Will woman abandon a guy that is bankrupt?

Tercalerc · 2018-03-05T10:50:36+00:00

You're dating a chick with a RED FLAG the size of THE WALL OF CHINA. GTFOUTTA THERE.

Sinikal12 · 2018-03-05T10:58:08+00:00

If she knows that he's bankrupt, then yeah, the chances of her leaving him gets higher considerably.

AstronautGoggles · 2018-03-05T10:48:56+00:00

Yes.... YESSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TheOnlyThing-Sufjan · 2018-03-05T11:12:08+00:00

Mabye not right at that instance, and if she leaves him she makes up some excusse how it is not about the money but something like: He did not tell me about the bankruptcy how can I now trust him, or since the money is gone we are doing less together I do not care if we do something fancy but we are just drifting apart, or he lost his confidence and I cannot keep supporting a man like that.

To answer you second question: Women do tend to see themselves as someone who is entitled to certain things when in a relationship. Attention, gifts, dinners, them buying them other stuff, listinging, and sex but only on her terms. Men however ought not to expect any of those benefits, because he does he is needy and not taking her as she is so to speak. And when they get older the men who spend so much time and energy on them realise that it was some sort of a short return investment. They only got to sleep with the hot young girl for awhile after that it just stopped. So know she is still expecting the same stuff and he is more recluantent to give it to her (since there is not much left to offer) other then the woman leaving him and taking his stuff/childeren ect. So first they are a prize for men to win, after that they are something they cannot aford to lose.

If you absolutley have to date women I would suggest hiding your wealth, do not use it as a power to gain girls. Because that is the only thing they will see you for. So act not rich and when you are sure she is into you because of you (note I do not really believe in this but some do) then you can reveal it. Then again why waste time energy and money?

Non-PC-Guy · 2018-03-05T12:05:19+00:00

The majority of women love no man, so, yes, the majority of women will abandon their man if they become bankrupt. The “Stand by your Man” kind of women are almost long gone.

boogalooshrimp1103 · 2018-03-05T11:59:44+00:00

The rats are the first to bail when the boat starts going under

DWShimoda · 2018-03-05T13:36:06+00:00

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2018-03-05T12:55:57+00:00

Dating in the year 2018. Dating is a scam. Based on retarded traditions that are centuries old. The smartest men don't date

Battlespike1066 · 2018-03-05T12:38:48+00:00

Water wet, fire hot, ice cold, AWALT.

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-03-05T13:57:55+00:00

YES.

I had a buddy that I knew was going to lose his job. I knew that when he lost his job, his wife was going to divorce him. I planned a night out for the two of us to raise his spirits. I did it two weeks before everything went down. Steaks, Scotch, Cigars. It was a good night.

Darth_Toenail · 2018-03-05T12:13:45+00:00

Only 99 times out of 100.

Griever114 · 2018-03-05T13:13:29+00:00

You're asking a sub that AVOIDS women AND cohabitation... dating advice.

Are you stoned or stupid. Go to the red pill.

Yashugan00 · 2018-03-05T12:07:26+00:00

abandoned her past partner due to bankruptcy. Do women generally behave like that?

Hahaha, oh honey.. my dear sweet summer child.

arkyleslyfox · 2018-03-05T12:15:29+00:00

Get to the chopper!!!!!!!!!

2018-03-05T14:38:39+00:00

Dating first mistake

A woman second mistake

And with a red flag like that?

My Nigga what are you doing with your life?

Dig that shit and get out of there.

2018-03-05T13:24:42+00:00

Of course they will, show even the slightest bit of emotional weakness and they'll leave faster than a brotha can tap dance.

randomroxks · 2018-03-05T13:46:39+00:00

If you have come here thinking we have some credibility , abandon that hoe.

IntrovertedMagma · 2018-03-05T13:03:58+00:00

Instinctively, women would do that.

And past behavior is a good indicator what would happen to you if you're going to be bankrupt.

I wonder, if woman views themself as a prize and expect to access her partner's wealth, what is the "prize" when they really get old?

She isn't the prize anymore. She would join spinsterhood for good along with another aging, single feminists.

2018-03-05T14:37:23+00:00

Lol

Does a bear shit in the woods?

