Girl I was in love with is maybe a slut - what to do?

inspiron3000 · 2017-08-22T01:04:11+00:00

No! Woo her, do not give up on her! Compose sweet flattering quatrains to serenade her!

j/k, dispose of that cum bucket.

papertrace99 · 2017-08-22T01:10:32+00:00

Accept her nature, pump and dump. Although I recommend you to skip the pump part if you don't feel secure about it. Don't feel bad about it, you're lucky to have found out that she's a slut, many don't have that luxury. Good luck

takeitchillish · 2017-08-22T01:34:50+00:00

Just by your title I will offer you the best advice.

Ghost her.

or

Chase her around, get your heart broken then ghost her.

takeitchillish · 2017-08-22T00:50:23+00:00

Wow she sounds like a real catch, mate. You should do either 1 of 2 things:

1) put a ring in her finger ASAP and get married immediately. Remember to come back to this sub and let us know how things go ;)

2) have unprotected sex with her. If you don't catch an STD at least you guys can gave a baby together!

Good luck, idiot.

2017-08-22T01:56:13+00:00

There's no maybe, my dude. She is a slut. They all are. Internalize it. Realize she trades sex for validation. Ghost her, and you'll heal in time.

I recommend sticking it in her one good time if you haven't already, and just do whatever you want. Bust a good nut, never text her again.

2017-08-22T04:18:40+00:00

What the fuck is wrong with you?

Youre not "in love" with her.

And she's sure as hell not "in love" with you.

Youre providing her with something, probably attention, by the sounds of it. Youre a willing slave.

OMEGA195 · 2017-08-22T01:09:03+00:00

Rip it off like a band aid man. Sucks to do but better to do it now than later...

sidel3 · 2017-08-22T04:35:56+00:00

The more cock that is ran through a woman, the more broken she gets. Nature knows this very well. You wanting to puke at the thought of her choking on other dudes cocks is biology to some degree. Dump the whore and go down the MGTOW rabbit hole while you go through the depression of no pussy and female validation.

CadeyrnDragheim · 2017-08-22T01:17:57+00:00

When in doubt, MGTOW out

MethaCat · 2017-08-22T05:28:36+00:00

It seems to me from your OP and your answer to the comments that you have already made out your mind to go after her. We all really learn by doing, so try to learn as much as you can from this experience, whatever happens you will be wiser in the future. Good luck. We will see you later ;)

iwishiwasaperson · 2017-08-22T01:07:42+00:00

Yes. And the next and the next. They are all like that mate. Purity is dead and gone. Go ahead and search for love as long as you do not mind being just another cock in a very long line of cocks.

justforpornokayguys · 2017-08-22T01:16:24+00:00

If you can't trust her why would you stick around? And in my opinion, you can't trust any of them,

Paladin2903 · 2017-08-22T04:43:53+00:00

When I started reading your post, and didn't hit the "I just found this forum" part yet, my first thought was, "Oh yea, this guy must be new." Lol.

Sorry. Not making light of your situation. I was in your shoes many years ago. This is the cold hard truth......as Sonny in "A Bronx Tale" would say, "You dump her, and you dump her fast."

My friend. There really isn't anything else that needs to be said. She's an admitted whore. Whores have psychological/mental issues. It doesn't get better. It gets worse...much worse.

ColdStoryBro · 2017-08-22T05:13:53+00:00

She doesn't actually reciprocate your sentiments. She is ready to hop to the next guy when given the chance. You obviously do not want to be used (i'm assuming cause you are here), so just move on. She clearly wants your commitment AND also another man's dick. She is willing to tell you that she loves you so that you can commit, its a classic strategy. There's a saying around these parts:

"She was never your girl, it was just your turn"

2017-08-22T03:38:38+00:00

Almost the exact same thing happened to me, man. And I can tell you, that gut feeling you're having right now DOES NOT ever go away, despite your efforts to make it work. Break up with her dude and move on to the next one. It was hard for me but i definitely didn't regret it.

Ghost141414 · 2017-08-22T07:17:58+00:00

Be careful: First, a slut always stays a slut. It is her nature and you cannot change it. Second, you cannot have a slut only for yourself. My suggestion: Either pump and dump her or leave it.

Teflon0819 · 2017-08-22T08:27:08+00:00

Get an STD test. Then set her up in such a way that it is revealed to all of her friends/family that she is a slut. Do it subtly so that she can't pin it on you.

ACertainKindOfFool · 2017-08-22T11:14:06+00:00

Leave. And I don't mean her, though you should leave her, I mean leave this forum. You are not ready to be here. All of your comments basically amount to "But I'm in wuv, and I can't be rational, so it's ok yeh?" No, it's not ok, and if you want it to be ok then you have no place here. MGTOW will not sweet talk you into ruining your life, we exist for precisely the opposite reason: to aide men as they seek to see the truth of the world. If you choose to willingly keep your blinders on in the name of "I can't help it," then there is nothing we can do for you. The door will be open whenever you decide to stop bitching out.

SamCasey98 · 2017-08-22T00:51:03+00:00

Thank your luck that you rid of the woman. Pack your stuff and enjoy your freedom.

eja_cool8 · 2017-08-22T05:45:35+00:00

My honest advice is this: Read the Manipulated Man by Esther Villar.

Read it and if that doesn't change you, nothing will.

MParry6 · 2017-08-22T07:44:25+00:00

You're in the wrong subreddit. Come back once you open both eyes

jgirn81 · 2017-08-22T02:09:22+00:00

Bruh, run!!!!! You are just smitten and looking for an excuse to be with her. Save yourself. Stop even seeing her!

