the game now. But only some of them go beyond being victim.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 02:56 AM
6

Don't know if OP's post is a fake or not, but this is actually true for many others. It's strange how much the grass looks greener on the other side. There are studies that show that people keep switching marriage partners only to find that the same old story repeats itself on the other side after a while.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 02:55 AM
3

Most of us have a shitload of mental garbage to clear out and not just excess belly fat. Even the mind of a normal person is more sick than you can imagine. That's the beginning of mental illnesses. Think of it as benign vs malignant. Most of us are actually mentally unhealthy, only benign. A lot of people who get depressed or start hearing voices and what not have been too far in their own minds and thought and emotional BS much longer before that. Suddenly it went malignant. If your mind can't…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 09:27 AM
2

While the cancel culture post was new, the rest is not new by any means. Once on the RP road you realize how much time and energy is wasted in simply reacting to BS.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 02:18 AM
2

It is not about really forgiving another person, that's what I've been saying twice now. It's about coming to terms and acceptance with your own life. Forcing yourself to forgive someone else doesn't work. What's more important is getting past your own grief. The best forgiveness is doing the best you can to help yourself get unstuck. For me, I do not face the issue of forgiving my ex for example - I've never even considered it. That's lip service compared to what I've done for myself since then…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 04:32 PM
2

Let's just say you decide to forgive someone -- what happens anyway? Your memories and emotions will still haunt you. What has been done cannot be undone. Besides, it's illogical that anyone can do what they want and just get pardoned with a word. You can forgive, but you can't forget. Ultimately its you who suffers. There is no point in letting yourself suffer more than you already have. So forgiveness to me is not possible without getting out of the grip of one's past or the grip others contin…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 03:07 PM
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You can't forgive anyone without dissolving your own past traumas in the present. Forgiveness is really about healing oneself and making peace with the past.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 03:54 AM
1

SIAO syndrome - someone is always offended. Ironically found in self proclaimed very liberal societies.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 09:42 AM
2

If there is one expectation to drop it is that things will last. That's attachment to a preset outcome. Everything and everyone comes and goes. It's only a matter of when and how. So enjoy it while it lasts, and learn how to untie all those knots when the time comes to cut loose.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 03:29 PM
8

Human stupidity is universal.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 09:19 AM
75

This is the latest 21st century shit test. Twitter is an institution for the mentally challenged and brain damaged at this point.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 07:19 AM
6

The less you love yourself, the more you become needy for someone else.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 02:11 PM
1

Pay your lawyer and get them to do the talking.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 07:13 AM
1

Fear is a self fulfilling prophecy. So is confidence.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 07:13 AM
13

Twitter is a kangaroo court, for kangaroos.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 01:29 AM
2

I never claimed I was, you can keep guessing. It doesn't matter who I am, only what I've seen. RP is the same everywhere on earth guys whether it's America or Japan. I've had a very diverse exposure. It's a smaller world these days, with people migrating for education and marriages across countries getting a little more common for those who still believe in it. For e.g. I have a Christian friend in my circles who married an Indian girl at one end and later got into Buddhism and at the other a ge…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 05:55 PM
7

My Indian friend's attempts to get married story was so cringey like you can't believe it. There are these matrimonial sites where families try to fix up marriages for their children. And basically the women's hypergamy runs riot on the expectations list. For e.g. My friend was rejected a lot for not having a six figure monthly income (which in INR is actually very high). That was just the beginning. Worst part is there isn't anything related to attraction at all - it's all about provider and hi…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 01:44 PM
1

I have no reason to be politically correct. Toxic shit is toxic shit. No I am clearly talking about toxic and abusive - not your usual emotional day to day stuff. If you don't put very hard boundaries on that shit, it will totally hit the fan. This is serious. Sometimes the only boundary on that which works is "no relationship" and that's good. Even for not so crazy ones, it's up to you to decide if all that time and energy and attention and what not is a worthy price to pay for a bit of sex. Co…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 08:55 AM
3

To be fair, you were born with great genes like all healthy humans. But you actually put them to work and made them show that greatness.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 05:38 PM
12

Your ex is exactly like my ex, probably not so violent as my ex was on me and you are where I was 3 years ago. Get this, she was never a God whom you were supposed to please and if she gets unhappy it doesn't mean you must feel ashamed. More than anything, it's an individual's problem when they are or not happy within themselves. Women use the approval / sadness card to control their partners and we all fall for it. But in reality a moon has no light of its own. It needs the sun's light to shine…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 12:34 PM
2

Read PON and start creating a new life. Sometimes a failure is needed for you to course correct and for the life you need to live to happen. You are exactly where I was 3 years back into my horror story. I'm telling you this from my own experience - stop resisting what happened and make peace with it. Stop trying to fill up a hole inside and instead allow your consciousness to be like a child that throws off all its clothes and likes to run naked for a while. Let whatever happens happen. Sometim…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 12:22 PM
2

Toxic or abusive cycles get progressively worse with each cycle - what starts out as just criticism and upset moods can lead to full blown violence, verbal abuse and manic crazy. You shut that shit down or shut down the relationship, no other way out of it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 02:30 PM
3

The magician must never reveal the trick. So never explain it to anyone who doesn't want to become a magician very very badly. And these chicks must be way less smarter than I gave them credit for - how dumb can you be? So there's again no point in explaining to those incapable of understanding basic truths.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 08:13 AM
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A woman is only your friend some of the time. But she is always on the side of her feelings. While disrespect and contempt and abusive behavior is absolutely not to be entertained, I have come to a conclusion women actually NEED the love-hate or push-pull dynamic to feel attracted in a relationship. They manufacture a negative moment to feel good about the potential positivity and reconnection that comes afterward - kind of like making yourself starve to relish your next meal. In a way, a man's …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 03:25 AM
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How does something that keeps reinforcing her belief that she's right in being the victim and you're horrible ever help? You realize you're keeping it alive rather than finishing it? If you are supposed to move on, you don't keep going back to what you regurgitated. So never apologize more than once.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 12:47 PM
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Women have no frame, at best an emotional frame that changes with their feelings. They can be easily persuaded into believing they are a victim by arousing anger against their partners. This is how women in marriages often got manipulated by their own friends and family as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 06:31 AM
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Honesty. They're not ltr material. Sex and trust are both important needs - but they aren't friends.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 12:33 PM
3

Guess what, you're par for the course. And there were billions like you before, hundreds of millions like you right now, and billions more to come.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 04:15 PM
15

Yes trp recalibrates all your relationships. Once you realize most people are content being stuck in their own dysfunctional limits and have no passion for seeing what a full fledged human is capable of. As you improve, some of them will become openly toxic and contemptuous of your growth as well. Learn to keep company and have a good time without getting into the trap where your time and energy is used by others at your expense. I think you should make more effort searching for company outside …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 09:03 AM
8

I believe some women really enjoy the power of pussy that turns a man into a puppy. It might give a sick satisfaction to toy with someone. There are also women who tempt their beta husbands only to refuse them sex in the end and shame them on top of that, and I guess they must be repelled to the point of contempt on the inside to do that. I recall a post that said women feel like they're getting raped when an unattractive guy tries to have sex with them. And this guy sucks needy big time. And in…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 05:04 PM
6

Any attempt by them to try and be a man for long results in them running back to the privileges of being woman in short order. There was a book made by a Lebian feminist who ended up in therapy after an extended period of trying to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 04:51 AM
3

You realize all this is happening only because we're all letting it?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 05:11 PM
3

Also rule of thumb : Don't stay with a woman who really can't accept you. If everything you do is wrong as per her hamster, then it's not what you do, it's you who she doesn't like. In that case what's the use of changing what you know works best for your life and attractiveness? And further, what's the use of even staying in such a relationship? That's only going one way no matter what you do. You might as well figure out the best way for your relationship to die instead. When she's in love, he…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 12:10 PM
1

Most of your mommy issues are fixed once the man in you has awakened. And for the most part, unless your mom was some mentally sick nutcase, they are the most benign issues you'll ever have with women.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 05:28 AM
1

Oh that Royal story will be textbook material for demonstrating betaization and BP one day. It's all over his face no matter what he says.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 05:01 AM
5

Well, OP will have to tell David in language that he can understand, that it was God's will indeed, but not the God's will he had in mind.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 04:59 AM
3

I can't believe how blind he has to be after seeing more red than all the Ferrari fans at the Italian GP. It's a whole other level of dumb. He just missed out a Darwin Award honorable mention. Oh well, this need not be a bad thing in the long scheme of things. It might just be the shock he needs to wake up. Hard, painful, but truth. If David's a believer, maybe you need to tell him that who knows, maybe this is indeed the woman whom God wanted to ordain for him, but just not for the purpose he w…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 04:55 AM
22

We cannot actually help those whose eyes are closed off. They won't accept it until life itself shatters their old ideas. They might in turn harm your prospects. This whole save a bro or save a hoe thing is not for the unawakened. Besides, here not everyone is equally interested in helping others. All of us want to help ourselves, some will in turn help others, and some ONLY want to help themselves. A tool is a tool. The user decides what to do with it. There is no end prescription because you'r…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 05:19 AM
3

You had one bubble shattering experience. Don't talk of transformation just yet. You've just begun.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 04:05 PM
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For your healing : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F9mdiGta2Ew https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MFPCvEstLvs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AcYrm7h86Rk IMHO, women especially would benefit from Eckhart Tolle, given the history of collective pain. Stay blessed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 09:48 AM
2

There's a difference between being in the reality of now vs being inside whatever your mind keeps wanting in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 09:05 AM
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There is a story of a disciple who after hearing the master talk about God present in everything, came up with his own idea of how it worked. Therefore when a rampaging elephant came his way, in all his glorious stupidity, he refused to listen to everyone warning him to get out of the way because in his logic, if God was in the elephant there was no need to run. Well the elephant picked him up and threw him like a ragdoll and he ended up badly injured. Later on the master asked him, "Why didn't …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 08:11 AM
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They are not in the moment as much as being in whatever their mind wants in the moment. That's a critical failure.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 08:03 AM
2

The key mistake I see people do is to think of present as just a moment in time. It isn't. Try to recall any memory from your past? When do you recall it? Right now. Write down a list of your top 3 goals for the year. When do you think of it. Right now. The now is BIGGER than time, not a small slice of it. So I'd say it's more about knowing that you are already ever present more than trying to fit into an artificial idea of present. There's a difference between being in the reality of now vs bei…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 07:48 AM
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This technique is actually well known. Few people explicitly write their goals down, and those are the ones who achieve their goals. The idea is to plant it deeper into your subconscious mind, recruit more of your being for the job. Of late though the word manifestation has become popular. Unfortunately it has become synonynous with some magical way of getting what you want without working for it. Ah, we would so love it if we lived in a Harry Potter Universe don't we? Imagine how easy comfortab…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 12:18 PM
2

When people lose their shit, for some time, they actually want to stay angry and nasty that way till they get back to normal. Then they feel terrible.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 11:00 AM
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And this is a good example of woman's or a child's emotional frame in a nutshell. It's all about feelz, so it has no consistency.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 04:57 AM
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Women are like a live wire that can short circuit often - so they're searching for something to earth them to the ground. I think that apart from catharsis, the female mind and body really looks for something it cannot offer to itself at that moment that is beyond it's own mind. Especially if the "pain" side of her comes out -- it needs a strong presence to ground it back to normal. Remember women are more about communicating emotions and purged up shit than about actual content, especially at t…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 02:42 PM
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Emotions are a kind of energy and its infectious. Emotions have their own frame - and in the end its a question of who enters into whose frame, or doesn't. There's a good post called "Unstoppable emotional inertia" in mrp that serves as an excellent example on emotional frame control. If you must own the frame, you have to stop being a victim of circumstantial shit. Only then you can work with the situation to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 03:36 AM
2

OP has a classic BPD-NPD relationship dynamic. In general dark triads seek complementing dark triad behaviors as water seeks its own level. If he doesn't attempt to fix his shit, these are the only type of low quality fucked up relationships with broken people he's gonna have because that's what his mind is seeking.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 03:16 AM
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I'm taking a shot in the dark here, but if you can, read The Power of Now and a New Earth, especially the part about the pain body. It takes quite a bit of awareness, but I think it could help a lot in the long run. It seems like subconsciously, you literally do not want to be in your body. There is a deep traumatic pattern not getting dissolved. Next time it comes up, stay alert.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 09:02 PM
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Excellent post. The difference between NPD and BPD is that BPDs have no emotional thermostat and can become extremely needy and insecure to extreme contempt. BPDs can suffer so much emotion that they disassociate from their bodies. Read it up. It happened to my ex. Scary as shit. NPD is a bit more subtle. NPD's need not be insecure or overly emotional. It comes across as excessive sollipsism. This person is egotistical to the point where they're fucked up and think the whole universe really revo…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 08:09 AM
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Everything we do is just to get laid... is that true? Remember kids, orgasms last for mere seconds. If you want to get laid, you need smv and game, not EVERYTHING. Your mission is ultimately for you as a man - it does not exist only to help you get laid. Once you have success gaming and getting the sex you dreamed of, you realize sex and love is a very important part of life and relationships, but it's the icing on the cake. It's not the Holy Grail that will fix all your miseries once and for al…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 04:48 PM
3

You will often end up falling again and again into your old mistakes in different situations, often when confronted by stuff that you cannot prepare for. You have to fix problems step by step. It's humbling stuff to realize the hard way that a lifetime of bad habit isn't going to yield overnight. We're all just further up or down the road. Loss of frame is easily the biggest one. Mastery of the new mindset will need self evaluation, time and real experience. That is ok, as long as you grow from …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 09:22 AM
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It takes a year or two to internalize and correct depending on how blue pilled you are. And I'd say it could take 2 more before your evolution into the man you were meant to become is well and truly established. Don't wait years to make a move though, you are meant to start right now.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 03:36 AM
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My biggest problem back then and even now is that I'm too intellectual. In the past it made me a really socially awkward nerd - I used to be very needy before and wanted people to listen to me and all it got was ridicule. And it's horrible for dealing with women - the absolute worst mental model you could ever use for a relationship is the intellectual needy one. It still helps me see stuff in depth, but doesn't help dealing with it. You see relationships too transparently, you suddenly get it t…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 05:07 PM
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The best and most long lasting happiness is freedom - it's not even happiness as you know it, but freedom from the incessant itch to find happiness all the time. The more you can access that, the more you can achieve with your time and energy. Instant gratification will make you depressed long run, because the more you seek it the more you indirectly tell yourself you aren't really happy, and so it is.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 03:18 PM
2

95% of the issues on asktrp can be solved simply by a hard boundary and abundance mentality, life with or without her must be your own.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 05:30 AM
12

Man up and serve the feminine imperative!
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 11:02 AM
3

Pistol squat. If you can balance, it's equivalent to squatting with your body weight.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 08:10 AM
2

And watch Jeff Cavalier. No seriously. Watch Jeff Cavalier. He will shred the best of us, literally and figuratively. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cfetualiJqs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ae81rtoBpOw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLx5q7M741k https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q7tiLCn8z-8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y1r9toPQNkM Sprints are the best exercise out there. Increases HGH by 700% among other things. Also use home time to concentrate on stretching on the lean days. A lot of issu…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 03:32 AM
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TL : DR - Betas do beta things because they're kids, not yet men.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 02:57 AM
2

India is a gen or 2 behind America when it comes to relationships and like many eastern countries, marriage is still a thing, and infidelity is just now growing. Although marriage might last for another generation tops. Indian husbands as far as I see are for the most part horribly beta. There was this friend of mine who was telling me about how the urban women these days actively seek beta partners who can operate in their frame but don't like them that much either for the same reason. In fact …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 06:11 AM
2

The purpose of that is not MGTOW, certainly not the way the term is thrown around these days, not a fallout of butthurt. And it's not really celibacy as understood in Christianity, nor is it something recommended for everyone. You want real old school red pill? Read Krishna and all that he did.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 06:02 AM
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Chanakya wasn't mgtow, but he was the Indian version of Machiavelli for sure. And predated him by a lot. However not everything he said was in the context of relationships or the laws of power a king ought to watch out for. So OP would do well to filter out the irrelevant from this sub. A lot of that is socio political and religious more than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 05:58 AM
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For those people, fixing butt hurt and getting out of their anger phase would very well be a mission by itself alongside all other stuff. I'll tell you, the one who suffers most from butt hurt is yourself. Life moves on very quickly from moment to moment, other people move on, but you keep suffering. Don't poison yourselves with toxic levels of pain and anger.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 10:54 AM
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Although it's true everyone gets hurt and angry in the beginning of their disillusionment, there cannot be too many posts on the topic of getting out of perpetual butthurt or deep seated rage. The actual thing that happened to hit you in your gut is probably long over, sometimes in about as much time as it took to read a few breakup messages, but it's memory and all that emotion keeps going - replaying in your head. One truth you guys will see is that life flows on really quickly, and never stop…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 10:45 AM
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You call this a "lockdown" in America? What China did, THAT was a lockdown.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 01:59 PM
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Ha ha...men can date up and down (but not so down to the point of un-attractiveness). Women are way more picky (but only as long as their prime lasts). It's just a partial manifestation of K vs R Factor reproduction.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 05:30 AM
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Most of you guys ought to look in your own backyard. You will usually be taller than more girls from your own region than the average European or American.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 03:51 AM
5

Amazon to buy and everything is anyway on library genesis (gen.lib.rus.ec)
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 03:50 AM
5

You should have observed celebrities then. Initial attraction is all about looks. I think you learnt one lesson - everything has a place and purpose. And your game is never stronger than its weakest part. Don't listen to people who shit on others - they're just upset someone else has a tool they don't.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 03:46 AM
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Lesson : Every element of game has a place and purpose. Your game will never be stronger than its weakest link. Don't listen to those who shit on others using a tool of their choice. They're usually upset because they haven't learned to use it themselves.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 03:45 AM
2

OP, first go stand in front of the mirror and take a good look at yourself. Then repeat "My marriage is already finished". You are trying to save a dead horse at this point. Drop everything you think you want and see the truth. You're responsible for your life. You're just meeting a reflection of yourself in your life. You allowed circumstances to dominate you and became too comfortable, thinking that nothing was wrong - instead of exerting enough dominance to get the life you wanted. Your wife …
/r/askMRP02/05/20 03:05 AM
1

How about this? The DIDN'T GET LAID WTBH speech Full form : Daddy I Do Not Think (a) Girls' Extramarital Thoughts (of)Loving Another Is Definitely Wrong To Be Honest speech.
/r/askMRP01/05/20 05:05 PM
1

When I found out about that running guy 5 weeks ago (before TRP, Tomassi etc.), I told her that I don't like it. However, I would accept it, if she needs it for her mental state. I know how exhausted she is from her life. I trust her that she stays within boundaries. No physical contact. I told her that she has to be honest to me. If she goes running with him, she has to tell me. If I have the feeling that I can't trust her, my head will drive both of us crazy. Everything that's wrong with you c…
/r/askMRP01/05/20 04:33 PM
1

Disasters they say are a series of many events and failures.
/r/askMRP01/05/20 04:30 PM
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All feminists will say that real feminists are not like that (RFANLT) or real feminism is not like that (RFLINT) or not all feminists are like that (NAFALT). Add that to the acronyms list.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 06:08 AM
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I have known Indian guys like this. No woman in the universe can betaize 2 men at once like an Indian mom. Yes that includes the husband. I had guys terrified of telling their parents they liked a girl for fear of shame and excommunication. It can get worse than some Orthodox Christians and their sins. Indian moms just do not let their sons individuate into men and unleash what they're capable of. Often it's mom who picks the girl for her boy and then spends years catfighting with the wife. Usua…
/r/askMRP30/04/20 11:04 AM
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OP sounds Indian. Those guys are just stuck in not one but 2 women's frames. Indian moms never let their sons individuate, shit test them in ways they don't use even on the husband when they try, and use them as backup comfort after dad gets middle aged and buys a retirement home at the bottom of beta valley. And the guys have no experience handling multiple competing women so you see where this goes...
/r/askMRP30/04/20 10:52 AM
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The communication argument again. When a relationship fails, everything is blamed on communication. The very fact that everyone thinks it's communication issues is a clear sign that people are indeed ignorant of who they are and what they want. Most of the time that is not the real problem. The communication argument runs on an assumption that we really believe we are far more rational and logical than we really are. And that the problem can be solved by rational means. But as an exercise, if on…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 03:38 AM
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No this question is in the context of relationships. Specifically why despite all attempts to please by trying to do things her way and give her what she says she wants, a man ends up failing in the end and then asking the question. When men come here with this question in mind, there's a context behind it. The exact words of the question itself are not as important as the original problem behind it.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 12:50 AM
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I was reading some posts in oys, asktrp and askmrp before writing this. In every one of them, the problem of the man's frame is persistent. Most cases are blatant, others more subtle but then I look back and realize I've been doing this as well but didn't realize it.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 05:07 PM
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I have made another post on fault va responsibility. To say that these factors are at work is stating a fact -- it does not make you a victim by itself. The thing is what are you going to do once you know this? There will be an anger phase - no one can pretend to be robotic about RP realizations. The BP you is going to get his heart broken, it's part of the unplugging. You are going to face grief. I won't blame anyone for the pain they feel. But if you choose to get stuck in the anger phase fore…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 01:32 PM
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I have finally found the right words, which I've now put in the post. All that we know today of men, women and the truths of relationships comes only because at some point, a few men snapped out of a woman's frame in sheer frustration, and then started to use their own brains and eyes and observe women from their own frame. The rest is history. Today trp and mrp are the places where more knowledge on women and relationships is available in one place than at any other time in history. The answer …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 11:57 AM
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The journey starts with the woman and ends in the man. I did not say that you should not ask the question. I said that everyone starts out only BECAUSE of that question and ultimately they find their answers in themselves. To get this, just read the Manual by Anton and see how its presented. You will have to decide whether the title is about what women want or what a man should be. While we do get to learn a lot about the nature and needs of the feminine, beyond that you realize the answers to m…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 10:20 AM
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All women are a bit NPD and BPD, you can't have the feminine without some amounts of it, as you can't have the masculine without a bit of psychopathy (as it not nice or politically incorrect or making light of serious sensitive stuff) or some amount of narcissism (to hold frame, have dominance and amused mastery). The key word is disorder. Usually the Cluster B disorders are close companions of each other.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 05:39 AM
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Your statistics has a major problem - most people aren't near what they're capable of. There's way too much shit to clean up. A dirty sample will never give you proper results. Clean up the slate proper, look at everyday experience where people do not realize they are being observed, and then see what people can really be.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 04:56 AM
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As usual - the exception argument or the sample size argument. Women do have an intrinsic nature, however it's their frames and emotions that are too fluid. My words might sound harsh, but they are just an observation. Look, I've got women in my family and circles who're ambitious enough to be high level top management in big fincorps - at work things are always different. But when it comes to the life part - the way you relate to them on a day to day basis though, and how they relate to each ot…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 03:39 AM
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There is no real why except that men are polygamous and women hypergamous (with both having some group sex fantasies). And that the impact of past sexual and emotional memory on a woman can be too strong for her to pair bond or get over her past and that it can also affect men who have too much oneitis. The rest has no moral right and wrong, but there are consequences to every choice and the lessons learnt from that decide what worked and what didn't. All other stuff are your personal boundaries…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 10:52 AM
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The moment you call it another belief system is when you've lost the plot. Belief systems are for followers and fanboys -- those who aren't observing humans and basic human instincts enough and who lack enough experience. And who would very gladly be the sheep if the messiah promises to save their asses for them. Opinions have become important in an era where the keyboard is more important than life experience, where "I feel" matters more than what is. TRP is just a fancy name for the less than …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 07:54 AM
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I'll coin a term for this speech by a woman - DIDN'T LAID W ("Daddy I do not think loving another is dead wrong"). If you are married and get this message from your wife, just become dad for one second, cause well, it's true, then imagine your teenage daughter just said this, get the message and from then on don't see your wife as anything else, which by corollary means don't be her husband or lover anymore, because you already aren't. What you are hearing is retroactive hamstering.
/r/askMRP28/04/20 05:45 AM
1

