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Women reveal the reasons why the settled with one guy (nothing new, narrative confirmation)

demimgtow

September 12, 2017
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Title Women reveal the reasons why the settled with one guy (nothing new, narrative confirmation)
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demimgtow

Upvotes 75
Comments 76
Date September 12, 2017 4:02 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/6znwmp/women_reveal_the_reasons_why_the_settled_with_one/
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Comments

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points36 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Wow that's depressing

[–]demimgtow[S] 16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I hope it eats the remaining of the Oneitis/NAWALT/any other non MGTOW hope in you. Swallow the truth and be free my brother!

This is how it goes for a MGTOW: http://www.recover-from-grief.com/7-stages-of-grief.html

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

wow I just realized im on stage 7. Was quite angry 6 months ago tho, not a fun stage to experience!

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Anger is just a natural emotion. No big deal.

[–]0signal010 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One of them actually made me chuckle:

" I was dating two guys at once, and I finally decided that the guy I’m now married to was the winner of the two"

That's a real winner. She also admits he isn't particularly exciting, but hey, he's a winner! He now has to pay for some dumb slut's lifestyle.

[–]ransay327738 points39 points40 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Which is exactly why 35+ YO guys should dump them for 20 somethings.

[–][deleted] 33 points34 points35 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

If a man hits the age of 35 and all the sudden women aged 29-35 who never would've given him a second look, and likely humiliated him if he dare spoke to her 10 years ago starts flirting and showing interest in you. Understand this is just the baby trap, they need a simp and cuck to be financially bound to her and her kids and he can really be anyone with a decent job and functioning cock. They can get back fucking their Chad's right after the 2nd baby and they know it.

[–]justareflektorr19 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Story of my life, thank god I found mgtow and ghost all the bitches.

[–]The__Tren__Train13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

VASECTOMY

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm arrogant enough of a Chad to believe this is the only solution for me. Also irresponsible enough.

[–]henrysmyagent6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Suddenly, your jokes are funny, those clothes look good on you, your aftershave lotion smells wonderful, and all your insights are witty and worth repeating.

Wall and post-wall women are like a plague of locusts descending on an uncut wheat field. Guys, 30+, who've struggled to score in the past don't know what's about to hit them.

[–]OldRoad2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The most serious romantic relationship I ever had, by far, was also the only time an attractive woman ever really chased me. It was amazing, like a light switch had been flipped. Before then, nothing I did seemed to attract women. Then suddenly, this woman was happy with everything about me. It was like she made up her mind to go after me very early, and my unaware self (back then) really didn't understand what was happening. I should have wondered if it were too good to be true.

[–]Flintblood2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

How did it turn out? My last serious relationship was as close to a unicorn and NAWALT as I ever got. I actually had it good, though she did have an explosive defensive anger issue, but still I could have done more emotional work. Near the end we were having troubles comfortably making ends meet and her family built up resentment against me for not being the tradcon provider I was supposed to be. They forced her hand to leave.

I'm MGTOW now because I know most other women out there are only interested in relationships that do something for them, and therefore they full status chasing, though they would deny it if you called them on it. They value relationships and being secure and comfortable, they may value overarching qualities about what the man represents, but I have serious doubts that women ever value the individual qualities inside a man, his ideas, likes and traits that make him who he is.

[–]OldRoad0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, I got the most serious romantic relationship that I ever had, by far, out of the whole thing. But it didn't work out. It turned out that she had all kinds of problems that she hid from me at first. Looking back, I figure that she was simply looking for a guy to support her financially -- she could have a high quality of life while the guy does most of the work, and she could basically do what she wanted while I was at work (I figure this might have included cheating on me).

I did not think this was happening at first, because I can't imagine living in the same home with someone, and being that close to them, and deceiving them so majorly at the same time. I don't know if she was fully aware of what she was doing, or if she somehow talked herself into thinking that this is what happens in a normal romantic relationship.

[–]The_Law_of_the_Land0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is truth!

But I'm 33 and women have always found me attractive. I would extend your advice to everyone. Women see a man between 30-37 as primed for baby trapping. Makes good money, has a car, has his own place, and doesn't have any debt.

The number of women that try to fuck without a condom blows my mind. I'm dead afraid of STDs so I always rubber up but WTF is wrong with these women.

