I was gonna write about my dating relationship with this girl but I’m gonna go with some red flags that I noticed and I will let you all tell me if it was unusual and if you can diagnose the cray I am about to describe.

1) highly evasive when even lightly questioned 2) eggshell personality ( would comment and say, “no judging!!”) 3) interrogate me heavily about my whereabouts 4) would close her eyes, cross her arms and legs, and start shaking back and forth while upset 5) would call me childish and immature while doing the above action 6) could turn the tears on and off like a champ for secondary gain 7) emotionally manipulative 8) I wasn’t allowed to friend anyone she knew that was a girl or talk to them while she wasn’t in the room. Ironically, she could friend any guy without telling me. 9) abandonment issues 10) talked a lot of trash on people in her life and could go from loving to hating them in a matter of minutes if they did something to cross her. 11) would project her flaws onto me 12) would lie about people being abusive or outright slander ( she became friends with a domestic violence counselor after our breakup and would support posts on FB about rape and domestic violence issues. Leads me to believe she is putting out DV allegations on me).

Needless to say, this was a very special type of woman (30y/o). Unfortunately, I was naive and a blue-pulled beta to the max at that time. I just put up with that stuff because I was excited to have drawn in a 9.