It isn't 100% every time of course

Captain_REEcard · 2018-03-05T14:42:55+00:00

Yes, and they will abandon a guy who becomes disabled too.

Guy I know worked a lot, his wife was a stay-at-home-mother. Well, he slowly lost his eyesight, not completely, but now he's legally blind and can't work. Gets disability, but I'm sure it's not as much as he made working.

Anyway, with him forced to be home every day...did the wife go out and get a job and help out? No, she met another guy from 11 hours away through an online video game. They talked for months behind my buddy's back. Finally, she kicked her husband out and drove across the country to pick him up and move him in.

I used to think that was outrageous, but it's more common than I thought.

Sol_Install · 2018-03-05T16:43:42+00:00

Yes, women do generally behave like that. In fact, you are told this yourself rather indirectly. Allow me to translate: I need someone to take care of my daughter. I need someone who can earn enough to support my daughter and by extend her children. I want to be taken care of. I don't want to be financially responsible for my wants and needs and mistakes. In a developed country, how does this happen? Through the money a man earns. So revealing that, what happens if a man cannot provide i.e. earn money? Then he is without use because he cannot provide the purpose that he's there for.

Not being able to grant a woman access to your finances for her needs and wants makes you worthless in her eyes and the eyes of society. Hence the saying like "Men are not human beings, they are human doings." Or if you ask men why they don't believe in love or are against the idea of being a Beta Provider, it's because if you have to earn a wage to keep a woman around, then obviously she cannot love you hence why they have these women who marry men who they don't like at all.

The "prize" is always the same. She is in sexual demand and realizes it. Her sexual demand or SMV, is usually higher than yours. So an old man still loses to an old woman. Thus the prize is her company and access to her body if she allows it. Now since you are dating this woman, guess what happens if you go without your source of income with showing promise for too long? You'll be dumped too.

retal1ator · 2018-03-05T12:42:58+00:00

Best way to know it? Come home one day and fake being fired or act like you're about to file for bankruptcy. Make sure she cannot find out you're lying.

Fake it well and for some time, tell her you'll do your best to get back on your feet but in the meanwhile you'll need to spend way less and that you can't pay her gift, dinners and holidays.

See how she reacts.

If she passes the test, tell her you miraculously found a way to get another job or more money. If she fails, dump her and tell her the truth.

Ketsa · 2018-03-05T13:44:15+00:00

Obviously.

SRod1706 · 2018-03-05T14:01:01+00:00

Why would a woman date a broke beta bux?

2018-03-05T14:18:02+00:00

Depends on the Age most here would say, in their 20s its all about fun, but when the wall kicks in its all about financial stability.

Hilarious_Haplogroup · 2018-03-05T15:30:01+00:00

As Chris Rock once pointed out "If you lose ya job you lose ya woman...that's right! She might not walk out the day you lose it, but the countdown has begun!"

micktao · 2018-03-05T16:35:55+00:00

My buddy married someone who abandoned him when he was struggling. He landed a great job in tech and she magically re-appeared. This trainwreck is guaranteed.

oirectine00 · 2018-03-05T16:44:57+00:00

Forget bankrupt. When I was working a seasonal job, I had a woman break things off with me because I was temporarily unemployed and was waiting a few days for my unemployment insurance to come in.

The funny thing was that she was seemingly pretty desperate. She was about 9 years older than me, very introverted and bookwormish, and was getting nothing but creeps hitting on her, apparently. We were getting along really well too, having gone on a couple dates together, walking through the park, intelligent conversation, discovering our mutual tastes in music and games, but then all of a sudden I went from "the only decent guy on here" to someone not making enough money for her, despite her wanting to take things further just a few days ago.

That was pretty much the final nail in the coffin for me dating wise. Then I found this subreddit and everything became clear.

TokerNoJoker · 2018-03-05T17:01:57+00:00

90% of the woman i have met are in it for the money.There is a very very select few that will stay with a broke man.Most woman in their 20's will date a broke guy if he looks attractive and portrays himself a certain way because in their 20's money doesn't mean shit.They just live to party and they want a guy that doesn't work so they can tow him around as a prize piece like a trophy when it suits them.When they reach 30 and the loser they were with knocks them up three or four times and is not paying child support that's when the guys that were not good enough prior become their target because the lack of sexual attraction from such females earlier in their life had them focusing on establishing their wealth.That's when its time for those guys to become instant fathers to three children sometimes from multiple daddy's

lone_nordic_wolf · 2018-03-05T12:01:22+00:00

Yes! I also see potential red flags.