Look at what happened to Jordan Peterson's daughter. He couldn't do anything about it. He probably learnt a bitter pill himself.
/r/askMRP28/04/20 05:15 AM
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There are women who are more masculine in action than you are, despite staying as feminine as they can be. You do calisthenics for 10d and then rant about how hard it is. Instead of embarking on Project Trainwreck, you could get your wife to lift and tone her body, which might have fixed that issue. But before that there's a lot more to fix in the mirror. First of all, stop acting and thinking like a butt hurt teenage girl. This alone will fix 90% of the problem.
/r/askMRP28/04/20 04:56 AM
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Can't cross link. Go read it over there. That was a surprising read (lack of good experience to blame) but it tells you just how powerful sexual memory can be on a woman.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/20 03:33 AM
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I have a hunch both of you might be from RPW. In my opinion Eckhart and Adyashanti should be a must read for dealing with inner pain so if you can make that a regular practice and let others on that sub know the benefits. Both of them have said a lot about it and more importantly how to deal with it. Let me be blunt - shit is going to happen in life. Challenges, failures, mistakes, break ups, divorce, health issues, death and now this virus - they are a reality. At some point we've learnt there'…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 04:37 PM
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If it fixed you it would be perfect.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 06:05 AM
1

TLDR - A collossal case of fuck up, both inside and out. The fuck up on the outside just reflects the fuck up within.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 04:50 AM
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For all those who don't want to walk the hard road.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 05:05 PM
1

What are the odds a seasoned carousel rider will be able, on their accord, be able to form, maintain, and build upon healthy meaningful relationships after years of behavior based upon sexual value? Show me one that met the mrp standard...
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 04:45 PM
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Ideas are not spirituality, views, emotions, politics -- all that isn't. That which works, that alone is. Spirituality is very practical. Truth is to know oneself honestly -- one thing we do here and on mrp is that we learn to uncompromisingly face our own shit. You can get the Power of Now and a New Earth, read them, or just read them and then just be with that deep feeling and get into a daily meditation practice and also bring it in to your daily activities. Just don't mistake awareness for n…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 03:45 PM
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I understand why Eckhart Tolle wrote a chapter only on relationships and for women. That will help you. I have been observing long enough to realize that most people are insane, just echoing others' thoughts and never observing the world themselves. It's blind leading the blind. If they opened their eyes, its only a matter of time before these things become apparent. Everyone has to find their own devil within them, the patterns that self sabotage their lives and address it. My last post was why…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 03:04 PM
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It requires one second of waking up and realizing that all this shit is already finished and all that they're going through is only happening in their own heads now. Of course, getting over it takes a while after that, but now it isn't going further downhill anymore. Of course if you're already deep in hell hole, it needs a lot just to get to that one moment of clarity. The question is, do they want to save themselves? Or not? Most people simply don't have any conscious control over themselves t…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 02:22 PM
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Just don't keep making the same mistakes again and again trying to look to a woman for your ultimate salvation. Or else you would have gone through it all and learnt nothing. The guys who ask such questions are still stuck in a consumer mindset, ready to be victims. Their choices have not yet come from a position of responsibility. They look to others for salvation not knowing the power of what they're capable of bringing to life. I look at love like diving into the deep end of the pool. If you …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 05:48 AM
2

Then you haven't had much experience.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 02:15 AM
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When I used the word past, I mean past experiences. Maybe I should have put the word experience in the title, but that is one thing that can't be edited later on, you only get one chance. There isn't a single post of mine where I ever felt I truly nailed the title, but I think the readers will get what it means. I'll put that word in the TL:DR and a note at the end. Nailed it on the subject of reputation. A man's reputation is everything, but especially so in a female dominated society where wom…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 04:01 PM
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When you stretch the timescale, they really don't have a clue what they want.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 03:18 AM
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Next time I should write about the whole fanboy phenomenon and just how unbelievably dumb it is for a man's growth.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 04:58 PM
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Rollo wasn't a bad guy, he was just more into studying intersexual dynamics, which doesn't offer anything in terms of action points, just things to watch out for. Honestly guy gets a bad rep when he's just offering what he can. Though to be fair, he can get repetitive. By contrast, Anton (book quoted in post) is really good but it's more seduction specific with only a couple of points for an LTR. For all those noobs boasting, the Red Pill is humbling stuff to the point of humiliation. It is one …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 08:02 AM
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My version of the dual qualities we seek in women differs from this one, in that it is not completely analogous to the AF/BB model, but something more tweaked to suit a man's specific needs. See the Madonna whore concept is a problem in socieities, especially very bluepilled religious societies because people have failed to accept the reality of their sexual side and a lot of black and white morality on the taboo of sex exists. My model, and this has been first written a few days back by another…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 05:43 AM
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One thing you have to know is that there is a fundamental flaw in this question - "What do women want?" The flaw is this -- Every single man who ever asked this question is operating in a woman's frame, with her as the goddess whom he's trying to learn to please. And as we know, women don't have much of a frame at all. That is the source of the confusion. As for the much more useful question "Who am I, the man?", it never occurs to the average man to ask himself that, let alone answer it. His se…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 04:54 PM
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That's why I wrote a post wondering why the feminized left liberal media and entire feminist nations have a fascination for some bad boys.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 02:16 PM
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Plus there is media politics at work deliberately not reporting on the atrocities of one group of people supported by the left while blowing up anything remotely connected to the right. Trump for all that I don't like about him doesn't mind calling a spade a spade though. For all those of you who are shouting about unfair it is, yes it is true. A man has no intrinsic value. But it is possible for him to create his value if he is willing so look at the bright side - not easy, but that is our way.…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 02:11 PM
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I forgot to mention this point. Added it up there, but here you go. EDIT : Every time your relationship changes from one stage to another on the hierarchy ladder, the old cycle of push-pull attraction changes or is broken. Marriage is the worst offender here, but it can apply to all levels. Before an LTR or marriage dating came with a natural push and pull cycle, but afterward you end up spending most of your time sharing space and time which can kill the old cycle. Without starting off a new in…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 07:29 AM
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If you want to know how Women in stage 2 and 3 feel, think of it as a more complex and larger version of your attempts to stop touching your dick when aroused. At this stage it is easier for a teenage boy to stop masturbating than for them to stop cheating.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:04 PM
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The difference between hotness and beauty lies in the specific hormonal response - hotness is the result of testosterone and beauty and the butterflies come from dopamine. Specifically what I've observed is that the "beauty" and the crush part comes from you seeing a woman's face and eyes and her voice. The hotness part that gets your sex drive going comes from the rest of her body. Of course when sufficiently aroused, anything will do. The feminine body language involved in giving crush respons…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 04:25 PM
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The book that sparked this insight was Franco's Manual of seduction and a post on mrp. It just struck me as I was reading that other post that love is cyclic and has a push and pull to it.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 02:20 PM
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Apologies for being hasty to comment. I read your first stat at 240 lbs and commented right away, but somewhere missed the second number where you brought it down to 198 lbs. My bad. Sorry about that.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 06:29 AM
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I got to see the pic of a prominent feminist in my country and it looked like someone who smoked, used weed and hadn't bathed or combed their hair for a year... Her only saving grace was that she wasn't totally obese. That wasn't hitting just one wall - more like four walls. Can't believe it's people like this influencing popular opinion. Ever noticed that virtually every one of these cases are totally unattractive, both inside and out? Why do they do this to themselves? I feel they carry a patt…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:38 AM
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PS : There is a book called Finding Ultra by Rich Roll that's a good example of how a middle aged out of shape lawyer when suddenly confronted with the reality that he wasn't immortal, got out of a lifetime of binge drinking and found out what he could really be when not driven by pain all the time. Special emphasis on his drinking addiction and how it wrecked his life up and how he came out of it - that's the lesson there. That IMHO is a textbook example of what I mean when I say your quest for…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 04:55 AM
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Yes acceptance is sort of like the first most important step. But the trick to that is honest acceptance, which means reconciling to the truth of life. Abundance comes a little further down the road once you've realized you already have the "deep" fulfilling happiness you seek and the happiness of pleasure comes and goes like waves. Once the expectation that you should be high all the time goes away after some struggle , you feel relieved even, and that's when you realize you were in fact driven…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 04:45 AM
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All this is good. But remember, a good woman should not be an excuse for not addressing your issues, she shouldn't become a reason for you to stop getting better just because nothing is compelling you to improve. Use what you have as a platform to create something more.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 03:36 AM
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I got to see the pic of a prominent feminist in my country and it looked like someone who smoked, used weed and hadn't bathed or combed their hair for a year... Her only saving grace was that she wasn't obese. Can't believe it's people like this influencing popular opinion. Ever noticed that virtually every one of these cases are totally unattractive, both inside and out? Why do they do this to themselves?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 05:00 PM
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Young man, you are spending way too much time on the internet reading conspiracy theories. Now stop living in a mental world and go out and live in a real one, well at least after the lockdown ends. I donno who the hell the other parties are, but I do know Cultural Marxism is a real thing. One more thing, questions on asktrp only.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 05:32 AM
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Put this on mrp. You might get some good advice on dealing with this.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 06:21 PM
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I made it into a full fledged post now.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 05:20 PM
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Inspector Faggot turns out to be a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/20 02:22 PM
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You cannot really pursue true happiness. You can only express it and bring it into your life. The more you pursue it, the less you will find. Every other thing - goals, achievements, things, people - can be pursued in this universe, but this can't. Abundance can only be brought in. I broke my head for 12 years over the happiness problem, only getting unhappier. In the end, the solution was simple.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 01:45 PM
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There is a saying that wanting is better than having. Or that only a starving man knows the real taste of food. If you have eaten too much, your body actually changes its sense of taste so you don't want to eat anymore. The same thing you devoured easily and effortlessly as a hungry guy might now actually feel terrible to keep eating. You might even get upset when someone forces you to eat when you're full. Don't you see this with kids and even some grown ups all the time? In old books on love, …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 03:58 AM
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The most honest reason is that it is actually much harder for a man to gain genuine abundance than a woman during their peak years. Men simply need to do so much more to peak their smv and abundance. Plus men are intrinsically more solid - it takes time to change. As a result they get bonded more and find it harder to let go.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 06:59 AM
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That's what happens when one word love gets used for a lot of very different things. And when you have seen only one human being in your whole life and think this is where the world begins and ends. Men know subconsciously that it is harder for them to find abundance in the beginning, that they need to consciously strive hard to max out their potential and value, so they tend to get more attached. Also men themselves get hurt in more subtly deeper ways than women. Women are more creatures of the…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 06:52 AM
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In Taoism masculine is seen as a mountain channel the flow of the water and femininity is seen as the waves of water that dissolve the rock.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 06:46 AM
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It's actually our education system. You don't study so that this will actually be useful to you tomorrow - you study just for answering an exam, and then you are supposed to think you're really smart. And then we have internet and social media that's made words way more powerful than actions. As a result whatsApp university is actually a real thing now. Anyone who can write well BS is considered smart because they have an opinion. Well they could be jobless too. On this place I've seen a lot of …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 07:10 AM
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Reactive vs proactive. Proactive motivation is always available for you. It's the reactive one that wants to wait for the good times alone. Embrace the pain of growth and soon you'll see that most of it was only your own resistance.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 04:42 AM
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You won't understand because you are a guy and you think like one. Women always have a love hate relationship with other women, the more distant, the more the hate - there's no neutral gear in a woman. And the way they compete can make sports seem simple.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 09:57 AM
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It will end when a large number of men get the balls to stand up for themselves instead of stooping down for pussy. Think about it, men are the ones who allowed all this to happen. Women are just being women the whole time.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 03:00 AM
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There are lots of things you can do to style a receding hairline with a good barber - I suggest you go for deep scalp massaging and using your forehead and earlobe muscles to loosen up the scalp skin so it doesn't attach to the bone (giving that dome shaped look). Also a bald look with some sunglasses and nice muscles and clothing style also make up for it. After doing, all this, your ability to carry yourself with ease in any situation is the most important thing. Those who disrespect you, send…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 03:22 AM
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The only analogy I can think of is a sick person takes medicines to feel confident and healthy and then gets sick again to feel confident that the medicine will still work and make them feel healthy and confident again.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/20 11:01 AM
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You forgot reason 6. Your smartphone has made you dumber and autistic.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 04:18 PM
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We need a master thread on STD's and how to make sure you don't get them from whichever chick you're fucking. And how to insist that she stays clean.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 03:51 AM
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Upload it on Library Genesis asap.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/20 05:43 PM
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I think women, as women, can't help themselves from trying to relate in feminine ways, but the moment you become feminine they can't relate to you as a man anymore. Women need women and men. But it cannot happen in the same person. Even an average woman is so compartmentalized by contrary sets of needs, I wonder how their head doesn't hurt.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 05:24 AM
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Of many of the books I read, that one has made quite an impact on me and forced me to see where I've been far less proactive and less responsible than I should have. I am going to read it again. That last chapter of the book is gold IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 04:03 PM
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If you're military, then you know the meaning of the ownership best sir. Extreme Ownership has been one of the best books I've read yet. My only argument here is that the word fault can be interpreted differently in usual society, whereas responsibility has a clearer meaning. Being clear and precise prevents much misunderstanding.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 04:47 AM
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Fault is NOT a synonym for responsibility. Fault is explicitly a blame word. I don't know who used the word fault in the first place (maybe it was JP?), but he did a crime by substituting the word "fault" for "responsibility". The thing that gets so misunderstood is this -- when it comes to life, we have little control over a lot of things that happen to us. What we DO have control over (if we wake up and see) is the sense of ownership and responsibility - looking at what we can do with what lif…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 03:09 AM
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And not even most men - definitely not to any idealistic noobs. Not to any one who has not had the actual experience or at least witnessed first hand the actual truths of human behavior.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 02:53 AM
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A feature of femininity itself is the lack of frame and a tendency to dissolve boundaries at a collective level.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 04:18 PM
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There is always that noob who never quite gets this - "DO NOT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB!"
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 04:08 PM
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Femininity may seek trust in men, but inherently it is untrustworthy. Trust is a masculine quality. It is essential to stability and survival of the tribe - and our need for trust is very important - a trust violation is one of the most painful things that you can suffer.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 04:05 PM
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Whatever end game you choose being a man, as the man you were meant to be, and own it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/20 05:49 PM
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Ultimately at every man's journey he grows to a point where he is the maker of his destiny, the frame is his, the rules of the game are his, and the valid path is whichever path he decides to travel on and own the journey. The endgame is the one he writes. The only issue is when the man hasn't come to that point. Then he is still a reactive victim robbed of his personal power.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/20 05:50 AM
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Power racks, Power Towers, pull up bars (preferable a set I can screw in to the wall, with bigger screws than supplied) and a set of barbells and dumbbells -- adjustable ones are more work to setup but a couple of them are cheaper than a whole set of dumbells. IMHO the lat pulldown combined with row machine is the only machine I'd invest in as you do need some assistance pulling. Floor mats, resistance bands, the exercise bike, a jump rope, a stretch of road or lawn long enough to sprint a coupl…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/20 08:52 AM
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Oh I never fell for that even when even in the BP days. But honestly you will be surprised just how much of the human race is buying into this narrative now. Everyone now believes they are actually choosing their partners when almost all their behavior is driven by instinct. "My choice" is a pillar of progressive fempowerment even when you exclude the cheating dimension of it. But that's not the point. The point is, they're steadily pushing the choice narrative further and further into the stage…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 11:06 AM
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Fat is natural, fit isn't. True. Healthy? Yeah, right as if you chose to be a fatass just to prove a point... There are no universal laws in my relationships. But there are MY laws... If you really want to know, may you be cheated upon and the painful truth be known to you in the family court. Life is a great teacher, but not a nice one. :)
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 11:07 AM
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Emotions are not choices, but reactions. They are not choosing really, their emotions have already made the outcome inevitable. In emotional reality, there is very little separating the man and animal, just a thin veneer of sanity.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 06:08 AM
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Let me see if I understood the stages : Getting kicked in the butt all the time in her game. Improving yourself to better play in her game. Getting to the point where she may change the rules of her game for you. Realizing it's never enough to play her game, she needs to play yours. Creating your own game based on what you want and what's needed. Improving yourself to play your game. She becomes curious and can no longer ignore the reality of your game. It works her through the whole emotional s…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/20 05:34 AM
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I'll be honest with you. Almost everything that can be said about relationships has been said. But in spite of that, sometimes a new insight just happens to come along to punch you in the face. You would be surprised to know how many of my married friends and family totally fell for the "Her choice" thing. First thing is that these women defend the sisterhood (at least in public, in private they bitch about other women). Some of the men weren't too pleased with that. :) Honestly, the real expert…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 03:32 AM
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What will hurt you more is knowing that anything that starts with the words "A real man" Or "If he loves you truly" is nothing but a list of expectations. There isn't a shred of attraction or devotion towards you it. The only one being loved is oneself.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 07:39 AM
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Check the names in the media and where they come from. It is very interesting their backgrounds. And yes, absolutely check where the money is coming from. That will tell you everything.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 03:27 AM
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Playing victim is a deep rooted habit. It's fun and validating too. So don't expect it to go away soon. Greed has no ceiling.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 03:22 AM
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My mum's driving my beta dad crazy over this right now. And he has no power to tell her to be quiet - he'll just get scornfully dismissed. Her dad on the other hand when he was alive only ever needed to glare at his daughter and it would get her quiet and apologizing. The difference is obvious. Mum couldn't betaize her dad, but my dad, got he belongs in the beta Hall of fame and he can't see what's wrong. My grandpa is mum's hero, my dad is "ugh... " Actually the problem is the average mind gene…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 09:11 AM
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Actually he makes the right assumptions, the same assumptions that the countries government themselves must have told themselves, that they're just being humanitarian. What he and they don't realize is that sexual energy is more subconscious than they thought and is not just something that happens between a man and a woman, but easily finds expression both in corporate behavior and politics of nations as well. Logically it sounds unbelievable, crazy. But it is true. Behaviour does not lie.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 07:33 AM
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Save it as it is now. It's been brushed up but.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 07:28 AM
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You have a point. However of late I can't help but notice just how much politics is becoming an actual battle of the sexes, especially in America. Otherwise I wouldn't have thought of this post.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 05:26 AM
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If the prison idea actually works as claimed, that would be something else. I am not sure if that would work on people who are actual psychopaths or pure evil though. It would work on someone who realizes he made a mistake and regrets it. Prisons in other countries on the other hand make the Devil seem benign.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 05:25 AM
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Hard to believe Scandanavia was was once Viking land huh? Actually not only would such a book be banned, I'd be banned from many countries and because this topic spilled beyond gender politics into religion, some extremists might consider making me dead asap.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 05:06 AM
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Would you believe this was Viking land once upon a time?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 05:03 AM
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Don't get robbed in Paris. I had friends who went there and when they told me all the precautions they had to take, I was surprised. First world country that unsafe?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 03:41 AM
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Before some guys come here and call me racist or xenophobic or some other thing. I personally wouldn't mind immigration, but in this case the results of a strategy speak for themselves. All strategies don't work all time. In WW1 and WW2, the USA was a boon to those who wanted to escape from Russia or the Nazis. This wasn't the same result. This was one case where feminized Europe just went too far. A solution's effectiveness is known by the results whatever people feel or think.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 03:34 AM
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I think I am better suited for a blog writer than a forum poster. It's just me that I like to look deep into things.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 01:56 AM
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Insecurity is a word frequently tossed by women to explain much brutish behavior of men. Actually they're talking more about themselves. Insecurity is a powerful driver of FEMININE behavior - it's powered by their emotional volatility. I think abusive men all over the world aren't acting out of insecurity, that's actually less common. They're acting that way because they're angry brutes high on testosterone and low on self control. And some are acting that way because they're psychopaths and dar…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 05:19 PM
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Well, actually I have to say this. Religion is the ultimate betaizing tool for the masses - but don't expect politicians and social media warriors to do any kind of deep research into them. They're all running on feelz. Comparing those guys with actual TRP aware men doesn't work very well. The RP guy is something different, there's modern in him. By logic, the rawest man of all was caveman. But the RP guy can't be truly compared to our caveman ancestors even though he knows what generates raw se…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 04:53 PM
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The men in power just need cheap labour force to replace their ageing native demographic. I never claimed women created a welfare, I said they favor it. The idea is inherently a feminine construct. Oh yes, it sounds insane - I am sure no one actually thinks these exact words. But I only look at what people do. If you want me to listen to what they say, I was listening to what Angela Merkel had to say about it. She was the one who came up with the "open door" policy in Germany. She almost admitte…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 03:14 PM
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Go lift. At least. Then read the sidebar and try to understand what it's like to become a sexy man of high value.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 01:28 PM
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Ooo, spicy chilli coming up.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 01:26 PM
1

Have any real content and evidence to offer?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 01:12 PM
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I'm not Swedish.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 01:12 PM
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Statistically, democracy actually works well when you see the likes and dislikes for anything good out there on the net. Most people (85-95%) seem sensible enough when it comes to rating videos and stuff on Amazon. But you know what the big problem with democracy really is? The average voter has no responsibility beyond throwing in a piece of paper into a box or pressing a button on a machine to decide the fate of a nation for the next 4-5 years. Everything else you pay almost half your income i…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 12:58 PM
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Masculine republics give way to feminine democracies, and feminine democracies give way to tyranny Where did you get this from?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 12:13 PM
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It would have been shorter, but just as I finished writing it, an idea occurred to me to write about the behavior of the masculine mindset in politics to compare the differences. That made it longer by 7-8 paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 12:13 PM
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You sound like a guy who never really mastered it, or were already a natural, but began to overthink and overworry. And you began to suffer from follower's disease, which is exactly the opposite of what is needed. And then after this much BP behaviour later, you claimed Red pill fucked your game. Then you stopped and finally actually did some real RP for a change. Where did this place tell you to do many of the things you did? Or did you get your advice from the Washington Post? But seriously, t…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 02:46 PM
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I wonder what was Mandy's relationship with her father and other men in her family. Also mentally broken low self esteem self sabotaging women should not be used as the template for healthy behavior.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 04:34 AM
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She's not yours. It was her turn would be a better mindset to cultivate. Course at first, it feels like taking it, but it must be cultivated. Right now you're speaking solipsism like a child or a woman. Women know fully well what they're doing when they fuck around and then absolve responsibility. You are responsible for everything. At least you could own up to it honestly. There is no morality about the sex instinct, but look at it like this. If you fucked with my hypothetical wife (but I would…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 03:59 PM
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Ok. But just remember. Try to fuck with me, and I WILL fuck you. Ready? Your choice. But also your consequences. Own it.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 04:26 AM
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Manipulation is only bad when it is used to abuse. Those who get depressed are still blue pulled thinking BP is good and RP is bad.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 04:24 AM
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I think most people cheat only because they can't sink a bad relationship honestly or can't honestly deal with their polygamous / hypergamous natures. Seriously why cheat if your SMV is high enough you can be brazenly honest and you have the power to attract almost anyone and walk away? In patriarchal societies men are openly polygamous. I've seen a lot of murder cases on shows like Forensic Files back in the day. And one thing I never get in most of the cases is "Gee, if their relationship was …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 12:52 PM
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Also you need to get better at owning your emotions and expressing yourself in masculine ways so you don't put up walls, or else it still shows you give too much fuck over what she says - it also conveys you're willing to suffer the silent victim rather than punish bad behaviour then and there. Would you sit back and let anyone else treat you like that? If you expect good manners from complete strangers, aren't your standards supposed to be higher for those who want to get closer? Closing up is …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/20 05:15 AM
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This entitlement mentality will continue until men are the ones who start selecting whom they want to be with.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 03:03 AM
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I don't know. But a bit of abundance mentality could snap you out of being a victim to her testing. You are still in her frame if she alone sets standards and does the testing. Just remember, if she's the only one throwing tests and expecting you to live up to her standards, she's the dominant. You'd have to move up to active dominance now, refuse to play her power games by her rules and see if there's too much past baggage is involved. In my case just considering the idea made me realize out wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 08:01 AM
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Good cop, bad cop. Accept it and then just do what you know is right. Some of you carry more resentment than you realize. It doesn't matter what kind of resentment it is. The opposite of crazy is still crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 07:36 AM
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When you dissolve your ego, you're challenging her to dissolve hers, or be left behind.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/20 07:34 AM
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Girls always need their daddy even when they're women. Boys become men when they break away from mommy.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/20 05:01 PM
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Many years ago, in my very first 4 months of serious gymming (started out as real rib showing skinny and horribly weak kid), I was up to 90 pounds on the bench and those beginner gains came quick. I was already over 240 on the leg press and deadlifting 100 lbs. Nothing to boast of back then compared to others, but I always thought I was some hard gainer who was genetically cursed to be stick lean. Improving my diet changed all that.If we can't even do that, then god, we're screwed.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 03:51 PM
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Of what use is getting into a discussion with those whose minds are already made up? Dumb right? After learning acta non verba, I have cut down on opinion discussions with people in my family and circles. People are too heavily emotionally invested into their opinions although there could be nothing in terms of action or results or reality to back it up. Few of them learn even when reality hits them like a train, they just stay upset that the world isn't what they believed. Letting go of their n…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 07:11 AM
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Give me one good reason why society would want you to become a man at your peak. If you do, they wouldn't be able to control you.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/20 03:55 PM
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You don't. Neg and tease them, get them vulnerable and out of their scared little egos. If they're not brain damaged, soon the girl in them will emerge. I believe feminism itself arose because of a subconscious need for the feminine to find the masculinity it never got. That and the lesbian or high T women. This guy nailed it.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/20 05:00 AM
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Humans are not wolves - number 1. What we call alpha here is just a masculine mindset. The fact we actually have to categorize it as such tells you how far we've fallen - number 2 At the highest level of alpha - you decide what is right and what to do with the knowledge and tools and own it - number 3 Your link is spam dammit! - number 4
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 04:27 PM
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I heard of this problem in Rich Roll's finding ultra. I myself probably have an issue of my right leg being a few mm longer and a slight asymmetry which impacts my right hip - an exercise by Jeff Cavalier to loosen up a tight hip has been a life saver. Stretching, chiropractic exercises, foam rolling to remove scar tissue all help out with imbalances.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 04:35 AM
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Also consider the possibility of HIIT once you've reached the point where you can sprint regularly without feeling like you're going to have a heart attack. HIIT is highly anerobic and also increases T and HGH levels and burns a lot more fat. Under no circumstances you can neglect strength training. Without being quite strong, you can't do such intense cardio. Tennis players don't look big, but they can deadlift over twice their body weight and play for hours. Steady state cardio is better for i…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 04:31 AM
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Find a chiropractor. Right now you've not yet fixed the root cause. Interestingly, sprinter Usain Bolt has scilosis and so does Ultramarathoner Scott Jurek.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 04:09 AM
1

