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ask/women is trying to figure out what redpill is

smurfcake77

August 11, 2013
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Title ask/women is trying to figure out what redpill is
Author

smurfcake77

Upvotes 16
Comments 47
Date August 11, 2013 9:02 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1k5x4n/askwomen_is_trying_to_figure_out_what_redpill_is/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/askwomen-is-trying-to-figure-out-what-redpill-is.6216
https://theredarchive.com/post/6216
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[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Remember, don't participate/vote in other threads.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

aww fuck. what if i'm already subscribed in askwomen though?

[–]yankeetiger -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And why would you be subbed there

[–]tagged4life -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As a keen observer so more posts like these can be made.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The Art of War; know your enemy. It's good to know what women think about themselves and their own triggers because what they think is different from real life; but you can understand the mechanisms behind why being an Alpha works in real life.

[–]yankeetiger 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not as a slight to you, but I believe that any time spent on "Recon" is better spent on skill-building activities

[–]smurfcake77[S] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

oh? care to explain why? wouldn't it be good to have a healthy discussion in r/askwomen what theredpill is instead of letting them spread false conceptions?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did you read the comments there? They've already branded and labeled you. They are prejudiced, and hate you before you even step in the door. You're just a fat, scorned, 16 year-old neckbeard who hates women because you're insecure to the point where you need to read online that "women aren't people" to make yourself feel better about your own inadequacies.

Or that's at least what they think of you. Just let them have a hate party, and the ones that checked it out based on their curiosity will find here on their own and realize what is said here sometimes makes a lot of sense.

Also, it's against board rules.

[–]QualityControlled 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Needs NP link.

[–]notapussy-punk 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's hard to teach people who don't want to learn. At the same time, there seem to be a lot of RP subscribers who are not in agreement about what it is, don't understand it, want to live it and haven't, etc.

It's kind of hard to expect /r/askwomen/ to understand it when /r/theredpill doesn't.

Of course, you can expect /r/askwomen/ to be filled with wannabe white knights hoping some girl will give them attention for their comments.

I find my peace in not being overly concerned with what other people understand. As much as I'd like to discuss, or help them, I have a life I'd like to live.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

They're not going to figure it out. Ever. Women are the reason secret societies exist.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm curious about your knowledge on this topic. Can you elaborate?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Right after I get done explaining Buddhist Nirvana to a Born-again Christian.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I was just curious which society you're a member of.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

None. Me and one or two friends don't equal a "society."

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh. Well societies like scroll & key and wolf's head weren't created in a response to uppity women. Just want to clear that up, because I honestly don't know where you drew that conclusion from.

[–]zdeus 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

Anyone ever tested TRP theories with their friends or just a new group of people you met? What were the results? From that thread I gather it would be a fucking nightmare.

edit: People in the thread also say TRP community is over three years old? Is that correct?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

it would be a nightmare if you told them those theories, not when you use them.

[–]notapussy-punk 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It would not be a nightmare to tell a girl those theories, but if they're not smart or not willing to discuss them in a rational manner, you're gonna be wasting a lot of your own valuable time.

It's a bad idea to try to tell everyone everything you know.

[–]1mrust -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed. I've only brought one friend across and it was a gradual process taking many years, as the stuff I initially told him was validated by his own life experiences.

So basically in order:

  • Attraction is not a choice
  • Seduction is a skill set
  • Basic tenets: Supplication, Attraction, Rapport, IOIs, Inner Game

Once he got to that stage, it was much easier to accept hypergamy, smv, etc...

It's impossible to have a meaningful conversation about TRP with someone who thinks that all they need to find a relationship is a "spark" and that "the one" is out there waiting for them.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

there is no reason to share your knowledge with random people. if you do that you are just looking for validation. you want others to tell you that you are right. when there is somebody you want to help out with TRP knowledge, your example would be a good way of going about it.

[–]1Zackcid 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can check the age of a sub on the sidebar, at the bottom. TRP has been alive for 9 months now.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

tl.dr: they fail

[–]1mrust 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The fourth word of the question already indicates failure.

I don't see it anywhere in the sidebar, but I hope most red pillers would agree that "dating" is a losing proposition. The reason being that there are much better frames into which to put a relationship, to the benefit of both people!

