If you're not trying to get a promotion on the plantation anymore, then what's the use of adhering to social norms regarding appearance? You may as well just dress like a pirate or a ninja or something. Why shop at Abercrombie and Fitch when you can shop at Kult of Athena? Why not be that guy if women are out of your life? I'm going to start wearing a leather tricorn hat and a trenchcoat with a collar that conceals my entire face like my Bloodborne character. I already carry a concealed Glock 19 everywhere, but I'm also going to start carrying a sword, like my 1796 light cavalry saber, maybe on my back so that I can drive with it. Perfectly legal. Why should I care what anyone thinks if I'm not trying to impress women and blend in with a society that revolves around them? I could actually pull all this off fashion-wise anyway, because I am in great shape, have an excellent eye for aesthetics, and plenty of disposable income to blow on stupid stuff. There is nothing cringier than a fat cashier who can't comprehend fit or sizing attempting to dress like an anime character or something, nothing in the whole world really, but even that guy has nothing to gain by conforming to women's expectations. Hell, wear a Western hat with white New Balance sneakers if you're feeling exceptionally bold and stupid, it doesn't matter. Nothing fucking matters anymore.