I

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[–]fuckyouredditcunts7719 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sociopaths have no conscience.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points26 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

So love. Much romantic.

[–]dem_paws7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can't believe the patriarchy still pushes Shakespeare when we have these lyrical wordsmiths here and now...

[–]Keyhre5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Disregard females, acquire doge

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ignore dogs; Grab doge.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you just Doge speak? WTF is this 2005?

[–]Zombocom191121 points22 points23 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

4 Didn’t want to be the single one.

All my friends were settling down and getting married, and I didn’t want to be the single one anymore. I was dating two guys at once, and I finally decided that the guy I’m now married to was the winner of the two. He wasn’t perfect or everything I dreamed of, but I wanted to settle down, so I settled on him.

so she had a need to fit in with the status quo. very precious little princess needs to be just like everyone else. HAHA

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like she'd put more thought into what outfit goes with these shoes. If that marriage lasts longer than five years I'd be shocked.

[–]Tothesky21216 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There such sheep and group thinkers its ridiculous. If a Group of women tape tampons on their tshirst the rest will follow I can bet all of my money on that

[–]frikabg2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

'BEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!! BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!' Do you hear that? No its not a sheep its a woman sounding and acting like one! If it sounds like a sheep and acts like a sheep and smells like a sheep then it must be a sheep! 2/3 makes her 33% sheep i guess that 50% of humanity is laging behind with a few hundred thousands years when it comes to evolution but hey... what can you do right?

[–]frikabg2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah but it is not exactly that simple is it ? Her highness can't get the prince she is looking for so she reaches the conclusion that she will sacrifice her standards and get married to some shmuch in order to fit the status quo. Little does he know that she will start resenting him and hate him with time because of that although she choose him as much as he did choose her but you know how it goes its the man's fault ALWAYS!

If you ask around you will find out that the huge majority of divorced women divorce their half because 'he wasn't checking her boxes any more' and that 'he got this stranger with time and stooped paying attention to her' when in reality she did the same toward him loooong before he got to that point and he always had these qualities its just that she needed to marry because that is what women do you know ruin man's lives in unseen proportions! But hey... wtf do i know :)

[–]Tyler78922819 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I was dating two guys at once, and I finally decided that the guy I’m now married to was the winner of the two.

LMAO... Good one ! I guess women can be funny after all. Not on purpose, but still...

[–]The__Tren__Train19 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

translation: I was dating chad for sex and billy beta for validation and resources

tried to get chad to commit, he refused and took off.

billy beta is the winner!

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Billy later hung himself because she took everything and used his children to hurt and punish and steal from him :(

[–]frikabg3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Be smart! Don't end up like Billy!

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Great Halloween costume idea; Billy Beta!

[–]Tothesky21214 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Billy has no clue how worn out those walls are lol Cuck

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She was riding their rods along with other guys' rods and she chose the beta provider that could give her the most financially, emotionally,and likewise the most attractive of the bunch with the biggest shlong. She now identifies as a "conservative".

😕

[–]fuckyouredditcunts776 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's like declaring the victim of a shooting spree to be the winner.

[–]casra88817 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Remember, you dont exist. Your resources exist. They are all gypsys. Constantly scheming on how to rob you blind!

[–]christianlazard17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Fuck, how desperate they are.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

We were all lied to, notice how they all hint at that "love" doesn't exist. The thing is that while most of us guys were getting rejected and humiliated, they were out there having fun and fucking chad. Notice their age, they expected to have their cake and eat it too. They think some handsome chad will rescue them at 36. It's the classic alpha fucks, beta bucks dynamic. Oh and those 26 year old girls that settled on that site, those are probably girls that had bad genes and hit the wall early or hit it when they were born. I don't see any 20 year old girls on that site, there is a reason for that.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There's no such thing as love, that's a chemical imbalance in your brain tricking you to mate, it's nature's way.

[–]frikabg4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah kind of hard to have sympathy for those women when you know for a fact that the problem is not that they can't find a 'good men TM' but that they are getting older,uglier and less fertile with each year and they are realizing that they have 3-4 years left before men start ignoring them completely so she goes out and gets some sucker who believes in love to become her slave for the rest of his existence.