"A lot of you reading this will be scared to screen because you know deep down a lot of women are going to fail and you'll have to NEXT them. Don't be a pussy because you're afraid to lose them and then never actually check them on the bullshit behaviors you don't like--this is one reason why having abundance is so god damn important." This. So succinctly put.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 08:22 AM
1

Questions are a powerful tool to take control over the narrative. The one answering them is always in a subordinate position. One thing though, delivery matters. You can't be too formal and keep asking question after question as though you're interviewing them. People let things slip when their guard is down and a question comes out of the blue or in small things they say or do. Ideally you've already found your own answers to many of these questions and you're already living that life - at the …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 05:54 PM
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A son won't really understand who his father was until he stands at that same spot himself. Unlike feminine love that's obvious, masculine love is subtle. It takes a long time to understand. I do understand though that fathers who are compulsively dominant, egoistic, violent and have no wisdom can act as a betaizing influence on their sons. I'll tell you what, OP, most fathers are like most men, they can be too full of shit that they don't acknowledge or own. They can be dominating, abusive, emo…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/20 05:31 PM
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How about father eliminated homes?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 10:28 AM
3

You took responsibility for yourself. As a man you can write the script against the odds. But many people don't get to this stage.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 10:27 AM
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Mods, please pin this up for a while.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 02:40 AM
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You need to build critical mass awareness before something can change at a macroscopic level. It is increasing. YT comments on RP videos show that way more men now understand RP truths. How many will get out of being a victim is something else though. And the best part is it looks like women have no place in those comments sections. Most men have become too soft for the old warrior mentality of fight to the death if need be. And the most important thing, money, money and time and energy. At what…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/20 05:23 AM
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All said and done, if you have enough time to watch all this, you have too much time to throw away.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/20 05:35 AM
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I have a theory men only began to feel shame or hesitation about the sexual beings they are because of being around women who did not want sexual relationships with them in co-spaces. Otherwise sexual shame, embarassment, awkwardness or political correctness (or any kind of covert sexuality) is not naturally masculine.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/20 11:47 AM
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Women are icing on the cake. They give you a high, but highs and lows keep coming and going. Let it be what it is. You are the constant and your life is your responsibility. The deep fulfilment you want comes only from deep within you, when you have grown up into the man you were supposed to be and found some real depth to your life. That's the cake. That's a tough pill to swallow, but when you do you see it is so much better to be abundant. Counterintuitively, good cakes get the best icing.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/20 06:56 AM
2

What about teachers are that bad?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 06:40 AM
1

But for your friend a favor and send him to mrp.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/20 01:24 AM
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If retarded shit catches attention, they'll publish it. Personally I would just agree and amplify by talking even more about the specs of the latest soccer balls and curving the ball. And I might toss a football in her direction.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/20 04:55 PM
4

I know people who have walked out of bad relationships. I have walked out of one. There are so many on mrp for e.g. You have a poor definition of an alpha. Just because your dick is alpha doesn't mean all of you is. God, you guys need to be pushed to higher standards.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/20 10:56 AM
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The day you connect your growth for some other outcome, your motivation is finished. It was so easy to grow with external pressure. Right now your growth revolves around a woman, not you. You are doing this for yourself, not for some other ultimate thing. All those others are the icing on your cake. Get this in to your skulls. Once you do grow and see what you can be, that itself becomes inspiring and then you'll wonder why you want to go back to your old mediocre self. If you have issues with t…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/20 10:54 AM
1

Learning to reward and punish others is also an art. If no real consequences happen, no one respects boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 04:47 PM
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Very few people are truly authentic monks who're enlightened, abundant, fulfilled. You're just imitating them. 10 years. You kidding us!? You're definitely an idiot. If you need more than 1-2 at most, you just want to drag your old dumb self for much longer than you should. Abstinence really doesn't matter beyond a week or two. What's more important, far more important is not wasting your time and energy on all other kinds of masturbation and pleasures - video games, internet, junk thoughts, dru…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 07:46 AM
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My eldest cousin is that type of girl. God, if I was her husband I'd never consider her in the first place, such people are an utter pain in the arse. When they came over to visit, my female cousins complained of their husbands having started working out and playing sports and enjoying the bachelor life - the fact is their husbands don't look too happy right now and it's the kids that really make everyone happy. I responded with a smrik "Wow, you must be so terrible to them you drove them out. U…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 06:17 AM
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HSP is right about no Level 4 (marriage) in the West -- there's just nothing a man has to gain from that anymore but kids, if he gets to see them down the road. Every now and then though, I keep seeing guys who get lonely and compromise themselves due to fear of old age and death. Then later on they get kicked hard enough and realize they'd probably die in captivity. And they won't wake up without that hammering. But the guys at mrp are in marriages and so it is relevant for them. Actually marri…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 05:58 AM
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Question, where is Jack's dad? There's your answer.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 05:37 AM
1

Personally, anyone losing their shit for such small things would be hard nexted and I wouldn't consider them worth time and investing in. That's not a small thing in practice if someone is incapable of even small discomfort.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 04:22 AM
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Fuck vetting her. Train her. Give her orders, compliance tests, and mould her. This is also my point. The examples didn't illustrate it properly. That's the difference between testing and challenging. I have also failed to mention what you should do with the results of how she responds to what you throw at her. Actually now that I have had time read HS's Guide to managing your bitches, I now feel I should not have written this post. I did not have enough time to properly organize it as I should …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 01:41 AM
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Women will hate things that are prescribed too logically or rationally, but will do the very same things with the right emotions and willingness behind it.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 05:11 PM
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I don't prescribe what anyone should do with this knowledge beyond advising against marriage in the West, one more generation and I'll say the same in my country. In retrospect I should have written "a" woman, but once a title is made, I can't edit it again. And yes, this post is more LTR/marriage slanted. Personally one huge BP illusion I held was that marriage will make things easier for you. Actually it doesn't. A lot of people get married in infatuation, dreaming of an imaginary future or be…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 05:04 PM
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It seems I have an allergy for writing small. I think if I actually wrote small I would never write beyond the title, or the tldr. Posts here are expected to be properly analyzed and not low effort stuff. So there.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 10:42 AM
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That story is long ago over. It's how I ended up here.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 09:34 AM
2

The patriarchy is keeping them down from becoming even bigger blobs?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 04:57 AM
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I didn't read that guide. Send me the link in a message pls. Yes I mean both and use them interachangeably at times. But a challenge is essentially a commitment test. A shit Or comfort test whatever it is, when overdone or too explicit comes across as insecure. So it needs to be done subtly. Testing doesn't end at any point. A test even when done right is only evaluation of a person where they are at that moment. A challenge test however puts you in the dominant frame. When you actually need to …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 04:45 AM
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Drugs and suicide scars? Huge red flag. Those are the obvious ones. A more subtle one would be if she's always critical or toxically perfect. That can wear you down in an LTR. What I've seen is that women adapt to situations easily, but changing their personality is very difficult as they take no responsibility for it if you're around. Men actually have it easier once they recognize they have shit to be fixed. Many women who do have the ability (and humility) for self evaluation had strong, wise…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 03:02 AM
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I have been mulling over the need to create "commitment tests" - I wouldn't call them as tests exactly, they do not arise of women's needs for genes and security, they arise out of our needs to have the relationship where it should be - and they're challenges to her that help her grow and look up to you as well. Old conservative societies had many ways to test their women, but these things were often known only to other women, and it needed that herd hive mind to get it to work. Women have a nat…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/20 01:25 AM
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It's more of a thing where even without any high you're deeply fulfilled. Highs leave you wanting after a point. This never.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 10:02 AM
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Being Chad fixes the obvious problem - lack of sex. But being man... That is all of these and then a lot more growth. Fixing the immediate issues is only the first part of fixing deeper issues. The young guys don't get that just yet. No amount of icing on the cake will work for too long if there's no cake or a rotten cake underneath it.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 05:58 AM
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It's looking at the immediate thing rather than the big picture. No doubt he was Chad, and had a great body, and might have embodied raw sexual energy, but if Chad didn't become a fulfilled man, this happens. It's sad actually. He was young and there was so much of life he didn't realize existed.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 05:42 AM
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Ok he's sexually alpha? Most Nice Guys define their entire life worth by sex. So? You can totally be alpha in one area and be fucked up elsewhere. This guy fixed one aspect if his life in which he was Sex God - point accepted. There's stuff to learn there. But he wasn't ok elsewhere. Being Chad fixes one big problem - lack of sex. But being a man means also creating intrinsic value for yourself. It also means developing mental strength. Also no women can really help fix deep shit that only you h…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 05:36 AM
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Nah that was correlation, not causation. OP fixed himself. But he hasn't written about closing any deals.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 10:46 AM
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I did not know it was that bad. Honestly celebrities as such have a lot of issues in their lives. The things that reality TV makes people do to boost ratings honestly, if that's what sells, the world must be collectively mentally ill. It seems fashionable for celebrities to announce they've had mental shit. Kid stars often end up in dark places. If only we could sell sanity... This is what icing on a rotten or non existent cake looks like. The people who genuinely achieved greatness learnt to de…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 09:29 AM
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Guess we both got worked up for a second. Give in some calm and then you see what worked and what didn't. It was just that one example. Otherwise it was actually well written. As for people shitting on you, a lot of ECs and vanguards left because these young noobs go for knee jerk and shit on stuff they don't know shit about. if I opened my mouth and spoke TRP and sexual attraction truths in a crowd they'd all gang up and gang shame me. But if I said this to a guy who failed bad enough to be rea…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 05:20 AM
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Old school wisdom. It was written by very experienced guys. Truth is counterintuitive. The less you have, the more you need. The more you have, the less you need. Fulfilment seems simple, but it is indeed greater than any high. Highs are icing on the cake of inner peace, an occasional gift, that should never become an expectation. The cake may look bare and simple, but it is profound and fulfilling in a way highs can never be. Like women, highs chase the guy who has abundance and fulfilment. Guy…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 04:12 AM
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I don't have an issue with your perspective. Coming from where you do, you will see things your way of course. I have also been there when I needed it so it reflects in my writing too. The thing is this, scarce is valuable. That which is spoken exactly when and where it is needed has value. Once you overdo it even a little, it's lost. I didn't like to see you get shat on for one. I wrote the last few posts because I saw a major gap that wasn't addressed as well as I wished it had. I have specifi…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 03:33 AM
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Highs are unsustainable, and unhealthy. After every high, there is always a low or at least back to baseline. This guy was fucked up, he had anti depressants AND drugs AND alcohol in his system. It looks like he thought sex and fame was the holy grail and not the icing on the cake. Many celebrities are mentally ill. Well about the religions, after finding out that the hard way that pleasure and pain are actually the same thing, you see a lot of wise minds advising that real happiness is somethin…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 04:30 PM
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It is exactly for people like this that I wrote my last 2 posts. I have seen this with guys as close as a few rooms away in the dorm. All seemed well, then one fine day... RIP. You can't imagine the pain his family and friends went through. People get more success with sex than what they thought possible, but it can feel empty if it was seen as the ultimate mission and not the icing on the cake. These people lacked inner strength and their view of life was oneitis, even if they were not that way…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 04:16 PM
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Listen OP, I suggest you stop the Buddhism at this point. This is a sub for sexual strategy and men's growth not spirituality. Anything you try to talk of that's beyond the scope of what's needed here will necessarily devolve into half truths because it will have to be slanted for objectives that aren't really the original goals of stuff like Buddhism. That means you end speaking half truths and a poorly made mish mash of sex and zen that have little real value to the reader. When I wrote my las…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 03:00 PM
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I won't explain more here. This sub is to help men with sexual strategy and once we start addressing that we realize the sexual woes are a symptom of deeper dysfunction and tied a whole host of other issues -- the latest suicide I see (of a friend of a friend), things like school shootings, unresolved pain, pleasure addictions, ADHD, anxiety, drug and alcohol abuse, nihilism, fears, depression and mental illness, breakups and losses, and existential crises. These are issues must be dealt with. A…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 04:53 PM
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Lift and meditate. I'll be blunt, you can't get into any healthy relationship like this. First you have a lot of shit to fix.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 08:04 AM
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It's not exactly Buddhist, you could also think of it as part Hindu (once you've removed all the ritualistic stuff and gone straight to the impersonal meat of the matter). It's even there in the Bible if one can get past all the metaphors and allegories. But really, it's just life and consciousness, as rock bottom impersonal as it gets. Buddhism still retains much of the original impersonal element of it. IMHO I am now inclined to think religions just form like socio-political-cultural entities …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 06:21 AM
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That's the point of it. We don't want to herd sheep. In the beginning you listen to those more experienced than you, but a day comes when no one can or should hand hold you anymore. That's the day you know the keys are entirely in your hands now.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 07:15 AM
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All of them suffer from a problem of "What she wants?" rather than "What I want."
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 03:28 AM
1

Muscle is actually quite lean when you're natural and it's easy to mask it under clothes. Muscular bodies don't really weigh as much as you think either. But yeah, that hair makes him look old. When he cut it short and pulled up his sleeves, he looked much fitter.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 05:07 AM
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I have a theory that the life inside you needs to both find it's full expression and inspiration outwardly in what it does (that's the purpose part) and inwardly it must also learn to find rest in stillness of being and tap into it's original potential. When neither of these happens, you are stuck with energy that is both unable to rest AND unable to find a useful purpose to engage itself, it gets blocked. This then begins to create deep pain and stress. The ego begins to grow that is increasing…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 04:38 AM
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About 15 min to half an hour, sometimes longer on holidays. There's a subtle trick in this which I learnt from a master. Once your mind calms down, you ask yourself who's feeling the peace, and that makes you turn back to yourself. Then you observe that you can observe yourself like an object. What can do this? Don't answer, just be there. Then, and this is the key, after meditation, it's important to hold on to that peace / awareness or remind yourself of it through the day with a dose of mindf…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 03:44 AM
2

Whether on reddit or in real life, unless a man has actually being knocked so hard his delusional reality has actually cracked apart, I don't think he's ready or willing to be unplugged. At gatherings, I never talk RP truth to anyone. You'll only be considered a creep.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 01:56 PM
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I also ended up finding this, specifically because of that horrible time when my relationship ended, apart from an anger phase, there was also an existential crisis. I used to read all the stuff here, but then I used to get caught in "But what's the point? It will all end down the road right?" Strictly this topic is not in the scope of this sub and probably shouldn't belong here, but I have felt the need to write something to free people of the grips of their past and future as I see many people…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 01:51 PM
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Actually whatever you do, it's always in this moment only. It's not something you need to attain, it's already that way only. You just need to see it. Pain can bubble up at any time. A lot of arguments between couples for example are linked to past accumulated anger. If you stay alert at that moment, it's a chance for it to dissolve. But don't try to create anger for you to solve it or something -- that's entertainment then. Raising SMV isn't complex. Probably you read too much at once -- and yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 12:05 PM
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He's making too many imaginary assumptions about life than living his real life and creating what he wants. That's his real problem.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 06:24 AM
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An existential crisis happens when there is no inner fulfillment. Unfortunately that inner fulfillment and abundance won't come from outside when you're living a needy life. That only comes from within. Time to read some Tolle or Adyashanti for this problem -- if you could realize boredom itself is a symptom of unease with yourself, you'd have fixed a huge problem inside you. Then what? Well, the answer to that life isn't in the future, life happens now. The farther you drift into an imaginary f…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 06:17 AM
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Girls use questions to dictate the frame of the narrative. The one answering them is in a subordinate position. The only way out is pressure flip or deflect or illogical answers.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 05:30 PM
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Next time tell her "I can't remember the last time this room wasn't occupied by a girl..." or the classic "I hope you'll be my last..." But it takes a while for intuitive grasp to come into the present. In the beginning it always comes too late. Something about her raised tones seemed to have disturbed you. It's so subtle this becoming her obedient puppy thing, we sometimes fail to realize the frame game is always on. It's never like that with other guys - they're too direct. Girls use questions…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 05:25 PM
1

Just watch your actions and thoughts and emotions for 1 day and see how much junk they generate, all that energy could be focused for productive work.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 05:19 PM
1

Biased news is one thing. Yellow journalism takes the insanity to ridiculous levels. "...Frank Luther Mott identifies yellow journalism based on five characteristics: Scare headlines in huge print, often of minor news Lavish use of pictures, or imaginary drawings Use of faked interviews, misleading headlines, pseudoscience, and a parade of false learning from so-called experts Emphasis on full-color Sunday supplements, usually with comic strips dramatic sympathy with the "underdog" against the s…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 04:40 PM
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Women lie at every point where they are vulnerable. And that's where they are really easy to attract. It's sort of like that survivorship bias case in ww2. The bullet holes were all in the non fatal areas. The aircraft that got hit where it mattered didn't make it back.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 05:55 AM
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Start stretching and walking instead of feel feel feelz and get to work. Love and hate mean nothing. Get to work and stop thinking about yourself, only your reps and goals.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/20 05:36 AM
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I believed this for a while, but in my observation this is not entirely correct. If this was the sole factor, why are so many provider husbands facing the issues they do? I know couples long married for decades with the usual BP issues, they just put up because divorce wasn't around then. Sure, women did love their men more because they needed them, but still, men were never respected by default. All their respect was created, until respecting men became default social behavior. When that change…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 04:28 PM
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Not only does this post deserve a 123 day ban, it needs a Darwin Award Honorable Mention...
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/20 04:10 PM
3

When the outcome happens, accept it honestly so that it becomes your teacher to take the next step.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 09:15 AM
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By turning your awareness back to yourself, you go back to your point of origin. There things are much easier to change. Some deep pattern of shame or fear about making mistakes needs to be removed. That's why I recommend meditation. When you feel the anxiety or irritation coming, step back for a second and just observe it. Who is feeling this? You. Then accept it consciously for what it is. It puts up a struggle, but then you feel a lot of tension releasing itself. What you did there is that yo…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 09:12 AM
3

Couldn't have put it better.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 02:38 AM
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A man at his core, is nothing - just pure aliveness in a naked male body. All that is visible on the outside are the form and the clothes and the house or the car or the money and that is all what matters to the outside. Your core is only relevant to you alone. But the core of being is the source of all potential, all inspiration and all creativity. Believe me this same story actually happened to my dad when he was 8 years old. Once he wanted to eat at a restaurant. He was dirt poor and his land…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 11:57 AM
2

Despite losing everything you haven't lost your self respect nor your will to come back up. Respects.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 11:53 AM
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Children have the maximum intrinsic value, followed by women. Men have little to no intrinsic value. How a man is treated is how he lets himself be treated. If men were respected in the past, it was because they made sure they were.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 11:41 AM
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I wonder if she will metoo him now. Though she was very clearly and deliberately in his face. He managed to recover from that and give it back nicely.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:09 PM
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RP isn't perfect, but in time it has become something unique. Nowhere at any time in human history I think, we've understood the nature of the sexes and the truths of sexual attraction this clearly, with all this knowledge and experience in one place. No one probably imagined it would get to this. It probably began when someone close to a Vanguard killed himself over rejection and you had to find the truth for your own sake, and that was the original goal. That was followed by an urge to write. …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:01 PM
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There's a learning curve to that. One guy called Rich Roll just decided he wanted to get fit to avoid being dead at his daughter's wedding in the future. That led into one thing, then another, then something else entirely. Mike Matthews wanted to find out why he wasn't making gains in the gym. I don't think he started out with the goal of doing 2 Ph.Ds and founding his own business, a website, writing books and starting a supplement side business too and making a lot of money. That was not the o…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 01:47 PM
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This is a classic Nice Guy mindset. An unhealthy version of perfection. Our man Dr Glover took 6 years to write the book because he wanted it to be absolutely perfect and he got distracted by outcome dependence (make it to best seller's top, appear on Oprah, etc.) Once he dropped the unrealistic expectations of absolute perfection, dropped the other goals that weren't actually goals, but outcomes, he came back to his original goal of writing enough to help men out, he finished writing the book. …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 08:44 AM
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Most journalists are dumb, and know zilch about any field they write about. But they all think themselves smart enough to even offer advice on running a country. Such people should just report stuff and STFU afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:30 AM
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And just about every other news link from Google shared here on TRP. I checked up many of those links nd authors. All tabloids and propaganda crap written by some of the dumbest and insane characters around. Every time you see a guy linking to a tabloid post and thinking this is the only reality. The last one went like "How to know you're dating a Red Pilled Guy" Not only did that woman get everything wrong, mixing beta guys for RP men, in her bio she sounds like a jobless nutcase who neverthele…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:21 AM
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I decided not to revive the old post as I had more points to talk about in this post. And automod hasn't taken it down, so it's ok. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:15 AM
1

Most newspapers are in fact doing exactly this. I have known one or two that are better quality, but the rest are shamlessly left wing Or right wing and hell bent on brainwashing the masses. It's always important that we have our own frame, one that reality can actually back up.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 04:40 AM
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Upload it on library genesis.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 01:53 AM
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This. And then there's the comments section. If you go there you will come out convinced all humans are mentally sick and retarded. Newspapers also need to be vetted carefully. My criteria are old school and I won't accept tabloid sensationalism nor socio political or psychology propaganda peddling nor blatant lies. It should have stuff that's actually useful. Facts in favor of Op-eds. No newspaper now ticks off all the boxes, but some are much better than the others
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 01:17 AM
5

That was a revelation.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 05:57 PM
3

This makes marriage look simple.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 09:47 AM
2

Exactly. Vulnerability must come from a place of masculinity and strength, not from a place of unowned shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 05:14 AM
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Women weren't different 50 years ago either. Most of them just stuck around with stupid husbands because divorce wasn't an option. And most men never cried except when they lost their loved ones, and even then only in a dignified manner. Vulnerability is a misunderstood term. It is not for those who are full of shit on the inside -- that only they can take responsibility for. Those who can take their shirt off have the sexy body underneath it to wear as armor. Only they can be vulnerable (and th…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 05:31 AM
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Also make yourself mindfully aware of who experiences the thoughts and emotions. You. If you do this for a while soon you'll notice all your thoughts and emotions and opinions aren't you, but things happening to you. You are the constant. Everything and everyone else is a variable that come and go. Thoughts, emotions and the rest gain power only when you are lost in them and have forgotten yourself. This will bring the focus out of putting something else as the center of your existence, because …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/20 10:09 AM
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A good question to ask here when the surge of thoughts and emotions come is "Who is experiencing the thoughts and emotions?" and look. This will help you turn around and notice yourself. YOU are the only constant in your life. You exist when everything, including everything about you changes. Your presence is the one constant in all your experiences. This will help break free and notice yourself as separate from your thoughts and emotions and let them be without getting sucked into them. It will…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/20 10:02 AM
2

Kind of like before the social media era?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 05:19 PM
2

Fix yourself first and then use the tools. A bad workman finds it easy to blame the tools.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 06:14 AM
15