Be wary.

2018-03-05T13:44:08+00:00

Does the Pope shit in the woods?

2018-03-05T14:16:48+00:00

"No Money no Honey"

Unless your spouse makes more than you then look into getting Honey by the hour rather than on layaway each month.

mongolian_usa · 2018-03-05T14:27:03+00:00

The only way you'll have her stick with you to the very end is if she's Eva Braun and you're Hitler pointing a gun at her to go thru with the suicide pact.

ToFat2Run · 2018-03-05T14:27:38+00:00

I am dating a woman who I know abandoned her past partner due to bankruptcy

Uh, what are you doing on this sub again?

Bunchofchange · 2018-03-05T15:04:04+00:00

Yes, but in the worst way possible. I know a woman who left her last husband who is not wealthy at all - AT ALL. She talks sh%T on him constantly. Worst guy on earth. She was so much better than him.

Oh yeah, this poor fella still pays her $400 a month and she waves it around and says "Here is my shopping money!".

Does not save a cent because the new guy she lives with pays for everything.

I don't know how someone can be so clueless.

Phantom_Spark · 2018-03-05T16:31:06+00:00

Of course women behave that way. Marriage is a financial move for women. Love is irrelevant.

The single biggest issue in relationships is financial trouble. Women admit they lose sexual attraction for a man if he doesn’t maintain or increase his financial standing. So going bankrupt will definitely cause a woman to leave.

Of course woman feel entitled to a man’s money. If the law says our money, house and children belong to women.... why shouldn’t they think this?

Honestly... you shouldn’t even be here telling this to us. Run, run now, run fast. Just get out of there.

No need to explain to her or anything. End it like ripping off a bandaid and just get out!! Even if you make good money she will rob you.

based_meme · 2018-03-05T16:36:43+00:00

Bruh... Bruh... Is this a serious question?

Bruh....

mgtowthrow1996 · 2018-03-05T18:16:05+00:00

It's called hypergamy.

She will leave if she finds a better option.

If she's dating a billionaire, and she has the chance to get to a multi-billionaire, she'll do that.

eja_cool8 · 2018-03-05T19:16:16+00:00

Is the pope Catholic?

2018-03-05T20:59:22+00:00

You need to understand hypergamy. Women are not monogamous creatures, they are hypergamous. Meaning that they are always looking for better men. You see this behavior in the animal kingdom where the female will ditch the old alpha for the new alpha to secure resources (sometimes even killing their own kids to not lose access to the alpha male and his resources). They are the first to want a monogamous relationship and the first ones to want out of it. They don’t know why they want monogamy so bad but it is not for companionship. They want monogamy to secure resources and eliminate their fear of abandonment. Women aren’t capable of loyalty. Everything they do is in their own self interest. Men are disposable to them. They cannot love you they can only respect you and if your value is on the decline and another mans is rising then she no longer respects you and will leave you for him if that opportunity presents itself. In order to keep a womans peek interest in her prime you must be the supreme alpha everyday of your life. When she gets older and no longer has many options she might resort to monogamy for her own survival and her fear of abandonment but it is not something they want. Given the option to secure resources through divorce/child support/alimony at an older age that woman will take that despite the destruction of the man and the family they cause. They really don’t give a shit about their kids. Any care they give to their kids is in their own self interest knowing that others will frown upon them if they don’t at least feed them. Women only want to fuck the top 20% of men and be provided for in order to freeload and act like children everyday of their lives. The other 80% of men are there to be used and to provide resources while they chase the 20% of men. Commitment is not something they are able to be happy with as they are unsatisfiable creatures. Committing to a woman actually makes her lose respect for you because you are showing her that she’s the best you can do and you have no other prospects.

redditsuksballs · 2018-03-05T21:07:26+00:00

A man with no resources....how many women you know that married a homeless man?