So you are suppose to feel bad for these women who use you and throw you aside like a piece of trash when you are young and do the same when you are old? Pffff! Yeah that is gonna happen! Get the fuck out of my field of vision and stop breathing my air! You are worse then the bacterias in my body at least having some of those suckers have a positive impact on my health and life WHICH IS EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE of what having a woman as a partner in your life is.

You know you've done fucked up when you are worse then a fucking brainless spinless single-celled organism!

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Those guys are in for a world of hurt. They will be easy targets to be cheated on and divorced rape down the line.

[–]Tothesky21219 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Its funny how we can see ahead but most guys cant

[–]ijnenak16 points17 points18 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The wall takes no prisoners

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[–]yoamloco0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because the truth hurts.

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[–]justareflektorr7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

THIS!!

[–]jcazone2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women even before Jesus would never settle for one guy. It's in their nature to have multiple partners.

[–]BiomedBrainiac2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly, marriage is a transient state for them.

Nothing about these anecdotes should be surprising. They're just expressing how they've found a guy to leach off while they continue to shop around.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I am making 6 and soon 7 figures a year and even if I go back into "dating" the 30 year+ are too old for me.

Btw I am 36.

[–]jcazone1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

7 Figures! Divorce rape 20 years old girls are already looking at you and they'll love you so much. You're so lucky if you just pump and dump and run before they rape you.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

yeah life is though when chad doesn't want to fuck you anymore

[–]frikabg0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah when he starts ignoring you they realize they have to settle down for some lesser male who won't realize how fucked he is until its waaaay too late and then he is suppose to believe that this little fragile perfect being his wife soon to be ex is and always was evil reincarnated brought down to this planet to spread hate and misery.

[–]eltonl9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

BUT IF A CHAD APPEARS IN HER LIFE WILL SHE CHEAT ON HER HUSBAND????

You know the answer...

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She'll ride that rod to high heaven.

[–]eltonl5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And then say she wasnt happy anymore, she felt special wih him and so on...

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[–]MGTOW_Monger1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This

[–]TheOldEskimo1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nailed it

[–]Rodion-Raskolnikov5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yet more proof confirming what we already knew.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't see how this is "devastating". Throughout history marriage has been for practical purposes and marriage for love is a relatively recent concept and also a luxury.

[–]The__Tren__Train4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

well if things don't work out, divorce is always on the table (:

cash and prizes!

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[–]frikabg0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

he will feel so special if he saw what you wrote i mean who wouldn't? And they complain that men are aggressive.... you pull this type of shit on us and we are the bad guys? Must be easy being stupidly insane cunt all the time

[–]Deane_3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If I'm being 100% honest I don't think that there's anything wrong with settling. It's the lifestyle these sluts lead before the settling that makes bitter.

[–]demimgtow[S] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And the life they might live after they suck your soul (or if a Chad crosses her path).

I would only considering settling if I was gay. Too bad I am not.

[–]plutosheen4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's like at age 30 guys and girls swap dating criteria.

[–]Norlamin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not just dating, life as a whole generally opens up for men at the age of 30, granted they didn't fuck it up early beyond repair (relationships, addictions, injuries, etc)

Hell, I don't even fully consider men "adults" until they do hit their 30's.

[–]MGTOWManofMystery3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is no meaning in marriage. Don't do it!

[–]BroCapn1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Well, for those MGTOWers who do date, aren't they doing the same? Just wanting someone to reciprocate the same feelings and responsibilities the men do. Sure, look good, but not perfect.

I guess I'm just playing Devil's Advocate a bit here because it seems a bit hipocritic.

[–]fuckyouredditcunts7715 points16 points17 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Most men would like to have a supermodel but they don't necessarily believe that they are entitled to it. They can be perfectly happy with an average looking woman that treats them well. Women seek their self-worth from external sources. For them being with a "lesser" man is an admission that they are fundamentally lacking in value as a human being.

[–]demimgtow[S] 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Idk about MGTOWs who date.

I can speak for me, I just pump and dump. I love reciprocation for the limited time span that sex takes. After that, I hope they hate me or at least don't stalk me like crazy bitches after rejection.

I have phobia for dating and LTRs (any *TRs).

[–]Cunt_Robber4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The pump and dump, lets face it, is the ideal situation for a man. No commitment, no time or resources wasted.

[–]setpejoki3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll be praying for these guys

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