RedFoxOnFire · 2017-08-22T02:38:04+00:00

Realize the truth: She's not your girl, it's only your turn.

nemosolder · 2017-08-22T02:46:21+00:00

watch out bud if she picks up that your upset about it then it will be no more condoms for you or pen pricks in them check out her phone and see.if she is still playing around

2017-08-22T03:39:03+00:00

you know who loves me unconditionally? Benjamin Franklin [and his friends]

AManYouCanTrust · 2017-08-22T05:48:48+00:00

Fuck her one last time, then leave a tip on her drawer.

It'll send the message.

TK3600 · 2017-08-22T06:16:25+00:00

You came to this sub, you know what we will say. Go to r/relationship if you want alternative opinion.

WAFC · 2017-08-22T06:58:48+00:00

When I heard it I wanted to puke, literally. Got almost a panic attack.

That was your gut with a DEFCON 3 warning. Get the fuck out.

Little_African_Child · 2017-08-22T07:42:26+00:00

Run dude. Do not be deluded that she is in love with you - she will bounce as soon as a better option comes along. Cut your losses now.

TheNightmareCinema · 2017-08-22T09:02:17+00:00

Why are you wasting time. i wonder how much time you have wasted on chasing pussy

The_Law_of_the_Land · 2017-08-22T17:24:52+00:00

I mean there is somebody for everybody out there... She may be your somebody. Let me ask you this:

Do you like cum-buckets?
Does acquiring std's peak your interest at all?
Do you take join out of imagining how many miles of other men's penis have been in your girl?
Does a loose vagina make your hard?
Do you enjoy the smell other men's jizz on her breath?

If you answered yes to any of the above. Buy her a ring and check both of you into the nearest asylum.

fearganfadhb · 2017-08-22T09:30:03+00:00

Dump the bitch.

aaronimpact · 2017-08-22T09:31:08+00:00

She was also fucking at least one other guy while we started dating.

And you were ok with that?

Reprogramming_Life · 2017-08-22T09:31:13+00:00

Scientists need to create a drug that cuts the feels off.

Malthuras · 2017-08-22T09:32:22+00:00

Stop asking the mgtow subreddit for dating advice, r/relationships is over there

robowriter · 2017-08-22T09:44:37+00:00

Me too, and she turned out to be a hooker on a whore's sabbatical. Claimed that was all behind her and blah blah all bullshit all the time but was fun sexually for awhile. Once the slut gets into the blood it never leaves.

But there's always a price you might not see at the moment so have your fun and then GTFO. And if you find yourself falling in love with her immediately GTFO, that is, if you start to make excuses for her or try to justify her increasingly bizarre behavior and/or chemical dependence.

2017-08-22T13:06:55+00:00

I do not want to be with a slut who loves getting fucked by strangers on tinder.

You've just described the majority of today's women, good luck with that.

Hippotatamus · 2017-08-22T13:07:06+00:00

You can stick around but never commit to her. Or you can just dump her.

If you want to stick around, don't live together. Don't get marry of course. Also might take some preventive measure (vasectomy) in case she get pregnant and force you to take the responsibility.

BNorrisUCLA · 2017-08-22T13:09:13+00:00

How do you know she was fucking 1 other guy when you started? Were you fucking her at this time?

Flaye2 · 2017-08-22T14:06:52+00:00

She's a good lesson. She looks sweet and "isn't that type of girl" well now you know how deceptive looks are. Not only that you need to understand every girl is potentially like that, especially if you have feelings for them further clouding your judgement.

You are unwilling to accept her slutty behaviour? well put it into action, dump her.

RadicalAsceticMonk · 2017-08-22T14:20:18+00:00

I fell in love with a very nice and sweet girl.

Aren't they all nice and sweet?

She says she also loves me.

Don't they all love us so much?

But things have come up and she has told me about how she used to fuck around using tinder and so on.

Oh.

When I heard it I wanted to puke, literally. Got almost a panic attack.

Are you sure you're not a woman?

She was also fucking at least one other guy while we started dating. What should I do?

Clearly you have to find your balls, then have your brain checked. Because these two statements are kinda weird:

I fell in love with a very nice and sweet girl.

She was also fucking at least one other guy while we started dating

Nice, sweet, and a damn whore.

So, you want to know what to do?

How about you start to think, for once?

Hugh_Mungus16 · 2017-08-22T18:15:10+00:00

fucking AWALT!!! Get this ingrained in your mind

2017-08-22T18:27:45+00:00

Realize that most girls are whores, fuck her if you can, then move on with your life.

Freefrombitches123 · 2017-08-22T22:17:38+00:00

Mate I've fucked her, basically everyone's fucked her, just accept it and marry the chick already

Freefrombitches123 · 2017-08-22T22:17:41+00:00

Mate I've fucked her, basically everyone's fucked her, just accept it and marry the chick already

Freefrombitches123 · 2017-08-22T22:17:45+00:00

Mate I've fucked her, basically everyone's fucked her, just accept it and marry the chick already

Freefrombitches123 · 2017-08-22T22:17:45+00:00

Mate I've fucked her, basically everyone's fucked her, just accept it and marry the chick already

2017-08-22T22:58:39+00:00

"Girl I was in love with is a slut"

There I fixed it for you

Nezborn02 · 2017-08-24T00:11:19+00:00

She's a slut

AsianJewLawyer · 2017-08-25T08:11:17+00:00

"Maybe" a slut... lol...

JohnLater · 2017-11-15T14:49:38+00:00

Hey man, I'm dealing with the same situation. We was talking online and I was falling deep in love, we met each other one time and it went great, but I couldn't get the thoughts off my head (she had sex 9 people before), so I broke up. Did you guys broke up too? Did the thoughts went away? sorry for the bad english, it's not my first language

Title	Girl I was in love with is maybe a slut - what to do?
Author	takeitchillish
Upvotes	29
Comments	95
Date	August 22, 2017 12:36 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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