https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-cN8sJz50Ng

The tone she has throughout the whole video is just condescending. The man at 4:30 is a smart guy. You can see at 5:24 she starts trying to give reasons why you need to be in a relationship but the guy just rips it apart. "They won't lie to you, they will be honest to you, and they will have no malice."