Today I would like to address an issue that might have been have run into at some point in your life. Especially if you have adopted a more RP lifestyle. I can hardly make my peace with the sexual history of girls.

Personal background (optional)

I am 18 and still in highschool. I have come to learn about the RP from an early age mainly by finding PUA texts on the internet. Products from people like David DeAngelo, Mystery and Vin DiCarlo have helped me see the flaws in behaviour. Unfortunately I felt too young and incapable of applying a lot of that advice. That is no longer the case. I have started practicing calisthenics at home (I find them safer and I like the benefits more, research Convict Conditioning for more info) and deprogramming the beta training I received from mainstream culture. I don't feel beta anymore and feel like I have drive and purpose.

Bottom line is, I started having success and hanging out with more like minded individuals.

My issue

About a month ago I hooked up with this girl. She is the type of girl I don't feel is threatening my RP progress. We fuck like rabbits and she lets me do whatever the fuck I want with her and she is rather hot. The issue is that I have learned that she has had anal sex with a guy she liked about a year ago (she hasn’t had any sexual contact besides that until we hooked up). After finding out I felt somewhat threatened and when I remember that I still get angry at the thought.

Generalization

First of all, I o ly brought this up because the problem is becoming more and more widespread. Girls are becoming more and more empowered and the female imperative is allowing them to do whatever the fuck they want and have countless sexual partners and popular culture is making the feel okay with being sluts and we men are supposed to forgive that and take them as they are. I have one more year of pre-college to do and most girls I know have had at least one sexual partner. Theoretically, this means more sex for alpha males, but I find that is just making me angry. Evolutionary psychology says we are wired to avoid promiscuous females due to sperm competition, but I believe that hatred starts to arise because females have a much easier time finding new sexual partners that do males. To get laid as a male you have to work on your deprogramming and constantly make yourself better.

How I have been dealing with it

To make sure I don't feel threatened by the idea I have been making an effort to be better in bed. I fuck her until she can't think straight and work out and diet. I also make a point to occasionally make a joke about the experience to make her associate shame with the experience and condition her to be loyal and feel like she can lose me anytime to hotter girls. That makes her work considerably harder to please me.

I am new to this reddit. Any opinions, advice or personal experience is welcome.

How do you guys deal with histories?