It is easy to read a thousand posts on a forum. But to follow and internalize even one paragraph or one good piece of advice properly requires real work. And in that you learn many nuances that no amount of words could capture. The OP's particular problem is one of a lack of intuitive knowing and overthinking. This happens when people read too much and internalize too little. It is a kind of going rambo. Then they rambo 180 degrees around to the other end like a gauge with zero calibration. Real…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 05:32 AM
4

It is easy to read a thousand posts on a forum. But to follow and internalize even one paragraph or one good piece of advice properly requires real work. And in that you learn many nuances that no amount of words could capture. Your particular problem is one of a lack of intuitive knowing and overthinking. This happens when people read too much and internalize too little. It is a kind of going rambo. Then you rambo 180 degrees around to the opposite end like a gauge with no calibration. Real gro…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 05:20 AM
1

It takes a moron to write in the media today.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 08:03 AM
1

Yes he's right. A magician never reveals his tricks. Any performer must maintain an aura that what he can do is beyond the capability of his audience and they can only enjoy the performance. The audience asks "How did he do that!!??" but they don't want an answer, only the amazement. They want to ask that question because it amazes them. Such questions are not meant to be answered, only asked. There are many ways of passing this shit test "How many women you've been with?" If an LTR is what you'…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/19 03:23 AM
2

It is really easy to slip into old habits. Your old self is far from gone. Everyone has to fall a few times, get reminded and then get up and walk again before learning to walk. A few light bulbs might have gone off reading the sidebar etc...but reading stuff is very easy compared to actually fixing very deep rooted patterns.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/19 05:30 PM
3

Kind of, breath is just the starting point. The secret is about being aware of the background that is the constant in all times, all events and all mental states, you. You can look at your old photographs to spot it. Everything else about you changed, but that recognition of yourself never changes. That completely accepts what happened, allows it to be instead of resisting and it is that which dissolves the pain. It's possible the thoughts might sweep you downhill at first, but you just need to …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/19 05:24 PM
2

Because the missing peace is happiness within you. So long as you use anything to fill a hole inside, that hole will remain. You need to find true abundance and then so many things come to you that you might be shocked.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/19 02:53 PM
1

There is an ultimate stretching routine called "Angamardhana" in yoga which is like 45 intense min of sheer insanity - if yoga could do HIIT that ought to be it. I know guys who've lost all the fat doing that with a diet. It might take a year of asanas just to build up that flexibility for the first routine. That won't build muscles though. Might help the stabilizers and isometrics, but yoga has a different goal from bodybuilding. If you've seen male gymnasts, you can be quite muscular and be qu…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 05:00 PM
1

How many of you here don't understand the importance of flexibility and the tendons and ligaments in lifting? Guys, exercise is a complete science and all training impacts the body in specific ways.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 03:18 AM
8

Don't tell yourself any stories - about you, your ex, your life and all that. Then your emotions are just emotions - not your frame. Then you can meditate. YOU are the sun in your life. All things and people come and go, YOU are the only constant in all of them. All of us found out that the hard way. She's gone, you are always here. We look to others because they fulfill certain wants inside us, so the one whom we truly love is actually ourselves. This Pill is a big one to swallow, but this one …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 05:32 PM
2

Love flows in the direction the effort goes. As I wrote earlier, your feelings for her are cheap and a given - so you need to make it scarce. Hers isn't. Your title is wrong though.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 04:01 PM
12

It was never about equality, only imperative.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 06:14 PM
8

I don't want to go on the drugs path. The difference is that in meditation, you've taken the hard road (actually not that hard) and grown strong enough to do this by yourself. In the other, the strength aspect is missing. When people seek ecstasy without the strength, that is a problem.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 06:09 PM
4

Drugs are a last resort if your mind and body are absolutely out of control. But they won't solve the inner strengthening aspect, nor will they help cultivate awareness. They'll give you an out of body thing for a while, but the hole inside gets bigger the more you depend from the outside. Ultimately they're big psychedelic pleasure trips, but have no real value in terms of actual growth. You treat the symptom, not the root cause. All you do is cultivate a pain powered dependency and if the shro…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 05:35 PM
1

Read my post on the Dreaded But.... that's like nearly all of humanity at one point, particularly men.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 09:56 AM
1

It is, I mentioned it in the post. I just needed it at the time when all felt so meaningless. Even RP could only help to a point. I realize now I was way more depressed than I thought. But it's gone now.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 07:40 PM
9

You should include presence / awareness meditation. Diversion is good when the pain gets too strong, but sooner or later, you need to face it and let it out, or else deep pain can stay in your system for years. Meditate and if any thoughts or feelings come up, allow your body to purge it out totally. Whatever comes up, let it. Accept it completely. Remain aware and let it all come out and go. Don't try to aim for a particular emotional state at this point, just stay awake. This will make you sic…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 05:46 PM
19

I really wonder why a first world country like America can't use soap and water with a basic hand shower or a bidet to clean their butts. There are places in the world where people bathe after shitting....
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 05:22 PM
3

What is more important is that every state led by a woman slowly turns into a socialist welfare state at one point. Also I have seen a lot of women leaders in their lives outside work - CEOs to military to politicians. Trust me, their SMV and RMV is far lower and they are much more emotionally volatile than the average woman. If they weren't high up on the social ladder, they would be called crazy. Most of them become more masculine to compensate at work, and then their feminine side tends to ov…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 11:39 AM
10

Ok, then if that's not your style. Head over to mrp. There's a sidebar there too. Gaming new women requires a set of skills and characteristics, but keeping up that attraction for a long time is another level. And I'd recommend reading W Anton's The Manual if you want advice on attracting women as your honest authentic masculine self. Fact is, women are everywhere. There are many of you who think you've become masters at masculinity. But there's a long way to go. Just so many things wrong in tha…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 09:44 AM
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Dude, the point is you have to take the initiative to do the work. There is a lot of material you need to read and no one can read them for you. And then there is a lot of work to do. One success doesn't make you the high man you want to become. You guys don't realize how much of being man is about self responsibility. And you don't realize just how many of your questions can be solved when you read and implement the sidebars. If you wanna learn to walk, you gotta be willing stand, stumble and f…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 05:59 AM
0

The only true team man is in the best of the military, where they're all united for one mission. Otherwise, man isn't a herd animal. And if you take team man as a whole, you get to see the lowest common denominator of what men are.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 05:33 AM
5

You have achieved success outwardly, but inwardly you still have issues. You have not been able to stay stable in any good spot for too long. The reason is simple - you are simply not at ease with being alive and your own self. If you live your life today for the sake of some other life tomorrow, this will happen. Because the only life is the one right here. Your goals can happen tomorrow, but the steps to those goals can only be taken today. Ultimately the journey is the real deal. The end does…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 04:54 AM
1

Genesis is children coming of age story. Life gets so much harder once you are no longer a kid. Eve is emotion and Adam is understanding. No matter how strong logic is, we go where our emotions drive us, unless we are wise. Also Adam being man, has to till the soil to earn his bread. Similarly, man needs to work on himself with hard labour to bear fruit, or else he remains basically mud.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 05:12 PM
2

Men are polygamous, parallel pluralists. Women are hypergamous, serial pluralists. These days contraception allows women to try the polygamy thing by avoiding pregnancy, but it breaks down their pair bonding ability massively. Men do not lose attraction for one female while being attracted to another (if so something went badly wrong in the relationship), but women almost certainly do, especially in LTRs and marriages. The AF/BB dynamic does not apply to men - they go for 1-10. This is equivalen…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 09:13 AM
2

Negotiations are for people who need some one else's permission. Boundaries are for those who give others permission. You smirk at them with a hint of arrogance. If they get too loud about it, you nuke it, but very calmly, without getting worked up. I get where it comes from. I also have had a lot of struggle with this. I have realized that frames get stronger with experience, knowledge and understanding your own abilities. However it is better if frames are just strong by nature, and that takes…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 03:20 AM
5

Good means you do what others want you to do. It was your child paradigm, but it has outlived its purpose. It is very hard for people close to you to digest the changes. Your parents and relatives and anyone who knows the old you shit test and even shame you endlessly (it's good practice). Stay aware and avoid taking this personally. You have to stop caring about what they say or think. You need not convince them - they are not giving you permission for it. Once you know you're doing the right t…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 04:21 PM
1

The bigger question is - how can a fool see what's wise?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 01:32 PM
4

Social engineering is a giant shit test.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 12:37 PM
1

If all this hasn't really improved your LTR in the end, I will assume you're just fond of the emotional self validation you get from thinking you're improving. Sure you improve a lot, but I hope you make sure it serves the goals.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 06:59 AM
24

Saved my life. Destroyed my depression. Took a few attempts to get it right, but it worked. Every shit gets dissipated there. Now I believe as men our nothing box was already built in just to let us do this process of releasing pain in silence - there is indeed a method behind our natural instincts.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 04:39 PM
29

To add to this, an awareness technique for dissipating the stress in the "pain body" whenever it arises or gets triggered from Eckhart Tolle is highly recommended. This can be done anytime when you catch the dark moods coming and wake out of it, but it works especially well after some intense activity when things are calm and silent. Animals know how to dissipate this energy well. If you don't, it builds up till it snaps and people release it in violent and destructive ways. When emotions no lon…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 04:24 PM
1

I would background check each one. Many women who try too hard to be bold and independent are really very insecure, more than normal so they overcompensate with less finesse than most newb boys at RP.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 09:41 AM
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I have a theory that feminism is the result of women who never received the masculine energy they need to properly grow and be in their feminine, without losing all stability. Almost all feminists have issues with their fathers, or other men in their lives. The others, usually the spearheads of the movement were either lesbian or very unattractive, post wall women. The rest are herd animals with no frame or awareness of their own who like kids, like the high of the new power game, until it's tim…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 02:08 AM
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I have a theory that feminism is the result of women who never received the masculine energy they need to properly grow and be in their feminine, without losing all stability. Almost all feminists have issues with their fathers, or other men in their lives. The others, usually the spearheads of the movement were either lesbian or very unattractive, post wall women. The rest are herd animals with no frame or awareness of their own who like kids, like the high of the new power game, until it's tim…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 02:08 AM
1

Try the book Finding Ultra by Rich Roll. Guy got out of drinking and turned into one of the fittest guys around. Interesting read. You can skip the whole vegan thing if you wish. It just worked for him. I specifically mentioned it because of how he eventually quit drinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 12:36 PM
3

Looking at politics today feels like a macroscopic version of a couple disagreeing.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 06:23 AM
3

Keep blubbering more buts then. Reality doesn't care a damn about anything you think or feel. Just remember, if she falls out of love with you, your love means nothing.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 01:25 AM
3

Another very important one "She has a problem with my house, my relatives, my clothes, chores, my paycheck, my job, my town, how I raise the kids, when I get up in the morning, my ways of doing things, etc. etc., so I tried harder to fix them and please her, but" No. YOU are her problem. She's not attracted to you. She's emotional, not logical. You're a man who tries to please her instead of being a man she wants to please. This is actually your problem and only you are the solution for your lif…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 04:51 AM
1

Sometimes the mistake didn't lie in the execution, but the original goal itself. Sometimes a failure ain't a bad thing. Do you really want a relationship with a toxic person? That could be the lesson to learn too. But most people aren't at this stage yet. They usually like to think all is well and blame others alone when things go wrong. A lot of toxic bosses like this sit in management.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 02:00 AM
1

"I believed I would be that exceptional exception, but" So did we all....
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 05:17 PM
10

These studies are brain dead. Just for newspaper shit. No real life experience based, or extensively tested in battle kind of evaluation. Just some autistic trials in the labs. I mean how many times I'll keep seeing studies on coffee, tea, wine, sleep, exercise, cardio and red meat all contradicting each other every other day? You want real science? Then particle physics or fusion power or rocket science or genetic engineering, forensics, or even motorsports, that sort of stuff is legit.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 01:04 PM
-4

"I'm RP Alpha, but..." No you aren't. "I get it now, but... " No you don't. "I know this is what's good for me, but..." No you don't. "I understood what's in the books, but" Oh no you didn't. "I am a fitness god, but.. " Nope. "She says she loves me, but" No she doesn't. "My SMV is 9.5/10, but.. " Hell no!! STFU. The dreaded but...
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 08:28 AM
3

Remember Conoor Murphy? But even there, he wasn't cold approached with pick up lines and being seduced overtly. The girls simply just went crazy around him. That is normal.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 08:18 AM
9

Study says that sleeping may be good for health... 😂😂😂
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 08:13 AM
29

If this doesn't tell you how dumb we're becoming...
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 06:38 AM
40

God, every time we have a tabloid article or anything from psychology today, it's hilarious. Seriously, they needed a study for this? Psychology Today is totally the deep end of the blue swimming pool. Now most men would go for a woman just for her merely existing. Of course direct communication is our preferred language. But honestly, any woman who just cold approaches me and acts too overtly, I'd get suspicious and take it with a huge grain of salt. Why? Because beware the seductress. Where I …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 05:03 AM
10

Glad you figured it out at this age. Read some books written by Navy Seals, ultramarathon athletes or something requiring extreme will. What you realize is that these guys really really suffer on the outside, but when you are done reading it, there is a deep satisfaction within you over the growth process and pushing your limit. This is essentially the opposite feeling to any pleasure addiction. Pleasure or comfort causes depression in the long run because you are sending the subconscious messag…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 02:35 PM
5

There is one other thing, in a masculine society, trust within the group is very important as it is vital to survival and the success of the mission. Similarly there are physical, tangible consequences to everything you do or don't. Men really do not take well to a fellow brother violating their trust. Once this happens, there are consequences and the relationship is seldom ever the same again. In a feminine society, trust is variable and oscillatory and is subverted by Machiavellian principles.…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 07:14 AM
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That's how the instincts work, but the problem with this idea is only this - your genetics AREN'T actually bad. Most normal men are simply that way by settling for the lowest denominator and they've never seen how good they can become if they tried.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 07:04 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8bshv_9HWw4 Your body is destroyed in the gym, fed in the kitchen, and built during sleep. And no matter what you do, you cannot build with bad exercising, you cannot outrun a bad diet, you cannot beat poor rest and recovery.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 06:21 AM
1

Oppression olympics or shit testing olympics?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 05:47 AM
2

For a woman, the ultimate mission is her, her feelings and at least back then, her children.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 05:45 AM
2

Sometimes even bigger ones because of the huge sunk investment into a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 02:15 PM
6

+1 for the meritocracy. It's all earned. You can't just reserve a spot there because you're minority or female. Utterly the opposite is what I see in a feminized, betaized society. The result is everything getting reduced to to the lowest common denominator.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 12:43 PM
3

I know one thing from experience - a man never wakes up until he gets struck by red lightning in real life. There is absolutely no group think in matters of personal awakening. I can't preach this to them. Some people don't get it even after multiple strikes. So ok, if masses of humans need to fall and hit rock bottom to wake up (again), so be it. All of us can leave our experiences and insights up here. Someone hit by the bolt may find it in their time.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 10:25 AM
1

Don't do this process with the maturity of a 13 year old teenager though. Just reject anything just because someone else said it. Experience is valuable. But also ultimately we don't want anyone to turn into a blind follower of someone else -- beta me dies hard. No amount of reading anyone's experience will substitute for actually doing the work and getting your hands dirty. A stage does come when you write the book rather than reading someone else's. But this progression needs to be natural lik…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 09:21 AM
20

God, that thinking, that band of brothers bonding due to the mission, the trust, and how it deeply impacts them to lose one of their own, the hard path to growth, constant improvement, innovation, the responsibility, the no BS talk, putting the mission above ego, the discipline, earning their place through merit, the mental strength these guys have, and the honesty, and even the old classic 'fight the bad guys and win' thing. It's masculinity unrestricted at its peak. Where else will you see thi…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 03:41 AM
3

Machiavellian thinking is one thing. Sex is amoral, but this goes further, it's about survival. The decline will affect us all at a collective level. Today the decline might be fun. Tomorrow, it's going to take the economy with it among other things. It's not going to be pretty. Today Machiavellian logic might help you survive at work, beat the other guys to that girl and help you enslave the sheep and make money and more power for yourself, but when every one is affected at a collective level, …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 03:29 AM
17

Actually the one place I disagree is the part on Enjoying the Decline. It's fun for a while because easy sex is available to the top tier men. But after that, it will drag everything down with it. It won't be pretty and you won't be able to escape it wherever you go and sooner or later you have to take the step of forcing the world to follow your will. Right now I am almost done reading Extreme Ownership for the first time. Can't tell you enough of just how vast the difference is between those r…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 02:32 AM
9

Yeah, post it. We live in a Head Girl's world.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 02:30 AM
18

5 stages of grief huh? I was just reading Extreme Ownership right now. God, that is on such another level altogether from where mainstream society is. That is something we are only going to see in the most experienced men.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 01:12 AM
3

All these are hamster's opinions - what you said was a rationalization. Ultimately you try out things, find what looks good in the mirror and do it. There's a different aesthetic to everything. If you don't wanna have a beard, don't do it. Do you really need to rationalize it?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 04:51 PM
1

Only one question. Are you using your mind or is it using you?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 04:11 PM
1

Women are actually competing with men, for frame, imperative, opportunity and power, even and especially in relationships. Plus the cognitive dissonance. And now we ask the fish how to catch them...
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 12:15 PM
3

I have had guys I knew die over this. I have seen broken families and messed up children. I have seen unhappy and miserable relationships. I see unhealthy people. I have seen people get treated like shit and what it did to them. I read about shootouts every other day. I see what society does to us from when we're kids. I almost came close to ruin myself - this place saved me. I also see society going for a very bitter reality check down the road on every parameter imaginable without this knowled…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 12:07 PM
1

There were a few posts and comments in the past wondering what the ultimate endgame of the RP mindset is. The Ans : Whichever end goal YOU choose. You own it. RP is just knowledge and tools. We just don't recommend some really risky paths with good reason. Ps: Automod's been thinking it's a woman lately. If it nuked your gold, message the mods and they'll bring it back. That last post was legend level funny.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 09:30 AM
1

Look out at the society around you, and cringe a lot more.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 03:13 AM
1

Thanks. I have been fond of writing long, but let me see if the essential stuff can be conveyed with less.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 06:00 PM
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I am a guy who likes to write long and I say this post is legend. Absolutely one of the funniest ever, just like that how not to implement mrp comment. Relieving yourself over the xbone, ha ha ha...
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 04:47 PM
1

True that. I will take up a challenge for myself. For the near future, I will write everything in max 3 sentences. Preferably one line TLDRs.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 02:33 PM
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Everytime I think of extreme ownership, I remember Stone Age Man. He was not given anything by nature. He was not the strongest or the fastest. Today, we have created everything we use. He didn't stay victim and just give up life. He chose to become a creator and this is why we have made civilization. As men, no matter where we are, the lesson is to always shift from being victim to finding the creator within. Just started reading the book. Can't put it down. A lot more on ownership to internali…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 06:53 AM
13

It's not ruminating and blaming. But a fact is a fact - yes, a lot of people's parents were messed up. There's pain to resolve because of that, but only we can resolve it. Ok, where we were born is not anything we can do about, that's what cards we got, so we have to take charge from there. And we need to take care not to subconsciously follow those patterns later in life. Ownership means complete acceptance of the truth and looking at what you can do from where you are and that only you can be …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 06:13 AM
12

Own your shit, so your children don't have to clean up your mess later in addition to the shit they faced because of you, and your woman doesn't become a wrecked individual by your hand.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 04:11 AM
32

The next gen is autistic proper. And that dope rush from the phone is bound to guarantee depression. Mine at least had a time where we actually played real sports and went to real places. Boys need to give their bodies work. For like hours a day, I used to play with friends from evening till dinner time back in the days. I remember driving my bicycle for countless hours imagining we used the whole neighbourhood as some sort of track - we even had a pitstop lane. Even today I can still play anyth…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 03:40 PM
6

The higher your SMV, the less you need to try and the more natural you can be.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 09:21 AM
2

The best part is that Ralph is so up the SMV ladder he can totally claim she forced herself on him, and people will listen. He even had people telling him to test for STDs after they found out. The airhostess also admitted she had been an escort before, changed her story twice and finally she confessed. Btw this happened in 2007.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 04:58 AM
5

Actually the thing is, the better you get, the more natural you become - less becomes more. There are plenty of girls going crazy for guys who do nothing except just being super hot and popular. Literally the only thing these guys need to do is escalate a bit.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 04:48 AM
2

You know, these tabloids write their own shit for clickbait - twist every word, say outrageous stuff because they know no one reads the original. Then you go into them and see that they never actually mentioned anything relevant to the headline ... at all. Fucking media whores. They'll write anything if you pay them some bucks. I have them all banned in google search. 50 shades of yellow. I got myself a real newspaper in paper now and it's actually shockingly good - this one specifically gives g…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 03:29 AM
2

The only toxic masculinity is actually the lack of masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 03:25 AM
1

Of course it is. But that was the point, it was about his whole betaization story. One of those answers was in the post on how her love for you is far more important than yours for her. There I spun off the lion story in another direction before it got that bad for him.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 03:24 AM
1

It is not what you say, it has more to do with who says it. There is so much beyond what meets the eye. For e.g. the same joke said by old you can make you look like you're hopeless at being funny and even irritate your partner, and the same thing said by the new you can make a crowd giggle. The same for anything else.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 03:16 AM
3

It will return, but not by default. We have to make it happen. You know, people do not understand just how powerful it is when men put their foot down. As greater awareness of feminine behavior spreads and more and more men and boys get fucked over and wake up, this pendulum will have to come back, or else society will decline rapidly and will be forced to draw on the masculine once more. This is not the first time this has happened, I am sure all the old age wisdom was earned the hard way. I th…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 03:18 PM
2

Try a round of meditation and catch it as it arises. Just be aware you are in a dark mood. Then stay alert and watch it go. Sometimes it won't go without a fight. A few times of release and then you'll be surprised at the improvement. There is a term for this - it's called metacognition.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:51 PM
2

That explains the whole White Knight phenomenon.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 08:32 AM
2

They didn't even do that. This day is just to talk about our shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 08:31 AM
3

I actually only found out about it last week. And sufficient to say, my curiosity is now finished. I am not going to see anything new next year. Meanwhile if my company ever decides to give us a day off I have absolutely no issues using it, unless there's fine print. But they won't and I still get what I want done in the morning, so I don't mind.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 08:01 AM
5

Definitely, though it has worked mainly on our tech savvy generations who are too autistic to observe real life now. It doesn't work so much on the older generation. It is not the only thing that caused this. The seeds of this got sown when men went to work and children went to school and once women dominated the teaching industry. We now stay in school till almost 25-30. In the old days, the only school was dad's trade, thr military or get to work right out of high school at the most. So boys g…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:56 AM
2

