Blocked her phone number. Again and hopefully for the last time. Feels good. She wants to marry me yet she doesn't even have a job for the past 4 years, thinks 73k is enough for an entire family to live on comfortably.
Reasons to marry
- If I want kids, which I don't
- Companionship, which I sort of get from my parents for now. When they are gone I don't know...
Reasons to not marry
- MO' MONEY $$
- No chance of losing money $$
- My time is my own now... no chance of losing that either to babby
- Not being as much as a slave and being able to actually retire someday
Obviously, my independence and freedom are my 2 most valued quantities. My brother got locked down but at least his wife is Ivy league and works, he has 1 child. Don't really envy him. My sister is a stay at home mom.
That said, I have no clue what to spend my free time and money on. I'm slowly learning guitar. Learning to invest with vanguard and 401k's. Not sure if I should pursue martial arts, I mean I could either save $10,000 or earn a blackbelt in 4 years, and most places these days are mcdojos.
I want to lose weight and become a runner, someday. Overwatch is fun but leaves me feeling a bit empty inside. Any suggestions on how to spend my time?
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