The rising cost of sex with age and why it doesn't necessarily get easier as you get older.

Rasalom72 · 2016-02-05T08:14:01+00:00

You can be broke as fuck and still pull girls. They don't care about your money. They care about the appearance of wealth. It's all superficial to them.

As long as you LOOK successful, and ACT successful, they will THINK you're successful. Even with finances... when it comes to women, "fake it till you make it" works.

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whisky1111 · 2016-02-05T07:08:11+00:00

Telling guys to "earn cash" in order to fuck chicks seems like the exact OPPOSITE of what TRP is about...

jb_trp · 2016-02-04T19:29:08+00:00

If you have money it raises your SMV. But you don't have to spend money to pull chicks. Ever saw the video of the man driving around the Lambo in China? Women didn't know him, he would just ask if they were alone and wanted to go with him. They all said yes. He didn't spend a dime on their asses, but they went with him because they perceived his SMV to be through the roof. It's biology. They're just following the little impulses in their brains.

Spending money to get chicks can be beta as hell. Or it might not be (i.e. alphabux). It just depends on who you are as a person. A woman will fuck you in the restroom if she thinks you're sexy and you spit good game at her. No money required.

Natural_RP · 2016-02-04T21:26:51+00:00

I suppose I would agree that the appearance of money matters. I however don't buy girls shit. In fact I usually make them bring something when the come over such as booze or the food they are going to cook, and guess what? They agree without hesitation.

These girls are mid 20s. The trick is, like I said above to at least appear like a succesful alpha (possible) provider. You check all the boxes and the pussy will flow like water.

max_peenor · 2016-02-04T18:47:05+00:00

In most cases, it takes money because now girls have expectations that are higher.

Yeah, sure, if you wave money around, they indeed will have certain expectations. These are not the expectations you want them to have. They should want sex with you because you are wiser, better and more sure of yourself than the kids. Work on projecting those traits, not your betabux.

It's not really that difficult for a man with good frame. Honestly, the only thing that I have found harder as I age is finding time. You accumulate friends, associates, family and entanglements as you age. That afternoon in the dive hotel with that 20 year old spinner can't always make the schedule.

knitro · 2016-02-04T19:42:46+00:00

I suspect many here will try and hand-wave this off as 'you just need more game or SMV' to think that money doesn't matter into adulthood, but it does.

You can get laid into your 30s without wealth, sure. It won't be as easy as in college - better logistics aside, she's out of the collegiate bubble which insulates her from true competition you can't match at 23. A lack of money also hurts your ability to retain, which may be good or bad depending your goals. Girls get savvier too, which is well-covered in the notion of beta bucks at the wall. Like Saint Kanye said, she may not be a golddigger she ain't messin with no broke niggas. And why should she?

Take one of those Instagram hoes selling protein powder as an extreme imperfect example of a super high SMV girl. If they have thousands of potential suitors, many more attractive than you at your max, and some of these guys will be wealthy, Why should she go for the poorer guy, all else being equal? It's not Blizerians looks turning him into the Hefner 2.0.

The point of all this is, your personal success metrics will shift in evaluation as you age. It's obvious, but what's successful in High School isn't necessarily the same at 30, and so on. You should expect that you'll have to spend more money on a girlfriend at 30 than at 20. It's not a insidious hypergamous plot, it's just people expect more as they get older, usually because they can afford to have these standards. This may mean letting her cut at the keg line now translates to a night of drinks at a few bars. The thing is you will also have higher standards, for example you won't want to live in a frat house at 30 no matter how fond your memories are. Also, in the type and quality of girl you see.

The good news is you should be able to match the rising cost easily as your own life and career improves. The oft-repeated thing is have a mission, so she's a complement not the mission itself. Your mission should include moneymaking. If your dating budget never exceeds 10-15% of your discretionary expenses (set this number at what you will) it's easy to progress from the $10 handle of vodka for party to $40s worth of pricey cocktails at a lounge.

DforDeadpool · 2016-02-04T18:46:33+00:00

Tell that to college students who has to live with their parents and can't pull any chicks home. To those who live in dorms and even too broke to eat properly. Also, a man's SMV peaks when he's around 35-36 if he's taking good care of himself. Probably sucks for a 35+ years old dude who recently found TRP, but other older men have no excuse.

scarletspider3 · 2016-02-04T20:03:38+00:00

This is true. I remember when I was younger all you needed was a bull-shit job to pay for a movie once in a while. Then I remember that you needed a car to pull 8+. By the time I got a car, it wasn't enough. The price had been raised and any car wasn't enough, you needed a nice car.

I have posted this here before and a lot of people disagreed, but I still stand by it. You can get 8+ at a discount if you shop around in the lower classes.

Title	The rising cost of sex with age and why it doesn't necessarily get easier as you get older.
Author	macksdowntownsong
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Date	February 4, 2016 6:37 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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