You need your butt kicked. Feels feels feelz. You wanna be free of suffering? Go and suffer voluntarily. Get your ass to work and stop waiting for happiness. And stop fapping 5x a day and try to go for a week without your phone or the net. All your energy will be back.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 06:14 AM
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It tells you one useful thing, what women have to do to themselves everyday to become more like men. They wear the fake mask everywhere to work and life.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 05:30 AM
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Despise the free lunch - which was that law?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 02:32 AM
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Good summary of it. Once you see it though, there's nothing they say that can really get into your head.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 01:16 AM
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It was totally worth the laughs for that guy in the ballerina costume...I haven't laughed this much in a few days. Just read this post in a lighter vein for the most part. But when this BP shit nearly killed my life, and it did cause a couple of guys I know to take theirs, then I get serious. I must frame this post in my room as "Mankind's dumbest day".
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:05 PM
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So much so that it takes time to readjust and play the games again knowing everything that's going on.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 02:55 PM
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I have half a mind not to use the word love for a while, though I still end up using it as it is the most convenient word in the book. It means so many different things. I made a post on that too and was surprised at just how many different phenomena it covered. Using one word for it all, which only English does, causes huge confusion, but it also allows people to hide their real intentions to themselves and others. I however disagree that attraction isn't love. Why? Because if there is no attra…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 12:41 PM
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He fed her that love potion... I hope he doesn't end up with a cursed Child...
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 11:19 AM
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One thing that happens to you after enough red pilling, is that you can speak womanese and know what it really means, and even write parody...
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 11:16 AM
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Just the gist of it is that we love ourselves through others. We are not being honest when we say I love you. Men need to handle this directly, but women shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 08:44 AM
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Don't read it. I have my own way of seeing these things. Wait for that time when your woman gets into one of those dark moods and starts shaming and shit testing. You'll get it.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:54 AM
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We have to be very aware of signs of a woman's pain body, that field of negative emotional energy that arises in them periodically. John Gray wrote a bit about it, Eckhart Tolle was the first to point it out proper. Gray was BP though at least he pointed out the differences well. Tolle however knows how to really deal with it. BPD women are an extreme case where it is physically manifest in their cells all the time. Their very brains aren't normal. At these times a man must be very consciously k…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 05:32 AM
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All these newb guys everywhere these days. Many of them are kids or kid level. Spouting opinions and what they think and feel, the questions they ask on asktrp and askmrp and thinking one paragraph answers will fix their relationships. Some of them are in seemingly ok relationships, but that blinds them and they don't realize they can still be structurally flawed. Can't blame them, this is how fucked our life education is. I know, I was there, got banned on Day 1, told to do the work first. Got …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 03:25 AM
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I already pointed it out. Go to mrp, read the books in the sidebar, check out the examples. Specifically NMMNG, Anton's The Manual. A lot of examples on mrp.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 11:45 PM
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All of you are missing the point. Go read some good examples on mrp of turning the ship around. Or no more mr nice guy. Providing is all you guys think of. It's way more than this.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 11:41 PM
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Just the one place where I felt men did something similar to a herd, is with the whole beards thing. But a lot of them actually look a lot better too.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 04:35 PM
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Knowing the truth about your own performance can make the need for external appreciation go down to a level where it's a good topping on the cake. I think that's a healthy place to be. Frankly a lot of appreciation I've got is phony and not in my best benefit. A lot of people used that as a dangling the carrot device before me to make me do what they wanted with me. Some of it I realized was in fact passive aggressive sarcasm. There has been some moments of genuine appreciation from this world. …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 02:56 PM
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Might I suggest you read Eckhart Tolle's Power of Now to work on the awareness practice he advises for dealing with the field of pain within us all? It really worked for me, two or three times it released enough energy to make me sick. Now most of it is gone. I am aware that some of the deeper more subtle stuff still needs to go, but hey, no more depression. Being present in this moment is the ultimate grounding, keeps you aware even when all things change.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 08:41 AM
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Damn, you were in big trouble a long time ago. You didn't get out because you loved from a dependent frame. Lots of red flags ignored. Change the flair to blue pilled example.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:00 AM
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Women often increase sex with their previous partners just prior to leaving them. It's some kind of strange animal behavior. But any departure from the baseline is always a red flag. It must have been rough for you this time. It looks like there were a lot of warning signs - no father, her mum retarded, another guy involved. You didn't love yourself, got oneitis and put this woman as the center of your life for a while, because sex was good I guess. There are at least 400 million women your age …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 06:59 AM
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You need to read my post on how your love for her is not nearly as important as hers for you.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 01:56 AM
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"You are never enough as a human to a girl who could get 1000s of dicks at her disposal with a snap of fingers." That is what others tell you. Do you have any opinion of yourself? Anyway, you want your relationships to be something they can't be. And do not exist entirely in relation to others. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 01:30 PM
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Do yourself a favor, go and lift. Instead of waking up in the morning and feeling bad if you're fat. Those of you who live in a purely reactive state, totally dependent on the world to give you happiness, nice try. No idea what you're expecting, but I'll tell you - if you're looking for a second mommy, she doesn't exist. And seriously if you want to become a priest or something, just think about all the nice guy sex issues many of them have.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 11:44 AM
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Ha ha... but one can only write that when one has been there and seen it with their own eyes.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 10:18 AM
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No it didn't. Until someone posted it 3 days back. Part 2 is entirely my own writing, today. What, the lore is after all created one article / story at a time.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 09:45 AM
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I will give you my own extended family's case in point. My mum for example is by nature ultra disciplined. She's also on the harsher side and when triggered can be a bit like a viper - no sense of humor. Phenomenally stubborn. My eldest aunt is an all work, really smart, high IQ, works in a big bank, loves to talk on and on, but very volatile, a volcano waiting to burst, but fond of jokes. Another aunt is really sweet at first, but really Machiavelian in every damn thing - and really scared of h…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 08:44 AM
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It's back up now. With some retakes and deleted scenes...
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 08:08 AM
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You imagining relationship means it should be like "this, this, that" means nothing before reality. You do not know what masculine emotions or masculine expressions are. Vulnerability has become an excuse for revealing your shit rather than something like taking a shirt off and showing that muscular body underneath. Vulnerability is not about your issues - your shit is for you to own. Emotions have been described as purely reactive things. No. Desire, drive, passion, fire, intensity, grit, menta…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 03:34 AM
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Wasn't genuine to begin with. Only honest outcome.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 02:05 AM
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Don't entertain this handle. She's been trolling a few posts. Mods deleted many of her shaming posts, but I'm surprised they haven't yet kicked her out.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 02:04 AM
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Actually there's more to that. Prakriti is the world, impermanent, ever changing, fluid, doing, needy, the moon - feminine. Purusha is the ever present, unaffected, indestructible, steady, being, consciousness, abundant, the sun - masculine. Kind of tells you how men and women work huh? There was a reason for that analogy. The story of Krishna was stunning when you read it in a pure RP context - you could teach people the art of attraction through the story without lecturing them. If you read Kr…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:49 PM
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This. A single woman is vulnerable. Hence they evolved to be herd animals. However this trait is not just a human characteristic. It is much older than that. It actually comes from the animal kingdom.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:26 PM
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Attraction is a selfish emotion, but self centered-ness kills it. Actually in the book "Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man", there are 5 stages to the betaization process 1) Find an attractive male and make him exclusive. So far so good. 2) Make him soft and vulnerable. 3) Get him to work for you. 4) Lose attraction and complain he's never good enough. 5) Declare Independence and fly Rinse and repeat.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:20 PM
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Check out my post on living with my BPD ex. I am telling you, I am only alive to write this because I bailed out. Either I might have jumped off the top floor of my apartment or I would be in prison if she did something stupid. Some guardian angel somehow brought me here just in time.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:18 PM
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Proud mighty lion who can make earth tremble at his roar sees a lioness who is attracted to him and slowly starts enjoying her company as she gives him sex and favours. He then forgets his friends and stops hunting when she gives him easy food, why not? He becomes focused on keeping her needs met. He somewhere has a fear of old age and death and when the lioness puts a collar on him, he struggles and roars, but he gets bowled over by sweet talk and the deal the lioness gives him. She only has hi…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 03:17 PM
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You confirmed everything I wrote. You're replaceable too. And you are already rejected, well actually you weren't up for consideration. :P And just wait till you get older... Begone thot!
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 09:14 AM
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He failed to realize it was not how much he loved her, but how much she loved him that mattered, and that didn't exist. When people get into a relationship because they like how much someone loves them, they are only loving themselves. Once a woman enters this dynamic, there is no more relationship or attraction. A man who respected her was never enough for her because what she wanted was a man she could be attracted to and respect. Next time when they say they'll marry someone who ties their sh…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 08:37 AM
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This is not the point of this post.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 07:25 AM
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In Taoism and Yoga women are closer to the water principle and me closer to the earth principle. Taoism even gives the analogy of a mountain and the ocean. The mountain creates boundaries for the water to flow, the water tries to dissolve the mountain. I had read Tolle for dealing with my anger and depressed phase. It helped me let go of most of it though I still need to work on the more subtle scars. He even talked about a collective feminine pain body. Women in generally get into their pain bo…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 06:32 AM
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In Taoism and Yoga, men are said to be closer to the element of earth, while women are closer to water. The analogy in Taoism is that of a mighty mountain trying to dictate the course of the waves and the waves trying to erode the rock. There's even a collective female pain body. We knew all these things from thousands of years ago. Only the last couple of generations were systematically educated into a different narrative.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 06:22 AM
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And there you go in to add hominem shaming attacks and there this is other guy who's basically giving you good entertainment. Out you go.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 06:12 AM
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As always, the exception argument. No woman I know is exception to this pattern. I come from a conservative part of the world where I have known a culture where women could kill themselves over the shame of being considered unfaithful or for social humiliation for things like being in debt. The momentum of their peer group of mothers, mothers in law, the society and sisterhood also deeply affected their preferences and opinions and even their emotional responses and even the kind of rituals they…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 05:59 AM
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Any idea why I could not get the post on the cringeworthy messages on men's day up? It was a curated collection of all that's wrong with the human race.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 04:38 AM
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This. Most men are simply a bunch of individuals sharing a common set of beliefs or purposes. Just because all men have a sex drive does not make them a herd. Men's herds are still vertical. The reason why many men might show feminine traits is because they're overwhelmingly raised by women in a feminine centric environment serving feminine narrative right from infancy and it's fed into them as boys. Their T levels are really low now compared to their grandparents. And yet when their illusions a…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 03:48 AM
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Misogyny arguments and outrage culture are socially fashionable now.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 03:32 AM
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Still, it's vertical, this influence. It descends from some higher authority to whom they end up deferring to. Women defer to the herd they're a part of.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 03:30 AM
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It's the herd that makes the most noise in the vicinity that often influences them. Poorly educated folk who can be peddled pseudoscience and conspiracy theories can fall easily for that. Also the skyrocketing costs of healthcare in the US might be partly to blame.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 02:52 AM
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Most blue pill conditioning starts vertically in men as boys influenced by the messages sent by their superiors and the larger society. So does the un-conditioning process to red pilled frame. This takes time and effort and cultivation. Horizontal doesn't work so much for men. We don't talk about fight club is one way of saying that - you can't hope to influence your peer guys until they get hit by reality themselves. I believe the change from boy to man is so great it can only properly be achie…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 05:55 PM
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Yes that's what I said. Male herds are vertical. They don't work well if there's no one at the top.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 05:47 PM
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Studies may not work and I don't need someone to give me a suggestion there "might be differences" - I can see it myself. People behave differently when they know they're being observed. The best laboratory is everywhere you look.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 05:06 PM
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I forgot to add in the title "The rest is mostly inborn". As I was having dinner, a thought struck me that the individual differences between women are mostly inborn traits that hardly ever change. I then looked at all the women I've known in my life, and yes, who they are individually, hasn't really changed. But this part is not nearly as big as the herd. Men on the other hand, definitely change, so much that even now I can't comprehend the scale of physical and mental transformation that the b…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 04:38 PM
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Women's frames have a massive herd component to them. While you can get men to follow the vision of a powerful leader, women tend to change depending on which frame has attained a collective critical mass. A woman is actually not just an individual - a large part of her is a herd. This is something that hasn't been said so directly, but it's true. That's how weak their frames are.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:08 PM
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OP is that guy who will allow his wife to cheat on him, welcome her back and apologize to her for it. He will then negotiate her affections because the bible is his frame (or whatever he thinks is in his religion). He's totally ok being a doormat. I think people confuse DGAF with lack of dignity and standards. I have no idea how it occurred to him that he must LTR up on SMV (and get married too) because he has high SMV apparently. So many things wrong in that one sentence like WTH was that?. OP …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:04 PM
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Don't hold a covert contract that "If I do RP correctly, my girl will want to be with me" -- if you've been to mrp and read the stuff there - you see that this is usually one of the harder assumptions to get rid of. The people here want to be in that 10% exceptional bracket where they believe they'll be safe and secure from what's happening to every other AFC around them. RP and MRP will show you what is authentically honest for yourself and the true nature of everyone beyond their appearances. …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:31 AM
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I have come to a theory that feminism is the result of women never getting the masculine energy they needed to relax into their feminine, plus the lesbian influence and envy of the masculine. Many feminists had poor relationships with fathers and other men. Therefore they're subconsciously trying to find it by becoming more masculine themselves, but can't resist when a masculine man shows up.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 01:27 AM
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Twitter is a mental hospital. Some people know how to exploit it. Others just get burned.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 04:01 PM
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In hindsight, one thing that happens to you is that you see all the stuff people say and you can help but wonder how dumb they are and how much dumber you were to even think they were wise. Today I've earned the right to call them fools, but in the past I was also one of them. Logic is a veneer for emotion. To know the nature of emotion is to know the nature of women and children. Emotions by nature are totally self centered, impulsive, entirely reactive, know no rules or morals or can see beyon…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 03:59 PM
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Ok first thing as men, today we stare at the guy in the mirror and be totally honest to ourselves, own our shit, and not bother whether women even remember what day it is or not. If they do, great, if they don't, we are still creating that great life - that's up to them. Getting our needs met is our responsibility, and others may help us, or not. If you live by their validation, you die by their rejection.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 02:24 PM
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However, independence doesn't mean you can or should do everything in your life alone - the world's most successful men know that better than anyone. You can bring in others when needed, but the one in the drivers' seat of your life, the one responsible, is you. All others can be around for you (or not), but you're responsible for being the captain of your own ship. There is no one. You haven't seen enough then. When you do, you'll realize no one is particularly a unicorn. The world is so much b…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 05:29 AM
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Lots of men in otherwise great and even long lasting relationships are still structurally flawed because their happiness and survival is highly dependent on their woman. You don't realize this as long as things run well, but you are tested only by the tough times - if their woman isn't there, these men will implode. That's why looking at great relationships or marriages is not a true barometer of who the man himself is. It's only when you're happy and strong from within that more people are attr…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 05:18 AM
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All is fine, but if men see themselves defined as entirely in relation to women, even if they're in a good relationship or marriage, fundamentally they still live poorly with major structural weaknesses, it's just masked because all is well on the outside. As an individual these men are still highly codependent. Their woman is their source of strength - it should be the other way around. This is the mentality that must go. It is true that you get a big boost when more people are around who need …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 04:32 PM
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You know, we need to see ourselves from a 3rd person Point of View. The thing I've realized is that as men, most of us really overdo it a lot even when we think we're not. Calibration can feel weird at first, almost like we're doing virtually nothing, but we've failed to realize that less is more, and just how much we're over the top. Masculine body language is subtle most of the time (forget sports and battles, this is regular life). When we overdo it, it comes across as childish, immature and …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 03:21 AM
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I'd rather advise drinking warm water. However when I'm working out or running, I'd really love drinking cold water for all that heat. Speaking of drinking water, the average person is far more dehydrated than they think. When I warm up before a workout, the first thing my body starts asking is more water, a lot more. On one occasion, I was feeling really stiff and even warmups felt difficult. Then I got thirsty, and drank and drank - over half an hour, till I started sweating freely and the nat…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 03:18 AM
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You showing interest in her is not what matters at all, it's cheap. What matters is her being interested in you. Not actually illogical or paradoxical when you look at it like this.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 05:16 PM
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PM the guy and send him over to MRP or askmrp. Let's see if anything works. Maybe he'll be ready a bit further down the road. Hope he's still in one piece by then.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 02:42 PM
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Chilled showers are optional. They're good though. Shocking at first, but really rejuvenating. Builds up a bit of mental toughness too. God after an intense workout, I really love a cold shower more.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 02:22 PM
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Your job is to help yourself. Then find people who've been jolted by reality, only those people, and help them wake up. No one else will bother listening, and you will become like the story of the bird that tried to advise the foolish monkeys. The rest will either become a bit wiser in their time or perish and you can do little about that. Can't be helped. Nature is a harsh mistress. In the future, if more and more men wake up and get wise, the collective will begin to put the pendulum back in b…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/19 04:25 PM
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These newspapers are full of tabloid shit, written by some of the most broken and dishonest people alive - utterly fucked up, mentally ill, insidious agenda driven folk write for them. If they sell, it shows you most of us readers as a collective are shitty. Do yourself a favor, ban google news and use your newspaper for your fireplace. It will actually be useful.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 04:56 PM
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What is YOUR end goal? That's the only thing that matters. You own it, good, bad, ugly and all. TRP is a tool to help you after all.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 04:34 PM
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All personality and skills and habits are like this only. Acquired and internalized to a point where it is hardwired into your cells and it becomes natural. Strictly speaking, a there is no such thing as faking it - there are only different levels of mastery. A fake according to me is only when what one says and what one does aren't congruent at all. But like learning to play a musical instrument, once you get beyond a certain level, it does become something else even in absolute terms. Whatever…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 04:32 PM
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I'd recommend this book as recommended reading : https://www.amazon.com/Power-Full-Engagement-Managing-Performance/dp/0743226755 It ought to be said, muscles are broken down at the gym, they're built during the recovery phase. Good sleep, sunlight and room temperature water are vital for increasing T levels. A life of productivity is another excellent blog resource for handling your time and energy. https://alifeofproductivity.com/ There is a relaxing meditation where you lie down and focus on e…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 04:33 AM
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I could sum it up this way -- when I hit the peak of my frustration as a blue pilled nice Guy in a horrible marriage, I was sick and tired of everyone treating me like a retarded child, with only that kind of contempt that is reserved for guys who have no frame of their own. What was I doing wrong? After coming here, I really didn't get it at first, even though I was reading the books and lifting. I didn't even get it when I realized I was in a toxic relationship and the only way was get out, be…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 03:38 AM
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Honestly this was the hardest post I've written and I had no time to take a second look at it. Getting the right words for this is a tad hard. If I could sum it up, once the truth is obvious to you, no one needs to tell you. You know. Then you get better at knowing.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 02:23 AM
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Actually this is not an adult characteristic as much as it is a child's. These things, you see kids learn to do this all the time, unless you shut them down quick.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 04:51 AM
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Interesting. Will check it out. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 03:30 AM
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You're right about this. A lot of feminists are lesbian / bisexual / trans or women with abnormal testosterone. Many of them had issues with their fathers - if bad fathers make their sons into nice guys or criminals, daddy issues can turn women into feminists. The thing is, women are herd animals. So even regular women fall for it.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 03:00 AM
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But we are also responsible for this mess as men, because many of us are so pathetic we'd put up with any shit for a possibility of pussy.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 02:58 AM
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There is a story of the monkey that had it's hands wrapped around a pillar full of grain, and still greedy for the banana lying some distance away. Eventually it realizes it has to let go of either one or the other, but it can't have it all. Still it tries, and usually it ends up losing both the grain in hand, and the banana to a rival. It was often used to give lessons in being content and not burning out trying to have it all. This is not just a story - I have actually seen stuff like this hap…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 02:57 AM
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This post is so damned accurate of female dynamics in virtually any environment where they gather critical mass that it needs to be given gold or preserved on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 03:11 AM
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This could very well be my typical female majority family gatherings. Everything you said, I've seen it. Well they're too modest for the explicit sex part, but I know for a fact that when the door is closed, no topic, however personal, is off bounds. There is an all female family (3 sisters and the daughters and the grandmom) next to my uncle's place. You just described a typical day in their house. Fortunately this part of the world is still wise and the universal opinion is "This is all becaus…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 05:26 PM
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Accepting yourself honestly and accepting yourself as perfect are two different things. One should not simply be content to stay in the comfort zone even in these matters. That's when growth happens.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 03:22 AM
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Women are simply the icing on top of the cake, but the good life you seek is your own responsibility and it's for you to create. Women can never be the sunshine in your life. A man at some point has to realize that life is so much bigger than just women, and that getting pussy isn't even the ultimate thing in it either. This attitude and the results that follow, contrary to what you might think results in you getting sought after more rather than you seeking, which firmly swings the pendulum int…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 03:13 AM
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Only you can fix your own shit. Get help if needed, but the responsibility is yours first. Suggest you read Tolle if you're feeling depressed. And hit the gym. Life's vast wonderful when you don't have oneities for the few things in your head.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 06:11 AM
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For all those wondering, at a global level, the mass of humanity is still operating in a woman's frame (which as we've seen, has no solidity or long term idea where it's going) - aided by the legal system. At a macroscopic level, all men are guilty of surrendering their frames and power to women for pussy. The only solution lies in bringing them back into our frame again. Or else gets ready for an eventual insane future and a very hard crash of society.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 06:01 PM
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First thing for you, read the article "How to manage your bitches" - don't fret, they're managing their men far more than you can imagine.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 04:49 PM
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Go to mrp. Right now. Get yourself sorted.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 12:46 PM
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Go to mrp for a while, then get back here to learn seduction. Many of you post as though you're here for the first time and haven't gone through all that trp and mrp tell you to read. You are literally reinventing the wheel that's already been well developed by now. Many people have already written about all things masculine extensively. Get a good reading list of the books on these subs, which should also include at least one book by a Navy Seal Or someone who's transformed their lives to get w…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 12:18 PM
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I forgot the law number - but it went like "Think as you like, but in public, act like others". Social intelligence requires a degree of Machiavellian expertise. You will gain more by listening more than talking. Better yet, find stuff that keeps you driven at least 80% of the time you're awake, and doesn't require you to waste your time listening to people talk the same mindless stuff day after day.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 12:17 PM
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Read the entirety of the sidebar, the books, the mrp sub, learn from others, implement it. All the masculine energy you'll ever need. Nothing for me to add to all that. Subtleties can only be understood with time and experience - you have to walk the path, do the work, transform yourself. But you will know when you have changed, you see the world differently and the world also treats you differently. Finding that out for yourself is way more profound than hearing it from others. I just wanted to…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 06:34 AM
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What you do is secondary. What you ARE, your nature, is the most important thing. Masculine and feminine energies are an intangible thing, but they entirely determine the relationship. Definitions of masculinity and femininity that are based on what you DO are highly misleading. This is about you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/19 04:24 AM
3

There are no "Red Pilled Women" In the sense of unicorns or exceptions. But if you look at it another way, ALL women are Red Pilled by which I mean AWALT. Only guys are either awake or dreaming. Women are always awake AND dreaming.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 06:03 PM
1

When it comes to your fitness, how much you pat yourself for your mediocrity! And that goes for everything else. No standards. Look bud, Do not lie to yourself. If you want more T, you're gonna lift heavy and diet well. And that's just the beginning of your issues. Your biggest problem is "It's ok to be mediocre"
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 03:49 PM
1

6' 221 lbs, your stats are very high. Why don't you cut for a while? Get BF way down for your own sake. All you need to do is get 15-25% protein, drink more water, green tea and electrolytes. There's at least 30 or even 35 pounds in there. So number 1 priority. And the HIIT... that one is hell, but you'll be forever grateful for it. Here ya go too - https://legionathletics.com/lose-weight-fast/
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 10:31 AM
1

Don't drink and get close to crazy, let alone sticking your dick in crazy. If DUA is serious shit, well, this is a much more serious DUA (Dick under influence).
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 05:31 AM
5

I really didn’t want to lose that And that was the beginning of the end. Moral : One must never fear losing anything, no matter how good. That's when your mental strength is at its peak.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 06:20 AM
5

Your only reality is now. So don't waste your energy regretting "If only this or that" - you're chasing an outcome that doesn't exist. Be honest with what is. Anger is the result of dependence on one particular outcome, and yeah, losing something can be painful, but a board must be wiped clean if something new has to be written on it. Now that you're where you are, you have half a year to master the sidebar, improve, lift and simply implement dread more freely as a natural consequence of your cu…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/19 03:46 AM
2

Good to put it back into your frame with a bit of re-wording.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:32 AM
1

Women's communication is all about everything at least 1 layer deeper than what they actually talk. They are incredibly critical of each other's behavior and motivations. Women study the person behind the words more than the actual content of the words. This can lead to a few complications when women try to get in the way of a conversation between two men, they forget that things are simpler and more direct. So the term I have for this is "At least 1 level deeper".
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 03:24 PM
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Essentially the BP RP conflict is the best example of cognitive dissonance between logic vs emotion, brain vs body. The biggest mistake one does is thinking human relationships are logical, when they get into relationships for emotional and physical needs. What sounds logically correct seldom is, because logic is stupid when it ignores reality. My first blue pill was thinking that being nice and accepting her for who she is works and creates attraction. What I failed to realize is that ego massa…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/19 08:42 AM
1

It's a shame Sebastian simply did not love himself. Guys, I cannot say it enough - women are only the flower on the tree, the cherry on the cake. The cake ought to taste fine by itself even without it. Love yourself enough that you do not take shit from anyone. ANYONE. And remember, when the person next to you becomes the enemy, do not hesitate to deal with them as such.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 04:34 PM
3

And here's the part you missed - women find it harder to deal jokes themselves because they tend to take it way too personally - sollipsism to blame. Hence a lot of women not attracted to you on social media are often the ones getting outraged at any joke they get personal with. And one reason for that is that written words are really serious, the 93% of non-verbal communication is missing. So the same joke when cracked properly in person with a huge smirk or a straight face can result in ROFLs,…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 07:20 AM
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Much of that is cultivated specifically to keep up with the boys - of course, any skill can be cultivated and mastered, but we're talking about default behaviors. Boys just do it like they take to cars and gadgets. Very few girls I know are joke experts. They're usually gigglers. Boys just take to roasting each other like fish take to water.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 07:06 AM
2

