How the fuck do i text

mr4kino · 2020-08-13T11:34:12+00:00

Don't counter. Let it be.

She cancelled first time and for Saturday she is already preparing you with a bullsh*t excuse (=Chad already proposed something, so if he cancel I might fallback to you)

Moreover you are "hungry" and she probably smelled it from a mile away. I could smell it from couple of lines.

So put it bluntly, she is not interested and you shouldn't fall to the needy guy behaviour.

jedd101 · 2020-08-13T13:03:01+00:00

She's not that interested my man. I get the feeling this chick is an attention whore and is purely stringing you along for validation.

If she was actually keen she would have cleared her schedule for you.

My suggestion, ghost her. When she comes back weeks/months in the future, point blank invite her out/over and don't waste any more time.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-08-13T13:20:23+00:00

"when i said lets do XY on saturday she said that she should be free but she has a feeling she has plans there but she forgot about them and that shell let me know."

Not that interested in you. Hoes are not that busy. She had to "check her schedule". Give me a fucking break. She's not that interested dude, and she's leaving herself open for better plans from Chads. If she makes up an excuse and she doesn't instantly offer an alternative, just move on. You missed her 4 YEARS ago dude. There's nothing there. You waited 4 years to try and F close. Jesus dude.

IdleLobster · 2020-08-13T14:33:39+00:00

“How the fuck do I text”

Read the following from RV to sharpen your text game

http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn

Lots of good content in there

kclanton80 · 2020-08-13T15:36:06+00:00

Her interest is very very low. Women know far in advance when they have plans. Soft next, cut contact, wait for her to ask you to hang out....and if she doesn't just move on. You should be pursuing other women anyway. Why are you hung up on girls from 4 years ago that you merely kissed...

That's a scarcity mindset.

It's not your texting that failed you....she just isn't that in to seeing you.

MattyAnon · 2020-08-13T22:02:16+00:00

y she said that she should be free but she has a feeling she has plans there but she forgot about them and that shell let me know

not great, not terrible...

i dont know how to counter this without coming off as needy.

Ok. Simple but very difficult:

You should have so many other options that you can do whatever you like with this information and not care.

The problem you are having is that this girl has higher value than your other options, but you don't want her to know this.

You see the problem here right? You have a high value thing, you don't want her to know she is high value to you, so you are concerned that you have to show the correct behaviours to her so she doesn't realise she is higher value than your other options.

Viewed like this it's clear. GET MORE OPTIONS.

Simple thing with this girl: "Ok, let me know when you know, might still be free, might not".

Optionsmfd · 2020-08-13T13:35:13+00:00

read or reread rational male 1 and 2

KeyRepresentative · 2020-08-13T14:40:14+00:00

4 years ago? Should meet up someday? Is this an online or text-only thing? The energy is all on your side. She likes the attention but is already passing on you.

ReaperX44 · 2020-08-13T15:04:11+00:00

Move on. It's not worth it.

CarbonBasedLifeForm6 · 2020-08-13T20:21:18+00:00

Title	How the fuck do i text
Author	triiiiiple
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Date	August 13, 2020 11:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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"when i said lets do XY on saturday she said that she should be free but she has a feeling she has plans there but she forgot about them and that shell let me know."