I can’t seem to escape this insecurity about not being my favorite plate’s first option. With most plates, I don’t care. But with “this one girl” (oneitis), I get jealous knowing she’s seeing someone else. And I get jealous when she likes his pics on social media. Plus I can only assume more she hangs out with him more often than me because we don’t hang out all that often. I understand how beta this is. Reeks of scarcity. Can anyone relate? How do I deal with this jealously/insecurity? Any tips or advice?