It's not about risk. This one is inherent talent. Women are just not naturals at this art form. PS : They are however unparalleled at the art of getting offended by what someone on the other side of the planet posts on their twitter.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 03:56 AM
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Statistics uses vague words like 'may appear' to be 'not insignificant'. You might get the impression that men are on average 0.5% funnier or something. Let me give you real life - in virtually all the groups and gatherings I've been in, only the men ever crack the jokes and the funniest stories. Women are at best mildly funny when they try to tease the guys (and even that is basically done in a shit test way), otherwise when men are totally the more amusing sex. I mean look at some of the tools…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 03:47 AM
4

Mistake number 1. Unicorn-itis. Test it by acting more like a crybaby and let us know how your relationship is going. What you said is what EVERY man thought at one point. You are not an exception, neither is your fiancee. Wait till you get married, and then go to the mrp sub and find out if they're exaggerating.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 03:27 AM
3

Noticed how many issues most pop artistes and celebs have - underneath that celebrity facade, many of them are utterly broken and fucked up characters. It's celebrating mental illness.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 03:23 AM
2

You are in a relationship for your own needs.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 03:20 AM
1

You also need more meditation and mindfulness exercises, most people's minds simply generate thoughts and emotions at a level that makes masturbating multiple times a day seem benign - and almost all of them are reactive, negative and completely repetitive. It doesn't matter what they are, almost all of it is noise. But that's always the start of it. Over time with exercise, this will spiral down. It's only after doing this for a while you actually start using your mind, rather than the other wa…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 04:27 PM
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Women actually behave far more like kids or almost lover like with their friendships. All that handholding, hugs, tears, kisses, "I love you darling" and all that (and when they're not doing that there can be seething jealousies and sitcom levels of drama too - only women can talk like best friends and hate each other within). You'd think they were dating or behaving like a bunch of 5 year olds, but they are actually that way. It's not like men at all. For men it's either totally subtle, or "spo…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 03:22 AM
2

Ugh. I'd rather love them play punching each other in the face and calling each other "Fuckin' idiot."
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 03:15 AM
2

So much hue and cry over men crying and choreplay and only one mention about lifting (in a statistic that too) or mental strength or attractiveness. So much about how people want to be seen by others and no one word on how they would look at themselves and others. If 97% of people think of masculinity in terms of social expectations and how they want to be described by others, it means 97% of them have no frame to begin with. And if you need to cry at a wedding, it's because you know that you ju…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 03:00 AM
2

This line stands out : Zhang: Yeah, I was really struck by the gender divide when interviewing NPEs for my story. There are so many more women who wanted to talk about this than men. Chris: Oh, yes. Zhang: It’s harder for men to talk about. Chris: I know, and even in infidelity-support groups and domestic-dispute support groups, it’s a ton of women talking and only a few men. I think it’s shameful for a man to be open about it. It’s really hard on a man’s self-esteem and ego knowing that their w…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 04:05 PM
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Japan's economy will collapse because economical raw numbers are based on consumption and consumption needs population. Actually Japan's biggest problem was it's overwork to death beta culture where they assumed you work hard and things would be fine. They bred so much beta behavior into their society and now they're fucked.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 02:56 PM
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They forget that sexual instincts evolved for millions, maybe hundreds of millions of years before money was even invented.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 02:53 PM
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Once pleasing becomes an expectation, it's the beginning of the end. The more important thing is how much she's trying to please him, which in this case was never. And he didn't put a hard boundaries because he probably feared losing the relationship. Well probably his wealth attracted the gold digger type to begin within.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 02:52 PM
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And that's why a magician never explains the trick or why a movie is always a finished product.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 05:30 PM
1

We do have a need for trust because trust was and is essential for our very survival - the world can't run without at least professional levels of trust. That's why it still stabs us. But from another angle, past trauma is the last remaining part of one's beta self. Without allowing that to heal up, that guy might still come in and find a new way to suck up your present life. The question is what do you do once the lion that threatened to rip your head off has become a pussycat later after you'v…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/19 03:39 AM
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Dread is a combination of hunger and fear. To get it, starve for a while and then see how you appreciate your food and water - I swear the taste of water itself changes. I know a guy who was so dehydrated in Death Valley in an ultramarathon (forgot the salts) that when he got a box of it, he began to eat the salt bare. That's how basic instincts work. I believe if all relationships used the male intimacy cycle (it's a large scale version of what your penis goes through in a matter of minutes) we…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/19 03:26 AM
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Nice one. There's more cross processing between hemispheres in women, but far less inter-lobal wiring within a hemisphere. Men's brains process a lot within a hemisphere across lobes. They're quite the opposite of each other. Explains why men go for a compartmentalized or structured hierarchical approach with selective integration (this basically means men's brains seek order and structure and separate boxes), while women's left and right brains can't be distinguished so often. In the case of th…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 05:47 PM
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This is an excellent article on it - https://legionathletics.com/how-to-calculate-body-fat/ - Mike's my go to resource that actually resulted in me making gains for the first time (I thought I had bad genes before - the real cause was no knowledge and a protein poor diet). Can't believe he looks like that in the pic and still found himself at 11% BF - I seriously thought he was 7-8%. So I totally believe we're all overestimating our BF percentage. My gym trainer made me realize I was fooling mys…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 05:18 PM
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I have observed this in a lot of couples and have come to the conclusion that women's frontal cortexes and their reptilian brains must truly be completely out of sync with each other at a level beyond what most men are capable of - that is, their logical and emotional brains are far more compartmentalized and drive conflicting sets of behaviours. I used to think it was an elaborate premeditated thing - but that's my mistake - that's actually how I'd do it, but that's not how they do it. What I n…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 04:53 PM
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The point is that as far as you're concerned, it's not how much you are attracted to her that matters - it's how much she is attracted to you and swept up in your energy that's way more important - it's only when she needs you that she'll value you. As a man, your attraction to her is very easy to achieve, so there's not much you need beyond nature's built in systems. You then just need to take care of yourself. Of course, do not fail the comfort test. Some amount of comfort does matter (it incr…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 04:48 PM
1

Your friend has many needy issues. For one he has no self respect, so he won't learn till he has a hard fall. And this is why you do not hurl pearls before swine as Jesus put it.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 05:43 AM
1

Actually there are a lot of posts down there that should be getting honest feedback, but aren't getting any feedback at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 03:59 PM
4

I meant for the man, not for the modern woman. Guys can stay fairly strong almost till the very end with exercise, diet and habits. I remember that oldest bodybuilder doc (he's no more now, RIP) at 85 was talking about being hit on by 60 and 70 year olds for e.g. and believe me, with some fashion, these men look way better than any lazy obese fatass one third their age, and I'm saying that as a guy. Some are on TRT though, no issues - you have nothing to lose at that age. But that's what I meant…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 07:49 AM
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There's only a wall if you're looking in a limited age category.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 06:09 AM
2

Productivity can get a little counter intuitive. If your energy and T deplete a lot, you will get far less done in more hours. Consequently if you're fresh, you can get more work done in less time with less errors - which is what really matters. Something I learnt the hard way in college when I skipped on sleep all the time. Never again. Lack of sleep or breaks are also dreadful for creative work that needs ideas. https://alifeofproductivity.com/ - is a great resource. One thing was that the aut…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 05:48 PM
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Additional tip : Try drinking some hot, plain milk (sugar optional) before sleeping - it can knock you out. It works better if the milk was heated repeatedly over the day. Cold milk has the opposite effect. Also, mentally wiggle every part of your body one by one from your toes, left foot, leg, etc. By the time you've come to left arm, you ought to be really asleep - I extend this to every organ in my body, and usually fall asleep before I get to my neck. Meditation in the first few days tends t…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 04:34 PM
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Doesn't want men in 50s and 60s when she's past 50... ok, everything's clear now. Nutcase spotted.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 03:25 AM
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Is this how dumb Americans are becoming? If so, many of us hardly have competition.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 03:21 AM
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My job is to be honest, not nice - if you want nice a group of flatters can always do that. What is nice now could become poison tomorrow and what is uncomfortable today can become a blessing down the road. Check the stats on how relationships go these days - every single one of them thought exactly as you did. Then go observe a whole lot of people and get your hands dirty and look before you leap. My case was particularly nasty. Life is way bigger than I think and I believe. Life IS.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 04:54 PM
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This kind of posting itself shows you're clearly a noob with zero experience - your post sounds like a child's prattle - "most stable", "most optimal", "ooh that's so cool" and on top of that you wanna brag that you're bigger than it all -- and you just argue logic. Only people with zero experience try to argue with "logic". Seriously how old are you? Ok, boss. If you are ready for the risks, and totally fearless of any kind of loss, your choice - it's your heaven or your funeral. But your choic…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:58 PM
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We know this already. What happens when you give guns to kids? Women have power and freedom but few in the West have abundance or the consciousness to use it wisely. But karma's a bitch, and everything you create comes back. In the future treating mental illness will be a huge industry.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 07:28 AM
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Aggressive? Understatement. It almost reads like a declaration of war. In comparison, ours could be considered blunt but really polite. Women have no neutral gear, it's either love or hate, never impersonal.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:40 AM
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Yes, it was only meant to be an "Any last words?" thing, but strangely they've let the sub live for a little longer. Whether the sub continues or is closed, I will forever be grateful to you guys. Thank you again for waking us up.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 03:58 AM
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It is ok. It was very long overdue, we're all surprised that it's lasted so long. It's time for something better to come in its place. When life tears you down, it also creates room for something new to emerge.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 05:54 PM
1

Goodbye TRP - we all knew it would come soon, but still. This subbreddit opened my eyes and brought me back up after the lowest point in my life. I am a much more aware person than before for it - that and the guys at mrp (I am sure they will still be around). But trp.red , here we go. The best of this sub is archived there already, and of course, there are the books and the lessons. Of course, no forum will come close to actually going out there and treading the waters - remember that all the v…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 03:07 PM
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In the past the women's graph would have hit 5 much earlier. Shows you how many people are getting obese or just have a sick attitude. The men's graph is legit, but I thought it would be even further to the right.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 03:58 AM
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Well, once you see everyone is Dark Triad under the masks of idealism that they claim to wear, it's only natural. This guy is the only honest character in the room.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 03:17 AM
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You know, this is a very good time to be a mental illness expert. You can mint money with the right knowledge. It's only going to get better as more and more people become bat-shit crazy. Never have the intellect and the body been this far apart and that's not a good thing - cause the body was the main anchor to reality that stopped the mind from going too crazy. Or better, you can even become a guru and have a lot of crazies do anything for you if you can save them from themselves.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 03:14 AM
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Sexual relationships are the sweetest form of psychopathy. If the feelz are gone, all that remains is only psychopathy.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 03:22 PM
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Sexual relationships are the sweetest form of psychopathy. If the feelz are gone, all that remains is only psychopathy.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 03:20 PM
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Romantic sexual 'love' is the sweetest form of psychopathy. If the feelz are gone, all that remains is only psychopathy. That is as concise as I can ever describe the red pill reality.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 03:19 PM
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The cognitive dissonance between thought and emotion has never been stronger as it is today. It is not really a good idea to write about it in public, because the public usually imagines it to be one thing, while the real thing is quite different.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 03:19 AM
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It's all yellow journalism and of late it's gone to orange. Most media hit pieces like these is just clickbait and google is infamous for junk news for maximum hits on their search engines. If you look at who wrote it it's usually a nutcase. We shouldn't even give them 5 seconds of our time. I'm going to buy a real newspaper again. This junk news has fucked with my attention span among other things. I've forgotten which is actually today's news on these websites. http://captaincapitalism.blogspo…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/19 05:00 PM
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1 min? That's not low self esteem. That's a mental illness. The difference is only a matter of degree. I think an ego screening test has to be mandatory education.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 08:00 AM
1

That post on the betaization process needs to be here. Men think that getting married is the beginning and orgasm is the climax. For a woman securing your commitment is the climax. Marriage is essentially post climatic for women. But only if you let it slide.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 05:20 AM
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What's a woman mod doing on married red pill?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 03:34 PM
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These days though, you can't depend on a woman and a child alone to help you grow. Better learn from the lives of others and keep improving consciously right now.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 03:13 AM
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Imagine an autist's robotic approach to life and you'll see why emotion is important. Emotion is the source of energy in a person - intelligence can only suggest ideas, or know the road, but it is emotion that's the driving force that allows you to walk the path. Emotion in its primal form is what stops life from appearing utterly bland, meaningless and dry. Why do you think we call the robotic approach "lifeless"? When I read wiki's definition of emotion, popular narrative only talks about all …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 02:48 AM
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For pain, I'd always recommend Eckhart Tolle or Adyashanti's methods - of letting them resolve as and when they come, or consciously releasing them with awareness and grounding - hidden pain can lead to a lot of destructive behaviors. Even pleasure addictions of any form are basically an anesthetic to numb the pain of being with yourself. The male mind has a natural mechanism for this cleansing - yup, the man cave -- all these techniques are different ways of using this deliberately. One can do …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 03:06 PM
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Get out of religion. You will do far better with meditation. Simply being a follower and a believer, but never a knower, is the ultimate betaizing tool. Religions are tools to enslave mass ignorance - the ultimate startup of them all. Instead of trying to make a new religion where you can still remain a beta just worshipping a different god, get real with life and work on yourself, and you'll evolve much faster. You can never be free as a slave. The whole point of growing up is to get out of thi…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 05:09 AM
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Should have tried going as a tribe.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 05:53 PM
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Psychopaths do not have a sense of inclusion. Anything other than them, is treated as though it were an object - there is no sense of guilt,or even an awareness about just how they impacted another person. All their relationships are purely transactional. And going by the popular implication, psychopaths are abnormally insensitive to the lives of others and their brains probably are wired significantly differently. The question as to whether it is good or bad is in the overall results actually -…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 01:20 PM
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Spend a week in a jungle with wild animals, harsh weather, no food, and the threat of death and danger at any moment and you'll realize that unless you were ready to kill, and unless you were ruthlessly determined, and took no shit even from adversaries that were far stronger than you were, you wouldn't survive or achieve anything. Ask anyone who's still alive what it took to fight a war. These days jungle training is only reserved for special forces. Psychopaths in my opinion, are extreme "masc…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 07:21 AM
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What she throws to him is what she gets back.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 05:44 PM
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He hasn't read the 12 levels of dread yet. Right now he is clearly dreading her, but like a troll (a good response to an shit test caused by brainwashing, but it won't improve his SMV or create attraction unless this woman really loves him), and she is too cognitively dissonant between her need for affection vs her BP feminist conditioning to have a healthy relationship. At this stage one might not be wrong to claim that people like this woman might never be able to totally get into a healthy an…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 05:39 PM
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While the news article pays special attention to the man's "issues", focusing only on blaming him and his behavior, almost claiming he must have some sort of PTSD, not one word on just how dumb that woman is, or the fact that most feminists in fact have PTSD and cognitive dissonance. This woman for one too cognitively dissonant between her need for affection vs her BP feminist conditioning to have a healthy relationship. I'm sure it's killed her sexual desire and bonding potential to a great ext…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 05:34 PM
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Religion used to be a tool of implementing social sexual strategy (marriage) that limited both men's and women's respective strategies. Over time religion becomes a tool to enforce beta-ness and spiritual slavery because it is convenient to keep masses enslaved under concepts - you have to become a follower and a mere believer - never someone who actually knows what they're talking about. Religion has fared better than most startups and enterprises ever did for a reason. In uber religious societ…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:52 PM
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Well, women are risk averse and prioritize being safe. That would be accurate. Women are rational is well...the only ones less rational than them are men who never grew up to any kind of self mastery.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 03:04 AM
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It's a scam. They're losing market share in Europe, and now the states, so all they do is see how many recruits they can get in other developing countries. Steven Hassan's books on Cults and Indoctrination were an eye opener for me because I got to observe religions closely and realized what they were up to.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:44 AM
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OP is letting life be nasty to him - now that is digusting. Whether he says "crazy bpd bitch" Or "a poor woman with challenges" won't change anything in real life when he gets abused or threatened.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 04:55 AM
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Not being blunt means failing to recognize the magnitude of a major problem for what it is. Stupid is stupid, not "perhaps could be smarter". If you're too nice to call a problem a problem, you will never treat it as something to be solved. Think we're being brutal? Life is far more brutally honest. Check my post history on just what I had to deal with in my case. Being politically sensitive and talking on eggshells won't save you from that. Here no one is going to talk on eggshells. Doing the s…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 04:35 AM
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There is another major problem - you. What is it in you that keeps going after people with such tendencies. Find it out and fix it - even if it is subconscious.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 04:33 AM
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Probably the most humiliating and painful thing about being a beta is that others can bully you into compliance. For most betas, they are so co-dependent and un-dominant that a simple refusal to co-operate do what they want (and often do the opposite) can get them to comply -- I am speaking a lot from my own past experience - took me a long time to realize what happens - when people realize that something that you value is in their power, it gives them power over you. If he as a man was truly re…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 05:22 PM
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You should add point 16 to that list - nowhere will you find as many mentally ill women as in America. It seems to be that being mentally ill, neurotic, taking pills in middle age and some disorder or the other has become a badge of honor in America. But believe me, the virus is spreading quickly in urban liberal areas all over the world. Your title could have better more focused OP. Obesity yes, but also behavior. Only extreme Don Juan or mrp levels of masculinity can deal with the constant mic…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:10 AM
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Everyone will help you improve, but never, ever to a level better than them. Because they can't or they can't see what's better than them in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:50 PM
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The boyfriend should have found himself gym time when his GF is in the bathroom. He could have found a full workout routine in that time. And his whining set himself up for a shit test, which he failed. (Once more reason not to be beta, because you get dragged into complex shit tests that test your boundaries).
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 02:46 PM
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Good way to reframe it our way.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 05:57 AM
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Post now deleted as the information was not correct. But I'll wait for next year and check it out. Gillette better get their act together and do only what they're supposed to do, which is to sell their products and make money.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 02:57 AM
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Ok then, if this if factually incorrect, I will take it down. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 01:41 AM
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In my country, there isn't anything close to Gillette when it comes to how well their razors work and how long they last for that price - the disposable razors just totally suck in comparison. I have in 6 years purchased only 4 cartridges and up until a couple of years back I was shaving clean twice a week (then I grew the beard). I still use them to keep the beard line. In soft water, they never rust. They're open at both ends, so the razor can be cleaned easily. The shaving foam lasts for like…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 06:19 PM
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The articles : https://onenewsnow.com/business/2019/08/02/gillette-cut-by-8b-loss-after-toxic-masculinity-ad https://www.thepostmillennial.com/after-losing-8-billion-gillette-embraces-masculinity-again/ This guy gets it : https://qr.ae/TWKk81 But then just after posting this I go to their YT and see an entire video dedicated to a man talking of an equalist household - all comments and likes banned. So yeah, I don't think Gillette has learned. They're just doing damage control.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 05:48 PM
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I did not see where they were filtered out though...but I guess it's obvious. Ha ha...
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 05:41 PM
2

If you live by their approval, you die by their rejection - donno who said it but there. A man is like the sun in a solar system - all others are planets, the cherries on the cake - course the icing makes it better, but the cake would taste good even if it weren't there. Decide how you want to BE (that is, your own state of mind, body, emotion and spirit - regardless of flavours, all of them must be strong to shine on their own, that's universal), and soon it will be others who will need you. Sa…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 04:16 PM
3

I'm more interested in just how high his lift numbers might be.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/19 02:02 PM
2

Man, I have to appreciate just how strong he is if he could lift a grown woman like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/19 12:36 PM
4

Now I'm not advocating getting enlightened here (though getting RP aware was enlightening enough already), but I think Tolle is a must read for everyone who needs to deal with past pain and all of the ego's other issues, and deal with relationships. He's also utterly red pilled in the sense that he gets to the root of the consciousness behind our behaviors. BPD or rage cases for example, have massive pain bodies, and it even shows up in altered brain structure. I do get though why women can give…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/19 08:33 AM
1

The difference here is that men can do far more to increase their attractiveness and keep it up for decades with the right lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 05:22 AM
2

What about over 35-40? Unless you're older, in which case you'll find plenty in this age category.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 03:45 AM
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You know, stuff like this are the tricks we use to pacify a crying baby. And grown women are not that different - well, EMOTIONS aren't that different. I'd say anyone getting into a serious relationship ought to read Tolle's description the mechanics of the ego, of what he called "The pain body" and how it works, and in particular how it works in women, especially at a herd level. I used to think the idea of Satan was a cooked up story of some evil looking thing with horns, until I realized it's…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/19 03:19 AM
3

Take a bow - you cannot imagine right now just how much suffering you saved yourself from.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 02:21 AM
19

This is again biology at work. Children, then women, then men (oh, well not quite, you're probably expected to fight back anyway).
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 01:30 AM
11

And good for you that you broke up with her - this one is like my own ex (BPD case) - car trips were a nightmare whether it was Uber or our own. She might want to get back though, so get her replaced asap.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 01:20 AM
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There are parts of the world where this is still true. I recall my grandad doing this, and my dad not having money to buy shoes as a kid and had to walk miles to school (fortunately this part of the world doesn't have winter). Old houses all had wells. Well, my dad came up a lot to be where he is. Trouble is, even someone like him can become too beta over time once they get accustomed to too much comfort, and if they don't lift (testosterone IMHO seems to nosedive in late 50s) - frankly despite …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/19 01:42 PM
2

Only a man struck by a bolt of red lightning actually has the experience of knowing. All others are Disney dreamers. Look, they put that man up on the cross only 2000 years ago because they didn't agree with what he said. What makes you think we've changed?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 07:16 AM
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That's one reason why in many military units, adultery is still seen as a crime. It ruins trust - and we as humans need trust because trust is essential for survival - ours, the family, the tribe, the economy, everything. But I think the OP of the original post is clearly a girl and the aunt in question. Oh well, if emotions change, the frame changes.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 03:43 AM
3

And trying to become masculine through feminism. Emphasis on the "trying". Now that IS stressful to the man next to her.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 04:29 AM
3

But feminists said that marriage needed to be destroyed for the liberation of women! Blame the man, blame the man, all the time
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 02:58 AM
1

This is why we need to stay on top of our shit at all times. It isn’t just to get women, it isn’t just to keep with women, but it’s to be able to dispose of them too. This. We keep thinking of the 1st and the 2nd, but the 3rd actually requires the greatest frame of all.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 05:00 PM
2

Use the Push pull cycle. It's natural to men. Old old books on the subject sometimes called it the Union separation game (this is a loose English translation), key to generating hunger. That's a powerful form of dread when you combine it with the possibility of being very attractive to other women. This is also the basic addiction mechanism.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 12:28 PM
2

We get confused by women simply because we don't realize our own masculine nature.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 12:24 PM
7

Sorry for your loss buddy. It's devastating for a parent to lose a child -- you also die in part when this happens. For anyone with unresolved pain, I'd always advise reading and following Eckhart Tolle (Power of Now) - I got out of my anger phase after 3-4 episodes of freeing up a lot of trapped pain and tension in my system -- his method of awareness is in my opinion the masculine method of dealing with pain, by allowing it space to dissolve in awareness. Death or any form of dying is a moment…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/19 12:18 PM
11

But when you do, do be ready for the reality of a main event. It's a tidal wave.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 02:43 PM
14

Women always "win" the argument at the end. Men always win it at the beginning. Everytime a woman argues, it is about emotions ultimately, not content. Content is less relevant at the start and becomes totally irrelevant as time goes on. The mistake many men think is that women want a discussion. Nope, they just want what they want along with the emotions. Words are secondary to a woman. Everytime someone gets emotional, they lose rationality.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 02:39 PM
2

Well, men have lost trust in women (not that women were inherently trustworthy and sexual instincts by nature know no trust or morality). But humans have a need for trust because surivival is impossible without it - in fact all that we call a society or a civilization is only being held together by a measure of at least professional trust. That loss of trust has left quite a collective wound, and it's going to hurt women's imperatives at the end of the day. Literally all promises and marketed be…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 04:46 PM
2

Beware - some people are chronically miserable and do not have enough self awareness to observe it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/19 03:27 PM
5

I agree about putting yourself in the drivers' seat and taking full responsibility for your life and needs. It is true a lot of us are totally where we are because of ourselves (by which I mean we sucked for real) and we need to listen to what our lives are telling us and work on ourselves. We guys are far more responsible for our present state of affairs than we realize and it's also us who can turn things around. However, there is a thin line, which if you cross, can result in this turning int…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/19 04:55 PM
1

Now consider for a moment, would it REALLY be a stretch, for even the POSSIBILITY that MAYBE women too were also groomed with lies in such a way as to have a near completely flawed understanding of how relationships truly worked, and that their actions were merely efforts to live their lives in a way that tried to understand the truth between what they've been told, and what they're seeing in real life? Is it that much of a stretch, that women, too, are living in a type of matrix? The cognitive …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/19 02:53 PM
4

