Getting What I Want

Pastelitomaracucho · 2016-01-28T12:42:47+00:00

19, high value male. Pick one.

WhiteTrashKiller · 2016-01-28T02:19:48+00:00

I am assuming you're a Troll, but just in case you are not I will take a shot......

At 19 you may have the building blocks to be high value. It is quite rare for someone so young to put it all together as the journey has just started for you....

Stop looking for validation from a woman! They do not want you to share your feels. No woman you are fucking wants to be your Mom. Looking for that emotional bond you didn't get from your Mom in a girlfriend or wife is going to ruin you. It sucks, it is a lonely road and you are going to have to accept your place as a man in this world. You aren't a special snowflake, the only pleasure you will derive from this life is your opinion on how you've lived it when it is done. Until then, find another man to confide in as your emotions will only show the cracks in that faux armor you are parading around to a woman. I completely understand your issues as a young man on a personal level, but it is time to put those in a box and bury it. You may wanna talk to a professional about them to exorcise those demons, again I would try to pick a male therapist simply because all the training in world still cannot help a woman understand the male brain.....

Now get back under your Bridge and wait for the next Billy Goat

Bumblebro · 2016-01-28T02:09:58+00:00

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Battle-Scars · 2016-01-28T05:53:52+00:00

You're seeking to fill a void in your soul left by the lack of love from your Mother with another woman, believe me, this is a fools errand and will only end up in a cycle of pain for you. You will attract and be attracted to women like your mother to sub consciously try and fix the void but you will only recreate the cycle of rejection. It takes effort but you have to re-wire your internal map of intimacy.

MattyAnon · 2016-01-28T07:28:24+00:00

Why has it been so hard to find someone to comfort me? Are women just incapable of giving me what I really want?

Basically yes. You can get a little support from women, but the second you need them they see you as their bitch and exploit or dump you. Dumped is the kinder and rarer option.

Women expect to take. They expect to just do whatever they feel like in the moment, and receive the rest of the time. Their contribution, their gift, their input to the relationship is turning up. And they get super fucking bitter if they put in more than they get out, in the rare cases where it happens.

The only way you'll get the support you want is to run dread game, be super high value, and have women compete for your attention. It's harder to get than sex, it's rarer. You'll have to find a way to communicate what you want without seeming like a little bitch. Which is hard, because you sound like a little bitch.

Is there anything more disgraceful than a beast too massive to lick his own wounds?

You really do sound emo now. You really are not as "high value" as you think you are. Fix that.

soccerplusaviation · 2016-01-28T04:22:32+00:00

When it comes to women, the "emotional connection" goes as far as this. That emotional comfort you seek will only come after your have proven you are a high value male. If you want to be "yourself", yourself must have alpha characteristics, if you don't feel like your cannot be yourself, than my friend your not as high value as you think.

Paranoidexboyfriend · 2016-01-28T12:57:40+00:00

You sound kind of autistic and lack the ability to perceive normal social norms. I would highly recommend some sort of therapy.

Also, I promise you at 19 years old your SMV isn't as high as you've deemed it to be, unless you're Justin Bieber or some sort of celebrity. A "bright future" means nothing. Women dont care about what you're going to be, they only care what you are. Dudes applying to medschool get no attention from women, only the fullfledged doctors making bank do.

squatbro · 2016-01-28T14:23:54+00:00

What you are experiencing is male mother need.

Yes, the red pill is bitter to swallow.

EondelTRP · 2016-01-28T15:11:25+00:00

Try reading No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover and also Models by Mark Manson. They have information you can use.

RedSovereign · 2016-01-28T16:48:04+00:00

Post questions to /r/asktrp.

Title	Getting What I Want
Author	Bumblebro
Upvotes	0
Comments	34
Date	January 28, 2016 1:38 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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