2018-03-05T14:28:26+00:00

2018-03-05T15:04:59+00:00

I struggle on this one. Let's say I wanted to get married again (on a new episode of The Twilight Zone). If she had a bankruptcy in her past, that' a deal killer for me because it would drag both our credit scores down. Dramatically.

michaelmb62 · 2018-03-05T15:37:00+00:00

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blackierobinsun3 · 2018-03-05T15:55:27+00:00

The number 1 cause of divorce is financial reasons

CantThink1998 · 2018-03-05T16:10:01+00:00

it like to take a moment to note my progress in the redpill journey and say my first reaction to this is was yes dumbass...before trp maybe if shes a bad one..smh..this is truly life saving knowledge..

elementalwalruss · 2018-03-05T16:11:19+00:00

What is it with all these relationship posts lately? You know there's a subreddit for that right? Go post there. or the redpill subreddit, they're all about dating. This is MGTOW. It's getting rather annoying.

Mapispema-ta · 2018-03-05T17:11:28+00:00

Cucks gotta cuck i guess.

2018-03-05T17:20:59+00:00

Most women will leave you if you take a few months off work, even if you have enough money saved up that it has no financial impact. Waiting for bankruptcy is -- for a woman -- actually pretty loyal.

I don't get why guys are aggravated by this. Most guys would leave their partners if their vaginas turned to stone and became useless, which is about the female equivalent of a beta-male who can no longer generate resources.

Legs2big · 2018-03-05T17:22:37+00:00

Do you even think before you act mate? Smash & dash. She shall not do any favours for any man. You tell it yourself that you know why she was with her ex, and why she left.... Did you skip school or something?

XxRandomguyxX · 2018-03-05T17:39:19+00:00

You are dating someone but also MGTOW? Hmmm...

kaleb_roberts · 2018-03-05T17:47:13+00:00

RUNNNNNNNNN...... She's literally screaming at you "I only care about money"!

MGTOWtoday · 2018-03-05T18:13:25+00:00

The best way to get rid of a woman is to tell her that you’re broke. They disappear in two seconds flat.

Marlakai · 2018-03-05T18:52:09+00:00

There is a statistical fact on the rate of divorce being 0% when the man makes more than $9000 a month.

No matter what he does (infidelity, verbal abuse, etc.), as long as the money is provided, the woman won't leave.

fcb98292 · 2018-03-05T19:07:56+00:00

How much gold could a gold-digger dig if there was no gold to dig?

frankmarlowe · 2018-03-05T19:19:28+00:00

Some women with insight will stick with a dude if they know he has earning power. IF he has enough, and the bankruptcy was not due to his own actions, I have seen women stick around. It's when and if they fail to bounce back that those particular ladies then bail.

Most tho, will absolutely bail because "muh living standards".

Random_throwaway_000 · 2018-03-05T19:46:18+00:00

So what? Pump and dump. Not like you're planning on marrying any woman even if she stayed with a broke dude.

nunhgrader · 2018-03-05T21:07:12+00:00

You might be a blue piller sir. Run away from that wench!

figyg · 2018-03-05T21:37:13+00:00

Oh, poor innocent spring babe, welcome to the world

selfism_mike · 2018-03-05T22:44:44+00:00

Smelling some troll farts here. That post is full of MGTOW triggers.

starkfuture · 2018-03-05T23:06:23+00:00

If he ain't got money he won't even appear in her slut-radar.

Corelogik · 2018-03-05T23:39:27+00:00

Yes, they will. No resources, no pussy. It's how they function.

Freefrombitches123 · 2018-03-05T23:45:51+00:00

Happens loads, even the wolf of wallstreet

2018-03-05T23:47:14+00:00

AWALT!!

ManIsWalking · 2018-03-06T00:58:28+00:00

Imagine you were a creature that it's entire existence was sucking the blood from a host.

When that host is out of blood, do you stick around hoping the host will suddenly find more blood, and risk dying with the host? Or do you move on to a new host that is healthy and has plenty of blood to drain.

I hope that answers your question.

Griever114 · 2018-03-06T02:20:52+00:00

Guys, it's another incel troll. Report to mods and leave.

Title	Will woman abandon a guy that is bankrupt?
Author	mrpo_rainfall
Upvotes	140
Comments	131
Date	March 5, 2018 10:45 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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