Discuss it with something of substance you have to add, instead of simply name calling.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 04:52 PM
1

Dude, your very definition of love is utterly BP and naive. What's the average age of TRP these days. 13?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 05:32 PM
1

Lifting for the muscles, running and HIIT for the heart and yoga and stretching for the ligaments, and calisthenics for compound strength. Swimming is great. So is biking. It's a good life with so many options. I don't see why people are so opinionated about these things. Plenty of people can lift heavy and also have endurance in absolute numbers. And OP, don't kid about your attempts at lifting. I could already run 10 K before I started lifting (though my times were dreadful), and after lifting…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 05:22 PM
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I have an aunt who's in the top management of some big name bank. Totally masculine no nonsense matter of fact person you might think. Well, when she's at home, it's like her feminine side is trying to overcompensate for all the time it got stuffed inside at work. They just can't hide when unguarded. AWALT? Oh god, AWALT on steroids. My aunt won't admit it, but she's actually having an extra layer of stress having to deal with that. My uncle sometimes treats her like a child even now, and he's t…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 04:54 PM
3

Ramp up the intensity and try to appreciate stuff without dicing and slicing and labelling it - that's all you need. Be consciously irrationally happy like a child from time to time, just to tell yourself it can be done, quite easily. But consciously, with awareness. What we need is to be consciously wild, keep it under wraps when necessary, but let it out here and there where we need it, as much as we need it. That wild side is actually the source of our energy. Intelligence is ultimately like …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 04:45 PM
7

As Morpheus put it, "Neo, there is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path". It makes ALL the difference.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 05:51 PM
4

Many men have been monks and have been just fine. If anything they're happy just as a way of life. Its not hard when you don't tie it to anything and your mind isn't using you. Only these people in my book are truly abundant in the sense of happiness. You should see how many people want a piece of their energy or wisdom. I've met some of them and one thing I learnt from them is that rather than using life as a tool to become conditionally happy as a goal somewhere in the distant future, live a h…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 05:23 PM
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The point is sometimes we let a word or two spill out that gives us away. That's a rookie mistake. We need to remind ourselves that nature has done very well with no words for like half a billion years now.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 01:43 PM
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In a woman's frame, there is no such thing as stability. The state of society in America and the West (and whichever part of the world is rapidly catching up) is ample proof that stability, commitment, trust, sense, awareness, consistency, longevity, durability, strength and rock solidness are all masculine qualities (eastern cultures classified traits themselves into masculine, feminine and neutral, and I like the idea, because it distills the core principles from the vagaries and half baked de…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 08:49 AM
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Let it. Foolish societies are weeded out by time.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 05:48 AM
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No trumpeting for failures friend. Suffer if you must. And embrace it and be grateful. Men are forged in pain. If you are that hungry, fill up your stomach in this order. Juices and electrolytes - I prefer lemon. Water (with the occasional Vitamin pill, not needed if your diet's healthy). The average American is too chronically dehydrated. Drink a lot more so you pee quite a few times a day and your urine's clear. I come from a place that gets very hot in the summers, so drinking over 2L (over 7…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 08:42 AM
9

That is the rationalization hamster at work.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 01:40 PM
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And browsing. And Netflix. And YouTube. And reddit. And news. And TV. And Facebook. And whatsapp. And Twitter. And worst of all, 9gag. Some productivity blogger calculated that the Average American loses 13.6 years of his life on that idiot box alone, better double that number. And stop fucking hamstering you hamsters down below. This is what is wrong with you.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 01:38 PM
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Nothing about TRP is "original". Old books and stories (the very oldest long runners) covered everything possible about human behavior. The Rational Male series was a very good read for me. Lots of insights and enough to get you started on observing human behavior. But that's where it ends. It won't tell you to do any work. For that one needs to look elsewhere for guidance.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 02:56 PM
1

And only because she doesn't need anything from you - a different kind of abundance. Wait till she becomes a mother-in-law and then you'll see the woman in her. I agree though, that one relationship with your mom alone is different. Unfortunately it very easily blinds us to the actual woman behind the mother.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 04:01 PM
4

Conservative society anyone?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 11:58 AM
1

Not even her. Take it from someone who's tried it long ago. And if you do need to cry, shed a single tear and stay silent. It's way more powerful.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 10:56 AM
1

Negs work extremely well for stuff like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/19 03:51 AM
2

The greatest transition is going from child to man, from neediness to abundance, from dependent to proactive, from outcome dependent to goal oriented, from operating in her frame to operating in yours, from being victim to being creator.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 06:36 AM
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A man starts out with a woman as his Point of Origin and in the end, she becomes one part of HIS existence. He starts with her as the God, and in the end HE becomes a God that she reveres, if she stays on for the ride.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 06:31 AM
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No I do not reflect on past issues, but bring all my attention and energy to the moment of experience. While all things and situations change from moment to moment, the moment of experience itself never changes. Look at your old photos or memories, can you spot the thing that never changed? Yes, you, that first person camera, ever on in the background. Acceptance means you accept reality as it is truthfully without rationalizing or DEER-ing, and then your response will be an honest one. It means…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 06:18 AM
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All the answers to women are not in them, they're in YOU, when you know yourself truly.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 05:05 PM
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He wrote two books. Now I am not campaigning for spiritual enlightenment here, but there has to be some room for all that past pain and memory to burn up. Tolle's observations on relationships is spiritual red pill and a harsh pill to swallow for anyone who believes in "love" - the one thing he specially brought out was how most relationships are really self serving and dominated by what he calls "the pain body" and how left unchecked, it simply goes on to wreck relationships - the very nature o…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 04:26 PM
8

For free you can get ALL the sidebar material and then some on Library Genesis.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 05:05 PM
2

All the success stories we have are already proof enough that we already have all we need, we just need to walk the path. Plenty of people have already done that, it's easier than it looks when you're totally willing to transform. I mean, you as a toddler, learnt to walk and talk on your own with no real advice from anyone. You think that intelligence isn't in you now? Now I do not say that a group of men getting coached and their butts kicked is a bad idea, and plenty of people might need that …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 04:52 PM
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I'd recommend Eckhart Tolle to anyone who's carrying too much past baggage. It takes a while, but man, it feels like someone pressed the life reset button. OP might not have read it himself. But he's doing almost exactly the same thing as Tolle's awareness. There are techniques of meditation that flush the mind like this as well - all of them are awareness methods. When he started talking about major past traumatic events and painful sensations released in the body, I know. Awareness is a man's …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 04:55 PM
2

Sounds like I should just translate her entire talk into "Comfort. Comfort. Blah blah blah. Comfort... "
/r/askMRP05/06/19 04:34 PM
2

When you're past 50, you'd rather have a roof, your car and your good health. Also women can't tempt you anywhere as easily with sex by then, so they become even less important. Sure a lot of really old guys would want companionship, but really, not worth a second lost life. A man's best friend in his time of crisis is usually another man.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 05:13 AM
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When it comes to lifting, one thing that becomes clear right away is that your body is a complete and integrated system and you cannot properly strengthen one part of it without strengthening all the other parts of it. In fact to do so risks serious injury. And that goes double for life as well. Body, mind, emotions, thoughts, beliefs, energy, presence. Everything matters.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 04:13 AM
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I wonder how much better he would be if he took care of that part, but I guess he made up for it elsewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/19 06:18 AM
3

Looks like a mini rambo issue to me. Happens to most of us at the start. Change happens slowly, step by step. We all learn the devils in the details only by doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/19 04:59 AM
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No Rambo. Go read some romance novels and see how subtle this is. You literally sound like a rambo or that kid who thinks sex is when his mum and dad wrestle naked. Your idea lacks any kind of nuance or slow growth or real life experience. Intellectual but unintelligent. Your virtues are only correct on paper, but you have no knowledge of physical and emotional aspects of relationships. Trust is only the comfort side of things. Investment is providership. But Sex is by nature agitating and entir…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/19 04:46 AM
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I'll tell you what, for a man, his version of labor pain is everything he has to go through in creating a new relationship. Women's labor is the consequence of sex, a man's labor is that of commitment. It's hard, but we're ready. I failed to realize that turning the ship around requires you to essentially destroy yourself, herself and the relationship to make room for a new one. You can get shit-tested to the crossover point where detonating this relationship and starting a new one can actually …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/19 05:01 PM
1

And the last one Failing to realize that MRP is ultimately about authenticity and honest outcomes. Outcome independence. You might have started this game to repair your non-existent sex life and the contempt and lack of respect as the end goal. What MRP will do is help you succeed, but not necessarily within your relationship. If your relationship was still on authentic grounds somewhere, it will get better - a lot, lot better. If it was never authentic to begin with, and if there's shit that's …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/19 04:57 PM
1

It's not really men and women at the end of the day. It's just market forces and power. But the specific ways and needs and expressions are very different between men and women.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 04:40 PM
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Let's add nuance to it - don't listen to anything she tells you about attraction or alpha. She has no idea what she's saying. The color of the curtains is another story. It has nothing to do with her tingles. Men know, women feel.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 12:52 PM
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The Guardian, the NYT, the Daily Mail, the express - they're just pure toilet paper. Many of those articles are written by mentally ill characters - many of them are seriously brain damaged and even look like they crashed through several sets of walls. Media is an insidious, extremely corrupt and BS selling industry that sells to retards. Avoid it like the plague.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 04:07 AM
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I divorced. Mine was a horrific tale, one that got worse because yours truly was BP incarnate and she was BPD - so authentically I should have never even got into that one. The only firm boundary there was never and that's exactly what happened. What I'm saying works well on normal people. One success story here basically turned around from the day one guy took off his wedding ring, another when he banished her to the couch instead, yet another by implementing real dread, one guy actually gave h…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 05:28 PM
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Time for you to read Eckhart Tolle... seriously, that man got me out of all depression and the anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 06:26 AM
3

Whatever RP guys have always known all long...AWALT. If any proof was needed for that, the fact that the internet exists now has totally exposed women's behavior and pooled collective knowledge about them in a way that has never happened before. Women really are rather powerless if they cannot deceive the masculine.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 04:41 AM
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You also need to get clever and creative at punishing bad behavior (without any abuse or falling foul of the law of course). We don't talk about punishments here on RP enough, but a good leader should be quite strong when it comes to enforcing principles. Punishments aren't applied because you're butt hurt, they're applied when things become unacceptable. As you can see, almost all laws are all about getting people to comply and punishing them if they don't. The very reason so many laws exist in…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/19 04:11 AM
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Oh well, he just verified my theory that societies and people swing between conservative and liberal all the time. When liberal becomes too insane, societies become conservative to keep themselves alive. Ever noticed a rise of conservative religion every single time a society or civilization goes down? Of course, in due time people get more liberal again, forget those lessons, and the cycle repeats. Those who forget history are condemned to repeat it. Roosh to me looks like that guy who hit the …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 03:51 AM
2

With 3 bullets in the chamber. Russian roulette has only a 1 in 6 chance of getting you killed.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 01:32 PM
0

That would be Purple Pill, right?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 08:43 AM
1

Trust weakens when survival is not the most important thing in your life anymore.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 05:57 AM
5

What is YOUR endgame mister? Or do you want someone to tell you that? You're the man, you write it. You own it. There's the problem in your frame - you still want someone else to prescribe rather than being someone that others want to follow - you are so used to being led that you don't know what to do when you have to lead your own life. You still have romantic ideas whether they're based in reality or not. Everything you said you fear in the future can be changed by your own effort. Why do you…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 05:53 AM
5

Many of these qualities need to be enforced or cultivated, especially that last one of trust and loyalty - that one is not natural to the feminine. Trust is a masculine quality. In a man's world, trust means survival of the tribe. You have to trust the guy next to you to face the enemy - ask anyone in the military. The economy runs on it. The government gets voted because you trust them. Everything, in fact runs on it. Trust is survival and a man's most prized quality. Therefore men evolved to v…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 05:21 AM
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Data analytics has long ago resolved any doubts about the actual nature of the feminine. They're literally leaving the complete trail of their behaviors over time. Actually this is why I never read the media BS. Over time I have found the media to be nefarious liars and BS experts with no trace of integrity or even intelligence, writing sensational BS because that shit raises a stink that gets noticed. The media allowed retarded numskulls to act like wise experts. The phrase "idiot box" has neve…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 04:14 PM
2

Well that's what she might say or think. But what did she actually do? Her mind couldn't cook up even one extraordinary thing...
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 04:10 PM
1

Women are herd animals. Their whole frame is like that.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 04:07 PM
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Not One. Single. Word. -- about what she has to offer in a relationship. Well, that is close to the truth...
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 05:32 PM
5

I have a question - while I appreciate the effort, what in particular do you learn for 2 grand that's not already available for free - except to get to see every person who started this all in one place? All that's left is to walk the path. A lot of people have this problem - we want to be taught, we don't wanna get out there and get our hands dirty and learn dangerously and awaken the inherent intelligence of nature within -- that is the final step out of betaization IMHO. Sadly the last time w…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 04:59 PM
7

Glad that there are at least some people out there who know that most modern art is real junk. It's so bad someone made a parody of it -- the prank went by the name "Invisible Art" - https://www.artfido.com/artist-creates-invisible-art-and-collectors-are-paying-millions/ I believe the money was "invisible" as well... But sometimes I shudder silently thinking if this will indeed be the future of a solipsistic earth...
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 04:49 PM
3

Look, you know best. Still, for people who suffer from anxiety due to too much past or too much future, the best thing they could do is to learn to surrender and accept the moment of experience - I used it when I realized I was too angry at myself and the world for the fuck up that was my own BP story - it took a while to give it space where it could dissolve. In my opinion, this is what all RP still hasn't focused on enough - how to deal with pain in a masculine way. If you actually turned your…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/19 04:10 PM
3

I hate to tell you this, but insecurity is a self fulfilling prophecy. These girls have become too outcome dependent. Unfortunately fear attracts exactly the very thing you fear. Choice is yours. My ex was in fact BPD and I did the best thing for everyone by checking out for good. I am now on the other side and infinitely happier than ever. For anyone with these kind of issues, I seriously recommend practicing the power of now by Eckhart tolle. I used it to totally get out of the anger phase. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/19 02:13 PM
4

People who have too many mental issues aren't fit for relationships. Fix yourself all you want, but the truth is that some relationships have no authentic grounds for existing and when you become authentic, it's better to send them to that grave from which they sometimes never left. You better insist that your wife starts paying some kind of awareness to her thoughts and emotions and don't rationalize the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/19 02:09 PM
1

TRP already knows this. That's not even the problem. The real problem is, how are we going to get back all that personal power...
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 05:12 PM
1

The problem now is that men find it impossible to take back that power at a macroscopic level.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 01:37 PM
1

Sometimes in these cases, the best option is to use the mirror and mocking effect.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 02:36 AM
14

Holding men responsible is a feminine trait. Actually IM put that best when he suggested that in a giant version of the sexual dynamics, a woman feels like the world is always acting on her, while men want to change the world. I wonder where he is these days. Probably said whatever needs to be said.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 05:36 PM
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There is a breed of intellectual idiot that the modern world has created that sounds smart on paper, but in real life is seriously stupid. Feminism as it exists now is definitely in that category. The intellectually driven life we live now is a modern creation, hardly more than a century old where people take their thoughts and ideas as more real than actual life. Unfortunately being intellectual and being intelligent are two different things....
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 05:29 PM
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Actually some of the worst treatment of women in history came from other women. Men might have got physical, but I have a lot of women in my family on both sides (mom, aunts, cousins, the wives of my male cousins, their MILs), and what strikes me as odd is the kind of hate and jealousy women regularly have against other women (there is no such thing as Neutral gear for women) and the ugly ways they try to make each other miserable. To match that I would actually have to be insanely angry all the…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 05:03 PM
1

Women feel and flow with their minds and emotions, but only men really understand them (and theirs) and put that into insights.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 04:56 PM
1

Any way by which the backup can be saved offline would be a good idea. One can later put it all in a pdf and put it up on library genesis.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 04:54 PM
2

Try library Genesis. It'll last. And most of the stuff is already there.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 07:53 AM
9

The key is the power equation. These same women when older will have less options. That's why mrp guys are often shockingly successful when they turn themselves around.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 04:34 PM
1

That one was Jeff's own undoing. Can't say the same about all the others.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 04:07 AM
13

You should have made a video of it and put it on social media - "Modern girl hasn't learnt any other English words in school other than - "misogynyst, sexist, patriarchy and creep!" It would have been hilarious. Twitter and Youtube would have done the rest. I have at many points, run into a herd of actual monkeys at university (that was located in a forested campus) and having seen them for years, I can assure you their vocabulary is bigger than this. Maybe you should even dub their audio over a…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 04:25 PM
0

Too bad an unborn child can't cry consent on its rights or access twitter. Anyway, if they refuse sex, we know the drill.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 03:58 AM
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The most cringeworthy thing I ever read...what a dumb dad, setting his kid up for a lifetime of misery...which leads me to say this. Most people out there are really brain and body dead. The intellectual ones are the least intelligent people on the planet. The two words are not the same. That dad is the only form of toxic masculinity I accept -- the lack of it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 06:50 PM
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No one IMHO wrote better about it than Anton in "The Manual". I have no idea why that book isn't as popular as it ought to be. A very well written, no nonsense, straight to the point book.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 05:20 PM
2