Also related top comment:

I'm pretty sure the redpill community is made up of people who haven't ever experienced dating before. If they had, they wouldn't be half as ridiculous.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I have never gotten laid, ever. Never dated, and sure as hell cant pick up a "real womanTM " Real women are hard to pick up, they so damn heavy.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

you mean fat girls?

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well they are the Real WomenTM arent they?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

From what I gather, women think no one that spent time around them could view them adversarially. So anyone that doesn't drink their kool aid must just be a lonely loser. What ego...

[–]1Zackcid 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've had this strange impression that whole time I was reading some of those comments. I just couldn't put it into words like you did. And it's weird how they just pride themselves in a circleschlick about how they'd never give any man with these kinds of thoughts a single chance to be with her or even touch her. Egotistical children is what I got out of it.

[–]No_disintegrations 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They'd understand better if they didn't attempt to ban all subscribers of this sub.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck em. No need for understanding on their part. Life educates people the hard way, and usually while they are unaware of it happening.

[–]AnasRexGottfried 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I like how they refuse to believe that /r/redpillwomen is made up of actual women. Also, I love how they keep saying they would never date any of us while most of us know better from our own personal experiences.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah, but the real question is. Would we date them?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

thats what I thought too. All these women are like "NEVER!! I would spot any douche bag like that from across the room without even talking to him." Except we're the one you're already going to bed with.

[–]MSoftHarem 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

FRESH SUBS.

[–]cma6250 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The thread was posted on a throwaway, makes me wonder if someone posted it to stir the pot and lead people to trp.

[–]madstatistician -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lol. That'd be pretty funny if true.

[–]Divinityfound 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]madstatistician 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That quote is the very definition of a woman not understanding sexual market value. She'd be quite a catch... if she was a man.

[–]dropit_sphere 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is actually a very good point. Women are attracted (even if not romantically) to success, so she gets a lot of upvotes from other women, confirming her Awesomeness®. She might be getting a lot of upvotes from men, too, because accomplishing all that is indeed admirable.

However, the key RP insight is: it does not make her more attractive. Put her back on the market, and she would struggle.

[–]2 Senior Endorsed Contributorvengefully_yours 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wait, a woman lying? NEVAR! UNPOSSIBRU!

[–]Clauderoughly -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This should be a squeaky hamster fest of idiocy...

Where did I put my popcorn ?

Edit: Top comment

"I'm pretty sure the redpill community is made up of people who haven't ever experienced dating before. If they had, they wouldn't be half as ridiculous."

/r/feminism and R/SRS are bridging that thread super hard.

Almost 90% of that thread is them slagging off TRP.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Clauderoughly 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So its really just a masturbatory festival for SRS and Feminism ?

Sounds plausible

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow those are some vitriolic words.

However, what women say and what they want are completely different things. I've been a relationship-less AFC all my life before I stumbled upon this subreddit. Within weeks I was in a relationship with a solid 8.

Unfortunately, after I got the girl I reverted back to blue pill and lost her swiftly.

I learned my lesson and have now wholeheartedly swallowed the red pill.

Bottom line is, the red pill works and I wish women would stop saying things like "I would never date someone following red pill ideology" and rather prove it to me. Show me that you won't go out with a red piller, but they can't.

Women hate on the red pill because it is popular to hate on it, but when it comes down to it, this stuff works.

I wish women would prove me wrong. I wish women would demonstrate through action that the red pill does not work, but time and time again they do the opposite.

[–]Futsushi -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's good to see the other side and I try to not waste too much of my time on here just to bash others. I think seeing these threads does hold value though. Going too extreme is never a good thing. It was funny, but at one point while trying to define "TRP" as a blah blah, negative, blah, one poster wrote this:

"It's obvious if a guy is acting a role, and I've noticed that the most attractive men I've encountered had some... carelessness to them. They laughed out loud with no restraint, they were casual and relaxed, they had a sense of humour. They weren't there just to fuck chicks, but they were approachable and talked to everyone. So if you wanted to flirt, you could very easily. My bf is like that and he unknowingly attracts lots of women... some girls in my school flirt with him incessantly even though they know he's with me. If a guy seems desperate, anxious and rigid, it's a big turn-off."

Which, to me at least, is a better description of RedPill then anything else is the thread.

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