I was a pua fanboy. No joke. I thought I found some magic shit that can help you attract women. Let's say I thought I found some dark secrets. My thoughts were let's try pua out and see if it really works.
After trial and error(700 approaches) I came to the conclusion that it isn't worth putting in the effort. You can spend 100 hours having a chance to get laid or you can get a prostitute and you have profit.
100 hours of your life vs 100 bucks (for a prostitute) or go monk mode.
The only profit you will make is a thicker skin, confidence, handling rejections and a slight chance to get laid. If you are chad you can get laid almost all the time. post
But to get to the point of the title. If people have a hard time getting laid, how do the so-called boot camps seem to work for people? The answer is the people who sell you the lessons are hiring prostitutes.
To give you an example. If you pay for example $2.000 dollar for a boot camp. They will plant bullshit seeds in your head. Afterwards, they will let you approach 100 girls. Some of them are hired prostitutes to give you the illusion that their material work. Then the guy is like holy shit it was totally worth my money. let's say he got a success rate of 5/100. $2000 - $500 = $1500. The scam made a profit of $1500($100 each girl). Meanwhile, after the boot camp, the guy keeps on trying and trying but gets nowhere. He doesn't even realize that he got scammed.
"A man shouldn't pay for sex right." Meanwhile, he puts in hours and hours of work. Approaches and approaches. Wastes a lot of time etc. They can't grasp the fact that your time is more valuable than money.
If pua really worked everyone would get laid like flowers that attract bees. But of course, they say yes you have to put in the work. And women are doing no work whatsoever. It's always men having to make the sacrifices. Trust me, you will gain more with playing the guitar, gaining weight, playing video games etc. then chasing after girls.
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I agree that approaching like a douchebag is cancer. However, I learned a lot about people when I was doing all my "research."
Getting laid a lot after divorce also helped keep me from killing my ex-wife. So she can thank everyone for that.
That stuff works in sales, influence, writing emails, and many other things.
I'm not the type of guy to approach women like crazy, but I know that I have a strategy if I want to approach someone in any situation.
I learned how to tell a story and it led to giving much better presentations at work.
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It's much better than that and nothing like PUA. It's genius, actually.
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Women only care about looks. How the fuck do you guys still not understand this?
Women are sexually attracted to handsome men. Done.
There is no "game". I've been friends with good looking guys who were shy, obnoxious, outgoing, introverted, stupid, smart..they all get ridiculous amounts of female attention and sex, because their common denominator is: good looks.
Now stop the PUA-circlejerk, it's embarassing.
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