In social status, money and power are way way more important than looks.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 08:54 AM
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A lot of you need to read Eckhart Tolle's books and bring in some awareness into your life -- after my divorce, I lost my motivation and focus and found life meaningless for a while with a big anger phase. I got a new job and it paid decent, but somewhere I was questioning the entire point of life because I was too outcome dependent, and when the outcome blew I felt life was pointless. Well that's when the universe found me, gave me this. That and the gym and meditation. It snapped me out of 2 d…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/19 06:38 AM
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https://web.archive.org/web/*/http://Heartiste.wordpress.com/
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 05:37 AM
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There's still this : https://web.archive.org/web/*/http://Heartiste.wordpress.com/
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 05:37 AM
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It makes me understand that being "intellectual" doesn't mean intelligent.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 04:18 AM
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It's more fundamental than that. It's a question of trust. In a man's world, trust failure within his own camp meant death. Nothing in this damn world runs without at least a professional measure of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/19 08:37 AM
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One can actually stay close to that level naturally, but one needs to be quite disciplined. How does Mike Matthews do it?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 03:40 PM
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The tongue is by far the root cause of bad breath because of all the stuff that sticks to it. It needs to be cleaned out multiple times a day, especially after stuff like coffee, milk, dairy or anything that sticks. A clean tongue is pink, with no stains or crusts on it. Get a good tongue cleaner or just use your toothbrush. I'd also advise an extra dose of toothpaste just for the back teeth alone as they're more prone to cavities. Also check out what tonsil stones are and pop them out. They usu…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 06:24 AM
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Marketing vs integrity. Quality vs quantity. Truth vs money.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 05:40 AM
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Watched Conoor Murphy yet? Guy is so naturally chiseled it's like a god mode cheat code in a video game. Of course he plays ice hockey as well. He was banned from taking his shirt off in the mall because he must have single handedly broken up half the city.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 04:52 PM
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That's what most of humanity fails to realize -- sexual attraction is an extremely pure instinct.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 04:46 PM
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Only 2 things are needed 1) Sexually attractive qualities and game strong enough awaken that reptilian brain. 2) Nothing else. By which I mean it needs to snap women out of their sea of emotions and thoughts and mind noise - their everything box. Whatever people say, sex is a pure instinct. The best sex is when there is no other consideration but pure lust. Everything, everything that you can ever talk about when it comes to arousal boils down to these 2 things, and the failure to tick both boxe…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 04:34 PM
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I'm at this point completely convinced that modern women have zero awareness of anything beyond themselves - wait that was the definition of sollipsism right? In general, women really fail at seeing macroscopic trends and the bigger picture or the consequences down the road for this very reason.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 12:54 PM
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You know, I was just reading Tolle's description of the pain body the other day where Eckhart Tolle mentioned that men are more identified with their thoughts and beliefs while women are more identified with their pain body, I get it now. Most of his descriptions of the ego's various tricks sound like exactly the stuff modern women and feminism does. While society is fond of bashing the male ego, the female ego has never been more massive now than at any point in history. When a woman's pain bod…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 04:14 AM
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I once wrote a post on what I think ought to be the 51st law of power, IIRC : Make your own kingdom Because no matter what, you'll never have all your power (and the responsibility) playing in someone else's place by someone else's rules.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 03:54 AM
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The media allowed total morons and brain damaged goods to start writing words of wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 01:19 AM
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That's your problem if you feel getting good = getting good at all that doesn't work. Most people only thing get better = become a better mule. I did mention this in my post, but you (and many others) didn't read it. Get good at what works.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 11:43 AM
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What was that term for something that seems smart at first, but when you look at it, it's actually bullshit? EDIT : This phenomenon is well known. https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/WordSaladPhilosophy
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 04:09 AM
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And Yet you do not explicitly tells what is Excellence. I don't. You decide what you want to excel in and the results will speak for themselves. As for the things that you cannot avoid, it's not an option. The whole point of my post was to highlight that simply being good at your job alone will not give you success elsewhere if you approach everything indirectly, and definitely not in game or relationships. Unfortunately everyone who read it missed that part. The people I saw where those who kne…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 05:30 AM
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I'll do you a favor and post again down the road after I've internalized this completely and managed to pull it off. Till then I'll just shut up and do what I need to do. And as for the JP part, I have never actually read or watched anything about him. This is entirely based on my observations of married couples or LTRs (LTRs still own the relationship market in my country, but not for much longer at this rate). MRP might make a killing in my country given what I see. That's all.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 04:46 PM
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And game is not part of excellence? Where do I say that you need to become a better provider exactly? I just said you need to be a better you at dimensions other than just your work (aka provider). I said it myself when I said 'appropriate best" - you've gotta do what works. Why does every one think getting better means just becoming a better mule? Seriously? My only question here is that when people know what works for them at work and are willing to do it, why do they not see what works at lif…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 04:18 PM
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True. Prioritization is absolutely necessary. But some stuff can't be avoided. Health ain't an option for one. Money, taxes, relationships, dealing with testy stuff, the car breaking down, someone getting sick, food, sleep. You can't avoid those. The problem with many a home beta is that they are not even willing to stretch their zone to what's necessary. Also stuff like game, style, hygiene, don't need continuous effort. Once mastered they're here to stay and only get better. Even lifting and c…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 05:44 PM
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I wasn't referring to the labour market of the USA. I was talking about life in general. As far as the US goes, there was a time when college was cheap, a single average man's income was enough to get him a home and take care of the family. These days, you need credit for every god damn thing. 3 quarters of the US lives paycheck to paycheck. In my opinion, if you need to live on credit for anything other than a home loan, you're poor, not rich and the educational system of the country is scammin…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 05:17 PM
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Take a look in the mirror and start doing something. Don't be an engine with the gear in neutral. And above all don't make the focus of your fear a point of origin, because your innermost thought usually comes true. Instead let the solution be the point of origin.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/19 04:53 PM
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Ah, but you did lead. And I am pretty sure you were smart enough not to put up with some incompetent assistance. How many of the men in my post you think have people willing to do anything for them? With zero vision and knowledge, you think you can tell others how you want work done? Being responsible and being a lone ranger are two different things, but in your case, you've outsourced the job, but not the responsibility. With mediocre people, a point is often reached where everyone hates to do …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 02:35 PM
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Nerds might want to look at this - the thumbnail esp. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-7ZWPCWv0U
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 01:27 PM
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Where's your own value for your life in all this? If happiness is what you want, that's actually the easiest thing to get. But don't tie it to anything - not your boss, job, a woman, and all that. Yes, be a little crazy, consciously. The more needy you are, the more unhappy you are, and paradoxically (or not) the less your needs get fulfilled. It might feel frustrating now, but I think a part of you has no regrets settling for low standards.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 09:09 AM
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Well, if this post sounded more mrp specific, it's because it is. All these men are in that situation - and this country isn't the USA. But don't worry, in 1 or 2 generations, this place will also become just like the States. The point of no adequate compensation isn't actually correct (note, I was talking about life in general, not the wage market). People who do change their paradigms do find things in their life changing, especially the way they are treated. And if they don't treat you well, …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 08:58 AM
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Men's sex drive is proactive and can be turned on with almost no effort whatsoever. Women's sexual arousal (note the difference) is reactive and really needs escalation. Women do get sexual urges, but it's nothing like men's that are always on or background. With women it can be off and on. Thing is that after experiencing some good sex and orgasms, a woman might want that way more often (if she's a first timer).
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 06:45 AM
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Those who think fitness is a goal to be reached in 3 months don't know a damn thing about it at all.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 03:54 PM
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Dread is like hunger. Enough to work your appetite like an animal, but not so much that you starve to death.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 06:33 PM
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Most men are too nice to avoid painting women in a bad light, but women have no such qualms in putting themselves first. For a man to tell a woman directly that she's unattractive or not worthy of a relationship requires him to be very brutally honest or enraged or egoistic. Or very worldly wise. That last category is rare. Nature by default made females more valuable keeping survival as it's ultimate goal. This is built into our very brains in the way we feel more for a woman's pain over a brea…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 02:32 AM
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Wait till they get to Mars or the Moon. Just wait for the day when a woman has to walk on the moon.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 05:02 PM
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Politics is increasingly becoming a gender war because left and right ideologies appeal more towards women and men's brains respectively.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 05:01 PM
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That guy up there just made the flat earth theorists sound truly wise by comparison... this is what our education is coming to now.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 03:56 PM
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Oh, those sexist patriarchal rockets!
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 03:53 PM
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That's not much of a defense since you didn't touch my points at all. So ok, believe whatever you want, but beliefs ain't the truth. One day, Space X will send their pictures next to the moon landers and let's see the look on the hoaxers' faces. End of discussion.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 10:15 AM
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While this will be unrelated to TRP, I wonder where in the world are all of you when Mercury, Gemini, Skylab, the Voyager missions, Cassini-Huygens, the Russian Luna and unmanned Surveyor Missions, the landings of all those rovers on Mars and Venus, Mercury, the Space Shuttle, Parker Solar probe, the HST, and even the launches of GPS satellites, the same GPS that you use in your smartphone happened? Where were you all when Japan landed on comets and asteroids and when Israel, India and China are…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 09:22 AM
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Not to mention the sitcom that happens when a lot of women gather in one place.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 07:55 AM
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Victimhood is one of the ego's most favorite tricks, as is blaming, emotional hypersenstivity and taking everything personally. Now guess where you see this a lot. Solipsistic and selective inclusion is different from true and logical inclusion. This takes a long time for most men to understand, but women are really looking out for themselves only. Equality for me and equality for all are two different things. Anytime someone tries to convince you it will be in your benefit, pause and think "I'm…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 07:49 AM
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Yes, they want inclusion, but only where they see the benefits, never the dirty work.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/19 07:48 AM
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Happiness becomes simple if you can just be happy without conditions attached to it (like a child yes, true, sounds illogical, but that has always been the simplest way to be happy). It's over time we distance ourselves from happiness as something far away that needs several reasons and conditions to be fulfilled that stops us from being alive right now. For that however you must be physically fit, emotionally abundant, mentally well and sharp, intensely alive and free of all addictions that con…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 12:39 PM
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The biggest threat in modern society is transgenders imposing their ideology on biologically normal heterosexual people. I have nothing against them personally, but a trans' food is another man's poison. They should keep their ideas to themselves and let straight people be what nature intended. Speaking of LGBT, it doesn't help that lesbians are at the top of the feminist ladder for e.g.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/19 06:38 AM
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But we release sperm from our testicles ALL THE TIME! Oh, the insanity. Enjoy the decline of the west guys, until it's no longer fun. Then they'll ask for the big strong men again. If this bill gets passed, the phone at the Sheriff's office will ring forever.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 04:24 AM
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I don't live in the states. Where I come from, if I show stuff like this to the people around, they'll think the US is a country inhabited only by crazies.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 09:29 AM
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You know, I'd probably remove the word 'consent' altogether - yet another misleading word. This word is too rational and logical, for something that happens emotionally and compulsively. It's either attractive encounters or unattractive ones. Actually we ought to have a proper indemnity contract in place at this rate.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 03:11 AM
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Damn, that's the most accurate measurement of the RP Pareto principle ever.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 07:33 AM
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Even then it goes through feelings first. Anyway, this doesn't belong in this flair.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 04:22 AM
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In many old cultures, the world is considered feminine for a reason. The formless is considered masculine because it is unchanging, untouched, while the world of form is considered feminine because it is ever changing, volatile, uncertain and can only be worked with.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 04:05 AM
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Men's minds are more objective, women's more subjective.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 04:03 AM
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Only when you've started generating your own energy have you come full circle. Subtly, you were still not there.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 01:52 PM
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Well I tried making a post out of it, but it didn't fly. People simply didn't understand the scope of feeling beyond emotions (that too feminine displays of agitation of it). This obsession with reactive emotion has caused women to get more and more neurotic and men to fall for all kinds of addictions and distractions. The difference between feeling and emotion is this. E.g. Federer, a 20 time GS champion, has been playing since the age of 3 or 4 and is somehow still playing and winning nearing …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 08:59 AM
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The difference between feeling and emotion is this. E.g. Federer, a 20 time GS champion, has been playing since the age of 3 or 4 and is somehow still playing and winning nearing 38, which is well past retirement age. Practice, training, travelling, injuries, tough matches -- what drives a man like this? Feeling. Desire. Of course there's intelligence in the way he plays, but there's no way he could do this without a totally different level of motivation. On the other hand, emotion is what happe…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 08:43 AM
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We have become less physical over the years, but the madness of our minds has never been greater. Our bodies kept that craziness in check, but now unless we wake up, the next generation is going to become the most insane cases ever.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 06:46 AM
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You're not yet there. You're still going through a subtle anger phase. Too outcome dependent (give it up as you can never work on an outcome, only a goal and a process and people). You have to make your energy a way of being rather than a means to an end. I suggest you play sports.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 03:59 AM
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Most passion problems in men are because a) there are not enough compulsive pressures anymore in 1st world countries and b) Men's T has come down so drastically over the decades it's the epidemic no one's talking about.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 04:25 PM
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In an age where every movement of your eyebrows can be seen on camera and every whisper heard over the mike, one need not exaggerate one's expressions like stage make up.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 01:57 PM
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Emotion can either be intense and focused, or it can be agitated and all over the place. When people talk of emotion, they only know the second. But the first quality as I learnt over the years is actually the driving force and your energy source. Intelligence can light up the track, but only feeling can give you the will to drive hard on the track. Trouble is, we confuse the words feeling and emotion. Feeling is life energy. Emotion is actually derived from a word that means "to disturb" which …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 12:38 PM
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If you can't tell the difference between a solider and a terrorist, and can't even get the message to get some basic lessons in your life, only God can save you.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 12:23 PM
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From what I read, emotional unavailability sounds like men who carry mental scars, are socially awkward, blame others, are too reluctant to improve, can't set boundaries, may have daddy issues and are afraid of getting hurt again. In fact most of their issues sounds like all the stuff Nice Guys suffer from in NMMNG. Not surprising.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 12:14 PM
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You know Zuckerberg's sister was here recently? She wrote about it that social media allowed this to get out of hand.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 12:10 PM
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You'll like the examples I shared up in my post then.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 10:48 AM
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I don't know who downvoted the last few comments. Every time I post or you comment, I get the impression that my post gets read by the people who shut down masculinity first followed by the people who actually benefit from it. This sub is getting read by many people who're not in favor of men.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 10:10 AM
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In most such cases, the men are actually out of touch with their own masculine energy. Also these words like "emotionally unavailable" are badly used by women, and most often it means lack of attraction. Feel is the only important word to investigate there.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 10:08 AM
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Male epiphany occurs for two reasons. You haven't gone through an entire cycle of life. Men who've been through divorces, etc. in one way they built an entire life and then lost it. That changes them in many ways. Nature's goal was to make you have children. Casual sex, even for men, is not exactly something nature intended us to do to this extent. You've overeaten on sex and women. It's time to take a step back. Only a certain amount of hunger gives you a need for food. Roosh really needs some …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 04:49 AM
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There is a point that no one covers - it's that men's gestures of emotion are far more subtle, but the very subtlety in fact makes them much more powerful. A man's emotions get more powerful the more subtle they become. Men become more powerful the less reactive and more proactive they are. A man's silence can be more powerful than a woman's tears. Actually getting too emotional and solipsistic is a sign of a big ego. That makes a man unattractive. It takes him out of being in the moment, his cr…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 02:18 AM
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https://alifeofproductivity.com/a-simple-trick-that-will-let-you-live-13-6-years-longer/
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 02:04 AM
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Thanks for the tip. Will take more time to properly structure my writing next time round. Meanwhile, if there is something wrong with the ideas in the post itself, I don't mind knowing that either.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 03:10 PM
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Google is a website where if I google a tennis tournament, it always shows me the women's results by default. I need to go click "Men's singles" to see the men's results. Hope you get the point. The medium is the message. Google news takes me exclusively to left leaning, liberal, dissenting opinion articles. Google used to be content focused, but now it is becoming all about "me me and solipsistic me".
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 01:45 PM
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Yeah, a bit too long. One could read it between the bold part of the English language and the bold part of the BP guy's ideas and get it all. But just like colors, without a proper word to associate it, identification suffers. If this doesn't get read, sometime later, I'll shorten it to the point and repost it with a neater title.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 10:51 AM
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Surely you understand by now what you and she really fell in love with - it wasn't each other, it was your own enormous emotion in which you fell in. If you don't keep that up, it won't work.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 04:32 AM
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Better let that guy read my last post and let him know that when he's in love, he's only in love with love itself, and when he looks closely, he ought to know that he really only loved himself. That's why "love" (devotion) really doesn't work. Attraction is selfish. You have to do exactly what creates attraction in the other person.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 12:34 PM
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Question? What's your take on adoption? How much has the system screwed that against men?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 05:19 AM
1

Relationships fail because you actually only loved yourself and your own experience of a force of nature called love self generated by your own system - that was what you were actually in a relationship with.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 04:28 AM
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Karma is also physical in nature. It basically means memory. Well it's a philosophical way of looking at the physical, but fact is, women simply get imprinted far too deeply. They weren't meant to overdose on sex with partners they way they do now. Men also have built in instincts to test women - what today's society simply shames as "insecure" is a filtering mechanism in men. What men need is loyalty, trust and good sex from their women, as well as to know that their children are truly theirs. …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 03:07 AM
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Well, if you're willing to tolerate the mystical on TRP, sexual experiences leave extremely strong karmic memory on the physical body that it cannot forget unless someone did a flash format. Accumulate too much of this, and you become unstable and lose the ability to pair bond or be satisfied. Women especially are far more vulnerable to this, because of the way their system was designed to bear children. Having lots of sex without getting pregnant and on the pill is not something a woman's body …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 04:44 PM
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Donno all this - lots of that science - spirituality interpolation often going on there. Truth be told - science comes from objective theories and observations while philosophy comes from experience of life. I think that statement "It is only because of the self that everything is dear" conveys everything I needed to see. Hindu and Buddhist epics deal with lots of RP stuff and in them there are any number of stories of Bluepill cases that woke up. There was that story of King Puru and Urvashi th…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 02:28 PM
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Many years. But it was only after a disastrous marriage and the devastation the last couple of years wrecked inside and out that I got determined to find out what happened. The west knows a lot more about how to do great things in this world, but it is the east that went the absolute deepest into the very nature of life itself. This one didn't click for me until I heard someone say that all pain and pleasure was self generated, either compulsively or consciously. I was already about biological n…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 11:21 AM
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But they are very differently wired as well. Men's are wired within hemispheres and women's are wired across hemispheres. The cerebellum (responsible for physical motor skills) is larger in men, while the amyglada is bigger in women. Well, it should come as no surprise why boys and men struggle more with today's distraction filled world more than women.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 05:38 PM
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I'm a work in progress. It is easy to write about something as a principle, but following it and getting there is a life journey. The real secret is that one really loves only the self, or loves from the self. One needs another, the other does not. Either way, both are really self generated within.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 04:49 AM
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Suffering often tends to bring people closer. But never get swept away by emotion that you start ignoring reality. Comfort kills growth. Complacency is the beginning of the end. In the gym, after a few years, gains begin to get much slower - but that's exactly where one needs to work smarter. Above all, what has to be created needs to be maintained. All of us are reactive creatures. We can't ignore that. Sometimes it can make things feel effortless like the honeymoon. But living life on reactive…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 04:45 PM
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What did you do in particular?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 12:20 PM
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Pretty much the best one can ever do is this : https://thefamilyalpha.com/ And everything on mrp.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 04:40 AM
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Bigger question? What do solipsistic feminists even know about men? And really, what makes you think most people can even care about someone beyond their immediate family?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 02:54 AM
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I have observed women over a year now without BP glasses and I have refreshed my memories of all my experiences with them in all forms. Women have no solid frame and are far closer to water. Everything they are is determined by their state of feeling and emotion. Flip that and you could change the person, their belief systems, their sense of right and wrong, their likes and dislikes, the people they like and they don't like. If they follow principles, it's more out of fear of God or for any othe…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 04:17 AM
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The thing I don't get is that why are humans so determined to try and oppose nature's plan for them? As we can clearly see, they simply aren't sane or enlightened enough to handle the power of unlimited choice. Well this country was once a society where smoking was considered healthy and high class and breast feeding was considered low class - I guess it has always been like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 04:05 AM
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There used to be a joke "Love is a temporary insanity that is curable through marriage" - Ambrose Bierce https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ambrose_Bierce He died before WW1 btw...
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 05:37 PM
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Reason number god only knows why men should lift and at least be very physically active when young... lifting would boost testosterone enough that all these issues are thrown out of the window. Ok, for the guy down below who clearly didn't get it - sports and physical activity is essential for brain development of male children. It sets the stage for things to come. You don't get to heavy lifting until your bones have finished growing (17-18), but calisthenics, sprints, stretches, basic MA, spor…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:23 PM
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I'm really grateful our bodies are there to ground us - otherwise the insanity of the mind would expand without limit. Already we're seeing what happens in a generation or two of trying to deny the physical.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:22 PM
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Did you notice that what you felt deep down is what you get? Again and again I see insecurity turning into a self fulfilling prophecy. That's the power of point of origin. Women as far as I've observed them change frame like the weather according to their emotional state in a particular moment - they're like water, if man is like earth. They don't deal with absolutes, but their emotion gives them enough energy to make it look like they're serious. Their whole belief systems, likes and dislikes, …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 09:24 AM
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The gender war became much worse once the LGBTs instead of just keeping their ways to themselves, decided to have a say in normal people's lives as well and impose their ideas on mainstream society. That's one reason why psychology seems so bizarre now - it's all slanted to appease them, and is probably written by them up there as well. Psychology is increasingly trying to divorce itself from the physical, but mind and body are connected - you cannot ignore the physical. Right now your body's th…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 09:10 AM
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Nothing in today's world is normal. We were never meant to eat like this or get unfit, get our minds fed on internet distractions, information and exposure overload, and women simply could never have so much free sex or so many partners. Sexual dynamics of the modern world are not natural at all -- it is a case of natural instincts, designed for hard times, now unleashed to extremely unnatural circumstances and opportunities that they were never meant to handle. In fact, our collective insanity …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 03:35 AM
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Make your own country where no fault divorce is not allowed and women can't divorce rape either. After all you can never have all your power playing by someone else's rules. Good luck with that...
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 03:31 AM
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A hypermasculine society can turn inhuman. A hyperfeminine society will turn insane.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 12:57 PM
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Media is toxic. Avoid it like the plague. But you'll see that while people act offended in public, that's exactly what they do in private. Never listen to what they say, only what they do.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 11:30 AM
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It's no feeling... it's the only reality.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 08:40 AM
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Feminists will complain about that too -- it will take the world to realize that some people are chronically negative.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 08:12 AM
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Sometime back there was an article up here about what happened to an enterprise without men or masculine energy in it. Long story short - it shut down because it was not possible to herd cats.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 08:11 AM
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Where's no fault divorce? About the vote part, these days in the USA the whole electorate is split essentially on masculine and feminine mindsets. Which shows you how much society really thinks and votes with its genitals and not it's brains. Democracy won't work when the population's stupid. International politics shows you just how big the reality of gender and biology really is.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 10:14 AM
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I believe women's thirst for foreign men stems from nature's need for genetic diversity. This is a pattern that works even at political levels (liberals and immigration), so deep rooted is our biology even at macroscopic scales. In fact the differences between the sexes is never more apparent than with male and female led nations and their policies.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 04:42 PM
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On a side note, I believe women's thirst for foreign men stems from nature's need for genetic diversity. This is a pattern that works even at political levels, so deep rooted is biology even at macroscopic scales.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 04:39 PM
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Most Indian men are very highly beta and still think in terms of Marriage 1.0. Indian women of this gen however are hypergamous to a tee.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 04:36 PM
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Meditate at least once a day - it burns off a lot of stress and makes sleeping even better. And if you want to know what real sleep feels like ---- LIFT!
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 12:06 PM
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Who knows how many stories on quora are real and how many aren't. I had to stop going there, it's overrun with stories of infidelity. I don't know when this quora poster will understand that "trust" is not a quality known in the purely animal kingdom. :)
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 11:43 AM
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Who's archiving mrp?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 04:11 AM
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If it weren't for f-16.net . The media had reached paranoid levels of brainless negativity - fortunately those retards don't sit and run the military.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 12:29 PM
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Should tell you who're viewing these articles...
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 02:45 AM
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Some issues here for sure. If a woman's showing signs of laziness, that's a sure sign.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 03:57 PM
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Her pain body seems awake - insecurities must have reached a tipping point. Just one thing, I don't know why no one's written about the importance of getting your woman to lift, get fresh sunlight, air, lots of water, diet, etc.etc. That stuff's needed. What will work out in the long run is her getting out of her head. Now I'm not commenting further, because I failed at that point, but I do know that if she keeps going into her thoughts and emotions, she'll let them overwhelm her.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 02:54 PM
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And then it will be misogyny the way they're treated in a war zone - i.e. disposable. One feature of feminine nature is it's insatiable need to be included (which runs hand in hand with need for commitment). That explains everything.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 08:17 AM
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You nailed it on reading the economist newspapers. They at least give sound financial advice, most of the time. I've reopened my subscription to paper newspapers. They're organized and you know which day's news is which, so you don't have to keep surfing and getting distracted by all the notifications and side links. Plus some of the puzzles there will work my mind at least somewhat.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 04:41 AM
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Internet diet is sheer obesity for the mind. It needs even more regulation than your muscle diet. Think of it as 50000 calories a day, that needs to get cut down by a factor of 20.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 05:40 PM
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At first I thought of the Pareto Principle, but now I figure I could do fine giving FB about 1% of my total time - that too only to talk to friends. I don't remember a damn thing in the news feeds anyway, there's only so much your mind can absorb. And it's sucking energy that I'd rather use on memorizing useful stuff I'll actually need.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 05:38 PM
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Yes, even reddit. Even where social media is useful, pareto principle applies. Never more than 20% of one's time, even that is too much. I'd say peg that number at 5%.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 05:20 PM
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The only toxic masculinity is a repressed and distorted masculinity - a man's lack of self mastery and knowledge of the truth. All the problems of a man are essentially just variations of this one thing. Toxic masculinity is another way of saying "Alpha fucks, beta sucks". That's all. All these messages are aimed only at the unattractive men to filter them out. Attractive men simply get fucked. Take it as yet another shit test.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:43 PM
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Which is why we need to cut down on social media even more. Toxic Masculinity is just another shit test - Alpha fucks, beta sucks. Attractive men are just getting sex on tap. Moral, retards must never be allowed to become leaders.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:33 PM
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http://alifeofproductivity.com/ Interestingly, the very second article (from last) is about the internet and distractions
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:32 PM
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The idea that women are better at many things takes a serious beating once you start developing yourself. It's the point where you take them off the pedestal and yourself off the gutter and just see things as they are.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/19 03:01 PM
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Question : How do you get rid of nasality?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 05:36 AM
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The Complete Book of Rules : Time Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr.Right Go read the reviews on amazon. The book reads just like the exact thing you'd actually advise A MAN on TRP to do. And guess what, the reviews are revealing. Open hypergamy and capturing commitment. Well if women value themselves that much, men definitely should follow RP principles ever the more. Wonder what type of men these women attract and how their lives go. That's the stuff no one (least of all women, wome…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:34 AM
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Tip, use your brain to think. Don't let thinking use you. Next time you feel you're going too deep, tell this mantra to yourself - "I am not my thoughts. I am just the witnesser". It'll keep your head on your shoulders.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 03:30 AM
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Going around thinking, well people shouldn't steal money from my wallet, while philosophically correct, is also totally useless. And yet, if someone does steal from your pocket, they ought to be apprehended and punished. Sure, you might have carelessly left it around, but that doesn't mean your pickpocket was an innocent angel. To let him scot free is to give him a license to rob from you again and again. And yes, we are the only sufferers if we weren't paying attention. The loss ultimately is o…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/19 07:40 AM
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Most couples I know in my life, including my mum and dad (especially them), probably spend a lot more than 10% fighting - it gets worse around 55 if you haven't done the work. Seriously. MRP is badly needed in this world.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/19 04:14 PM
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Actually that is not the real person, but it's what happens when their accumulated mind stuff and neediness has reached critical mass - their whole vibe they emit changes into something toxic. I swear their whole bio-chemistry might be different in those moments. It was revolutionary when I read about this - I have been observing this in me and others and I realize it's caused by too much accumulation of the past and future and often something painful in the present. This is why logical debate w…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/19 04:11 PM
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Careful about the pain field that exists in the air at these times. I've seen this phenomenon happen too many times and have lost my frame and gotten sucked into it on many an occasion. IMHO no one ever described it better than Eckhart Tolle. It's a real thing, it happened today with my folks at lunch (since taking TRP I've had to accept that my dad's failings because in him I see a lot beta qualities). The thing is that women are sometimes aware of what's going on, but they can't control themse…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/19 11:06 AM
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Democracy appeals to a feminine mind very well, while hierarchy appeals to a masculine mind. So deeply embedded is gender and it's dynamics that it affects macroscopic behaviour and even international relationships in ways most people would hardly be able to accept. In the US, essentially the politics has essentially become gender segregated because liberals and conservatives represent paradigms that appeal more to feminine and masculine minds respectively.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 03:28 AM
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Apart from whatever was commented here, there's this. Nearly everyone you see is extremely selfish and needy, with huge egos. They might talk of collective equality, but really, you think a normal person has any more room to see beyond themselves and their imperatives? At the most you are only a tool to be used and discarded. The workplace can make that clear to you. It's just that in relationships, attraction and bonding sweetens the truth enough to hide your BS from yourself, but when that goe…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 03:25 AM
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I think the word love should be replaced with better vocabulary at times - one word for so many different phenomena with different purposes and points of origin is not good. English is the worst case here. Other languages have many words to describe various types of love.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 09:17 AM
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Just get this one phrase - Alpha Fucks, Beta Sucks. Women don't waste their time advising high value men. They revere them and fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 04:11 AM
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All women say that Not all women are like that. No exceptions to the exception argument.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 04:01 AM
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Are you sure she ain't sexually repressed or having some kind of past trauma or religious / parental conditioning to bluepill her into feeling very uncomfortable about sex?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 04:00 AM
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Everything is transient. It's only a question of when, how and how badly.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 03:44 AM
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Apart from the work on yourself, some questions (based on some of what went wrong in my case). If your wife has depressive episodes, part of the problem is indeed within her and you need to know what to do to fix it. Does your wife even lift or run? The benefits of exercise and diet apply to her as well. And guess what, women aren't going to just take the initiative and start just because you suggested the idea. You need to lead her and make her do it. I ought to tell you, everything what you di…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 04:15 PM
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I solemly swear I shall put this along with the Flat earth myths going around. Guys, stop watching TV and look at life, what people do. Quit the media's opinion posts for good - stick to factual content - come to your own real life backed conclusions. You will never regret it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 02:44 PM
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Men really need to learn how to cope with past pain and trauma in their own ways - a men's space would be good for it. But if had to tell what worked for me, it was "The Power of Now" - over time I've begun to see how much my mind's accumulated over the years that I don't need and is simply holding me back and often ruining my day without me knowing it. That and meditation. Nature gave men the nothing box in their brains for a very good reason. It's a man's best friend if you know how to handle …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 05:02 PM
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And when it's not that, it's penis contempt.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 02:12 PM
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I always thought patriotism was a masculine oriented thing, and liberalism was a feminine principle that allowed people to do an international form of hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 07:26 AM
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Globalism is international level hypergamy. I've always known it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 06:34 AM
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This standard beta pattern of actively promoting their further betaization by unconditional acceptance of boundary violations is starkly demonstrated in this post by an intelligent beta idiot whose steadfast refusal to reveal his boundaries and expectations to his anxious, insecure, codependent wife drove her over a period of months to ever more extreme BPD behaviors in her desperate but hopeless attempts to get some clarity from her ultra-Nice Guy husband. I am the guy who wrote that article. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 05:19 AM
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